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Good evening all, my husband need a shared accomodations around Queens in NY, Flushing
Rego Park
Jamaica precisely

Silasworld:
I have a feeling that this current season of BBNaija will be far much interesting than the previous ones

Same here.... Cute gentlemen and beautiful classy babes everywhere

WhiteIverson:
Disgusting Nigerians always bringing tribe and politics to football. Why do you want to ruin the beautiful sport by all means?
As you wish the downfall of our girls, you'll also fail in every area of your pathetic life.

Congrats to the Super Falcons.

Amen, may all their bad wishes for our nation befall them in billions folds.

ednut1:
which visa type/ class is he going with?

He's a green card holder but currently have issues with his roommates in Utah so he needs a temporary place to move into in any other state in USA.

oluayebenz:
In reality no one in the first world will accommodate a stranger.... that only happen in nollyhood

Your husband best bet is to book on Airbnb

Never say never bro and secondly learn to speak for yourself henceforth. Strangers have been so many incredible beings in people lives from becoming spouse, to best friends, business partner etc.

Good morning to the great members of this forum. I will appreciate if anyone can be of help to my husband to temporarily live with for at least a month in order for him to be able to secure job and secure his place. He's currently in Nigeria and anywhere is ok cos that is going to determine is flight ticket destination. Please help

I didn't finish watching the video. So traumatizing to imagine what he went through, poor boy.

Open your eyes, open your eyes baby
Can you be wise? 'Cause you are my pride baby
I'm on a way I'm on the run baby
Leave me alone, leave me alone, take it back now
I put you on there
Say you want chance to hold it on me
I finna hold it back
Turn you right 'round
Taking my way

Yeah D.A.MA.GE gat it all.

Just 4 year? Feed my baby with that coloured dirty looking urine? hmmm. Let me just keep what I can do to myself. Should not imagine that being me.

Everyone know this lady to be a chronic clout chaser on Twitter na

Gayatri:
I did it aftetall,, im proud of me,, thank you all.. When im tired of crying i will stop... I will be fine

You don't need to cry please and if you can't control yourself I believe this decision you just made is for your own good. We need to talk girl, don't be scared I'm a lady like you willing to help you with your healing process.

With love

BluntNigerian:
You're in love...
When your eyes are clear, you will be better.
For now, try and get him angry and see who he is for real.

No matter the despicable names she's been called by him the love she has for him would make her see those names as compliments.

Zzor:
Stop being a vegetable before men, it will end in premium tears. The advise so far should have been enough for you to call it quit with him and block the hell out of him on all your social media accounts but you are still here looking for people who will tell you to hang around till he leaves his lover for you. If you eventually succeeded in breaking their relationship, its just a matter of time before he starts hating you and thinking your presence in his life was the reason why his relationship didn't work out. I will soon go hard on you if you don't do the needful right now.

Pls don't go hard on her, just help her see road clearly.


I wish you saw one lady comment earlier (she has modified it), she said it's like she's the other lady in the picture because they have alot of thing in common from location to date of birth just that she's the wife in Kaduna not gf. I'm still in shock girl.

Amopeekun:
Wow

Hmmmmm, you have to talk maybe you're both his victims


I saw your post before you modified it.

Gayatri:
God knows im crying out my lungs here.. I will... Believe me..

Can we talk privately, I'm a lady that's just willing to help you emotionally.

Poorboy:
My only question is

Are you beautiful?

Because what you're doing is what ugly girls do.

You may be wrong, to me she's just being emotionally unintelligent but at her age chai

Gayatri:
I do not know how to start this but i will write as it comes... I was in a 2 year relationship that ended in march this year.. I was so commited in it like naturally when im dating, i DO NOT notice other guys and i DO NOT ask my boyfriend for financial assistance because i feel im not his responsibility,, what i do appreciate mostly were little things like, chatting, kindness, hugs, opening and closing of doors for me,, just little things, coz i adore them so much.. But anyway it ended.. And i vowed never to date again come what may.. During the break up process, all my friends (guys, hardly have a girlfriend) were there to help me pull through.. Calls and texts constantly because, according to them, they knew my type, thus the help.. Funny enough, i never got attracted to any of them (even the ones that initially asked me out when my friendship with them was fresh) and im not the sex sex type to just fall for any to satisfy my desire.. Though i got advice from neighbours to find someone else than staying alone, i said no especially as i am a loner but a happy loner.. I keep myself busy with work or any stuff that makes me happy.

Fine, two months later (june), some guy reached out to me even as he knew he's got a girlfriend, whixh according to him later, they were in an open relationship.. He stays in oshogbo, his girl stays in kaduna while im in sagamu..Before then, he reached out online by first stalking me on facebook (even though we did same online business), after a while he got talking with me.. At first, i was harsh, very harsh to him but he never minded.. At a point i stopped talking to him.. A month later he reached out again, asking if we were still friends.. I was like yeah, not nice to him at all but he was patient with me..

From mid-july we started talking well as friends, he was very open as i was to him. We flowed well that things were happening to us coincidentally.. Whenever he yawns, i do at my place, if im having a scratch, he does too.. There was just plenty of this connection that we never got tired of each other.. In the procesa of our been honest, he told me about his girl and how she was still keeping her ex and all whatnots... I didnt feel any iota of jealousy because i had not feelings for him yet.. I asked to talk things through with his girl and he says well if she gave the chance.. So laters, by august, september,october, feelings grew.. He got so fond of me... According to him, he has not seen my type before.. Fine! During my birthday, he wanted to do something for me, i said no, then two weeks to his birthday in nov, he asked that i visit him at their family house, that i did..

What struck me most was how the elder brother (married) took care of me... I was not allowed to do nothing.. The brother even cooked for me.. God, it made me fall more for the family.. The kind gestures i have never experienced in my life.. There are kindnesses but there is kindness, the real one.. I felt it.. Every thing that i want in a man, those little things, this guy has them all.. According to him, it baffles him that with the little he shows me, i do not take for granted even before he told me he's having a girl..

When i returned home, we continued our normal talks and he then said, that his girlfriend would be visiting during his birthday.. At that point i went silent.. (Meanwhile he met his girl this year but before me, also during her break up).. He was unhappy that i displayed this little jealousy.. So he says he has not broken up with his girl to start a new relationship and he is hurting that he is hurting me.. He's got feelings for me but he loves his girl.. So i said i was going walk, even though i never meant it, twas hard to even say that but i had to and he says no... That he's become so attached to me even his family thinks he's dating me.. That he controls his feelings for me, could i do same and i said no.. I could not be friends with him when i know that feelings are involved.. Finally, we came to terms to just flow with things since he was not engaged or married to her.. Even so, this guy just lost his job and he says unlike his girl, im the one pushing him to have something doing, he says i help him alot but i wouldnt know.. So we continued to let the whole feelings to flow until last week, when with my help, he was called for an interview in lagos..

As usual we talked and i wished him well.. I always pray for him.. In lagos, we talked well until the third day, our communication changed and before it did, my heart was literally aching, so i knew something was wrong.. I called to know why but he was telling me that he'd let me in when he got back to oshogbo, which he did.. He said his girlfriend who was having something to do with her ex, called him and wanted to settle things with him.. But the truth is, because this lady already had his facebook password when they were together in kadauna, she 3 days before her birthday on the 8th of this month wanted to know why her boyfriend was no longer perturbed over her behaviour, so she saw my chats with the guy and decided to do something,,, this now pushed to talk things out with the bf and apologise to him.. Then she asked him if anything was going on between is and he said no.. That we just friends,close friends.. He lied to her but opens up to me.. He says he doesnt want the girl to ask him to cut me off totally.. So the whole thing got him confused.. He says he's never double dated and he isnt happy that he's hurting me and im taking it... I asked him again if i should walk and he says no.. He does not want to lose me and i do not want to lose him either but i want to prove my love for him so that he one day sees that the girl, probably loves him but she's got no integrity.. And i purely love him.. But because i respect his relationship, i CAN NOT TELL HIM TO BREAK UP WITH HER but wanting him to see things himself but the question is for how long.. He says they are working things out now but he doesnt want to lose me esp as a friend... Difficult.. Out of God knows what, we agreed to let things flow since i will respect his relationship, like whenever his girl is around, i should make him believe that i will be fine.. Now, he isnt happy because he said if he hadnt met the gf, he'd have gone ahead to date me.. For me, i cannot sleep, ive been typing this since God knows when and this is 3:36am.. Since he is confused now, please people, friends, family, can i use love to make him see the difference between his girl and me.. He loves his girl, he is controlling his feelings for me and afraid to let it grow because he knows we'd bond, while my feelings toward him is real.. Money has not been involved in this.. We are 6months now.. I believe in true love and that it does not come easy.. Talk to me Y'll because i have no parents to talk to,, i would have talked to my mum now but she isnt here... I want to win with true love.. I turned 27 this past november and he turned 30 same november.. Thank You and God bless..

He is bent on destroying your life for his selfish reason. May God help we ladies because it's very hard advising one in love so I can only wish you the best and hope it won't be too late before you choose to leave but at your age I think you should know better by now.

tiffanyfan:
So it's you Mosun using both monikers, no peace for the wicked

Who is mosun N who are you?

Pidginwhisper:
Gave her my Tfare(10naira)to buy food during break time and ended up trekking from School(Government College,Ikorodu)to Ketu at closing time. Got to Majidun bridge and got chased by a madman with cane, i run enter cele church closed by and continue my journey after the waray don go far. .This was year 2000 when boy never get sense

what we do for love

IamGreen1:
Abi o.

Why she quote you? Is there something fishing somewhere?

Safe delivery to us.

Bankyshinani:
Hello mothers, where can I buy letrozole?...I am at Igando....thanks

Hi,

If I see someone removing your phone or wallet from your back pocket, I am not going to call your attention to it because I'm minding my business.

If someone is lying against you and I know what the truth is. I won't be a witness because I'm minding my business.

Stupid hypocrites everywhere telling you to mind your business whereas they're desperately in need of someone else help.

Monfeels:
What kind of games? Like Call of duty, GTA and the likes

OR

Like getting 5 freezers and hiding a baby in one of them and giving the mum 3 chances to guess which one the baby is in?

Don't scare me please