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Tiny23:
that can be a likely scenario so don't say I'm off point,everyone is entitled to his opinion...

Tiny23:
If to say man be God o...















some people here are not even married o,giving advises... you don't know the kinda trauma the second wife will go through mere not seeing her husband ,talk less of a divorce













let's look at this scenario, a man(Christian) marries a woman n for a long time,no fruit of the womb...he marries a second wife without the first wife knowing
the second wife gives birth
during this period the first wife also got pregnant n has a child at last
the man didn't leave the second wife,she has another baby



but...









he totally ignored her,doesn't visit n it leads to the woman having mental issues








who should be blamed?

HARDDON:
What a dicey one!

If we send the younger one with her kids away like Abraham did( tru restitution), we might hv another form of ISIS n the likes. Even if we rent another apartment for them, care for them, how do we divorce her?
If we cant divorce her, how do we keep caring for all her needs (both emotionally n sexually?). We cant n unfortunately, another cant. What a limbo.


If we decide to maintain statues quo n just live like one big happy family, heaven might elude us.


Solution:

Explain to the younger one why u need to do this: dissolve the spiritually illegal marriage but make sure they lack nothing. Rent a nice apartment for them. That way, u wudnt owe her any sexual responsibility nor wud u bind her down from meeting n marrying another.
Even after that, care for ur kids

Toks2008:
Lol did you just say my own interpretation? That is very laughable.

Thank God the Bible is written in many languages so go look for the one you understand and study it very well.

Toks2008:
You need to read this...
https://www.nairaland.com/3384570/does-god-permit-woman-divorce

I hope lalasticlala will beam the thread for more viewers cos it's really insightful.

Toks2008:
Says who?

Minatoricov:
example = 1*9-4 =5; 1*7-3 =4; 2*3-3 = 3; 3*3-2 = 7;
use that format to solve the others

Minatoricov:
example = 1*9-4 =5; 1*7-3 =4; 2*3-3 = 3; 3*3-2 = 7;
use that format to solve the others

timoteus:
11. 2 12. 3 13. 1 14. 6 15. 5

GossipHeart:
What is grace ??

If grace or God exists, God would have given Buhari the grace to fix the problems he created for Nigeria.

Or he would have given him the grace to have a working brain

GossipHeart:
What is grace ??

If grace or God exists, God would have given Buhari the grace to fix the problems he created for Nigeria.

Or he would have given him the grace to have a working brain

GossipHeart:
What is grace ??

If grace or God exists, God would have given Buhari the grace to fix the problems he created for Nigeria.

Or he would have given him the grace to have a working brain

mceze:
Pls, Add me on what'sapp so that we can share ideas(predictions on betting)-08036423660

freecocoa:
Did your god create any clothe? My friend receive sense biko.

DemonInSiege:
no, nobody can make heaven

freecocoa:
Did your god create any clothe? My friend receive sense biko.

GloriaNinja:
I must say that trouser covers up a lady more than the so-called skirts. that is medieval, this is the modern world. what leads someone to heaven is the purity of the heart, not common clothing

GloriaNinja:
I must say that trouser covers up a lady more than the so-called skirts. that is medieval, this is the modern world. what leads someone to heaven is the purity of the heart, not common clothing

GloriaNinja:
I must say that trouser covers up a lady more than the so-called skirts. that is medieval, this is the modern world. what leads someone to heaven is the purity of the heart, not common clothing

GloriaNinja:
I must say that trouser covers up a lady more than the so-called skirts. that is medieval, this is the modern world. what leads someone to heaven is the purity of the heart, not common clothing

First City Monument Bank Plc says its official, Olisa Nwakoby, who committed suicide on Friday in front of Our Lady Star of the Sea Catholic Church in Lekki, Lagos State, had personal challenges and became frustrated.

The bank, however, noted that neither the management nor colleagues of the deceased were aware of the challenges, adding that it was working with Nwakoby’s family and the police to unravel the nature of the challenges.

Forty-four-year-old Nwakoby, said to be the manager of the bank’s branch in Lekki, shot himself in the head over a bad debt estimated at N350m on Friday.

The deceased was said to have given out the sum as loan to a bank customer, who allegedly failed to service the loan.

He was reportedly under pressure from the bank’s management to repay the loan and became frustrated as he could not meet the demand.

But the Acting Group Head, Communications and Brand Management of the FCMB, Lola Egboh, who spoke with our correspondent on the telephone on Sunday, said the suicide had nothing to do with the bank, adding that she did not have the knowledge of any loan.

Egboh, who described Nwakoby’s death as shocking, said the bank would have come to his aid if it was aware that he had emotional challenges.

She said, “It is rather unfortunate that the incident happened. Mr. Nwakoby was a member of staff of the FCMB. We are not aware that he was facing personal challenges, which led to the incident. As a bank that caters to the well-being of its workers, we have counsellors who could have helped him. This came as a surprise to us as it was to the public. It is such a trying time for the family; we have been in touch with them. There is a lot of speculations going on at the moment, a lot of them unfounded.

“We are working closely with security operatives and his family to understand what could have led to the personal challenges. I am not aware of any loan. I can’t comment on speculations.”

Efforts to speak with the family proved abortive as of press time. But a source close to the family said, “They were too distraught to speak to the press now.”

The Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, SP Dolapo Badmos, said a pistol and live cartridges were recovered from the scene, adding that Nwakoby corpse had been deposited at the Lagos Island Hospital’s morgue.

She said, “At about 9.45am on Friday, one Olisa (Nwakoby) allegedly shot himself in the head with a pistol in front of Our Lady Star of the Sea Catholic Church on Northern Foresore Estate, Lekki.

“A team of policemen attached to the Ilasan division visited, examined and photographed the scene. The exhibit, a silver America pistol with five rounds of unexpended ammunition, was recovered to the station while the corpse was removed and deposited at a morgue for autopsy. Investigation is ongoing.”