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. Guy i know you are real Arsenal fan, but this is a wrong section. Don't miss sport with politics. Move to appropriate section please.

Hundreds of judges can not stop Buhari's inauguration. Nigerians are anxiously waiting. Only God can stop Buhari, and am sure He wouldn't cause Buhari is God's chosen for this country. Our expectation is high. In God we trust, in Buhari we believe to perform excellently. Countdown to Buhari presidency. God bless Nigeria.

This is exact situation i find myself presently. My mum beliefs in d pastor so much cause of her past experiences. God help us, marriage is mistake one can not afford to make. It is better to be single than to make wrong choice in marriage. God help us

Guess this thread is for the two commenters above me. They have turned it to personal chat. Kontunu, there is God

Good morning fellow Prospective NYSC 2015 Batch B. Hope you guys aren't tired of home. We should get something doing, we still have like 4 months ahead of us.

jacksparrow1207:
Very inappropriate
People and religious
Modern day slavery

Brother, you took the statements out of my mouth

2dice:
Mtcheww...church and their wahala.... Marry a girl in your church by force.... What if all Dem girls are not your taste..... What will you do? Smh for 9ja churches

My brother, thats 9aija for us o. The power of religion. All na brain washing. Once they made you believe it, i tell you they have you in their hand. God help us all.

kradleber:
The guy is a weakling.

Is it the father or the church that's marrying the girl?
or is she the only girl in the whole world that he cannot look for an alternative and has to subject himself to torture?
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Religion making people stup1d since 12b.c

You have a point there. But as they say, DONT EVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF LOVE

This a present issue my pal finds himself. There’s this lady he has been dating for like 8years. Initially, they didn’t take it serious, but as time goes on, the feeling developed and they started thinking of ending up with eachother. The challenge erupted because of the church the lady attends. Her father happens to be pastor also in this church, though he was not the founder of the church. They are the churches that don’t allow their member to marry outside the church, especially the ladies member. So the father insists she must break up with the guy. Though they have been through ups and down together, even breaking up few times but they always settle. This final break up is a result of church issue. After like 3 months, they came back together cause they both couldn’t just do without one another. They resorted to the guy attending the church for the main time till after marriage. My guy has attended the church Sunday service few times, he complains of the service too boring and he doesn’t flow with the method of worship. Though my friend is not a genuine member of any church, but he made me to know he can never attend the lady’s church under normal condition. Now the question is, is it appropriate for a guy to attend a church cause he wants to marry a lady attending the church? Will the marriage work considering different beliefs of different churches like wearing of trousers, fixing of hairs, nails etc? What does the bible say about this particular issue?

Thanks guys for welcoming me. Good to be part of you. Looking forward to meeting people from this thread at camp. Babatawa, have been warned of you :DThanks guys for welcoming me. Good to be part of you. Looking forward to meeting people from this thread at camp. Babatawa, have been warned of you.

Morning guys, prospective batch B. OAU, Material science and engineering. Class of 14

This had better be true. Saw the news in Sahara report and punch. If so, i say congratulations to Nigeria. It will be great the victims reuniting with their family.

I know this sounds somehow, but its personal opinion. Everybody has right to his/her own opinion so there is no need to castigate anybody for his/her own opinion or beliefs. So if you don’t have any reasonable contribution, just walk out of the thread.
I personally can’t marry someone have not had sex with. In as much as every religious book against this, yet you will all agree with me that sex is one of the main reasons why God initiated marriage. Apostle Paul even made us to understand categorically that But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, (ESV) 1 Cor 7 vs2-5”. So we can say Apostle Paul encouraged marriage mainly because of sex. With all these emphasis on sex, how bad will it now be if one now eventually ends up with someone he/she doesn’t enjoy sex with? For instance, if the guy is of high libido who likes sex a lot while the woman is of low libido who does not like sex that much, how will the marriage be like since they are not compatible sexually? Don’t forget you are not allow to have side sex mate unless you want to be a cheat in the marriage which could eventually lead to crashing of the marriage.
What about the cases of guy being impotent and the wife only finds out on the night of marriage. If they had made attempts to sex before that night, the wife would have found out, either they both find solution to it or the lady leaves before it’s too late. We have heard cases of the wife not having opening, how will the guy find out if no attempts to go down there before wedding night?
Another case is issue of the lady not having womb to conceive. Sex before marriage could alert the guy may be the lady will be able to conceive or not.
So nairalanders, what is your personal view about sex before marriage? No offence, no need to abuse anybody, just let us see your own view.

I know this sounds somehow, but its personal opinion. Everybody has right to his/her own opinion so there is no need to castigate anybody for his/her own opinion or beliefs. So if you don’t have any reasonable contribution, just walk out of the thread.
I personally can’t marry someone have not had sex with. In as much as every religious book against this, yet you will all agree with me that sex is one of the main reasons why God initiated marriage. Apostle Paul even made us to understand categorically that But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self- control. (ESV) 1 Cor 7 vs2-10vs2-5”. So we can say Apostle Paul encouraged marriage mainly because of sex. With all these emphasis on sex, how bad will it now be if one now eventually ends up with someone he/she doesn’t enjoy sex with? For instance, if the guy is of high libido who likes sex a lot while the woman is of low libido who does not like sex that much, how will the marriage be like since they are not compatible sexually? Don’t forget you are not allow to have side sex mate unless you want to be a cheat in the marriage which could eventually lead to crashing of the marriage.
What about the cases of guy being impotent and the wife only finds out on the night of marriage. If they had made attempts to sex before that night, the wife would have found out, either they both find solution to it or the lady leaves before it’s too late. We have heard cases of the wife not having opening, how will the guy find out if no attempts to go down there before wedding night?
Another case is issue of the lady not having womb to conceive. Sex before marriage could alert the guy may be the lady will be able to conceive or not.
So nairalanders, what is your personal view about sex before marriage? No offence, no need to abuse anybody, just let us see your own view.

This is so unfortunate for the governor. For crying out loud, what does he want people to be eating? They have no other businesses, and yet no payment going to 6 months now. That's very bad. Will he tell me allocation is not coming at all for the past 6 months? Tinubu and all APC leaders will not come to people's aid now, when election is coming, they will now come down to the state to campaign for people. As much as i prefer Apc governance cause of the performances in every state they govern, i don't support when workers are starved. Very bad

Great ife, conscious, vigilant, progressive, aluta against all oppresion. The only university where students could call incumbent president 'thief' to his face in the face of hot campaign, Jonathan 2015. GREAT IFE, OBA AWON UNIVERSITY.

Congratulations. Money is good. DANGOTE IS BLESSED, AND HE'S A BLESSING TO HIS WORLD. THATS TRUE DEFINITION OF BLESSING.Can't wait to be employer of labous too like dangote.

let something be done and deliver them once and fall if they are still alive. Even though most of them are already sucide bombers while some impregnated and many killed. Can we just put end to it. Anyway, in Buhari i trust. Their days are numbered.

if JK couldn't win in his own ground. Is that not a bad sign for him? Watching in 3D

We are hear again. Everybody wants Change.

Reporting from Ila-Orangun, Isedo polling unit. Have been here since 8 O'clock. The card reader is not working here. I spoke with the Corper, he said they are trying to repair it. I don't know long it will take. People are still on ground sha.