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Properties / Cost Of Building A Shop by Olannajewel: 6:19pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Please who can help me with the estimated Cost of building a shop with decking, land is 11ft by 10 |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 8:25pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
Our society have very dysfunctional and frustrated people, its surprising that an adult will read a detailed story and still turn it upside down. I don't want to start mentioning or replying anyone because I alone know what I have gone through and still going through. I dont,I have not, and will not cheat on my husband. My quest for emotional satisfaction made me start an obvious needless relationship but it kept me sane this long. I do not have any sexual problems with my husband, he does it good. My problem is that I AM NOT SATISFIED EMOTIONALLY, I CRAVE FOR A FRIEND IN MY HUSBAND. ITS A MARRIAGE AND NOT A JOB INTERVIEW, OVERTIME WE HAVE BECOME TOO SERIOUS, I WANT MY SWEETHEART BACK! My emotional needs are very important to me because of my life orientation . My husband did not send me to school because I have never been to school, he clearly agreed to sponsor my second degree (Which my father would have still done if I wasn't married)(he does anyways). My husband promised me that nothing would change, which of course is impossible, but he's change breaks my heart. I am not shameful of the fact that I want to be emotionally and romantically satisfied. I have one life and I intend to live it to the fullest, which ofcourse does not include having carnal knowledge of another man. This platform is to help people like me who need to hear other people's experiences and learn from it. But I guess we are too angry in this country and it makes us unreasonable, insensitive ,judgemental and grossly hypocritical!. I have already gotten the good advice and I appreciate it The insults helped me too, Thank you all. 9 Likes |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 8:17am On Dec 10, 2019 |
curiousmind11:point of correction sir, you didn't see me write about sending my nudes, and I didn't. So please dont incorporate your own dictions in my write up,thanks. |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 8:13am On Dec 10, 2019 |
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Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 7:27pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
wunmi590:thank you. |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 7:14pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
bukatyne:and its driving me crazy.. I just want to hear "i love you" from him. I just want us to laugh as before. I have searched myself and I have asked him, I haven't offended him... we have been too serious for a long time. Very serious, its always about the kids, what about us... my heart is aching, I actually indulged my telegram friend through the chat because i found out my husband went for a massage without telling me (guess it was more than a massage) what's there not to tell me, clears watsapp chat, and was emotionally involved with a lady, he's reason being that he was depressed..I feel I have lost my sweetheart, he used to tell me everything, we used to be so cool,spontaneous and lively! 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 7:03pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
CAPTIVATOR:Thank you sir, it's good to know that I am not insane to demand emotional security from my husband. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 6:37pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
crackhaus:I am satisfied, I just want a little compassion, and romance.. nothing more! 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 5:59pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
yettymuse:until then, now and forever as long as am living my hormones will yearn for what it rightfully need.. it suprise me to know that the only form of romance you know is the insertion of genitals, hahahaha, just like me, sis you lack!! when I will have to share Bills, I will, money is not meant to be eaten raw.. and am not trying to give my cookie to a broke ass, neither am I obligated to set straight this talk, just because your life's orientation is based on money,and just because you pay the bills, doesn't make you better than me. Thanks for reminding me that all that matter to people like you is money. 9 Likes |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 5:48pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
bukatyne:I know am infatuated about my telegram friend, probably because he tells me all I want to hear.but that doesn't erase the fact that my husband means so much to me, but I alone know how much I suffer, I need him to be my friend again. Thank you . 6 Likes |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 5:42pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
yettymuse:so all you can offer is money? it's good you share the bills and that makes you feel that you are more of a woman than I am. One day I will share bills too, soon! So because I don't bring in money yet my hormones shouldn't function again?. I am living and it's a good thing that my hormones are functioning... just a reminder, this phase of my life and my want for emotional satisfaction does not define me, daalu kwa. 12 Likes |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 5:19pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
zeestone99:I know he has needs too, I'm open to do anything to make him happy, if only he would allow me.. because I said I am still offering my degree programme doesn't mean I have nothing to offer. I don't bring in money yet, but I offer constructive advices that bring in funds to us.I pray for us and am always willing to go out of my way to make him happy.... offering something doesn't have to be about money.. and I am not pretending, I love my husband and I adore and appreciate him, all I want is a friend in him, sweet compassionate man,like he used to be. Thanks for your opinion though. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 5:00pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
UjuJoan2:thank you |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 4:59pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
keeki:thank you |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 4:55pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
bukatyne:Thank you so much. 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 4:13pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
wunmi590:thank you, but I have been making him proud, I adore and appreciate him, I am not a bad woman, I just want a little romance, friendship and compassion from my husband.. this has been going on for 4 years now, I don't own my life, tomorrow is not assured, am I wrong to want to feel like a woman from my husband. I read so hard,more than i should, just to continue making him proud. But i need a friend in my husband. Thank you 5 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 4:09pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Vyolet:thank you, but a little compassion and romance isn't wrong to ask.. tomorrow is not assured,I don't own my life, so why can't I enjoy my husband now? � 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 4:07pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra:lol, thank you. |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 4:06pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
[quote author=CAPSLOCKED post=84765637] [color=#990000]SPARE US THIS INTRODUCTION, NOBODY CARES! I DO NOT SUPPORT THIS BUT, IF YOU EVENTUALLY CHEAT, I WILL NOT BLAME YOU. MEN NEED TO LEARN THAT SOMETIMES, MONEY AND PROVISIONS IS NOT ENOUGH. IF YOU CAN'T COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR PARTNER, SPEND TIME AND LISTEN TO HER, YOU'RE ONLY WASTING YOUR TIME. PLEASE TELL MR. TELEGRAM TO USE PROTECTION JUST IN CASE. Thanks |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 4:02pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
zeestone99:I agree that am selfish, we all have tendencies to be. I acknowledge his sacrifices and I am thankful always. Asides providing for me,I need a friend in my husband. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 1:04pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Xsem: thanks but am very much useful, I am not useless just because I crave for emotional satisfaction, we all need it sir, your insult may help though. 20 Likes |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 12:07pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
[quote author=Pubichairs post=84761581]Till u lose ur husband because of ur selfish desires..don't come here to disturb us.. Isn't it obvious..that the other guy wants to eat ur cake.. Have u talked to him about it? Nigerian ladies u lot are useless, sorry to say...even in marriage u don't offer a tangible something rather than sex.. Godforbid [/Okay thanks, I need the insult, maybe it will help get me right on track. And I have things to offer other than sex,thanks. |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 12:06pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
dawnomike:thank you. |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 12:06pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
IceeSeth:thank you, I have cried, screamed, talked, even joked about it,but he doesn't want to understand, he used to be very sweet and passionate about us. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 12:04pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
crackhaus: |
Family / How Can I Stop Loving This Other Man. by Olannajewel: 11:26am On Dec 09, 2019 |
Please pardon my very long post. I also had to open another account so as to post this. I am in my mid 20s been married for 5years with two kids. Have been in a long distance marriage since I got married due to the fact that I have been running a degree programme which will come to an end by next year. So,I practically see my husband when we're on holidays or during strike. But we talk every time, I'm in the east schooling and he's in the south. My husband provides more than the basic needs,he's a great husband and a good father. I know I sound selfish, but he doesn't satisfy my emotional needs,and he agrees to it.. whenever we call it's just about the kids and my school, we don't talk personal stuffs, he's not passionate, he finds it difficult saying "I love you " unlike before. He doesn't indulge me when I say it also... when I try to sex chat with him, he shifts it away. Whenever we're on holidays and am home, he doesn't also give me time, his work is not flexible but the little opportunity he gets he would rather go out. No woman calls him in my present, but there's been incidents that has prompted me doubt his fidelity. After I gave birth in March,I went back to school because the strike was called of.i became depressed, I will talk with my husband yet I felt he was emotionally distance from me, sometimes during argument he would flay up and rain abuses on me... during love making with my husband, he cant even keep an eye contact or reply the "I love you " I say to him during sex. Ps:my husband is in his mid 30s. He doesn't notice any effort I make as a young wife to keep the spark in our marriage. In July,guy chat me up from a group on telegram.. I haven't seen this guy, but I would have seen him if he's close.we have been talking every day for 5months,chatting, sexchating, video calls,he tells me everything a woman wants to hear. He doesn't know am married. I'm in too deep, how do I stop loving him, I love my husband too,but he's not making any effort towards romance in our marriage.. please I need advice, insult, anything that can get me back on track. I know am cheating emotionally on my husband, but talking with this other man has kept me sane amidst all the challenges I have. How do I stop this, cause recently I noticed I cant stand conversation with my husband, not that we discuss anything that makes me feel like a woman. Please help!! 3 Likes 1 Share |
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