Daniel2802:

LOL I've been in the den oh. Just helping the incoming ones.

Daniel2802:



Thanks for sharing.

lawalmukzie2179:
Please please and please my URL has been blocked on Facebook. What is the quickest and most effective method of unblocking it. Please anyone with the knowledge should kindly share

minicky:
hey guys I need your advice right now am not mentally okay cause I lost my last 14k to sport betting I guess am a foolish introvert that's greedy..I have been depressed lately coz I don't have a job and the money I had it's now gone to sport betting am typing this in regret I don't know if I should try recover my Money back through betting too ..life no dey sweet me again

oyetpel:
I have something to share.



I saw a thread on front page titled "At 23, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life".


Although i haven't read through it, but such thoughts have been on my mind for long.

Though i am above the said age, but i feel kind of empty.

I am sharing this cos i am an introvert.


The covid-19 stopped school for 5 months going now, and since schools closed i haven't been doing anything. And the lockdown has affected my family's finance adversely.


But being home and seeing young boys spending sometimes breaks me down.

And mostly what these boys are doing might be runs or fraud.


And i get this look everytime, if feels like any young guy that is not rich in Nigeria right now is nothing.
Even the way people look at you in church sef.

Assuming one is into fraud and getting money, these people will respect and worship one.

Oluwapresley:


Thanks, boss!!!

Oluwapresley:



Hello there. Trust you are doing good. Please can you help me with the Linkedin support center link. I'm in similar condition right now.

Karlebolu:


I could remember when I bombarded their thread with my other moniker few weeks back.

They all complain about how they are misunderstood but they fail to ask themselves: who the hell understands extroverts?

Many of those people need serious flogging!

bukatyne:
I do not understand the need for people to constantly prove themselves or why they invest so much emotions on what people say/think about them (perhaps except loved ones to a healthy degree).

I want to be alone? I stay alone.
I want to mingle? I do.
I want to stay on NL all day? I do.
I want to attend parties back to back? I do.
I want to read online novels all day? I do.
I want to write all day? I do.

In all of the above, would I consider loved ones and strike a bit of balance? Bend backwards to please them sometimes? Or mellow on my own to recharge if I need to?

YES.

But to write a thesis on how I am misunderstood or 40% like others in the world or wonder why I am different from party jumping and outing Shade?

Can't relate.

Like a brother said: I make my own rules.

DonOms:


Doing my best to stay safe, thanks bro.
I'll look at the article.

EDIT:

So I read the article. Great one! I completely agree with you that we need to create more discourse on introversion as the misconceptions around it keeps increasing.

I didn't also catch on fast about why I behaved the way I did as a child, but I was so self-aware that I first accepted myself the way I was and was less subjected to pressure. The knowledge of personality traits soon followed as I grew.

We really must create more awareness around introversion so people can be more informed and act accordingly. It's ironic that this thread which sets out to do just that is sometimes flooded by people who don't understand what personality traits are and won't even learn (Dunning-Kruger Effect alert) so they can inform others right.

Introverts need to understand themselves and why they are the way they are, while extroverts need to understand introverts so as to know how to better relate to them as spouses, family, friends or colleagues. The world will be a better place for it.

BigSarah:

Link please

Squillaci:
I am the most introverted person I know.

DonOms:

Hi Olarewajub! Long time, no post here.
Did you remove the article? Got the response "Page Not Found."

Eze2000:


These things are caused by wrong settings only. The people above telling you to WhatsApp them will go and set your Cloudflare setting correctly then charge you 5k.

I used to use Cloudflare on my website and I can tell you that in no tutorial have i ever come across....Setting SSL on Cloudflare to "Flexilble."

You are basically saying Cloudflare is allowed to alter your SSL. Why are you now complaining? Talk to the host that sold you the SSL and tell them about that setting. See what they say.

Go and read those tutorials online again and correct your settings then wait for 24hrs for changes to take effect. If worse comes to worst, reinstall the SSL. It's been compromised.