Romance › Re: 18+: Weird Updated Nairaland Emojis That You Have NEVER Seen Before by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 9:28am On Nov 02, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 9:18am On Nov 02, 2021 |
Hyerin: Oh please shut it. Then tell redpillers to stop using divorce statistics of the west to form arguments. Tell them to stop using the creations of white men to argue since it doesn't reflect Nigeria. Tell them to stop using single motherhood rates of the west since it doesn't reflect Nigeria. Just shut up abeg E pain am. I've said it before, it seems you are the one lacking in critical thinking & understanding. The guys stats are reflecting in Nigeria unlike yours that is a big lie like;
Girls are seeing marriage for scam it is...which scam?? Scam amd they marrying their ancestors as 6th wife, Regina Daniels, that alaafin of Oyo young wife too and many others. Shut up please!!
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Politics › Re: Samuel Ortom: Nigeria’s Worst Military Govt Better Than Buhari Administration by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 7:36am On Nov 02, 2021 |
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Celebrities › Re: Share Your Embarrassing Or Snub Experience With A Celebrity by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 9:49pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
MufasaLion: You are a real Gee!
In a Hellcat 'cause I'm a hell-raiser Self-made, I don't owe a nigga nann favor When you get that money, nigga, keep your heart I sight you, bro..... For some reason I never like zeze...
She made me happy, she made me smile She brought me up, when you let me down She nothing like you, she different She nothing like you, she magnificent She intelligent, she love me better than you Better than, she love me better than you
Now that's my Gym Jam
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Celebrities › Re: Share Your Embarrassing Or Snub Experience With A Celebrity by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 9:15pm On Nov 01, 2021*. Modified: 10:02pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
Embarrassed?? Abi meeting a celebrity.
Erigga, Apkororo, Hush Bebe, Shaun Bebe, Yung6ix and Eucharia Anuobi....I snubbed all, them no join A-list though The only celebrity I will meet and embarrass myself for is Bill 'Kodak Black' Kapri
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Romance › Re: Share Your Coincidence Meeting Story by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 6:13pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
This chronic APC/Buhari Supporter...you like girls?? I be think say na Cows you like o |
Romance › Re: The Suffering Women Go Through In The Name Of Marriage (photo) by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 5:51pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
UndauntedYOCA: Hakhakhakhakhak Na my student im be. E still dey learn sha. How have you been na!  I'm good.
You must be a good teacher the way chief was spitting...damn!!!!
I would like learn too, are there going to be practicals you know for me to prepare myself |
Politics › Re: Suspected Fulani Herdsmen Send Message To Oyo Communities, Threaten Attack by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 5:48pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
Amatarasha: My people yoruba please no matter what don't attack the Fulanis because they don't forgive like we all.know , let's apply wisdom and allow our strong and old elders like tinibu, alhaji sheik musa afamed, akintoye to fight for us. Let's allow them have our land than lose our lives like d Igbos.We are not cowards, We are wise ,we are sophiscated and we are clever than the yeasterners. Are you being sarcastic?? |
Romance › Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 8:04am On Nov 01, 2021 |
UncleJudax: no mind all these third world country wanna be feminists. They are online, offline and everywhere begging for money and slutting...by codedly forming to be chef, fashion designer, masseuse etc  That's what it is...I don't want to even go that far!!
Don't mind her, She is living in fantasy land compiling western data for me. Where as happenings in Nigeria is the direct opposite. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 7:39am On Nov 01, 2021 |
MemoriesAndMe: Where did you get that definition from? Which of the holy books stereotypes any of the listed as characters of a bad guy or thats just your assumption? That's what our Nigerian society think is a bad guyTheevilone: What are you saying, is pastor CHRIS Oyakhilomi and the rest of divorced people both prominent and non prominent people all bad boys ?
For your notice bad boys also have successful relationship. I never said 'good boys' relationship/marriage won't crash. There are millions reasons different marriage/relationship crashed...that's another topic entirely.
What I meant is most the girls that dated/dating 'bad guys' after seeing the heat is too much will run to we good guys  |
Romance › Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 7:17am On Nov 01, 2021*. Modified: 9:35am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Hyerin: There was a caveat and to quote myself:
"Certain truths will still apply if the populace wasn't as poor, uneducated and largely conservative"
Nigeria is still largely conservative. Culture permeates almost every aspect of our lives. Social forces influenced by patriarchial customs and norms are dominant. The ways in which this can be lessened is through education. When more people are properly educated, there will be alot of doing away with certain traditions but the widespread poverty is a big hurdle. You see, poverty, illiteracy and traditional culture go hand in hand. It's one of the reasons why Africa and some parts in Middle East, Asia and Latin America are underdeveloped. There's also socialization. Women are socialized to view marriage as the acme of existence. This is not unique to Nigeria alone but all over the world. Some women in the West are opting out of marriage and children all together because it's not what it is cracked out to be. There's research and studies that proves women have more to lose because they (Women) take on the bulk of child rearing and household duties, in addition to working full time. Thats alot of responsibility and some have decided it's not even worth venturing into. Now, those women are free to exercise their rights without much hassle unlike in Nigeria were the stigmatisation is great and due to the prevailing culture it is viewed as unthinkable. Do you catch my drift now? It's a whole lot of delving into because multi-faceted.
Besides, the articles I posted never mentioned Nigerian women but nevertheless this circles back to the above caveat and everything I've written thus far. To oversimplify my point:
The social forces and culture in Nigeria is stronger than that of the west. With culture, comes certain expectations of women due to tradition and because this is pervasive, Nigerian women have a narrow path in their lives i.e marriage and children. However, when this is lessened and more women get educated, they will be a "going against the grain".
Men have refused to step up and be better means exactly what the literal statement is. You still think money is everything. You can be absolutely devoid of any good character but once you have money, then you're now a "high value man" and the ladies will flock, isn't that so?
Well this is false.
Money sure can attract a women but it can't keep her if you're a shitty person. If money was the key to successful relationships then rich men won't be getting divorced left, right & centre. Nothing of good character/personality is emphasized for men. It's all just money and y'all run with it. To be better means to be a good person, which honestly, is the bare minimum.
I feel like all what I just typed out is common anense but you redpillers are so lacking in critical thinking and analysis. It's very irritating and none of y'all are worth the replies tbh. Like I said before all these your epistles....All your analysis maybe true but not in Nigeria and it won't be in a very long time...Religion, culture, society like you said, full stop. No many talk.
I'm not a Redpiller. Lacking in critical thinking and analysis y'all girls like using is getting old & stale. I pointed my thoughts out to you with the norms in Nigeria, you are the one doing oversabi bringing western stuffs that does not apply anywhere in Nigeria to the conservation, critical thinker!!
This is Nairaland, not dollar or pound land |
Romance › Re: Make A Wish For The Month Of November by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 11:34pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
SmellySperm: Na to hustle na. Make your street transformer no first u blow  My street transformer no try am. If I no blow this month, make I naked bath |
Romance › Re: Make A Wish For The Month Of November by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 11:25pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
 I want to blow this month |
Romance › Re: How I Broke Up With My Girlfriend Tonight. by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 11:21pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Umar, you saved your girlfriend's number with her full name like she is a business partner?? With that only, the relationship was done from the beginning
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Romance › Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 10:54pm On Oct 31, 2021*. Modified: 11:10pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
[quote author=Hyerin post=107227468][/quote]  See plenty Grammer!!  Sister calm down o.. It's the same thing I'm doing, except reverse by counteracting these peddled lies with correct information You can admit most of what the guys said are close to Nigerian mentality/culture whatever the correct word is but the fairytale you wrote before is very far from us and may still be for the next 50 years. More women are seeing marriage for the scam that it is.  you fuuuqing with me right?? in Nigeria today 95% of the girls wants to get married, even the girls at the brothel will go back to their various states and marry. Which women are seeing marriage as a scam?? Scam where? most marriages that has changed the life of girls and their families in Nigeria financially  and our society respect married woman more. Nothing like Scam for women. Maybe Men Some are even choosing to opt out of it and children. Where in Nigeria?? Baby mamas that are frown upon and they called all sorts of names. even by fellow women. Chioma and etc did it beacuse of the cash/fame that comes with it which is made possible by a you guess it Man Men have refused to step up and be betterSay What?? Step up for what. Explain more this beacuse it could mean many things before I make a statement. And check my last comment too and say something. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Gentle Men Love Tough Women? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 10:36pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Where is research and where did you make your observations??
You just switched that topic on frontpage |
Romance › Re: She Said This To Me by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 8:13pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 8:04pm On Oct 31, 2021*. Modified: 9:48pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Palema007: [c I never personalized that,did I? Here I am trying to help you guys understand why some ladies go for your so called bad boys. But what do I get in return? Assumptions and incoherent babbles.
Some of you are so difficult to reason with. Look all through my comments in this article, it's just for cruise
I don't care if a girl wants a bad boy and I definitely don't want to know the reason (s) why.
this article reach frontpage, how manage?? |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 7:31pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Palema007: These are baseless stereotypes formed out of personal dislike of some habits. Some good people smoke, some drink ,others do one or two of the listed. Does that make them bad? Read between the lines, it's a joke like that is the Nigerian mentality of bad guys...I do all except the dreads...not anymore, police use me shine that year Palema007: rectitude? Established norms? Lol..... This makes these guys different, mysterious, intriguing and fun. They are out of the normal.  Mysterious shebi??
Don't come and open thread later saying your mysterious lover has been bringing mystery to you later |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 6:50pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
God1000: Don't mind them. Your head dey there |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 6:49pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Palema007: Who is a bad guy?  smokes, drinks, dreads, drugs, I don't care attitude etc |
Romance › Re: Hmm,simple Way To Handle Her... by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 6:40pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: The Suffering Women Go Through In The Name Of Marriage (photo) by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 6:35pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
ChiefSosa: Lol, I'm #TeamV o. Lol. Chief chief, you are a virgin  |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 6:31pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
After the 'Bad' guys show them pepper finish, dem go cor dey disturb good husband material boys like brother chatinent and I.
We boot them out quickly, we are taken already by sisters of virtues  |
Romance › Re: Facebook: This Girl I Added On Facebook Stopped Liking My Photos by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 6:25pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
This Guy, Si..o...fra and ba..d.r.ad.io are just catching cruise. Nobody should take 'em serious
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Romance › Re: Guys I Need Urgent Advice by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 5:20pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Just send the girl the 5k instead, she might agree. |
Romance › Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 5:13pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 5:10pm On Oct 31, 2021 |

So indirectly or even directly what OP & some the female comments are saying or rather admitting is ever since they were only in relationships for money??
That's not even bad enough but now they are 'woke' they are demanding more which ultimately means the money must still be there!!
Example you want an intelligent tall guy with broad shoulders, big chest and 100 abs but nigga must still have paper, if he's poor. it's No.
Please someone should correct me if I'm wrong!! |
Romance › Re: The Suffering Women Go Through In The Name Of Marriage (photo) by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 4:05pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Please, it's 2021 not 1901. If one d*ck forever is not good for you, divorce or better cheat. Who gives a f*ck?? Are we your husband(s)
@chiefsosa You seems to know a lot about the kitty  |
Politics › Re: Accord Party Candidate, Maduka Emerges 'Anambra Guber People's Choice by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 3:29pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Same Way Atiku won all online polls but we all know how that turn out!! |