₦airaland Forum

mosdii:
Na, Not Me

BaddieFreak:
If I talk my own, you go talk your own?

Bolarineliza202:

I know but I still can't bring myself to do that,whether it's no longer practiced or not,it's my personal decision.

Note; a relationship where a guy make the first move is pretty lovelier than a relationship where a girl make the first move.
If in case a fight ensue between the two parties the guy will tell the lady that afterall it was the lady that made move on him.
Abeg,Elizabeth respect herself jhawe

2braithe:
You dey follow this girl upandan.Talk say you like am na

Like is a strong word...I wan help grow her market but she dey do like who kiss crazeman!!

BaddieFreak:
Gettat

Bolarineliza202:
It's not a matter of stereotyping.
I have shame as a lady so I don't approach guys.
I love the normal procedure that a guy should declare his feelings for a lady,and then if the lady seems interested she can reciprocate then,I have never at a point in time gotten desperate for attention of guys,neither do I look out for em.

BaddieFreak:
Stop stalking me to get my attention, it won’t work.

Bolarineliza202:
I did hurt myself,but I am happy about it,atleast now that I suppressed it,that means I will be able to control even something bigger than that,which I surprisingly did later.
It's indeed Nigeria's mentality,guys tend to tell their friends or so about girls crushing on them and even coming to them and they feel they are on top of the world and they will start misbehaving,knowing other girls will crush on them,if the current girl leaves.

Bolarineliza202:
Of course,I did even though I still sees him,but I no longer have any crush on him again.
It was even about after 3 to 4 weeks or so that I stopped having crush on him,I just fathomed everything because I don't wanna fall my ego even with all the burning sensations in my heart whenever I sees him then.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Guy, Dem dey share your picture all over Nairaland ...is that you??

Bolarineliza202:

Honestly speaking I have (speaking from experience).It's just all about self control.

BaddieFreak:
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Bolarineliza202:
For me to approach a guy and tell him how I feel about him,I don't know about other girls oo, but to me that's the last thing I will ever do.

BaddieFreak:
Abeg gettat!

Bolarineliza202:
I don't pray he approach me,my crush doesn't last longer than 3days or a week,so I see no reason why I will approach a guy.
Like my ego can never make me do it,I so much respect myself as a lady that I can't stoop myself to ask a guy out,it's such an embarrassing thing I will never engage in.
I want a guy to like me first atleast without the idea of me asking him out or giving him any green light ,I can return the feelings then.

BaddieFreak:
Use your brain na, I live in Lagos Island not in an hotel

You were not being specific na...so I will assume. From your post, location and like chat.inent point out your dozens of chains one might think that......

BaddieFreak:
Sorry, I no go school

Anyways, I live there.. Are you satisfied now?

You live in the hotel??

BaddieFreak:
Is this supposed to be a question or sarcasm??

BaddieFreak:
Island

Bolarineliza202:
Food is still not an obssession to me,I don't crave for food every time.But I love games like mad

Bolarineliza202:
I can't give any greenlight as well,in the end he will later end up telling me that I was the one that made passes at him should in case anything later happen,I won't drag my ego through the mood,I am kindda proud , I have promised myself that I won't think with my heart long time ago,I now think with my head.

you are pessimistic!! . Bleep your Ego Be optimistic...maybe the guy will appreciate if you were the one that made first attempt.

Or you want to sit down and pray your crush approach you?? You might go grow grey hairs before such might happen

AfroKnight:
You’re the confused ignoramus here. And sadly you are surrounded by indigent women. Perhaps that is to fuel your ego, or it’s just your lot in life.

All the women I have lent money to have repaid me. I ask for my money and collect.

If you’re too ashamed/cowardly to ask for yours, that’s your headache. You cannot project your unfortunate situation on others.