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Family / Re: I Lost My Wife (a Nairalander) by OldSoul1: 5:53pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
May the Lord give you the strength and fortitude to bear the loss of your beloved wife. If you don't mind, can you share what led to her untimely death, at that very young age. Note that talking about it can help you in the grief process. God be with you and all your family members. |
Health / Re: Please Help! How Can I Treat Chronic Catarrh That Has Lasted More Than 8yrs by OldSoul1: 6:14pm On Jun 21, 2021 |
You are definitely suffering from allergies! Go see a doctor that specializes in allergies to identify what exactly you are allergic to. Am suspecting dust. There may be others. Check your living environment for mold and mildew. Have you been living in the same environment for this past 8 years? Am sure a change of environment might be of help. Gvnl: 1 Like |
Family / Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With Menstrual Cramps? What actually Works For You by OldSoul1: 10:37pm On May 21, 2021 |
faithugo64: Extremely painful menstruation is usually one of the symptoms of an underlying gynaecological condition. Advise your friend to do an MRI scan of her pelvis (with specific emphasis on the endometrial cavity). What she is trying to rule out is a condition called endometriosis! You can also read about it. Reason why I didn’t ask her to see a gynaecologist first is because many of them, unfortunately, due to their training and practice environment, believe painful menstruation is not big of a deal. Once the result is out, then she can go see a gynaecologist. Good luck to you and your friend. Note: This is a pointer to all you ladies in this same situation! |
Religion / Re: Is My Problem Spiritual Or Medical? by OldSoul1: 6:20pm On Feb 15, 2021 |
ChilledPill: “My people perish for lack of knowledge”. It’s very sad that you Nigerians are too fast to attribute everything to spiritual problems. What you have is medical! Period! it’s a condition called sleep apnea. Obtrusive sleep apnea is when your throat muscles (especially back of your tongue) relax such that you are unable to breathe in properly, the result is the loud sound that you produce because you are struggling to take in required oxygen level (air). People with this condition, while asleep, can stop breathing for a few seconds or minutes, and because the brain is failing to receive the necessary oxygen level, the “stand by” generator in your belly kicks in (thank God for this) and sends power into your brain to tell you you are dying and suddenly wakes you up. When you wake up, you are tired and fatigued because the brain did not receive the necessary nutrients through the oxygen. The nightmares you are having are as a result of the sleep stage you are in: while you are in a period of deep sleep, your brain at the same time, is in an unknown realm (due to lack of oxygen). OSA (obstructive sleep apnea) can kill or lead to stroke if not treated. When you hear someone died in a sleep, it may not be unconnected to this condition! What to do: 1. For now avoid sleeping on your back. 2. look into CPAP machine or 3. Oral devices for snoring! Wish you good health buddy! 3 Likes |
Travel / Re: Reps Ban Airlines From Canada, UK For Denying Nigeria Landing Rights by OldSoul1: 3:41pm On May 30, 2020 |
dre11:These guys must be dumb! There is no direct flight from Canada to Nigeria. So what airline are you banning? 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by OldSoul1: 2:16am On May 24, 2020 |
djon78: Do you mind them? It sure amazes me how individuals with little knowledge on a subject matter misguide others, with so much confidence ��♂️ |
Family / Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by OldSoul1: 8:17pm On May 22, 2020 |
Divine89: For you to pour all these shows you must have changed in many ways. In life, some people have to go through difficult situations to make them change for the better. Some will go to jail for many years and while released with still go back to their old ways of life, and again get sent back to prison. Some people will require more than second chance to realize their past mistakes. You seem to fall into this category. Am not going to blame you for all you did in the past to your uncle. You were too tenderly young when you were shipped away from your parents off to an uncle in Europe... that was the first mistake of your parents! In their minds they were doing the right thing by letting you go, what they did not realize is Europe is a free land. You are so free to do whatever and make as many mistakes that can even cost you your life. There are many government agencies working hard to ensure that “trouble” kids are taking away from their parents and guardians for little mistakes so they can remain relevant professionally and thus keep their own economy going. Peer pressure is strong in all societies, but way stronger in advanced societies! It takes strong and committed parents with prayers to have well trained children in these parts of the world. I must commend you for your sincere repentance from your junkie life. Now is the time to proof your genuineness by engaging yourself in self development programs. You need to be a part of any organization that is into helping people... this is important so you can remain grounded and not relapse. Trust me you are still very young and can still contribute meaningfully to your society. Regarding your uncle and his family, you can not force them back into your life, they can never forget what you made them go through, but keep praying for them and praising God on their behalf. One day, if they hear or see you have really changed, they might cautiously allow you back into their. For your parents, you must keep trying until you are able to talk to them, let them know how much you have changed and ask them to forgive you if they can. Tell them to keep praying for you. As you already know that in order to get your remaining 2 kids back from the government, you must proof that you have changed a great deal! You have a stable job and life. It’s takes time but it’s in your hands. You can do it! I will be here rooting for you! |
Romance / Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by OldSoul1: 2:41am On May 22, 2020 |
First off, marriage is not for fainted minds. It looks like you both are at a stage where you are ready to take the bold step. The question however, is are you the right girl for him and vice versa. It’s good to have ambition in life, to have dreams and aspirations.It’s also great to be over ambitious, on the other side, it can be dangerous as it comes with many sacrifices! Going to school, learning a trade, getting a job, getting married are all ambition. When it comes to marriage my dear, you both have to be on the same page when it comes to ambition and or over ambition. If you are not on the same page, you will fight quite often, and be unhappy, ultimately resulting in the down fall of your union. You talked about not wanting your children to suffer, that’s interesting because to you Nigerians, too much money is required to not make children suffer! Have you thought about the future whereby your kids have at least a parent spending lots of quality time with them? As much as money is important, if both parents are always out there chasing after money, all in the name of over ambition, it will no doubt have an adverse effect on how you raise those future kids! Money doesn’t always equal quality. With all you said about yourself, you definitely have what it takes to be a successful entrepreneur in life, believe you me, that is your calling and there is no shame in that. Your bf on the other hand, seems to be satisfied with a simple life. Note! You can not change him! My advice for you is to break up with this guy and look for someone with the same ambition as yours, good luck if you find one! |
Family / Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by OldSoul1: 4:36am On May 16, 2020 |
Martinez39s:Get your facts right bud! No one signs prenup under duress! The process is clearly Explained to you before you sign on the dotted lines. You either sign or not. You sign if you have no hidden agenda or decline if you have one; or in some cases feel spited. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by OldSoul1: 4:29am On May 16, 2020 |
Martinez39s:Prenups no be moimoi guys! First it’s for wealthy people to safeguard their wealth, plus it usually involves lawyers and fees are quite expensive! 1 Like |
Family / Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by OldSoul1: 4:20am On May 16, 2020 |
My only advice for you is to separate from this woman ASAP! If truly she said she was going destroy your career, and she is truly behaving these ways you claimed, please don’t take it lightly as she will do way more than that! If you live in a country like US or someplace in Europe, believe you me, she will destroy your entire life! She already had a game plan all this while she was in Nigeria. She seems to be a woman on a mission and she won’t stop until she achieves her aim. 2 Likes |
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