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No one is perfect, we all live to amend our error/bad-habit once we figure out one.

We call it BAD-HABIT so the word BAD indicates that its not encouraging so we change........ #Fact

You can fall in love online bro but be careful so that u don't fall into gutter.
Don't fall in love due 2 wat u see online, some girls won't upload a pic without filtering it.....#JezzSaying

@OP

When you're doing that and the girl whisper dat into ur ear, what was your reaction?

Typical Nigeria answer question with question pls no vex...

Shai! ....... Gotcha copy this into text to speech translator but hope there's no pidgin english in this post o.....lol!

Gonna read later

Could the only gain to be derive from a relationship as a guy be s*x?

Well I think relationship is just to try ur luck and see if the girl/guy really meant to be ur future partner, to know the percentage of ur match, to share ideas and help each other when in needy and not to become a dependant but to be both helpful.

Medunah:
in other words, u cant wash her clothes abi but u expect her to wash ur own clothes cos she cares for you and loves you, dont u care for her too or love her??

not that I can't help my gf but before I can think of helping my gf over that she must be someone who is dedicated and who always take her time in doing dat for me, I think its a normal thing for girl to help her boyfriend therefore since she is used to this there's nothing bad if a guy also help his gf out.

Let the beat bang......... We are now listening to beat and not the song anymore

Medunah:
answer the question nah, ur own answer will trigger mine

if I pay her a visit and met her fetching water then its not bad helping her in carrying a bucket of water..... Do dat answer ur question?

Medunah:
@olexjay, can u wash ur girlfrnd's clothes? I.e when u have one

that question thou..... Ladies will always reply question with a question

chibwike:
when you get married....i'd give you my answer.

lol...... Okay o

chibwike:
Is she married to him

not married yet but we are talking about the process of girlfriend/boyfriend stuffs

I was washing some of my clothes one day when a female neighbor was standing near me and we are both talking me.
She then ask to tease me, why am doing the washing alone, so I reply her I must do it alone since I'm single and that's the disadvantage for not having a girlfriend.

Immediately she heard this she said back to me "so I'm expecting my girlfriend to do the washing if she's even here!" And she took it personal and told me its wrong for a girl to help her boyfriend over his home chore like sweeping his room or helping him to do the washing, I ask what is wrong in doing that helping her boyfriend in doing some house chore and her respond was:

- how will she do that for a guy who has not pay for her bride price or given her an engagement ring, and she conclude that doing that is just a waste of time on what is not worth doing.

I later said to her "what if the guy was trying to text if she's really wife material?"

Her Answer:- doing that doesn't show a sign that I'm a good girl or that will win his heart thinking I'm a wife material but he will only take advantage of me and may even turn me to a working machine.

Now My question to the guys is: How will you feel when you're both indoor with your girlfriend and the room is somehow filtered with dirt, then you pick a broom to sweep on seeing your girlfriend raising her legs up for you to sweep the space?

To my ladies: Do you think helping your boyfriend in doing his home chore is really a slavery work?

There's is long distance relationship like inter state relationship either for schooling or working reason.

To make things work outta Long distance relationship then you make communication ur number 1 priority, like: calling, text messaging, chatting and co....... When u do all this then it will reduce the level of missing each other but they should also try to see at a spare time cos communication can't work like seeing one on one.

Why must u share nude.... I think only d senseless peeps do dat, u gart the right 2 see ya gurl of guy body so y still sharing nude............. If ur nude leak with just a twinkle of eye ur matter don enter the net and u don become world wide know #shikenna

When you urinate in the rightful place den u won't be guilty of the act.

But the fact is dat everyone pee so no big deal only dat u should do dat in the rightful place..... I rest my case and my bag as well

I'm not a lady but just wanna make a contribution:

Both LOVE and MONEY help a relationship to develop and stand firm, as a man being the head of the family surely need what it takes to builds up his home which cannot be done with just the emotional love but also with the help of money, when the husband have the resources (Money) then he will be fully respect by the wife, it takes the use of money to take care of the family and other responsibilities.

Bro I guess u wanna write "few girls I do notice their post on NL"


Wake up from bed bro its time for lunch!

Lots of up coming

And she even dey pose, d person wey snap her self I'm just thinking if he/she dnt notice dat.... Lolz

The beautiful face and the cute-normalistic stature attract me most.......... Then when I'm able to take a fortunate glance look over her when she smiles.... #taaaaah!

Wen a girl smile it brings out the hidden beauty in her.

@op........ I think she confronted u boldly to let u know she's no more in love with u anymore and even told u d crazy reason for dat.

1stly we people do av problem sorry to say this, someone come up to u boldly and told u she's no more in love with u and u're still saying u love her "do u make any secret promise to marry?", do u wanna force her 2 marry u when there are lots of girls outta there?

My suggestion is dat, u don't even need to use her pic as dp or call or even attending any party she set up, u can just send her a msg to her cell like " HBD" simply and take ur mind off her, use a better dp on dat day maybe the one with ur new girl and use a normal pm..... #shikenna!

Emodeee:
this is a potential frontpage thread. i advice u should change d topic to smtin more appealing and relating to d article itself.

I'm trying bro!

Missmossy:
I have a mother töo and i can never wish her such so why my mother-in-law?

I just wish those gurls which are having such wish can reason like dat, believe me all dose mom also know about dis days gurls thought, like my mom telling me if u wanna marry pls choose wisely and may God choose 4 u cos I don't want the situation whereby "I will av 2 inform u like 3 weeks back to let u know I will be visiting or even av 2 call" sometin like dat

mizzkeji44:
No sensible gal would wish her mother-in-law dead,except she does want to have a male child.

u're right but I think they don't think about their future either thinking they will also av a male child.

fnep2smooth:
my MUM always warn me about such girls.
in short before you get my love you have to love my MUM..
She always say this to me when I was still school
" PETER..... DO YOU SEE HOW YOUR DAD AND I ARE TRYING TO TRAIN YOU " Tomorrow now when you get married one GIRL will tell me when to visit you or when to call. or start saying am a witch...


Am living with those words and am looking for someone who will love my MUM than me... ( sweet MUM )

that's a nice on bro, bliv me those moms also know wat dis days girls are capable of doing.... Me mom also tells me same word.

edozie04:
My mother is the first woman I fell in love with,To my future wife,I hope you are seeing this,If you dare think not to even wish about this thrash eh,God help you if I know....

#yhaaga! .... I can feel dat bro.

Most of our girls this days do says "how they wish their mother in-law has passed away before they got married to their fiancée", I do hear this type of topic from many different girls.

I went to visit one of my friend one day, on getting there I found him sitting in the midst of some girls which are his neighbor, believe me they are also discussing this issue.

I decided to ask the main reason why they're having this kind of wish and they both answer me in chorus with the answer below:

-The mother will always wanna come to check up his son and might even want to be living with them and this won't allow any privacy for the couple, something like monitoring every activity in the do.

I was thinking this wish is so bad, a woman that had suffer a lot on her son, and even have this girls forgotten they will also become a mother one day.

Now the question is that ladies do you also have this kinda same wish?