Since lots of people have been struggling with long distance relationships lately, and people have been giving differing opinions on how to handle them, this is a post for all those who are currently in LDR's to give tips and advice to those finding them hard. This isn't a place to judge, it is a place to come and whinge about missing your partner and to get advice on how to cope if you are about to start a LDR. Girls, if you are in one, it's time to share your useful secrets on how to cope. ***

There's nothing like a Long Distance Relationship. It doesn't exist as far as one is sexually active.

There's is long distance relationship like inter state relationship either for schooling or working reason.

To make things work outta Long distance relationship then you make communication ur number 1 priority, like: calling, text messaging, chatting and co....... When u do all this then it will reduce the level of missing each other but they should also try to see at a spare time cos communication can't work like seeing one on one.

I agree wit d poster above.not easy though

I honestly do not advise it.

Not really had a successful one,it takes patience,trust,true friendship m love to make such relatnship work

long distance relationship is boko.........if u like complete am
.

rumelovelace:
long distance relationship is boko.........if u like complete am
.

boko cwit,boko awesome

I am in a long distant relationship and I can tell you that its not easy.It takes a whole lot of patience and trust to be in such a rship

#Observers On Parole #

emusmith:
#Observers On Parole #

time up!!!

Those in LDR are on a long thing I must say very few of them turn out well.

Here to learn from others experience

It works for some people sha

kristina1:
It works for some people sha

It doesn't work at all

At one point or another in a relationship, everyone experiences some distance apart from their partner, it somewhat part of every relationship regardless of the glorified tag 'long distance.'

chibwike:
It doesn't work at all

So you mean you cant be in a relationship?

I think regular and considerate communication is the best. It depends on what part of the world you are in and WHAT TYPE IF RELATIONSHIP YOU ARE IN. I was in a long distance relationship for about 4 months in a three year relationship. I find that skyping, regular phone calls and updates always helped. Some people send nudes if you are about that life

kristina1:

So you mean you cant be in a relationship?

no, not at all

Nonnyl:
Since lots of people have been struggling with long distance relationships lately, and people have been giving differing opinions on how to handle them, this is a post for all those who are currently in LDR's to give tips and advice to those finding them hard. This isn't a place to judge, it is a place to come and whinge about missing your partner and to get advice on how to cope if you are about to start a LDR. Girls, if you are in one, it's time to share your useful secrets on how to cope. ***

@Bolded,
1) Communication; any sustainable means.
2) Have a clear head about it; live your life while you hang on.
3) Make plans to see each other if the distance is that long.
4) If you so long for his/her touch, use the phone/cam and ease off.

chibwike:
no, not at all

What about e-dating?

Am in a long distance relationship,no be small long,two different continents.we use Skype(this is the best mode of communication)bbm and sometimes facebook. And we are very good together,the only disadvantage is that we don't have se.x

If you a person that do without se..x,this kind relationship is not for u,if you don't trust ur gf/bf don't go near(you may die of HBP)

kristina1:

What about e-dating?

Lol...dats the worst na...who does that.

chibwike:
Lol...dats the worst na...who does that.

You mean you dnt have e-crush on nl.

LDR Long Distance Relationship, CBR Computer Based Relationship, name it. I've tried them and they suck!

All of you claiming long distance relationships won't work, tell me how many successful short distance or face me I face you relationship have you had.. Preachers and advisers.. Mtcheeewww

tania28:
Not really had a successful one,it takes patience,trust,true friendship m love to make such relatnship work

Hey babe your beautiful and can we be friends.

kelvinmuffins3:



Hey babe your beautiful and can we be friends.

thank you,yea send me an email

LDRs are usually blawdy..especially if one of the partner has trust issues.

pasqal09:
There's nothing like a Long Distance Relationship. It doesn't exist as far as one is sexually active.

wow. Its all about self control.