₦airaland Forum

emperorchedda:
Girls are just unbelievably lazy!

Just because he is ready-made and can afford you all the luxuries of life you decide to turn yourself a competition to his legal wife he has at home giving her heart aches on a daily

You can't say love made you do it this time because it is abnormal to truly love a man who already has someone in his life in his home

The thing weak me sef
That's how she will divide their family into multiple places.
Chai! Some babes get mind sha

robotix:
I don't know what overdo means, can you elaborate on that? It just might help a soul.

Seriously ,I don't know how to put it . It includes all the normal things you guys do but when you do it in excess ,it feels like you are choking the girl .

As much as you want to show you care and like the girl ,try to give her a space ,don't be like MTN and try too hard to impress her .

robotix:
Certainly, we are different. I done extensive research and experiments using myself to know you don't need to give a woman all "good" to keep her.

I am almost at the "give up" point and I know for certain it might happen that I don't want a woman in my life since I can't be myself around her.

Being nice,loving, caring, promising does not work for most Nigerian ladies. Did you see the dude whom you told "sorry"? Didn't see he did all the "nicies" and what did he get in return? "Heart Breakl

I have read from a lady on nairaland that she ended a relationship because "he was too nice"

Sometimes, they prefer to lead a guy on with deception.

My premise is that never love a woman up to the point where she knows it. It's best a woman never finds out.

Sincerely, Nigerian ladies DONT appreciate that "nice" because he is a pest!

We do appreciate it when guys are nice but some can overdo it and that could be really annoying .

Don't forget that guys are deceptive too, some would do anything to get a girl and once they are done that's the end.

In my world ,you don't have to overdo things to impress me ,just be honest .Honesty is all I need .

You guys behave as if the world revolves around you.

robotix:
These days when I read comment such as your coming from a lady, I laugh because there is a high tendency that she will definitely disappoint that "great guy" when he shows up. Ladies often say they want the positives but in their hearts, by virtue of their emotions, it's the negatives (unworthy) of a guy they always clutch on to.

You can't be calm, communicative, responsible, dedicated, committed and always giving attention without being tagged a pest, a weakling, not man enough.

Before you defend, do note I speak from experience!

Lol, why nah

Seriously ,if the guy is that great and calm like you have stated why would I want to trade that for something else?
Everyone is got one or two negative sides but I try as much as possible to be the best I could be . I don't believe in all men are the same but most times they will always let you down .

I'm not being defensive but you know your experience isn't mine and mine isn't yours.

Godprotectigbo5:
help me spread this gospel to my ofonja sisters and brothers

I'm an undiluted black Afonja girl .

So now that we have heard the gospel, we are waiting for the reggae version .
NB - it is Afonja not Ofonja .

CplusJason:
I guess that's his Pistol

hunnn, wehdone sir! Magnifier of life ,they can zoom life out of anything :

O ma she o, he went from hole (puna) to hole (grave).

Femsmart:
Come let me buy 4 of it for you.

Let's talk now, oya bring the money first

naughtylagosguy:
Aunty Bisi olubee22, come and see your namesake.

It's not easy nah.

Haba ! Shey ogun laaye ni . 250k for bodycream just because somborry wants to become whiter than tissue paper . That 250k will buy about 735 cups of Pears baby cream ,I give up .

unclezuma:
That is what probably triggered it in the first place; fear.

Fear ? Maybe but it's not like she is a first timer and even first timers don't experience such . Getting stuck is a rare thing ,i think it's partly medical and psychological .

karpentar:
You have a beautiful mind......

Lol .thanks

unclezuma:
Actually if they'd just calm down it have relaxed its the muscles of the female organ that's agitated that's what causing the issue.

I am trying to verify if truly a concoction from some "herbalist" can trigger this in a female.

Magun in a can baby!

That should work but with the whole shock that comes with getting stuck ,it would be difficult for the woman to stay calm and they might not even think about it sef.
People usually associate it with thunderbolt (magun).

unclezuma:
Some scholars have been known to associate one with the other but I agree with the vaginismus it is definitely vaginismus i was wrong in my earlier assertion.

It is not the cause of the randy male but the female the question now should be, are there herbs out there that can trigger this phenomenon in females.

I dont know about the herbs but a trip to a doctor should solve it .

unclezuma:
If only they knew it is a biological phenomenon.

yes, like a form of vaginismus.

www.jedijedi.com


Naughtylagosguy, d one wey you drink eyaff do o.it is high time you started concocting your own too

madapcmod:
Ibadam, home of filthy amala ati ewedu smelling goat food, home of extra large yokozuna bleaching afonjanatu women. Home of tiger clawed face ugly cretins.

Spits on Ibadam, the headquarters of rusted brown roof mud settlement

clap for yourself . so for your mind now you don make sense abi
Your koboko is still lounging inside ata gigun

Rilwayne001:
that small boy brought this upon us now.

But then, isn't it a good thing that ibadan is liveable even if you no carry much, unlike Lagos where even 20k is not enough for a fun filled weekend?

Abegg leave my ibadan alone

abi, see wetin that stewpid boy caused ehn

It must be an Osogbo weed .infact ,it is an original

mikkypel:
You should now know that hijab doesn't matter.. .a hoe is a hoe.. Hijab or not

I know that but do you have to broadcast that you bleeped one ehn ? you don't kiss and tell. I know real Hijab sisters that I can vouch for and the other ones too.


Quote me and see if I will not flog you

mikkypel:
Day b4 yesterday, a lady was bleeped by me... The shocking aspect is she came with her hijab

so ?? We should now do what with the info

The purpose of wearing hijab is not to look attractive or attract men's attention but that doesn't stop the wearer from looking good. I think she is just trying to say modesty and not nudity should get all the attention but that her presentation is "siro". By the way, wearing hijab doesn't make one a saint .

ekems2017:
After wearing her hubby's shirt and posting it in social media, what next?

Voila! It made the FP on NL

Teawhy2011:
Hummm! I'm 29 nw,still living wt parents after nysc,depending on them b4 I cn gt a two-squaare meal daily. Sober mood....!

so far you don't give up, keep trying and that is going to be history soon . Sha don't complain and just keep hustling .O ma make sense very soon

Kissdaniel and Sugarboy no be the same person o. By the way what is IK Ogbonna doing on the list ehn? oya remove it!

Azil:
You will, girl. You will.

3 years ago, I had NOTHING. I'm not totally there yet but I am grateful for where I am.

You'll get there.

That's the spirit ,thanks sis.

bjhaid:
@your profile pic, you looking good.

Thank you.

Beamborla:
Last time I checked, every guy out there wants someone who is independent(financially)
Someone who can meet him halfway.

Moreover, there is a feeling of fulfilment and satisfaction that comes with being on top of your game...you'd be surprised to know thousands of ladies out there crave that feeling.

I feel like hugging you right now(sisterly hug ni o) . I seriously don't like the part where they keep saying "you will get married someday and your husband will be the one to bear the burden" . kilode ,must I be a liability ? It is a must o, I must get there !

Azil:
"Have you ever sat in a group of people discussing the new iPhone on the market or how British Airways offers poo services and you can feel your heart whisper to you "boss this is chest pain hour, can we just go and find a group that talks about GMAT, SHL, Dragnet, jobberman or job vacancies sites".

Hahahahahahahahahaahahahaha.

Even as a female, I've been there.

Exactly , the post is really on point . The pressure isn't on guys only ,there are still some of us who aren't just concerned about slaying or adding pepper o. Am still there and getting out of it soon .

spafu:
She no wear an Bobby Realignment Agent (BRA) so you can really fault her when the things take a shy look, but I can assure that those twin melons you see taking the shape of pawpaw are still succulent. How did I know? Tits are not camera shy as the left one showed,by making sure it was captured. And I seem to rank it highly because such tits with such value are not easy to find theses days.

This brother deserves a medal

UniQuegrACE:
lol, that was the first thing I noticed. you're beautiful, love your skin color #no homo

thanks sis

UniQuegrACE:
lol, the lady in grey tho, her boobs like slipper, fallen mountains

God forgive me , I zoomed in