₦airaland Forum

Her painting of nails to me isn't bad, as she may be painting d nails sometimes to while away her free time and sometimes just naturally like it 'cos it's actually bringing beauty in some people's hands n legs.

I just think you need to be more close to her, you are far from her due to not always being arnd witin d week, but let her often hear from you (get her a phone) call her to ask how her day was, how her today's class went, she don chop? (chat with her on whatsapp), copy n paste broadcast messages of inspiration/motivation and funny stories(jokes sometimes) on FB or NL and ask how wetin she feel about d message u sent her (to you u like d story did she?) continue supporting her with the little financial stuff u can afford, let her know u can't do this big tins for her for now, but she should accept it with love and with time things are going to be great(with this method you can indirectly bring in boyfrnd matter that she should just not be freak with the way some girls are hooking arnd guys for material tins 'cos d results are hard and som only do deciv d innocent ladies) doing this will make her be very close to u. And should want to be freely talking to you. Its working for me tho! I never let my lil sis be dat down and I do always mk her feel comfortable and free around me. We are good frnds so she do reason 'some' of her mata wt me. N I add advice/suggestion where necessary. #GOD WILL GRANT HER A LISTENING HRT

wadetaw202:
I think the matter is settled already. How?

When you reach home, take her out to an eatry or any private place where the two of you can be alone and relaxed.


Then tell her the story of how you kept a diary when you were her age and tell her about the naughty things you wrote in your diary.

Tell her you thought your parents didn't like you because of the way they disciplined you.

Tell the story in the most relaxed and off-handed manner possible; nothing rigid, nothing scary. I really hope you are a good story teller.

Purpose of your story is to let her know that you know how she feels, that you have been there before and to let her realize that the punishments and corrections she is receiving are for her own good.

I Dont know the level of friendship between the two of you presently, but I think you should make friends with her more.

Some peeps here adviced that you should let her be, but i think this is wrong. You and your parents have responsibility over her and you must not fail in this responsibility for the bogus fear of your sister leaving home.

Then I think your serving brother should be closer to her too. She may find it easy to play, talk and befriend your brother more than you.

Thank you 'cos your comment is so on point

akoladejesu:
U killed urself cos of an ordinary Nigerian Girl? I pity u. Am sure ur soul will never rest in peace cos the gods of the land are vexing. .....
Oponu ni bobo yen sha........

Zoom the letter well.

I don't think this stuff happen here in 9ja 'cos the whatsapp nomba on d letter isn't ours

Zico5:
Good development, just met a student picking medicine and surgery with D7 in physics for OAU. I have to lecture her to start preparing for another GCE if possible she will be able to meet up before admission start. I wonder how naïve some students are these days, no exposure to the right things at all. I wonder the work of chancellors in those secondary schools these days even if there is any at all.

Chancellor in secondary sku?
Abeg na wen dem start dey bear chancellor #just_asking'cos_i-dont-know

Omasworld1:
@olubenjazzy who delivered it to your house? Is it the post office people or payoneer people. Who exactly

I don't even know. I just got to my auz in d evening and my neighbour brought it to me

flybiz08:
Nigeria is becoming more of an impasse. Why parade a Yahoo boy when there are Fulani herdsmen wrecking havoc everywhere?

Terrible president who wasn't ready for governance in the first place.








#diehardPDP

So they shud allow criminals be strolling around and continue the scam on another client abi?

BE811APP:
T B Joshua again

Did his church 'compensate' all d families dat died in his church

No his church didnt 'compensate', they 'donate' to support and show their love

tomdon:
shey na d breadwinner die??

The breadwinner is incapacitated so d donation would actually go a very long way.

freezone4real:
In Nigeria?

Yes in Nigeria.

Earning from 500naira to 1000 Naira to two thousand Naira and higher and higher means u start from a somewhere the fact that u con't growing and never letting the failed part drag u down means d level of ur progress.


U ask in Nigeria as if some people are not actually making progress starting something here in Nigeria. Its not everyone that will survive the business tin but some people will. AND I WILL TOO.

This is why we need a young president for our nation Nigeria too.

2019 APC n PDP should support and bring out a young and able man from their party too.

#no_beef abt any current of past leaders o
#just saying

Dis_advantage of being a baby mama. @hisbaby mama. You can't use a child tk over any man. That's d truth. Now davido moved on 'cos d plan of marrying her wasn't included


#just saying tho!

Op u ar on ur own o

poshestmina:
She doesn't look good on heavy make up

Just tell us u don't just like d girl
'cos I don't know what else u want here again
She's looking good and beauriful with d 'heavy make up'

That wife worth celebrating

God bless her for believing in Seyi's future


And good lesson to some girls out there

#surulere

Now she's enjoying the reward of being patient

hungryboy:
oga stop that play oh,
You think say na only people were dey IDPs were dia condition worse pass?
You no sabi say many of us were dey internet never chop food since morning?

U are on point bro

That 2m seed will save a sensible soul from being broke

stanbuggy:
Yobo dapper. Wife i no understand.... Too much going on with her dress.. #naijafashionpolice

U get her for mind b4 ni?

Flashh:
You don't understand the message that picture is passing.

That fellow is not getting it @all

Our AJ Our Pride

U are on ur own o

No be only juju

Just tell him now is the best
Letting it wait till another month(s) is going to be a disaster entirely......

All of una just dey pack the billion and billion. Now una yarsh dey open like fowl own.

God punish devil.

In my own opinion.

Even if u beg the mistress doesn't guarantee ur husband's love 4u anymore. because for now he's lost.

I really hate d word "divorce" and I don't like advising som1 to divorce his/her spouse.. BT in dis kind of case seek advice from ur mentors, ur pastor, pray about it (prayer works) ur husby might regain his lost sense and come back to his family.

Even if u choose to divorce him and God restore him. Trust me he will come back 2u. Have seen cases like that.

HERE IS MY PRAYER FOR YOU THAT GOD OF RESTORATION with COMPENSATION RESTORE YOUR HOME BACK IJN. AMEN

misspresident:
there is a story behind everyone success. even you reading this, have a story to tell.

U garrit

See don jazzy tweeting like a small kid too. So because som top men invov 4una mata here make you dey feel important. The big men here felt u are already causing distraction esp. among d youths Datz why dey hv 2call u to order. Top men in US like Bill Gate and Co. Don't have that time to invov in dia beef.

#no_hate

#justFeeling pissed about the way he post d tweet

tubouncen:
Bro, if u don't want to die young.... Forget the land and the money

Some people with their kind of harsh comment sha!

Bro altho ur sis is trying to protect you for not falling victim of her frnd because she know what she's capable of doing.

BT the issue now is. They are done skulin and pepu change in regard to how they are moving further in life and for the fact that she even accept the fact that all ur sis said to u is true den I think she's ready to change.

If am the one
I will just clear that part and find the whole truth from her and try to know if that's really her past and something like that won't pop up in the very present.

then for the part of my sis. I will thank her for her being there and not wantin his bro hav headache cos of a girl. Then sit the two of dem down so we can talk and sort it out as one family

Leaving her his not Wat I will advice u to do. Just do things ur way cos u know ur sis and girl very well. If it's tin of d past u will know base on d way u tabled ur mara

But according to what u wrote it's a BlackBerry passport. Bought from a frnd. And has issues. You took it to a repairer.


That stuff may from his frnd. Afterall he just bought the fone from a friend. Except if the stuff is found in his memory card (not the fone memory)

Motherfucker2:
****
What are you gonna do if your sister's husband is hitting her ?? Fight the husband ??
When the police comes, two of you are going to jail.

The best thing to do is call 911, they will be there in the next minute and his ass will be in jail for domestic violence, and spouse battery and some other charges.

911 in Nigeria? Its a sorry case.


And

I don't have to fight the husband
But I will protect my sister as long as am there in his house (but this is not going to be any of my sisters portion IJN)

I will nva do dat to my future wife and pray 4 no man to do dat to any of mine.

if this source is genuine
and for real this man to have this kind of hatred for Africans (esp. Nigerians)

its sure he wont win

reason is becos the Black Americans wont feel safe voting him in as the president of the United State.

this kind of person can derive them of some things saying they are black...

petkruz:
My dear, i'v been in your shoes before! If u resign because of your manager u would start drinking garri. You need to be strong as a man and ignore so many things! Pretend as though they don't exist. If he gives u the job of a contract staff, do it. If he adds saturday to your job, do it. If he screams at u in front of customers, swallow it. All these treatment is preparing u for a better future! Afterall u wudnt remain in that branch forever. In my case the head of operations asked me out,i turned him down politely and the branch became a living hell for me but I did my job well,saved enough money to start up my clothing line and resigned. 5months is too short to quit, stay there and ignore office politics,focus on your job and keep praying.

Thank you for your great reply

ritababe:
Mtcheeew them no even fine, them just pack makeup put for face

Hmmm

nikkypearl:
"Ifeanyi"begging repeatedly like "Tekno" is God huh
If only we can ask for forgiveness of sins as much! Smh!

The Lady is so adorable! But the Tatoo ?

Feel d chick but the tatoo making me re_think