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Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Smallville4live(m): 1:59pm On Aug 09, 2012
cindyrella:
Me too grin
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Me three.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by adahib: 2:00pm On Aug 09, 2012
why am I not surprised? it has been proven that nigerian women are the most unfaithful on earth. if this actually happened,then you are damned lucky to have such a man.if I was the one,well,your guess is as good as mine.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by andyanders: 2:00pm On Aug 09, 2012
israel ben-zion:
Someone had this confession to share:

“Hi readers, I just want to share my true life story with you so that you can learn from it. We are human beings, we make mistakes every day but it left for you to learn from your mistakes.

“My name is ‘anonymous’ I wont mention where I come from for security reasons. I met this guy in 2001 when I was writing WAEC, his name is GuyA. We fell in love.
“He was everything a woman would ask for; he is fair, handsome, intelligent and God fearing, he loved me so much, he shared the little he had with me, he was willing to do anything I ask for though he didn’t have much because he was still in second year at university of Nigeria, Enugu campus.

“He did everything possible for me to gain admission into the university. I eventually gained admission in 2003 at Enugu State University of Science and Technology and graduated in 2007. ,


“I don’t know what came over me. I had a fling with this guy named GuyB. Though I never loved him, but I became pregnant for him. I didn’t know what to do, but terminating the pregnancy was not an option. I didn’t want to lose GuyA. It was as if my world has crumbled.

“I didn’t tell anybody not even my best friend because I never could tell what would happen if I did. I made a smart move by telling GuyA that I was pregnant for him.

“Of course, he believed me because he trusted me so much but I betrayed his love for me. He came to see my people, though my parents are dead.

“I eventually put to bed; a baby girl. This was in 2008. Do you know what my baby was exactly the carbon copy of GuyB; the guy I had a fling with?

“I was not surprise because I knew the pregnancy wasn’t GuyA’s but I thought the baby would’ve resembled me. Of course, I was wrong. GuyA accepted us even when he knew the baby does not look like him or me.

“Ever since, I have been dying in silence. My conscience kept killing me. At a point, I hated my own child seeing a picture of another man in her. My husband, GuyA loved her so much more than anything.

“In 2010, I had another baby boy for my husband. My joy knew no bounds. I was really happy, my husband was happy as well.

“In 2012, I had another baby boy for my husband, GuyA. Even at that, he loved my daughter more than her two biological sons. At a point, I became jealous but what can I do. I just couldn’t bear it any more so I decided to give my life to Christ and beg God for forgiveness which I know he has done.

“This I did because I couldn’t continue to die in silence. It was now for me to confess to my husband but how would I achieve that without breaking my home? I didn’t want to loose my home, I loved my husband and my kids.

“He is a wonderful man but I betrayed him. I prayed and asked God to give me the strength to confess to him… On the set day, I first called him on phone to ask him if he would ever forgive me. He asked what I meant by that. He asked if I was alright and I said yes. He hanged up on me. I cried like a baby.

“When he came back from work that same day, I served him his dinner. After that, I went with him in the room and told him to forgive me that he should not punish our daughter for what she does not know about but punish me.

He Already Knew That He Is Not The Father Of Our Daughter:
“He asked again what I meant by that. I narrated everything that transpired between GuyB and I. To my greatest surprise, he dropped a bombshell. He said he knew all these years that he was not the biological father of our 4-year old daughter.

“I asked him if he knew about it and didn’t bother to ask me? He said that he knew that someday I was going to tell him but he never knew it would come this soon.

“It was as if the ground should open and swallow me. I was so ashamed of my self that I bowed my face in tears but he cuddled me and said he’d forgiven me long ago. He said that we pray every day OUR FATHER FORGIVE US OUR SINS AS WE FORGIVE THOSE TRESPASS AGAINST US, why won’t he forgive me?

“He said no one is perfect and that we make mistakes in life. He said that I was a nice person and that we have been through a lot in life. So, he cannot abandon me now that i needed him most. He told me that he could possibly throw me out so that people will laugh at me but he has always loved me.

“As for my daughter, as far as he is concerned, she is his daughter. He’s has always seen her as one and that he will always love us. These were his words.

“I was short of words, all I could do was to cry and thank him and thank God for the kind of man he has given me because I know that no man would take that from any woman no matter what except by the special grace of God.

“I am now a happy person and I have given my life to Jesus Christ. We must learn how to confess our sins no matter what so that Satan will be put to shame and as well learn how to forgive.

“We now live in the UK. I also had my two boys in the UK.”

That is God for you. Hence you have given your life to God before disclosing this to your husband, was made possible by God as Angels already took control before you disclosed the issue.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Smallville4live(m): 2:01pm On Aug 09, 2012
You said you guys fell in love and later in the story, you are saying you never loved the guy. What are you not saying?
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Arji(m): 2:01pm On Aug 09, 2012
Emmy9ite: Wow.! nice story. Only real men like us can do that! Op,if it is me,i will invite GuyB to live with us too! wink
lolz...nw,ds is wat i cal a REAL man!

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Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by kolaoloye(m): 2:03pm On Aug 09, 2012
andyanders:

That is God for you. Hence you have given your life to God before disclosing this to your husband, was made possible by God as Angels already took control before you disclosed the issue with your husband.
Don't tell me that you believed this story.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by amijid2012(m): 2:06pm On Aug 09, 2012
9ice SUPER STORY.., I hope Wale Adenuga sees dis n make a series out of It grin
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by andyanders: 2:11pm On Aug 09, 2012
kola oloye:
Don't tell me that you believed this story.

My brother, it is possible, because this world is full of mystery. You cannot rule out the possibility. I have a friend with almost a similar thing and the man forgave her.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Dandas: 2:18pm On Aug 09, 2012
Quite a percentage of married women have been into this issue especially on the first born.Even some that are reading this have been in this kind issue,yet they continue to hide it till infinity.I think one of the greatest confession one can make is an open confession and have free mind in all you do,but some people did not mind,they will conceal it till infinity.Make open confession and be free.

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Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Nobody: 2:19pm On Aug 09, 2012
sweetcocoa: But we can be very forgiving in movies,just like in the movie on this thread,commend us please.smiley

d movies ain't better!
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Nobody: 2:21pm On Aug 09, 2012
pseudonomer:

So you‘re going to blame a guy who decided not to forgive in this case? If it‘s an American guy, na straight divorce!

didn't blame nobody

Nigerians are very unforgiving, that's all i now!
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by femmy2010(m): 2:23pm On Aug 09, 2012
Touching
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by megxo(m): 2:27pm On Aug 09, 2012
AFRI NOLLYgrin
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by poshsplendidya(m): 2:30pm On Aug 09, 2012
nice man
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Oluesther(f): 2:32pm On Aug 09, 2012
Oh!
What a wonderful man.
God please give me his kind as a husband; I promise not to misbehave.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by ab1x: 2:38pm On Aug 09, 2012
I am glad that you put the devil to shame. That singular act is called RESTITUTION. Without it, one will continue to grow in sin. You sure have the best husband in the world. I am happy for you and may God continue to be with your family
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Oluesther(f): 2:40pm On Aug 09, 2012
Smallville4live: You said you guys fell in love and later in the story, you are saying you never loved the guy. What are you not saying?

She said she never loved him(Guy B), she did not know what came over her.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Revolva(m): 2:40pm On Aug 09, 2012
Well that man is very nice to handle the case when I say women are evil - take it after fucking and bringing confusion now whe wanna be born again roorrbissh all this christain sisters forming child of God- I don't trust em if they wanna preach to me sef - dem don Bleep tire commit many things oya make me sef enjoy sef na -and she is lucky dat man likes her - if not na you LovePeddler bastard -i want you out of ma house by tommorrow -una go see her load for front of house
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by skybase(f): 2:45pm On Aug 09, 2012
He iz a nice man most men wont act d same way he acted....wel make cool cash online *free* ma signature says it all.....! Have fun[color=#000099][/color]
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Clemzy16(m): 2:49pm On Aug 09, 2012
pseudonomer: This is only a fiction, PLEASE DON‘T TRY THIS AT HOME!
OKAY.. WE WOULDN'T TRY THIS AT HOME. DOES THAT MEAN WE CAN TRY IT SOMEWHERE ELSE'.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by felphenix: 2:51pm On Aug 09, 2012
Nice story indeed, but wondering what will happen, the day the girl finds out or the guyB suddenly shows up! yonpon yonrin in Yoruba
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by adefash(m): 2:53pm On Aug 09, 2012
Emmy9ite: Wow.! nice story. Only real men like us can do that! Op,if it is me,i will invite GuyB to live with us too! wink
guy e never dey too late oo.u can tell ya wife(pls no ofence, just joking) to go get pregnant for some1 else,then u can say what u can do in such a situation.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Skipfr(m): 3:04pm On Aug 09, 2012
True confession part 1 and 2. The forgiving heart part 3 and 4. Directed by Lancelot Imasuen
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by druid06(m): 3:06pm On Aug 09, 2012
GuyA is a perfect role model for all men. @op, your trangressions in your earlier relationship with GuyA just comfirms that women are never satisfied. I hope you don't mess up in the near future.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by LeJeun3: 3:06pm On Aug 09, 2012
ms pookie: i have heard dis story before, isnt there a PART2 undecided
Abeg, help me ask joor.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by starlightRR(m): 3:12pm On Aug 09, 2012
Oluesther: Oh!
What a wonderful man.
God please give me his kind as a husband; I promise not to misbehave.

Which goes to say you would mrsbehave.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Oluesther(f): 3:17pm On Aug 09, 2012
ab1x: I am glad that you put the devil to shame. That singular act is called RESTITUTION. Without it, one will continue to grow in sin. You sure have the best husband in the world. I am happy for you and may God continue to be with your family

Amen!
My dear, U know restitution is not easy, but God still enjoins us to do it so that the devil will be shamed. Forgiveness flows when restitution is done.

I've got restitution to do. I have to buy a new locker(school desk) and return to my secondary school, as I had to carry another person's after WAEC. I got so angry that mine was stollen and decided to carry another person's own home. I shouldn't have done that as a Christian. That locker I brought home was of no use to me and my family.

God please forgive me. Though it's an easy thing to do, but I've not had time to go to Owerri for long. Rapture should not take place till I do this, please! God help me.

Every true Christian has to do his or her own restitution. Not doing this can hinder one from going to heaven. Whatever in your belonging that does not rightfully belong to U should be returned back to the owner, his family, the environment U took it from(as the case may be).

Full restitution means she has to return that girl to her biological father. She has just taken the first step which is to confess to her husband. She has to agree with her husband, inform Guy B about this, and plan on how to return his daughter to him. They've got to reach an agreement. Maybe the girl stays with her mum till she grows, to avoid being maltreated by Guy B's family. That girl has the right to know who her biological dad is. Let them do as the HOLY SPIRIT leads them.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Oluesther(f): 3:29pm On Aug 09, 2012
starlight®®:


Which goes to say you would mrsbehave.

lol! That promise is to God, not to U sir.

I was only admiring the strenght of that man. Did I do wrong?
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by sucezTP(f): 3:31pm On Aug 09, 2012
sweetcocoa: And the clerk says "Court"

While the audience says ''Gbam''!
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by GeorgeD1(m): 3:33pm On Aug 09, 2012
true confessions, hey? smiley
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by Nobody: 3:34pm On Aug 09, 2012
Pls,who wrote dis nyc story.
Re: Confessions Of A Married Woman by sucezTP(f): 3:39pm On Aug 09, 2012
Dandas: Quite a percentage of married women have been into this issue especially on the first born.Even some that are reading this have been in this kind issue,yet they continue to hide it till infinity.I think one of the greatest confession one can make is an open confession and have free mind in all you do,but some people did not mind,they will conceal it till infinity.Make open confession and be free.

Yeah, right!

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