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Sports / Re: What Is Your Prediction On Nigeria Vs Angola? by oluking: 1:14pm On Feb 02
Angola 2 Nigeria 3
Phones / Re: Why Is It Compulsory To Charge Phone & Power Bank First Before Using Them? by oluking: 11:43am On Jan 16
how did it get to front page grin grin

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Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Equatorial Guinea: AFCON 2023 (1 - 1 ) On 14th January 2024 by oluking: 4:54pm On Jan 14
Tired leggs grin

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Education / Re: Why I Burnt My WAEC, University, NYSC Original Certificates – Olutimain Ilenre by oluking: 9:07pm On Nov 14, 2023
This guy could just have made coloured copies of the originals, all just for cheap clout.
Politics / Re: FG Increases Price Of Electricity Meters by oluking: 7:49pm On Sep 06, 2023
What happens to those of us that have yet to receive any meters after payment .
Business / Prepaid Meter Frustration by oluking: 12:56pm On Sep 04, 2023
I have paid for three prepaid meters for my house to ikeja electric for over three months now, I have been to their office several times and called their customer numerous times.
This is the message i received the message bellow,

'We apologize for the recent delay in metering due to low stock from our Meter Asset Providers (MAPs), caused by exchange rate and inflation challenges. As a result, online meter payments are temporarily suspended.
We are actively working with our MAPs to swiftly resolve this and resume the metering process.
Thank you for your understanding.'

A lot of people that have paid are yet to receive their meters. please mods help push this to the front page.
Properties / Re: 2 Bedroom Flat @ Isheri Idimu. by oluking: 7:14pm On Aug 27, 2023
oluking:
Direct brief πŸ”ŠπŸ”ŠπŸ”Š
2bedroom flat with Car park and prepaid meter at isheri idimu off council bus stop.

Rent 600k
Agreement 100k
Commission 100k
Caution 60k
Annual sc: 60k.
For more info call;
08090530778, 08023556873-whatsapp
Taken,no longer available.
Romance / Re: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by oluking: 7:35pm On Aug 24, 2023
addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.
Cheat, get one babe, maybe she go wake up then.
Properties / Re: 2 Bedroom Flat @ Isheri Idimu. by oluking: 9:50am On Aug 23, 2023
oluking:
Direct brief πŸ”ŠπŸ”ŠπŸ”Š
2bedroom flat with Car park and prepaid meter at isheri idimu off council bus stop.

Rent 600k
Agreement 100k
Commission 100k
Caution 60k
Annual sc: 60k.
For more info call;
08090530778, 08023556873-whatsapp

Still available.
Crime / Re: Abuja Housewife Bursts Into Tears As Barrow Pusher Escapes With Her Foodstuff by oluking: 1:41pm On Aug 18, 2023
dre11:


https://dailytrust.com/abuja-housewife-bursts-into-tears-as-barrow-pusher-escapes-with-her-food-stuffs/
So sorry for her, I can relate how she feels.Something similar happened to me a few weeks ago, I bought one 25liters of fuel after queuing for over 4hours, just turn and call one okada to come and carry me ooo, immediately I turn forward my Jerry can of fuel disappear. I no sleep well that night.

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Properties / Re: 2 Bedroom Flat @ Isheri Idimu. by oluking: 11:19am On Aug 17, 2023
oluking:
Direct brief πŸ”ŠπŸ”ŠπŸ”Š
2bedroom flat with Car park and prepaid meter at isheri idimu off council bus stop.

Rent 600k
Agreement 100k
Commission 100k
Caution 60k
Annual sc: 60k.
For more info call;
08090530778, 08023556873-whatsapp

Still fresh and available.....
Properties / Re: 2 Bedroom Flat @ Isheri Idimu. by oluking: 4:15pm On Aug 16, 2023
ojay72:
Can I get a Miniflat in this same area?

This is what I have directly to me now.
Properties / Re: 2 Bedroom Flat @ Isheri Idimu. by oluking: 4:04pm On Aug 15, 2023
Direct brief πŸ”ŠπŸ”ŠπŸ”Š
2bedroom flat with Car park and prepaid meter at isheri idimu off council bus stop.

Rent 600k
Agreement 100k
Commission 100k
Caution 60k
Annual sc: 60k.
For more info call;
08090530778, 08023556873-whatsapp
Properties / Re: 2 Bedroom Flat @ Isheri Idimu. by oluking: 4:02pm On Aug 15, 2023
oluking:
Direct brief πŸ”ŠπŸ”ŠπŸ”Š
2bedroom flat with Car park and prepaid meter at isheri idimu off council bus stop.

Rent 500k
Agreement 80k
Commission 80k
Caution 50k
Annual sc: 60k.
For more info call;
08090530778, 08023556873.
.

Taken,. no longer available.
Romance / Re: What Would You Do If You Found Out Your Wife Is Sleeping With Your Brother? by oluking: 3:59pm On Aug 15, 2023
simple! divorce her. keep a distance from my brother until further notice.

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Properties / 2 Bedroom Flat @ Isheri Idimu. by oluking: 2:25pm On Aug 08, 2023
Direct brief πŸ”ŠπŸ”ŠπŸ”Š
2bedroom flat with Car park and prepaid meter at isheri idimu off council bus stop.

Rent 500k
Agreement 80k
Commission 80k
Caution 50k
Annual sc: 60k.
For more info call;
08090530778, 08023556873.
Properties / Re: 2 Bedroom Flat Available, At Isheri Idimu by oluking: 12:18pm On Aug 08, 2023
joe2real:
do you have another my client can do 700k


Yes i have, call lets discuss further.
Family / Re: Men Can You Bath Your Wife, Wash Her Clothes And Do Chores, IF She Is Pregnant by oluking: 11:39am On Aug 08, 2023
Lutherblaq:
My neighbour's wife is heavily pregnent, and i was shocked to see him doing things Like this:

>Washing her 'Clothes'
>Doing all manners of 'Chores'
>And even bathing her Sometimes
We all Know how, things like that are really Rare to see, And to tell you that they have been married for like 12yrs, with atleast 3 kids. so the marriege is not that new na.

now back to my question can you do that
.

Nothing special about this, it should be normal especially when the woman is close to her due date. I have four kids, at the last month of My wife pregnancy's I do almost all the chores.
Romance / Re: Dating Older Women VS Dating Young Girls by oluking: 10:55am On Aug 03, 2023
i just come laugh grin grin na to Bleep be the issue here abi cheesy grin..idle

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Properties / Re: 2 Bedroom Flat Available, At Isheri Idimu by oluking: 8:26pm On Jul 03, 2023
oluking:
Available for rent 2 bedroom flat @ 500k P.A. at isheri idimu Lagos, with parking space and prepaid meter.
Call;+234 809 053 0778 for more details.
Flat taken
Properties / Re: 2 Bedroom Flat Available, At Isheri Idimu by oluking: 10:02am On Jun 26, 2023
oluking:
Available for rent 2 bedroom flat @ 500k P.A. at isheri idimu Lagos, with parking space and prepaid meter.
Call;+234 809 053 0778 for more details.

Still available
Properties / Re: 2 Bedroom Flat Available, At Isheri Idimu by oluking: 4:59pm On Jun 22, 2023
purejustice36:
Post pictures I’m interested
Please don’t refer me to WhatsApp
Sorry I can't post pictures here, you can call or WhatsApp the phone number for pictures ana more info.
Properties / Re: 2 Bedroom Flat Available, At Isheri Idimu by oluking: 2:09pm On Jun 22, 2023
Still available
Properties / Re: 2 Bedroom Flat Available, At Isheri Idimu by oluking: 8:09pm On Jun 21, 2023
oluking:
Available for rent 2 bedroom flat @ 500k P.A. at isheri idimu Lagos, with parking space and prepaid meter.
Call;+234 809 053 0778 for more details.
still available, in a secure and Serene environment.
Properties / 2 Bedroom Flat Available, At Isheri Idimu by oluking: 7:03pm On Jun 21, 2023
Available for rent 2 bedroom flat @ 500k P.A. at isheri idimu Lagos, with parking space and prepaid meter.
Call;+234 809 053 0778 for more details.
Celebrities / Re: KWAM1 Snubbed His Wife Who Wanted To Kiss Him At His Birthday Party by oluking: 12:33pm On Mar 06, 2023
So na news be dis.? undecided
Family / Re: I Have Been Having An Affair With My Elder Brother's Wife – Nigerian Man Reveals by oluking: 5:32pm On Oct 08, 2022
If I be your brother, I go shoot you embarassed
TV/Movies / Re: Bbnaija : Amaka Weeps After Verbal Fight With Phyna ,bryann Consoles Her (video) by oluking: 9:12am On Jul 27, 2022
undecided all this kind thing don start again.
Politics / Re: APC Presidential Election: Breakdown Of National Delegates by oluking: 9:31am On Jun 07, 2022
when dem go start the primaries ! too much story.

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Travel / Re: Passengers In Lagos Stranded As Fuel Suppliers Stop Service To BRT Buses by oluking: 4:18pm On Sep 30, 2021
chatinent:
Human government cannot provide basic amenities and necessities.

Human government has failed.

Jehovah witness spotted grin
Health / Re: Nlanders In Field Of Health I Need Help Urgently by oluking: 12:05pm On Sep 22, 2021
Not having your bath every evening before bedtime can actually precipitate this, Let her just buy any good bathing soap (I recommend clear essence soap) , bath every morning and evening after one week if there is no difference let her see a dermatologist.

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