Forget ke? That would be a sign of a brain injury o.
Seeiously, no normal person can forget life changing experiences they consciously went through. To forgive is actually something that can only be tested by how you feel when memories of that experience comes around. Do you feel like getting even? Do you just shrug and wish evil on the offending party? Or do u feel, within your being, goodwill towards all actors like it used to be before the offense?

Personally, I believe not forgetting is an essential part of the process of forgiveness.

I would however want someone to clear the air on why it still hurts so much, even after you seem to think you have forgiven your offenders.
Yes, I hurt sometimes...but I hold no grudges.

OP, walk!

it might have started that you were his no. 1 but when the ex came back, you got relegated. he has been using you for a long time. you dont want the poo pouring all over you without warning sis.

and like someone noted, avoid slow (love) songs. they make things harder.

Why does this belong on nl na

ovalrose: Oct 11th

Congrats for coming around the same date I did.the most special day of the year.

pheesayor: Reno and other GEJ media guys are just out to justify their pay. I remember Abati's epistle some weeks ago

you dey mind all of them abi?stay there while they make millions,no,billions painting this government white when we all know the inside is full of dirt and scams.

Lagusta:

Yes, it is very bad, that someone who is supposed to save lives deliberately abandons his duty post, just because of ego nd selfish interest, ABI!?!?
But wait, if your landlord sends u out of his house (GOD forbid) while ur rent hasnt expired, nd u hav no choice but to stay wit a friend, and d silly landlord still comes to disturb u again, wont u say d landlord is a freak of nature?
Thats just the senario here, an intern working in a federal hospital is paid nothin less than 173,000 a month, excluding taxes nd odas, but in lagos, they r paid 120,000..... Land of opportunities eh?
Thats not the catch, these docs manage the sum, but they r not paid for 2,3,4,5....9,10,11months... IF NA U NKO BROS?
Think about it

bros,get your facts right o...na who tok am say LASG no pay am for 11 months? na which house officer tell you say na 120k im dey take home?

they do have a right to strike (like every worker) but above are not even reasons at all.

no ulterior motives my friend.this is not the only forum i am on...so i find it shocking you guys find it wierd here.

Kevin_II: idiot. i suspected you are a guy. so why are you advertizing yourself. cant you just walk queitly into somewhere without making noise? ode

Calling me ode has made a solomon of you abi?bandying an IQ not fit for an ant over the intanet has done no one any good before.check the records.

am a guy and no,invitation rejected.you can go the distance alone.

hi all.am new on this board.anyone to welcome me?

omobadan: See how people are happy someone broke up with her boyfriend because of religion. Sad. I don't share in their sentiments at all. I believe its silly. You guys loved each other for better for worse & then had to terminate a beautiful thing because of religion. Don't you think the good thing about life is tolerance. You guys should've learned to accept each other's faith & try to come to a mutual arrangement. Being in a relationship with someone of the same faith doesn't guarantee happiness. I don't think its a good move. But its your life. I wish you the best of luck.

i dont know if u are married but you should know that faith matters a lot in a family (except they are athiests afterall).its a yoking and it should be with someone of equal faith.

i guess you did the right thing but please dont disregard any of killz' advise.and if u feel like crying please let the tears flow till they can flow no more.it will help.... went thru the same about 3 years ago,so i know.

just saw kini on al jazerah? abegi,no take mouth kill the guy for im parents o