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CultureRe: Eredo, Ijebu - The World's Largest Man-made Structure by olureignforever: 9:28pm On Mar 28, 2017
Vorpal:
Which part?
Ijebu ode
CultureRe: Eredo, Ijebu - The World's Largest Man-made Structure by olureignforever: 9:16pm On Mar 28, 2017
Vorpal:
Are you Ijebu?
Yes.
CrimeRe: Woman Beats Her Husband’s 3-Year-Old Niece To Death In Lagos (Photos) by olureignforever: 7:56pm On Mar 28, 2017
Omoluabi16:
The victim's mother died in 2010. The victim was aged 3. Why the discrepancy?

Hang the murderer. .only a death sentence ll' suffice. Evil woman!
Probably the mother died after she gave birth to the baby.
CrimeRe: 5-year-old Boy Burnt To Death In Edo State by olureignforever: 1:50pm On Mar 28, 2017
youngest85:
Video or.............
It's like something has tamper with ur brain. You've got no iota of human feelings within you. Must you play with every dead persons news. Dem no train you well or u know receive the training. Omokomo.

Less I forget, go wash your head.
BusinessRe: Step By Step Free Tutorial on Affiliate Marketing by olureignforever: 1:33pm On Mar 28, 2017
clickbnkgod:
Guys make una try to dey drop comments na. Not just read and leave biko
Following
Nairaland GeneralRe: "I Did Not Import Any Vehicle" - Bukola Saraki. by olureignforever: 5:57am On Mar 28, 2017
You didn't, I did
CrimeRe: Lagos Salesman Arrested For Stealing Boss’ N53m by olureignforever: 5:55am On Mar 28, 2017
Gidigan
FamilyRe: My Husband Called Me A Vagabond by olureignforever: 4:54am On Mar 28, 2017
dvine2020:
[left][/left]that is Op's silent pain though she has not stated that fact. if MIL disapproves of the land, that might be the end of it. for such men it's 'mother has the last say ' especially as the DIL has nothing to contribute financially. Marriage in Africa is quite challenging.
Seriously, God will save African women.
FamilyRe: My Husband Called Me A Vagabond by olureignforever: 7:33pm On Mar 27, 2017
Sankabson:
End Times Wives!! Smh. Please use google translate " Asepamo Lowa Kosi Asegbe Rara". You have issue with Mother-In-Law, By the grace of God Your Daughter-In-law will have problem with you too.

Nairaland Women and Family/Mother-In-Law Issue!!


Yoruba people say " Abani gbe ma mo iwa eni, Ota eni ni" I'm very sure, You know that your husband doesn't like anyone ( even You) disrespecting his mother, not for ANY Reason.


My Piece :- Respect His Mother, In Other To Get The Respect You Deserve And Always Wanted From You Man..



Abo oro lan so fun Omoluabi!!
Take it easy na. Why all this proverb. Planning to build a house is for the betterment of their lives and marriage. Marriage is between two people, third party involvement is what breaks marriage. Extended family has their roles to play but not in planning your marriage. For the hubby to tell the MIL, to me, is COUNTING YOUR EGG BEFORE THEY ARE HATCHED. I wouldn't do it. When I succeed I can now tell my mum, not when am still trying. I will do the same thing she did if I were to be in her shoes. Avoidance is better than confrontation. They will go alone.
FamilyRe: My Husband Called Me A Vagabond by olureignforever: 7:22pm On Mar 27, 2017
Truelies2017:
I don't think some men understands that no matter how angry you are there is power in the tongue and their are some you should never alter or declare on your patner. Correct me if am wrong.

Now this was what happened and I felt i didn't warrant being called that name.

I found out about a cheap land out for sale in lekki. Called hubby to inform him that we should go check it out and might just become land owners. So I think he also discussed it with his mum cause she also planned to buy land for her kids as gift..

So mother in law called me this morning and said she would like to go with us whenever we intend checking the land. I wanted to pour my heart out to my hubby immediately after the conversation but I thought it wasn't the right time.

So later that evening he raised an issue about us going to the land. Then I said i I won't be going since mother in law would be going. I think that got him angry. I tried explaining to him why I won't be going.

To cut the long story short. He started calling me all sort of names. The next word i heard was VAGABOND!!!! In my heart I thought too much. I cried bitterly. It would have hurt if it was just anyone but not the man you are married to who should be the one blessing you. I feel sometimes some men take their power for granted and don't even know the words to refrain from. He repeated this word almost 3times, then it dawned on me he didn't even see anything wrong. So many times he has used other hurtful words and while am trying to make him take back the words or even return the words back to sender am termed as a disrespectful wife. So I thought I seek others opinion.

Are our husbands allowed to use any word on us just because they can and if not this is the medium to let those who doesn't know.
Before I post this, I narrated the scenario to my hubby and his response was, if he were to be in that shoe, he wouldn't have told his Mum about it until the house is completed. He love his family members and also love his immediate family.
Well, his response is who he is. I.e individual difference. I have come to understand that third party involvement in marriage is what breaks marriage. When we bought our land, No member of our family knew that we were building until when we wanted to pack in. They were happy and we are happy. Marriage is between two people with common purpose.
PoliticsRe: Buratai Leads FG Delegates To Sambisa Forest. Photos by olureignforever: 7:08pm On Mar 27, 2017
decatalyst:
Is Sambisa "forest" now tiled with working Air conditioning units? huh


Bihari is really working...
My thoughts.
BusinessRe: 3 Unique Businesses You Can Start From Home With Very Little Capital by olureignforever: 7:49am On Mar 27, 2017
iaamxavier:
I'm a student I started. y biz with 15k but I earn abt 70k monthly

NB its an evening biz
More on this please?
FamilyRe: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by olureignforever: 4:30pm On Mar 24, 2017
skypeme:
30,100 / 175,000 x 100% = 17.2%
I add 2.5% increment to my wifes salary every Dec
You did right bro, just sit her down and let her know it hurts u. Some women sha, while some women are looking for this type of man, one is messing up with hers. This life. Bro, apply wisdom because any harsh decision you take might boomerang. I pray God assist you cos she need a rethink and mend her ways.
PhonesRe: 99% Of Nairalanders Doesn't Know The Name Of The CEO Founder Of Nairaland by olureignforever: 2:29pm On Mar 24, 2017
This seun is so cute. looks like a lady n innocent. hope you are innocent. thumb up seun.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Powerful Images Capture The Very Different Lives Of Children Across The Globe. by olureignforever: 9:17am On Mar 24, 2017
Epositive:
mehn! see yoruba boy o
So, yoruba is now in Togo. Tribal bigot, try and get sense.
CultureRe: Eredo, Ijebu - The World's Largest Man-made Structure by olureignforever: 8:36am On Mar 24, 2017
Kakamorufu:
Naaaah. Ibadan. buh have good relationship with ijebu people
Ok.
CultureRe: Eredo, Ijebu - The World's Largest Man-made Structure by olureignforever: 8:13am On Mar 24, 2017
Kakamorufu:
u are mouthed
Are you ijebu?
CultureRe: Eredo, Ijebu - The World's Largest Man-made Structure by olureignforever: 8:07am On Mar 24, 2017
Rossikk:
So, conventional belief is that the Eredo earthworks surrounds a kingdom, meaning several towns, villages, empty land, bush etc.

But if it actually was a WHOLE CITY, as some scientists now insist, that means it would be by far the largest city in all human history!!!

If that is the case, then an unbelievable amount of artefacts and treasure lies beneath that land.

Who knows how much GOLD will be found in such a huge city??

The research above states the city traded heavily in gold and ivory.

There would have been thousands of rich families and palatial homes, housing all sorts of treasures!

I can't wait for the digging to commence!
If you say "digging" as in finding out about this place and how it came into being.

But if it's in the context of Digging out the Gold and other treasure, it's a No No. From history nobody take out anything from this place. Just go there and behold it beauty and magnificent.
CultureRe: Eredo, Ijebu - The World's Largest Man-made Structure by olureignforever: 7:47am On Mar 24, 2017
elfico:
Bilikis is an Arabic name for Queen of Sheba. so, it's either the name is a forgery or she actually was the Queen of Sheba which isn't likely considering that Queen Sheba existed long before Sungbo
In my own opinion, I think it was people who last saw her that gave her that name. From history,she didn't disclose her identity to people who had contact with her. Sungbo in yoruba means Sleeping in the bush.
CultureRe: Eredo, Ijebu - The World's Largest Man-made Structure by olureignforever: 7:12am On Mar 24, 2017
agrovick:
Wow!

Olureignforever, are you saying this place is in Ijebu Ode?
Yes, it's in the heart of oke eri before Iperin on the way to Ibadan. Oke Eri people (Men), are like the custodian of Bilikisu Sungbo. Well, according to history. We wished we cld see the place back then but it's forbidden for women. Different beautiful but scary things were said about the place.
CultureRe: Eredo, Ijebu - The World's Largest Man-made Structure by olureignforever: 8:50pm On Mar 23, 2017
Kakamorufu:
if memory serves me right. I think kolawole olawuyi has done a showcase of this on Nkan nbe in the late 90s. I am just trying to remember and join the puzzles together
Probably, I can't answer in affirmative. Nkan nbe used to scare me then. He was a fan of mystery stuffs like this.
CultureRe: Eredo, Ijebu - The World's Largest Man-made Structure by olureignforever: 8:33pm On Mar 23, 2017
Rossikk:
If this monument was in the UK, they would have restored it, publicised it, and prepared it for various tourist packages.

Ordinary Stonehenge that is just a circular structure made with some rocks, they've made billions of pounds from tourists visiting it.

We need to do better.
When we were young we used to hear about the history of bilikisu Sungbo. What made us interested was why women can't be allowed to go near the shrine since she's a woman. The story, that Bilikisu Sungbo was travelling, to where, we don't know.

Then she got to OKE ERI which is about 5-10 minutes drive from ijebu ode, she saw some women and asked them for just water as she was so tired as a result of her journey. The women refuse to give her water, she continue the journey, and she met some men thereafter, and asked them for water and they gave her. The men knew she was different, they tried to speak to her she didn't disclose her mission or where she was going to. The men decided to spy on her as she proceeded on her journey until there was no strength left in her and she died.
She was buried under a very large three. According to history, the tree did not wither, you can't find a single leaf under the tree, they said the surrounding is very neat and that the tree can be used for healing purposes.

White men come there every year. But women can get close but not into the shrine, may be, that's the only instruction given to the men.

When we were being told then, we were too young to understand. Oke Eri folks come in and tell us what we don't know.
CultureRe: Eredo, Ijebu - The World's Largest Man-made Structure by olureignforever: 8:14pm On Mar 23, 2017
absoluteSuccess:
She's the one who visited king Solomon to test his wisdom.

History is still laying fallow at Oke Eri, to be told in future time.
Was about saying this history is connected with oke Eri. The woman according to history was travelling from somewhere, she got to oke Eri n she was thirsty, she saw some women and asked them to give her water but they refused. She left and saw some men who gave her water.

She then continue her journey and she died. Where her corpse laid till today is very neat, leaf on the tree she was buried does not fall n it's only men that can go near the place. Oke Eri folks can tell us more about it
TravelRe: Top Ten Things You Should Know If You Have Never Travelled From Imo To Lagos by olureignforever: 7:24pm On Mar 22, 2017
fidet1:
I exhausted my oil yesterday. Got some there??
O ya take.

TravelRe: Top Ten Things You Should Know If You Have Never Travelled From Imo To Lagos by olureignforever: 7:08pm On Mar 22, 2017
fidet1:
Now that we know, what should we do?
Fry plantain and egg with zobo.
PoliticsRe: Northerner Shows Support For Nnamdi Kanu (pics) by olureignforever: 5:33pm On Mar 22, 2017
sarrki:
As God liveth Nnamdi kanu will spend extra 5 decades in different prison

He's a criminal

He called my president all sort of names

He called my country zoo

He makes our youth to be lawless
N what will be ur gain?
CrimeRe: 7 Killed, 8 Injured In Maiduguri Suicide Attacks (see Photos) by olureignforever: 8:52pm On Mar 19, 2017
OMG
FashionRe: See What Is Written On The Back Of Trouser Worn By A Lady(photos) by olureignforever: 8:07pm On Mar 19, 2017
Juell:
The writing is on her panties, guess she didn't knw her leggings are transparent grin
You are right bro.
PoliticsRe: To Hell With The So Called Niger Delta Republic by olureignforever: 9:52am On Mar 17, 2017
mulattoclaroo:
I'd rather not reply a flat head.
myplaydiary:
Don't mind the fool he wants Ijaws to exterminate his clan. grin he thinks war is fought on nairaland. angry
irepnaija4eva:
Yea ensure you make out the time to educate your on spellings too.
blues2022:
Op don run commot for him thread cheesy cheesy cheesy
blues2022:
Op don run commot for him thread
cheesy cheesy cheesy
grin
PoliticsRe: To Hell With The So Called Niger Delta Republic by olureignforever: 9:46am On Mar 17, 2017
mulattoclaroo:
you no get sense? Where did you see igbos in my post? I wonder how some of you reason at time.
That's what igbos are. They like fermenting trouble. Thank God this is not an Afonja post. They would have started d attack. Igbos. Huh.

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