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SmellingAnus:
not normal party... Meaning like party etc... Well, it still can't stop me if it's just a fantasy that can be once in a while.... ( remember I told you that my mind is sexually crazy

hmmmmmmm I am really suspecting you. Why isnt your picture uploaded so I can know this guy whose mind is sexually crazy

SmellingAnus:
sweetheart do you mean tiresome? Or normal party ?

party auto correct keeps changing it for me.. not normal party

SmellingAnus:
Oluwasma what is the quickest time you met someone and boom you guys are both panting after a trip to BANGladesh

hahahahahahahahaha you really want to know

SmellingAnus:
by party you mean party or thresome ? Anyway, I am not the party type but I dint think it will discourage me... As long as I see other qualities that I deem very important

so you will continue abi

SmellingAnus:
There is nothing wrong in discussing about your sexual preferences joor

lol....I see you joor. What if you discuss too early and she tells you she likes doing anal sex if you arent into that, wont it discourage you?

Nma27:
Nice one... You remember d night parole at motion ground?

lol...and Angola carpark

I have had three dates with a guy that I met online. We are still getting to know each other. He has been a perfect gentleman so far. We have not discussed about sex but I am curious if we are compatible on all levels specifically the bedroom. This has been a problem for me in my past relationships. So I want to know if I can ask about his sexual preferences in the bedroom so I will know if we can continue or not so as not to waste his time. Please advise.

Temi

My Response: No

You have only had three dates. You should not negotiate sexual preferences now because you may not get yourself into any relationship. What if every guy you meet is not sexually compatible with you? It is not necessary really. This is just like reading a book from the last page instead of the first page. You will definitely still find out and if he is not satisfying you, then you have every right to break up with him. You have a lot more leverage over a man you have been seeing for six weeks than when you have known eachother for just few hours over one or two weeks.

Thanks for taking time to read..what advice can you give to Temi?

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/26/is-it-right-to-discuss-sexual-preferences-before-we-have-sex/

rednuth:
I just put on my boxers only, and my night gown sometimes

af nightgown..who dash u dat

You meet someone the first time and boom you are into her/him and before you say Jack you are in bed with him/her.

What's the quickest you have gone?

From my inbox,

I am 36 and he is 39. My boyfriend makes like N45,000 every month and he doesn’t have savings. He will like to change his job but he is not getting a better Job. He wants us to get married and start a family. I have a job that is very fine but I don’t think I can support a family on my own. I am really confused because if I want to have a child naturally I would need to start right away.

My question is should I see his income as a flaw to deal with or something that will make me unhappy in the long term?

Chioma


Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/25/my-boyfriend-doesnt-earn-much-money/

Rednuth how's you?

mick12017:
mehn I de suspect my roommate ooo.. So I sleep on the floor not even bed and I wear confam long swimming tight

lol

SmellingAnus:
hahaha yea... Believe me he does.. Anyway, how have you been? Missed me ?

lol..m good. Missed you? A little

SmellingAnus:
honestly I did miss you this time for real... Your Babalawo deserves a raise

lol because you actually misse d me right? I think he deserves it really...

sepalapen:
It is not good to sleep unclad cos of unforseen forces flying in d night .

lol...you mean the airforce

SmellingAnus:
I'm good... You mean time to miss you ?

lol..did u actually miss or my mention

Toluwaleke101:
Nope. Just my briefs or shorts

lol...I see you @Toluwaleke101

Tiny23:
You cannot sleep unclad in the hostel o...lesbians n evil spirits are real.

lol. Are you in a single sex school?

SmellingAnus:
Nah... I love to sleep like Adam

CC: oluwasma I can see you made up your mind not to mention me again

awhhh not reall)..why won't I mention SmellingAnus..i just wanted to give you time ni..how r u doing today?

Oladipupo: My wife and I have been sleeping naked from the start of our relationship. It kind of began because of our sex life and neither of us is able to put enough effort into getting dressed afterwards. I am now unable to sleep with clothes on. Even with underwear, I sweat like crazy and feel like I am choking.

According to research, sleeping naked has a lot of benefits over sleeping clothed.

When you dont have to worry about sleeping in clothes, then you dont have to buy pajamas. It saves your money and you have less clothes to wash.

You feel happier and more free. You are free of underwear and pants. You sleep better.

When you sleep next to someone, skin to skin contact like cuddling before going to sleep releases oxytocin which helps you feel those good feelings about your partner. This kind of contact can lead to a more active sex life.

It can help your skin. The private part, armpits and feet that are restricted all day will get to breathe. This can lower the risk of skin diseases like athlete’s foot that result from wet restricted skin.

Helps you regulate your cortisol. Sleep naked so you can keep your body temperature down and sleep well so your body can properly produce and regulate cortisol(stress hormone).

It keeps your sex organ happier. For men, it allows your testes to remain at at cooler temperature and it helps keep your sperm healthy. For women, it can prevent yeast infections since yeast grows better in warm moist conditions.

Sleeping in summer is more bearable. If you don’t have air conditioning, then you may find your bedroom stuffy at night. You will be able to sleep well when you sleep naked. You don’t want to wake up drenched in sweat.

So now, it’s time to start taking off your clothes at night. There are times you put on your clothes, if you are ill or cold.

What do you think about sleeping naked? Do you find it weird?

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/24/do-you-sleep-with-clothes-on/

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/23/in-one-word-describe-your-partner/

MrSavage:
were you guys are heading too there is chukuchuku on the floor ooo

lol @ Mr savage I see you and the chukuchuku

Dhayor001:
Lol.

No point in badmouthing anyone cos a relationship didn't end as I would have wanted.

Thank you.

@your pic, you are beautiful.

Thanks Dhayor001...my nice guy

MrSavage:
start working for super glue company cos when she breaks the heart you go save glue am

lol so she is a heart breaker

creamylicious:
serious stingy element

lol

Dhayor001:
Sometimes, there's more to making a relationship than 2 awesome people.

Let's just say we were not very compatible.

awhhh I like you already. And u said only good things about her.. nice

creamylicious:
ensure you have a job at hand cos cash doesn't flow around him even though he's got d money

you got me laughing..cash doesn't flow around him

Dhayor001:
Anna is a great girl, homely and shy.

Treat her good and be gentle with her.

Cheers.

wow...so why did you part?

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/22/what-advice-would-you-give-the-person-that-is-dating-your-ex/

It is possible to be friends with your ex. I once dated someone and I cut off entirely from him after we parted. No sms. No social media. No phone calls. I did that because he is still attached to me or let’s just say he still want us to continue dating but I know it won’t work because of the reason why we parted in the first place.

You can be friends with your ex if you are satisfied with the state of friendship. You can’t be friends with your ex if your ex is still in love with you and you are not or you are still in love with your ex and maybe secretly hope that he changes his mind and becomes a different person. That will be time wasting. What if he doesn’t change his mind. If you cut off entirely from your ex, it will help you move on quickly. Especially if you are married you shouldn’t be friends with a single ex.

Can you be friends with your Ex?

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/21/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex/

kushercain:
Capital YES..how else would you know if you're both compatible? Not when you get married you start noticing things you hate

well said...I am not against you going to visit or spend time with me but why live with him when he hasn't given you the ring..

Living together with your boyfriend/girlfriend won’t guarantee a great marriage. Some live together for years and never get married. Some try to save money by paying for one house rent so they live together. Co-habiting before marriage has many disadvantages than advantages. Most dont usually lead to marriage.

Reasons why co-habiting may not lead to marriage

The guy knows everything about you: there is nothing special about you again. He know your schedule, your likes, habit, movement.

He expects you to do house chores: every man sees house work as ladies work. He can assist but it’s still your work. If you are living together, he expects you to take care of the house.

He expects you to cook: guys don’t usually like to cook and since you live together, you will do the cooking. The thing is you are practically doing everything for him for free. Why should he bother about planning wedding which will cost him more.

He will have free sex: he hasn’t met your family yet and you are living with him already. He sure will be getting free sex because you both will want to test your sexual compatibility.

It is said that absence makes the heart grow fonder. When he doesn’t see you too often, he will miss you more and loneliness will push him to do the needful fast. So why rush to live with him when you have more than half of your earth years to live together. That brings me to ask….

Do you think co-habiting before marriage is okay?


Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/21/is-co-habiting-before-marriage-okay/