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oloriooko:
Even with doggy style
Bros your lie fit wake dead, maybe you be banker during the day and thug at nite

lol..

SafeDavid:
Not the vampire kind of bite but a light one.

I once had a girl who pinch me all the time. I guess that was her own way of displaying affection lol!

hmmmm @ different ways of showing affection but this one is extremely extreme . Maybe that's her own way of showing affection

DrWellbeing:
Is the woman sex phobia or the guy has done some wrongs in the past that the woman is taking her pound of flesh on him. There are some questions that man need to ask himself as regarding his relationship with the wife and he alone is in the best position to answer.

well said

ZarZar:
Time to go all master & 50 shades of nasty on her

seconded

SafeDavid:
Only seen such in movies, but wouldn't mind been bitten.

ha SafeDavid you don't mind, I guess you don't want to be safe after all.

A man who apparently works for a Bank in Lagos has cried out to relationship blogger, Joro on the series of ‘assaults’ he goes through from his wife while making love to her.

He wrote as seen below...

Please advice him

Thanks for taking time to read.........

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/14/my-wife-slaps-and-punches-me-during-sex-sometimes-she-bites-man-cries-out/

PapiSmith:
Breaking up over the phone is a sure sign you are immature and also a coward.

What happened to having conversations like adults?

but you know it can be difficult sometimes because the other person may not want to let go

QueenSuccubus:



it works for me... i hate the drama and all tat shii...



BLOCKED & DELETE

I feel you jare...drama that can make you want to change your mind

Michellla:
the phone breakup is the best way to avoid something messy.

yeah really esp if its an abusive relationship or when you dont want to see the other person's reaction

Rtopzy:
The person might be at a place not convenient for such a news over the phone. I think its better done face to face, it shows maturity and respect.

Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Seun come and share ur idea.

yes thats true but if the person is not in a convienent place, its better you pretend and probably call back. I think its really better face to face and it shows maturity like you said. But wat if its an abusive relationship?

Feeling a little wary about how to break up with your partner? I know some people break up over the phone. They think that will be better because there wnt be emotions but I think that wont be fair enough esp if you have been dating for a long time or if its a serious relationship. But if its an abusive, distant or young relationship, this may be the best choice. Really its your conscience. Lets read some people’s opinion about breaking up over the phone

Person A: Do it to my face straight up

Person B: I have never liked the phone breakup, but sometimes its just the best way to avoid something messy

Person C: it would be shitty. If a girl did that to me, I’d think it was really rude

Person D: in person. A phone call is like a chore

No matter what your reasons, and how unjust the other person might think your reasons for breaking up are, you are still entitled to end a relationship you dont want to be part of anymore. But should it be done over the phone?

Thanks for taking time to read.............

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/13/should-breakup-be-done-over-the-phone/

QueenSuccubus:


Car and house ooo...and not to mention a ring with a rock that so big as tumor

lol..I second that...

Amarabae:
Nice.
Another thing is don't allow a misunderstanding between both of you kill the affection.
One of you should Swallow the pride and apologise.

Thanks! Thats so right dear.

We get so comfortable and relaxed in our marriages that we dont get to see the signs when things start to fall apart. We get awaken by the delivery of divorce papers. We need to pay attention to the health of our marital relationship and pick up any symptom before we are caught unawares. Here are eight signs outlined to check if your marriage is in trouble:

You no longer play or talk to your spouse: You share the same house and room and yet you have nothing to say to your spouse.you dont even have fun or do interesting things together again. Yes some older couples can be silent because they are used to each other and are comfortable in their silence. But when this silence bring about a loveless atmosphere, then something is wrong.

constant criticism from your spouse: if you partner is always picking on you and you can no longer do right in his/her eyes. Maybe it’s time to ask if there is any issue you guys should address

You are the last person to know: if your partner stop sharing his/her personal information with you and you only get information from second or third-hand sources, like your partner’s co-worker or neighbours of your partner’s parental home, then something is wrong.

Not taking care of physical appearances : New couples take care of their appearance but as the comfort level increases in a marriage, they become more relaxed about the need to look “ perfect ” for their partner. However, if there is a sudden sharp decline in matters of appearance, it could be because your partner no longer cares whether or not you find them desirable. This means your partner is not happy.

Using distractions to avoid real issues: if your partner is using distractions to avoid dealing with relationship issues like constantly watching of television, playing music,or constant reading of newspaper it means your marriage may be in trouble.
You both need to cut out the distractions and focus on your relationship.

You keep arguing about the same issues : if you are always arguing about issues and can’t resolve issues on your own, then its good you engage the help of a marriage counsellor.

A lack of trust: If you find yourself constantly doubting your partner’s whereabouts, or if your spouse suspects you of infidelity, clearly something is deeply wrong in your marriage.

There is no longer any intimacy in your marriage: if you find that you both have stopped snuggling up to each other, you no longer give your spouse a passionate kiss, or you no longer desire your partner for sex, it is because a growing physical distance between spouses is intrinsically related to a widening emotional gap.

Take heed of the warning signs and if you do find them in your marriage, do not waste any more time get down to resolving all pertinent issues.

Thanks for taking time to read.

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/12/8-signs-that-your-marriage-is-in-trouble/

QueenSuccubus:
im single too

hehehehehehehehe u want to collect car

curiositymaster:
Arabinrin fimisile joor. Otin yomi lenu lati sunday

lol

Can you just imagine? Confused police force..

Emodeee:
oyin, let me see your pretty face na.

I see you @ Emodee...

rednuth:
hehehe.. seriously I think propsoing with a ring in nigeria has ending earlier.. now u must propose with car or something more valuable bt nt only ring o, ladies nowadays I fear dem thats y I dey single since . dey will keep disturbin u ehn

welcome rednuth, u can propose with a car o if you have the money but it seems dat ring has significance sha o. Somehow its more romantic with a ring. Dont u think so?

SmellingAnus:
well, like the saying goes.. "different strokes for different folks" but on my part I will prefer to propose with a ring because I feel it adds more spice to the whole drama and girls love drama and attention... Lol... I trust my Nigerian brothers... More than 50% of us will not even propose... Infact in many cases, it's the girl that will be asking the guy, when are you coming to see my parents Lol

welcome SmellingAnus....awhhhh thats so sweet. Of course we ladies love the drama and attention and funny enough there are some ladies that dont like it sha. very few though. So where have you been?

CuteJude:
u didn't ask abi?

lol. You really look nice.

Where is SmellingAnus and rednuth?

CuteJude:
check now

lol! I see you cutejude. Nice pic o so because of me u put ur pic...

curiositymaster:
So you want to see sombody else's curve abi. Let me see your own first.

lol...keep the curves

CuteJude:
you want to see me?

Oya ask me nicely

lol..oya show your face u know u r cute

CuteJude:
what did i do na?

Well na view mode i dey now , continue

https://s14.postimg.org/au9d06gk1/judeviewing.gif

why are you always showing your back? Even on ur dp, ur face is still hidden..na wa for u I thot u r cute na

dtruth50:
4 our side in north, i do not see anything like kneelin down n propose ooo. if u wnt to marry d girl, u discourse wit her so dt she can give u go ahead to go her parent's place. if dey agree, u ar lucky, if dey didn't, u ar gudluck. SHIKENA
while d christians in our side, i don't see dem proposin n kneelin down, al i see with dem especially IGBOs, dey wil just bring one girl, start knackin her, if she give birth she is lucky dey wil marry her bt if she didn't den gudluck to her. SHIKENA
So dis kneelin down n proposin wit ring, i hv been seein it only in a movie n social network

wow! The one on social media will actually happen first before they upload..

CuteJude:
u want to hear what we will say then u will pick who talk well i understand na

cutejude na you sabi o...I only asked a question. M not picking anyone. I will soon deal with you now.

CuteJude:
most dey do am with sperm

Number 1 most women knw that their guy will propose because dem go done discuss his intention , that surprise na nolloywood

Number 2 who proposed epp , he can propose and not marry u , making her happy na the koko

Number 3 if u dey find husband just talk am , this ur coded interview for men

Number 4 all i keep telling my woman is

My body and money na u own ooooo my baby
12million for the account e ooooo
Na enjoyment i wan use kill u

But i concur that ring is beta than belle marriage
https://s17.postimg.org/8ad2u7933/judeagrees.gif

lol.....@CuteJude which coded interview o? Smh

Most ladies like the idea of a guy proposing to them as there is this sweet on top of the world feeling you experience. Some ladies cry, scream, jump at the sight of a ring and you see them flaunting the ring ‘I am engaged’ . Its actually good as I like it too but I don’t think all guys like to and can propose sha o.

My sis’ s husband did not propose o. Infact when they met, they knew they were going to get married and they dated for a while and after they did introduction and started planning for their wedding. I think if he proposes with a ring, that is an icing on the cake like jara but if he doesnt, its still fine so far you both know you are getting married.

So I want to ask… Does it mean a guy loves his girlfriend if he proposes and doesnt love her if he doesn’t? Must guys propose with a ring?

Thanks for taking time to read.

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/11/must-guys-propose-to-ladies-with-a-ring/

Bumbae1:

lol! Bumbae 1 I see you dear. Curiositymaster said something about you and curve but m not seeing it.

placeofallure:
The guy was married but estranged. He also had a baby. He told me everything. I thought they'd both moved on. The guy had but not the woman. I think she was still hoping they'd be back together sometime soon. She was monitoring the guy and when she sensed he was fast slipping away, she made her move. I dunno how she got my number but she called me and told me the man I now follow around is married and she is the wife, bla,bla,bla. In fairness to her, she wasn't exactly rude. And really, we'd gotten close, he took me to where his properties were, his businesses, he was very open. As expected, I told him of the call and he was mad. He confronted her and stopped all privileges for both mother and child and insisted she call me to apologise.

That was the turning point for me. She did call back and apologised profusely that the first call she made to me had deprived her of access to her baby and all. For me that was humbling, how can my "horseband" make me call and apologise to another woman? Though I wasn't the reason for their separation, (They'd been separated before we met)I decided I don't wanna be part of this woman's misery. Even if he won't go back to her, I don't wanna be involved in their mess so I just cut off all ties and I have siiiiiiince moved on.

wow! Hmmm I am clapping for you already dear..you have a very large heart. Good you took that step. Even thou we don't encourage separation or divorce except in rare cases according to the holy book, they still need to put a closure so they can move on. Good to know you have moved on.