₦airaland Forum

dyadeleye:
She gat to bring that her lesbian lover, na to shag two of them ....2some is awesome!!

as if you have tried it before..

SmellingAnus:
Sure I can do it with my wife if we both feel we need it there...
Anyway a cousin of mine did it with the nurse even when he had just survived a car accident and was on admission

my friend I see you. Longest time

Honest Answers please...

Bayo’s wife was ill and receiving treatment at a private hospital. He was allowed to sleep in his wife’s private room at night for the three days that she was there.

On the second night, he slept beside her on the bed and they got in that mood. They started with romance and their hands pressed the bell by mistake. He quickly got up and wore his trouser while he pretended to be asleep on the chair. A nurse came in and asked if she needed any assistance, she said No. After she left, they had sex on her hospital bed with the drip needle still on her hand. I hear someone say quite cool but I think it is spontaneous and adventurous. They were not caught. what if they were caught? Maybe they would have discharged the woman to go home. Lol…Nah don’t think so. That is one weird place to have sex. Some couples don’t actually mind trying new things out. It’s one way to spice up your marriage instead of the normal bedroom thingy but sex in the hospital is weird ooo. What do you guys think? Is it something you think you can try?

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/05/14/sex-in-the-hospital/

Lionessza:
Had so many dates can't even remember my first

really? How can you forget your first date?

forreelinc:
yea I gat one
Toasted one gal on my street
And she totally looked like
She wasn't into me but my
Frnds cheered me on and said she was
Only playing hard to get so one day I
Invited her to see shrek 2 with me at silverbird cinemas(back den e still new so e still dey shack people head)
I really bought two tickets with money I no get
Film start I still dey wait for my date dey form gentleman then I was now forced to call and ask where she was and she said she forgot about our date that she is at choir practice.
so I went into the theatre and had a really awful time

The end

she spoilt the date... how did she forget sef?

Yaay! I love dates..who doesn’t anyway. Lol! I can still remember mine was a movie date with popcorn and bottle of Fanta after which we took many pictures together ooo and there after went for shopping. In my mind “is photography his second job?” lol but I had a really nice time. Simple right? What’s yours?

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/05/09/what-was-your-first-date-experience-like/

I was gisting with my friend and he said he has dated ladies far older than him. He said he likes dating older women because they are more caring, mature and calm. He also said they tend to give quality advice, think more and act responsibly.

Thinking about that, I will say age is just a number. You can’t reallly choose who you want to fall in love with. You find yourself loving someone without planning it and you later get to know you are younger than her. Will you because of that say you should put an end to it. A big No…To me I think it’s even more romantic. Yeah…I dont see any big deal dating a younger guy or an older lady.

So what do you think about dating a lady older than you or a guy younger than you?

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/05/08/dating-a-lady-who-is-older-than-you/

TrapQueen77:
Kissing?

It is not in my dictionary..i dont understand the essence of torrid kissing /french kissing . Smh...not for me..Kissing someone is a big turn off..

lol...like seriously

From research, men are not selective in terms of kissing while women are very choosy. While a man can have sex with a woman without kissing her beforehand as well as have sex with a woman who is not a good kisser, Most women will never have sex without kissing first.

Also hormone level changes after kissing. Cortisol(stress) levels decrease in men and women after kissing which makess a couple get relaxed and it is the reason why most couples have sex after kissing…Hmmmm No wonder a man that plans to have sex with his partner will start with a kiss.

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/05/07/why-do-we-kiss/

Hmmmmmmmm this is really serious in this part of the world. As in you clock 30 and you don’t have a serious guy you are dating, you start hearing comments like “how far?”, “what is really happening?”, “didn’t you have a boyfriend when you were in school?” God help you, your younger sister or a friend that is younger than you is getting married you will hear comments like “God will do your own oo”, “a pe ko to jeun ko ni je ibaje”  meaning “a patient dog eats the fattest bone”.

That makes me to wonder if marriage is the greatest achievement on earth. I understand that they want to see their grandchildren because they are getting old but a lady will not go to the street to start begging a guy for marriage.

I watched a Nigerian movie where a girl had to get a guy to disguise as her boyfriend because her parents were practically on her neck to get married. Lol! Guess what they fell in love and dated which led to marriage. Yayyyyyyyy! That was what she wanted anyway. My question is, Is it fair for parents to put pressure on their daughters to get married? Why do parents put pressure on their daughters and not their sons?

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/05/05/pressure-to-marry-is-real/

I heard about this story in which a woman, a 27-year old US medical student named Elizabeth Raine planned to sell off her virginity to the highest bidder. Also weeks back, a Nigerian lady decided to sell her virginity for N600,000 and extra N200,000 for a second round.

So what do we make of this mess? I think it’s a very personal decision about what virginity means and the value of place upon it. There are men and women who are waiting for love before having sex. And, of course, there are some religious people whose decision is to keep their virginity till when they are married yet there aren’t as many as you think, since about 95% of people have had premarital sex.

It may be weird that a lady doesn’t want to lose her virginity to that special someone she will forever cherish but to someone who pays in exchange for it. Really it’s her decision yeah and no one cares to know how you lose it.

Anyway, what are your thoughts about the value of virginity? Should women value it so much? Should men value it in women? Do you find placing price over virginity weird?

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/05/03/is-selling-a-womans-virginity-going-too-far/

A guy said "I was out with some friends at a bar once, and this older lady in her like late 40's starts hitting on me, I try to politely decline her advances several times before snapping and saying, "Look you're the same age as my mother, I'm not interested." she responds with, "You can call me mama." not sure if the vomit was because I drank too much or just general disgust".

Over to you Nairaland guys...what's yours?

Wow! You guys are cute together.

sexymoma:
av come to discover most of dem finds and get a good husband as in
rich and caring guy... "why" cos dey most likely know guys weak point
sexually and emotionally... and forget, they know how to cook!! why cos they aren't those rich and spoilt kids
condition made dem like that...

that's so true dear why the good ones are still looking for husbands..not like I am in support of what they do but life isn't just fair

I dated a girl for two years and it was really awesome but couldn’t bring myself to get the ring, get married and start a family even though that was what she wanted. It was so obvious because whenever I surprised her with dinner, movie date or gift, it seemed that she was disappointed that it wasn’t a ring and a proposal. We talked about it several times but there was no way forward.

Then I met a girl through friends that I really seemed to click with. She, too, was in a relationship and neither of us wanted to cheat on our gf/bf because we cared so much about them. The need not to cheat didn’t last long as we found ourselves alone few days later, the first wrong move and then one of us leaned in for a kiss and it happened. We had sex and it was amazing. It felt like a release on both our parts. We agreed that it wouldn’t happen again unless we both felt that it was time to end what we had.

We kept our promise, but both ended our relationships and two weeks later got together and a year later we are still together. Lately however, in fact for the last few months, I have been thinking a lot about my ex. I really miss her and wish to go back to her.

I feel guilty that I cheated and that I’m still with that person. Am I with that person because I indeed love her, or with her because I feel guilty and responsible for her relationship ending as well and have a need to be in it. How do I distinguish which it is? Please I need advice on what to do?

Thanks for the help.

Anonymous

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/05/01/im-in-a-relationship-with-the-lady-i-cheated-with-and-i-want-to-go-back-to-my-ex/

You want to find out if a man is serious about you? Wait to have sex with him. It may not be easy especially if you are Hot as well. If you don’t because you are a liberated lady, don’t be surprised if a decent percentage of those men never call again. sex doesn’t keep a man who doesn’t want to be kept. Guys tend to appreciate ladies that don’t give in easily.

I asked a question some time ago about the quickest you have gone from meeting someone to having sex and a guy said he started chatting with a lady around 5pm and by 7pm they already had sex. Guess what he said it was like a movie to him because they never met before so he deleted her number. I am not judging or shaming any lady but if you know you want a boyfriend/husband material, make him wait till he commit himself unless you want to do it for fun.

It’s not really about the number of dates or months, its about assessing his intention: Does this guy really like you enough to commit or does he just want to have sex with you? This will repel men who dont want to commit and keep women from having their hearts broken by pump and dump guys.

Thanks for taking time to read…

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/30/why-ladies-should-make-men-wait-for-sex/

SmellingAnus:
Sweetheart I'm good.... You?

I am fine

Victornezzar:
beauty
character
and also if she's friendly
with a nice smile
d rest some oda guys mentioned above don't move me anymore

lol...moving u to where

SmellingAnus:
I just love when a girl is very open to me... I am fascinated by truth... Truth is the sexist thing on earth to me... Especially weird Truth ...

smellinganus!

Hmmm mine is height maybe because I am not that tall…lol and I like guys that are friendly etc.

What’s yours?

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/29/what-attracts-you-to-the-opposite-sex/

kimbra:
Op wants to hug for one hour. Who does that?...when hugging usually last for minutes and on to the next thing.

lol...you guys are taking it out on me...Dats what I will do o

Probably hugging yeah..what’s yours?

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/28/lets-say-you-have-one-hour-left-to-spend-with-your-partner-how-will-you-spend-it/

Linqsz:
Please don't be silly; you don't always need a doctor to confirm that someone is dead.. Use common sense na

my dear u always need a doctor. A family friend's mum came from US and died in Nigeria in the hospital..they already concluded she was died but that family friend who is a nurse in the US did cpr on she woke up even after she stopped breathing..they would have taken her to the mortuary just like that..it can happen to anyone. Everyone needs to be educated on how to administer cpr..

SBG04:
The police took her to the mortuary? Who confirmed that she was dead? Was there a doctor on ground? Could it be that she fainted? Or fell into a coma? The entire health care apparatus in Nigeria is dead. The ideal would have been to call an emergency number and have paramedics take care of her and if indeed she died, have the coroner certify her dead and take her to the mortuary. I really doubt if that woman died on the spot. She probably just fainted from Exhaustion or at worst, went into a coma or suffering from Low BP. Someone just falls down and everybody scampers and concluded that she died. Pathetic.

exactly my thought..so many people die in mortuary. Why can't they call emergency, try to resuscitate her..because she fell they concluded she died. That is a wrong assumption..the health system is bad. May we not fall into their hands in Jesus name..RIP to her.

SmellingAnus:
exactly my thoughts dear

SmellingAnus how's u?

Nesso:
I jst checked ur dp and I agree him.

you are not reading it well..its just a story told by a blogger..it didn't happen to me but to Ayomide...

TreasuredLeidy:
it's simple, compare him with either Majid Michael, John Dumelo, Van Vicker or Ramsey Noah and say with much seriousness that u will choose any of them over him 200million times. im eye go clear.

wat a nonsense boyfriend, probably he can cheat on u with much more beautiful girls

exactly. Since he is not contented with her after all he was the one that chased her..let him go and date Beyonce

ZarZar:
The guy is so rude. Does he look like Tyson Beckford? Talk about someone with champagne taste on a beer budget.

lol

I am dating a wonderful guy and our relationship is getting serious but there’s something that is bothering me. He doesn’t think I am hot!

I have got a good body frame, lovely skin texture, long black hair, beautiful eyes, hot legs. Men turn heads when I walk down the street. Some want to have my number. That is how hot I am. Now I know that every guy can not see me as the most beautiful woman because they say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder right, but it shouldn’t be from my boyfriend. He said I am beautiful and good looking but that I can’t compare myself to celebrities like beyonce. Of course, I felt hurt and I responded by saying “look who is talking” and the conversation went cold.

How can he even compare me to Beyonce. I expected a statement like she cant even compare, you are more beautiful than her. What happens if I gain weight with age or after child bearing? Every lady wants to be seen as the most beautiful woman in her man’s eyes. I am really hurt. Do you think I am being insecure? Do you think he is being honest or just not mature for comparing me to a celebrity? – Ayomide.

Pls advice..

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/27/help-my-boyfriend-doesnt-think-i-am-hot/

SmellingAnus:
hahahah I am suspecting you like a sexually crazy guy because you are also sexually crazy

bad shild..me and you are not together o

SafeDavid:
Chai!
I've used that location before ...

That day was actually the quickest for me after about an hour of meeting the chick.

ha safedavid so u finished from oau too..see confession..how many locations have u used before? Motion ground, under oduduwa hall, angola park