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@ breaker

u better ask God 2 4give u.

Who are u 2 judge? & why are u talking like a prematured baby?

[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=269016.msg3892461#msg3892461 date=1242771792]according to ppl u can't be good at counselling if u didn't go through it urself.
I've never had children but I have given sound advice to women with children on what to do about situations involving their children.
There are unmarried therapists and they do marriage couselling, some of them have been divorced and yet people flock to them for counseling.

The guys said if u don't have it or if u haven't been in that situation u can't counsel a person. Well mothers don't have manliness and they can never be a father, yet they counsel their sons. or are we going to say women can't counsel their sons again?

What makes Rev. Fathers good counsellors?
Because they know what entails a marriage. You don't have to be married to know what it takes to make a marriage work. Also because they are not married it actually puts them in a better position to give counsel. Those who are married tend to bring in their own relationships and experiences into their counsels and quite frankly their relationship has absolutely nothing to do with the couple they're counselling. Rev. Fathers can step back and look at the situation with a fresh mind and with no bias.

I'm going to get a video to post for u by a bishop on marriage. my comp is acting up right now so will do later.


so why can't rev.fathers counsel with or without marriage? u don't have to have it or go through it to know how to help others in it u.[/quote]i totaly agree with.

He made me believe he loves & cares so much about me.

He made me believe I have gotten so much into him.

He made me fall deeply in love with him.

Now, he is getting married to someone.

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@ Fhemmmy

He walked away because he has always been unserious

Mum always wanted him back; but never came back.

He never made attempt; not even once.

He abandoned us since when i was barely 2; now i'm 25.

Myself & my sister stopped bearing his name; bearing my mom's dad's name.

Now my elder sister is getting married.

Who will give her hand out on her wedding day?

Is it our dad who abandoned us for more than 20 yrs?

or our granddad who has always played the role of dad?

Who will give her out?

pls kindly send the manual to this e-mail as well bestjacy@yahoo.com

thanks

hey girl, i knw what u are going 2ru, but what u & this man feel 4 each other is called "attachment".
now, let me tell u what 2 do but it will work if only u are ready 2 b free from this guilt (sin).
1. make up ur mind 2 seeing.
2. travel far from him.
3. always be in the company of good friends or ur family &
4. always read motivational books.

believe me it will work 4 u, but before u do all these make sure u pray to God seriously for the grace & i knw
He will give u.

goodluck.

@ spyker
yea! this might not be the best way to present it, but this actually happened 2 a daughter of an old neighbour.

come 2 think of it, don't u think it is only a dumb person that will still xpect someone on the run 2 still use the number he's always been using?

It is about a girl who was decieved by a man some where in the middle belt in Nigeria.

This girl has been dating this guy for more than 2 yrs. He was always lavishing her with money & gifts
she probably must have forgotten to ask a question that any other girl would want to know before getting serious with any guy (if he is single).

She has been decieved by this man for more than 24 months.

Now she is 8months pregnant only to discover that this man has a family somewhere & the worst part of it is that he has now disappeared & is no where to be found.

Pls what advice can you give to this 19 yr old girl?

Most women would not share from the same cup, yet they will share a person's body,

Think about it ladies. If he cheats on the main woman in his life,

what makes you think he won't cheat n0. 2 & 3

Sometimes we are being used.

So why have a relationship that will end up in heartbreak?

If he is not ready or you think he is using you,

get him to understand that,

if he does'nt seem to understand,

break-up with him get on to another;

it might turn out to become faithful.

When he comes back, make sure you have it your own way.

get on,  but be careful.

hey man!
if u realy luv her as u said, take her to a powerful man of God for another deliverance and then learn to grow in the Lord.

but if she denies & refuses to go, 4get her.

Posa! u talk as if u know this lady or rather, the man (husband).

Lostgirl, please do the right thing. Make sure u divorce him b4 getting involve in another marriage;  in other not to complicate issues. Good luck 2 u.

Posa! u talk as if u know this lady or rather, the man (husband).

Lostgirl, please do the right thing. Make sure u divorce him b4 getting involve in another marriage; in other not to complicate issues. Good luck 2 u.

Yea! it is possible. Remember, no condition is permanent. A guy is poor today does not mean he will not be rich tomorrow. Marrying a rich guy is not it; but a guy who realy loves & cares 4 u, 4 luv conquers all.

The woman has the right to fight 4 her right, but she should try to find out what realy the problem is. There must be a reason 4 that.

KAGIA in Eggon. Eggon is the largest tribe in Nasarawa State

Eggon is a tribe in Nasarawa State, which happens to be the majority. Do we have any eggon in the house?