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Put your money in OMEGAPRO and tank me later.They are very reliable

Na today?

You are mean and heartless. You dont even think about the emotion of his wife




What type of wicked family allowed their son wait for 9years before his wife finally conceived.

The man too is something else. If your family won't help you drive away an infertile wife can't you help yourself and try your luck outside?
There's no political correctness to this because a man's only mission on Earth is to have descendants and that's why a male offspring is a man's greatest laurel.

Well, unless he is the one with the infertility problem, then it is okay to be patient otherwise this type of yeye patience is why Nigerians are famous for suffering and smiling.[/quote]

Interested pls

Some men get liver ooo sha, hmmm tonto dike

Is it new ones or used?

God bless you

If you trust yourself and you are hardworking, go into driving Korope bus

Good one

My cousin was settled with 2M and accommodation until he is fit to rent his house.

Bobbiet:
I guess it's not about the pay (100k up north is equivalent to 200k down south)

I'm sure it's very much about earning and being with family.

My suggestion is for him to bargain for 30k weekly on the car. And please insure and add tracker to car budget.

He said 50k monthly not weekly

This naira Marley again?
He was also in funke akindele's saga

What type of car?

decatalyst:
Dirty people.


You see them dressed in suits, regalia and the likes, but just go and inspect their houses...dirts!


Sanwo Olu need to really bring back KAI and ensure the various environmental agencies start doing inspections and enforce cleanliness.

You get mouth oo�

GboyegaD:
Has he consented to the idea of you just want to force him to live the life you expect of him?

This guy obviously does not even know he has a problem. We are trying to help him to become Normal if possible. He is an embarrassment to the family. Looking very haggard and unkempt. We beg him to bath, barb his hair. Always having body odour. It started since secondary school cos he refused to attend school

austine4real:
Is he ready too??


I'm asking so that ur s scarce resources won't be wasted

He is not ready but our aim is confine him in a place he will not have access to drink for a long time. We dont mind spending money cos he is just a nuisance to the family. My mum is not happy at all about his condition

Pls share info about any rehabilitation centre in south east or south south. It will be closer to us. Tanks

OcVoice:
1. House of Refuge:
Freedom Way, End of Admiralty Way, Lekki Phase 1, Lagos.
+234 808 729 0000
info@freedomfoundationng.org

2. Centre for corrections and human development:
39 Bode Thomas Street, Surulere, Lagos, Nigeria 0802 328 5610, 0803 324 4610, 0703 012 0303

3. Wellspring Rehabilitation Center:
3 Banigo Close, Off Akinrimisi Street, Isheri-Olowora, Lagos Nigeria 08094146799, 0907 0787909, 0807 079 012101 342 5355

4. Quit Addiction:
28 Ire-Akari Estate Road,, Isolo, Lagos, Nigeria0706 323 2008

Thanks so much I really appreciate

OcVoice:
His joblessness and single life at his age could be the cause of the frustration that led to his drunkenness.

He won't be drunk 24/7, there will be time to sleep and he feels normal again immediately he wakes up. Meet him at that point, sit him down and have a heart to heart discussion with him.
If there's a way you can provide a job for him, pls do. Link him also to a girl in the village for marriage. His case is not totally useless, except it's spiritual....and even at that, there's no situation God can't change.

I have a cousin who is a graduate and almost 40. Since he lost his job some years back and he tried searching for another and couldn't find, he took to drinking and smoking. He's not married yet. He takes care of himself though.....like bathing, dressing well, and he speaks very good English too. He doesn't get drunk.

Most times, it's a person's situation that pushes the person into some dangerous lifestyle. Anytime I try to talk to him about the lifestyle, he tells me he wants death to take him....he's tired of the world.


So If you still insist on a rehab, we have rehabilitation centers in Lagos, I don't know of your state. Could give you their info if you want.

pls give me their info

SmileDance:
you cannot chain him against his wish, he has a right to drink, he has a right to be jobless, he has a right not to get married. You cannot deny him his rights as a human being because you are trying to help, in as much as I can imagine how painful it is to see your loved one in a situation like that, you still have to understand that you cannot force him to be responsible.

hmmmm so no hope for us? I pity my mum

SmileDance:
Since he is not ready to stop, little can be done for him cos even if he's taken to a rehabilitation center or so, it might be against his rights as a human being, drinking alcohol is not illegal in Nigeria. He can only be 'helped' to stop drinking if and only if he is ready to stop

But let's try rehabilitation centre first, that's why I'm asking if there's anyone in the east we are ready to take him there probably they can chain him for some time so that he will not drink for like one year. PLS CAN ANYONE RECOMMEND FOR ME. I Googled it and couldn't find any rehabilitation centre at Igbo land. Do you guys know any place?

Prodigee:
Take am to pastor. At 40 and jobless, na deliverance him need

We've tried this he fought the pastor and ran away. The issue is that he is not ready to change. We are just forcing him

Davash222:
kai kai drunkard or Beer drunkard?

Kaikai drunkard

OcVoice:
Does he have a job or a viable business? Is he married? Have you taken time to sit him down and have a heart to heart talk with him, to know exactly his problem?

At times, life issues makes us go into some odd lifestyle we never planned for.

At forty he has no job and is not ready to have one, He is not married and is not thinking towards that direction. His case is pathetic cos he stays for days without taking his bath and no woman will want to marry such person. Once he begs money from us he use it to drink alcohol

adoreyou:
The problem might be beyond drinking.Different factors lead one into taking to habits.I cannot state all here but i belief social support can do d magic.The best type of social support is family bonding.Buy him a drink&start a discussion from there.cheers

His case is beyond this oo. We are tired, imagine at 40 he is jobless and not ready to do anything. Just drink alcohol and beg for money from family members.

missjekyll:
Does he want to stop? that is the most important determinant. If he does, A psychiatrist can help recommend a detox centre. I m sorry about the pain your family is going through.

He is not ready to stop, so we are looking out and asking if there's any organisation that take in such people for rehabilitation we are ready to pay let him be there for some years.

Pls is there any place in the east where I can take my drunkard brother to and keep him for rehabilitation. The family is ready to pay for him to remain there for some time and stop drinking

Now everyone will know you are a thief. Shame

Pls tell your parents about it, start by telling ur mum. You will still make it. Calm down and don't think too much. Write another JAMB

Tanks