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CrimeRe: EFCC Declares Maxwell Chizi Odum wanted For Alleged Money Laundering (pix) by Omicron999: 11:32am On Dec 08, 2021
Nigerian's gave him ₦213 billion. No be juju b dat ?
TravelRe: Helicopter Carrying India's Chief Of Defence Staff, Gen Bipin Rawat Crashes by Omicron999: 11:30am On Dec 08, 2021
They all fell for the usual trap
RomanceRe: I Am Scared To Ask Him When He Wants To Get Married. Help!!! by Omicron999: 11:13am On Dec 08, 2021
Acidosis:
LMAO grin Not bad to help a Nairalander na.

Quite funny how some women reason sha. Which man on earth will choose to take a supposed wife material to an hotel in the same town/city he lives and own an apartment?? grin

In her defence, she wrote that the man is "principled" grin A principled man laughing at other men that are getting married while he keeps knacking wife materials in the choicest hotels at 32?? grin
Just tell them what they love to hear cheesy

Just like a rat, blowing cold breeze under your foot, whilst bitting chunks of skin away in the process grin
RomanceRe: I Am Scared To Ask Him When He Wants To Get Married. Help!!! by Omicron999: 11:03am On Dec 08, 2021
Acidosis:
That man is married and his wife lives abroad.
Be kiaful. Stop divulging our cats in the numerous bags grin
RomanceRe: I Am Scared To Ask Him When He Wants To Get Married. Help!!! by Omicron999: 11:02am On Dec 08, 2021
Roseey0:
Unfortunately she has asked all the questions ( intuitively) and knows all the answer.
She's just not happy that they are both on different journeys. She enjoys his friendship but wants more , unfortunately, oga is not ready
So on this journey to marriage street, she is walking alone. Oga is on a mission, chop and clean mouth grin
RomanceRe: I Am Scared To Ask Him When He Wants To Get Married. Help!!! by Omicron999: 10:01am On Dec 08, 2021
ngoziwrites:
So, I met this great guy online. After 2 weeks, we met in person and everything was perfect.

It's almost 2 months since we have been together.

He asked me out while we were together and I gladly said yes. (I have met a lot of players�). So while we were together, a discussion popped up and he said he can't discuss anything related to marriage until after 6 months. I pretended not to hear.


I don't know his financial capacity but I know he is doing okay. He controls the family business. They sell trucks, trailers and all. He is also a landlord in one of his father's houses at Festac. We stayed at a hotel. 25k per night. He paid for 2 night and I paid for one night. But during these times, we went to his house.

He said he didn't want me to come to see his place because it's the first time. And he said the house is very hot too.


Our communication is great but he doesn't look like he wants marriage soon. He has said things like marriage is hard work. He has also said in 10 years time, people will hardly be getting married.

Then one night, we were talking and he said I "see my wife as my responsibility"
I will take care of her and of cos, I am okay but I will still be very very rich, so I can't bring in any woman to suffer now" .. That's what I am sure I heard but I was scared to ask him to explain further or repeat himself.

He is actually okay, he has two cars but importantly, he has sense and he is very hard-working. But he is very principled and we have actually had several instances where he doesn't pick my calls at night. It happens often but I am starting to trust him, because sometimes I call by 5am and he picks and says he slept off. Sometimes we would be chatting on WhatsApp and after I call him 20 minutes later, he won't respond. He is not married!

So, I currently earn 450k monthly and I have been able to save something meaningful, so I can start a good business before getting married or after. I haven't stated because I don't know which one yet. I started a restaurant business when I was 23 but it failed.

If I ask him and he says 1 year, of course, I can wait. I will be 26 years next year April.

We will seeing for the 2nd time next week. I plan to ask him when he sees himself getting married but I am scared and the way he carries himself makes me reluctant to ask such.

About two weeks ago, I wanted to even surprise him with gifts. I asked for his account number and office/home address. (He picked me up the last time I traveled to see him, so I don't know the address". Well, he didn't give me these details. He said when it's time I will have them.


Two days ago, he said a friend's younger brother is getting married. He laughed and said people just dey marry. He has once asked me "You dey find husband?" jokingly-

I would like to settle before 27. Is it bad that I am thinking this way? If he says he is looking to get married in 2-3 years, i think it's a bit far. 2023 is still fine. But the problem is he doesn't really sound like marriage is on his mind. He will be 32 next year April too.

We vibe a lot. But he says I love you sparingly. Sometimes I say it and he doesn't respond, he will say tomorrow I will tell u or no, I told u yesterday.

But we are really really cool. I like him a lot and he likes me but I think I like him more. He gives me attention, I don't have to ask.

If I was 23, I won't have a problem waiting 3-4 years. But since I am ready mentally, financially, I am looking for someone who wants it within 6 months to 1 year. I can still try to do 2 years if I get someone great.
You are embarking on a journey, at what point do you ask the conductor, what direction he is headed?

- At the start of the journey
- During the journey
- At the end of the journey

Your answer, answer's your question
PoliticsRe: Buhari: How Brain Drain Affects Provision Of Quality Healthcare In Africa by Omicron999: 6:26am On Dec 08, 2021
buhari should concentrate on Nigeria...... Africa is too large for him
CrimeRe: White Lady Cries After Being Scammed By A Fraudster. Photos, Videos. by Omicron999: 11:55am On Dec 07, 2021
She requires safeguarding. Sounds like she got LD
CelebritiesRe: Toke Makinwa Is Showing COVID-19 Symptoms (Pix) by Omicron999: 10:29am On Dec 07, 2021
Falz should offer her some therapy
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Omicron999: 9:54am On Dec 07, 2021
TheGuyFromHR:
Good spot, mate.
Airlines don't refund these days, its vouchers only, take it or leave it.
But a legislation exists that you cannot be forced to collect a voucher. Reject the voucher and a bank alert would ring, within a few weeks.

UK (EU) Reg No 261/2004.
RomanceRe: Should I Move On? by Omicron999: 9:52am On Dec 07, 2021
SkyFlyGang:
Shebi I tell you bros go buy one large pizza extra cheese and pepperoni and one large coke sit down enjoy ur life
No cookies, buffalo wings and ginger bread cheesy
Christianity EtcRe: Chris Oyakhilome Celebrates His 58th Birthday Today by Omicron999: 9:04am On Dec 07, 2021
Nigerian god of men, taught them
RomanceRe: Pre-wedding Pictures Of A Nairalander by Omicron999: 6:44am On Dec 07, 2021
SmellySperm:
Congrats. Fine couples.

While my dm is filled with "send me transport na" kind of girls
How are you sure, she never asked for transport?
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Omicron999: 2:50am On Dec 06, 2021
STENON:
Oh!! That is really sad to hear. I am so sorry about the loss of your Mum. May her gentle soul continue to rest in Peace. We are hopefully the ban won't be long as far as Naija Government don't inflate the Covid statistics ♥️
Or reciprocate covid flight ban restrictions

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