₦airaland Forum

@Poster - abeg no come milk our sympathy for here jo,  The tory no too dey credible. Ahn Ahn! - All this for just yester-night ?

no jo! - i no chop

kosovo:
how many of those peaceful protest have yielded any fruits? Pls lets stop deceiving ourselves and be more pragmatic.

So what do you suggest ?

kosovo:
i concur,  but my problem with Nigerians is that, they keep complaining, while they are not ready to cause a change.

Dude you're talking out of both sides of your mouth o. You say nigerians are not ready to cause change but when they come out and protest peacefully, you complain as well. Personally, I don't believe there is anything wrong with people coming out to march on the streets to signify their opposite. The idea is that the protest would gain momentum and more people would join until the shouts of the people can be heard by the charlatans and oppresors.

Surely, you're not advocating violence are you ?

mylove4him:
My dear u are not overreacting. I believe your woman is seeing some man. When a woman is cheating, one, your presence will begin to irritate her, two, love making won't be appealling anymore and three she would always want to be on her own thereby giving excuses why she can't see you. All the traits your woman is showing means that she has seen a man that has swept her off her feet. It is painful though but give her time, make friends with some other girls, call them and let them call u back. Discuss freely with them and do it even when she is around. If she genuinely cares she will feel threaten but if her mind is made up, she go bone your side. Don't try to pressurize her to stay, like one poster wrote and I quote "when a woman mind is made up u cant beg her to stay" it is true. When I left my overbearing and possessive ex he cried, begged, cajoled but my mind was made up. Women are weak in body but not emotions. Face your life and move on. When the same ex was sleeping with his neighbour n taking me to be a fool. You know the consequences I had a GP lower than 2.0 in 400L but thank God I picked up the pieces of my life and made good grades in my final yr plus plus what I had in previous years. Emotional turbulence is not good, it affects your output at work and with every other person. So my guy run and don't look back.

Oro! Every single word written is true. Co-sign!!

Emperoh:

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Dude, do u knw the pain one goes after having done everything to keep your woman and then she slips?

The Pain na almost die! - loss of apetite  , sleep deprivation, weight loss, all round depression - amongst other things. Save yourself my broda

1. (Most) girls dont like nice guys.
2. Some other chap is waxing your woman - or at best, confusing her
3. Sit down and talk to her
4. Make sure you DONT beg - She is not doing you a favour by being with you oo. NEVER NEVER NEVER beg her to choose you over him. If after 3 years with you, some new joker can confuse her then thats not a good sign. Pleasseeeeee, Do NOT Beg, Preserve whatever self-esteem you have left.
5. Give her a reasonable time to make up her mind.
6. If you don't see sings of improvement or she is unable to rid herself of the other chaps, then please pull the trigger.
7. If you do not pull the trigger - she will greenade your arse - and trust me, that would hurt 100 times more.
8. Pray and hope for the best :-)

May the forces be with you!