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What about those that married early and had their children 10-15years later or are divorced like so many of them are now, then compare it to those that married late and had there kids a year or 2years later and are happy, which would you prefer?

Some got married early and are ok, while some are not, secondly some got married late and are ok while some are not enjoying their marriage

I think getting married early or late is not the determinant factor to joy or peace in a marriage, go into marriage when you know you are physically , emotionally, and spiritually fit as well as mature enough because marriage is not all that easy to venture into, it is not mearn't for children , You need God before you go into marriage whether early or late.

So effects of early marriage can neither bring a positive or negative impact in our lives, it is just a choice.

Anyone God gives me first is ok, either a boy or girl, but i would love a boy first so that he can take good care of the girls and keep the men hunters away from them.

Semovita is definitely more nutritious but i hate it with a passion

Don't let it be your business to advise her neither should you report her to him because at the end of the day the guy will either find out himself which will eventually happen, or the girl will set you up, and how are you so sure the fault is not from the guy himself, maybe he is not satisfying her enough or he knows about what she is doing and doesn't mind.

Believe me the whole blame will be upon you when the whole picture is open.

A guy once cried in front of me while telling me about his ex girlfriend he was missing badlyand i got completely lost and almost fainted because of the tears as they were dropping profusely  

donsilas:
I find some responses to come from corrupt minds and uninformed minds.

There are things ladies look out for in Men. The look out for Men who Have a future, who are always thinking and striving to secure a bright future-even if they aint very comfortable now. Men who Love God and live Pure and righteous lives. Men who are responsible and not wayward, Men who spend their time developing themselves and not spending it in bars talking nonsense. Men who are truthfull and can be counted upon(INTERGRITY).

What i mentioned above can attract ladies to you. I mean VIRTEOUS WOMEN who the Bible says are more valuable than Rubies. Keep been yourself and try to develop a godly character.

I believe no guy wants 'thrash' as a wife just because she is 'beautiful'. 'thrash' follow 'money'. VIRTEOUS, GODLY ladies go for Men with godly, disciplined character who LOVE GOD.

God Bless All NAIRALANDERS!

You are very right!

Blessedj:
You are right but 90% of nigerian girls fall in lust because of money and they call it love.

@blessedj
You are very wrong, they are not up to that percentage at all, there are lots of real women in Nigeria and they love for real and not for money, they are rare and men don't get to meet them because those men see only what they want to see but do not search there hearts very well.

@nethacker

Amen and thanks for the prayer

Y not,

I am involved with a guy i'm 3 years older than presently, i don't know if it will lead to marriage but if it does then so be it,  i respect him a lot and he respects me too as a woman, the age thing is not something we even remember talkless of discuss about, he cares about my feelings a lot and takes very good care of me and i do care about him too, so i think dating a younger guy is all about understanding , maturity  and respect from both couples, luckily for me i look a lot younger than my age.

@biina

we don't have to feel the same way about our mothers living with us or are you part of my family

What's your stress

Piss off!!!

it's between 50-60k per month

Lai Lai not even my own Mother

@poster

Although you did it without any strings attached , it only shows your true inner character even if you don't know yourself very well, you have no respect for your boyfriend and sister-in-law and the family are scrared of the worst happening when you join them.

There is nothing you can do in this situation so don't blame your boyfriend or his family but yourself, am sure you will do worst than they have if you where in their shoes

you have to be very wise in creating a distance between your son and the twins, you are a mother and mothers should always be ready to protect their children in any situation. whichever way you do it, the twins parent will suspect and might feel bad , but you just have to do it nevertheless to protect your son's future.

Take Pounded yam with Ogbono stew and drink 4 glasses of water for quick digestion

Semovita with Efo riro as well as Eko with Efo riro

@poster

I agree with you, tell em

chikito1:
Its obvious that i do not know who they all are. Will run for dare life.

I will definitely do the same without thinking twice about it

@poster,
if you will help him, please do it ONLY for God and forget about it, the guy is an asshole

I miss my Daddy, he works in Abuja and i might be seeing him between 10th-12th of April for his B-day on the 12th. I sent him a happy new month message today and he replied as thus: Thanks my 1st daughter and Mother, i enjoyed your text, and wish you well. I miss him so much.

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There is nothing like true love between a man and a woman but endurance, the only true and everlasting love you will ever find is in GOD Almighty.

Sorry, maybe he has sorted things out with his girl friend, don't worry another one will come

@poster

Do what pleases you, a guy will always do what he pleases,if you sleep with him,he might and might not leave you and if you dont sleep with him, he might still leave you or might not.

so think about it very well because 98% of the guys you meet will do the same and they will leave or stay,moreover whether you sleep with a guy or not before you marry him will not determine the happiness of your marriage or how long the marriage will last, neither will it make your husband respect you more or less, go and seek advise from married men and women.

"whomever the guy is" his heart is not a lottery but girls have turned men's heart into lottery.

Be natural, strong and very prayerful because there are definitely other girls that will be trying all there possible best to win his heart; whomever the guy is.

I CAN DEDUCE FROM EVERYONE'S RESPONSES THAT AM NOT AT FAULT CALLING OFF D RELATIONSHIP. COS I WAS INITIALLY SCARED OF THE FACT THAT WHAT IF AM AT FAULT IN ONE WAY OR THE OTHER, CAN ANYTHING SHE DOES AFFECT ME? IN TERMS OF CURSE, VOOODOO, ETC. COS I FEAR WOMAN O (girlz sorry 2 say dat, but its true) I HAVE A LOT 2 LOOSE! COS SHE ONCE TOLD ME IN THOSE DAYS THAT SHE CAN DO ANYTHING TO HOLD ON 2 ANYTHING THAT BELONGS 2 HER[/b]
[quote][/quote]@webprince you need not go back to see her, obviously she wants you back but from her statement about "doing anything to hold on 2 anything that belongs 2 her" is a very serious statement you need to consider because once a girl makes that type of statement then she knows and means what she's saying even if she jokes about the statement later, unless you still love her and don't mind something spiritual being done on you which will make you to be trapped by her.

If you have to go and see her be careful because if she has a physical contact with anything on your body or from your body, then anything can happen depending on her purpose.

Nairalanders, thank you all for your advise, consider them done.

This will be of good help to a lot of jilted and broken-hearted girls out there.

@ournaija

Thanks for your advise, consider it done.

We seriously need your help here,can someone please respond