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1stymom:
I am so sorry this is coming late due to some minor issues I had at the hospital... My baby girl made her way to this Earth on August 29th via ELCS weighing 3.2kg. Cappo na so I take port to August at 39weeks though I tried waiting till Sept. My B.S may take time to be submitted but surely I will do the needful...

congratulations to you and your family.God bless the new bundle of joy

Blessedmum:
I pray for smooth and fast delivery for you.

thanks so much

StarryV:
B.S! B.S!
Wow, so it's finally my turn to share a birth story? God is good o.
***clears throat**, *blows air into the microphone*
I got married to the love of my life on 10th April, 2021 although my husband was doing as if he's not interested in babies but me i was abeg. So I guess i was the only one TTCing and since na only me know my fertile window i always journey down to visit hubby with the hope of getting pregnant. I started the TTC journey in June, 2021, kept trying every month until November last year when my mind don commot for the whole thing. I blamed my inability to conceive on the fact that i was living far apart from hubby because of work. So I decided to stop trying till maybe after December, 2021 when i intended resigning from my place of work to re-unite with my husband and then start trying again. But to the glory of God I did not see my Dec period o. I lost it in November but realized it in the first week of Dec. that was how my preggy journey began...
*Sips a cup of juice**
*FIRST TRIMESTER* First trimester got me wondering if I was actually pregnant because I waited earnestly for all the signs and symptoms and morning sickness. But I was disappointed, none showed. No spitting, no vomiting, no too much sleep, no headaches, no sickness, nothing at all except for excessive hunger. I wasn't the eating type before conception but I tripled my food intake and I just couldn't endure hunger for one minute. I eat before leaving the house, I carry plenty food to work and I'll eat dinner twice before sleeping. It was that terrible. I had a threatened miscarriage at 12weeks when I was almost done with the first trimester. To God be the glory my baby chose to stay with me and I decided to register for antenatal immediately.
*SECOND TRIMESTER* This was supposed to be the almighty honeymoon stage but trust me I did not see any honey in the moon as excessive hunger dealt with me continuously. It was very smooth except for the hunger and the weakness that comes with the hunger.
*THIRD TRIMESTER* This stage sincerely for me was a mixture of excitement and fear as I didn't know what to expect but I was hopeful and diligent in obeying the dos and don't of pregnancy. Like taking of routine drugs, consumption of fruits and vegetables etc... Let me also add that the third trimester stage brought some changes in my life like promotion at work place, new and better job for hubby etc. I finally travelled in the last week of July to go meet my husband and to prepare to welcome our baby.
I actually thought my baby would come at 38weeks. (Whatever gave me the assurance) but he didn't. 38wks + to 40wks+ was the hardest time to wait, I was disappointed, angry and anxious coupled with incessant calls from friends and family asking "you don born". Mtcheeew. So annoying

*Fast forward to the delivery*
40wks+5days contraction became more frequent, so I decided to call the hospital to complain. I was asked to come and be checked. I happily dressed up and was hoping I would call hubby from the hospital to bring bag but I was disappointed, they said I was having a false labor. I angrily went home. But the contractions didn't stop. It kept increasing and became more intensed. I sha prepared myself incase of emergency. Hubby got home from work that evening, I told him we might be going to the hospital that night. We already made arrangements with a driver that will carry us to the hospital. The contractions grew stronger and stronger by the minutes and by 2am we left for the hospital. As we got to the hospital, na so one nurse wey no get fear of God wan frustrate us. She no even pity my condition she was busy checking the things I brought and comparing them with the hospital list. "This tissue is small, this cotton wool is not large bla bla bla" after all the blabbing hubby gave her some money she then calm down and I was admitted. I was checked, omo I could swear that I was at least 9cm dilated but noo they said I was only 4cm and I was like "whaaaaaaaaat?"
I was given hot glucose water to be sipping and was told to stand and lean at the pillar at every contraction. I kept awake till 6am. I begged them to check me again, they did and it was just 7cm haaa nawa o. I guess I didn't have a fast labor. The contractions were back to back and didn't stop till 4pm when I started shouting that I wanted to poo lol. All of a sudden I felt my water broke. It poured out once with speed and then my mum in law who later joined me in the hospital rushed and called the nurses and I was hurried into the labor room. They checked and said I was fully dilated and I should let them know whenever it feels like I want to poo. They fixed the drip and other things needed for the project. Lol. I started shouting again "I wantu poo o" the woman asked me to go ahead and poo. I pushed, nothing came out. She said if I want to poo I should hold my ankle and look at my navel (belly button) and then poo. I obeyed. The next push my baby was out crying his lungs out. Sincerely I didn't believe it because I thought we were just starting the labor process so I was expecting to hear "the head is out, push harder etc" but surprisingly two unserious pushes brought out my baby with a little tear. The stitching of that tear happened to be the biggest pain I've ever felt all my life. Afterwards I stood up and was escorted by nurses who were singing my praise and carrying my baby. We went back to the ward, they laid baby beside me, I didn't bother looking at my baby's face. I only laid down on my bed and cried. After much consolation from MIL I then remembered to look at my baby's face and behold the most beautiful creature I've ever seen. He has a very deep dimple like his dad. What more can I say?
To God be the glory. Great things he has done.
Indeed we went, we saw and we have conquered. We are 1 week old today.
Thank you beautiful Mamas and Papas for the show of love and concern during those days that seemed like months. I'm really grateful.
Throwing baby dusts to all TTC mums and swift delivery to all the waddling mamas. The God wey do am for me, go do am for you too.
Thank you everyone.
**Signing out of August, 2022. We'll meet again in 2024. Lol.
BS submitted @Cappo Sassy256

nice B.S congratulations once again.takia of ur cute prince

Flourishing19:
I woke up at night and kept wondering if this September was real. Swift and easy delivery to us.

Going for my next scan next week to finalise on the mode of delivery for me.

nice one, waiting for labour here,am 38weeks already.

Minmin2323:
Good morning ma'am,gender is xy,issa baby boy

noted

nahzyla:
Update gender to XX, thanks

noted

suzzyrims:
Baby gender is girl

noted

Sassy256:
SEPTEMBER UPDATE
Team August
It is with great pleasure that I type this today. Thank you teamies for the privilege to serve as your Cappo, it's not a job I took easy or lightly even when I didn't even know where to start, I started anyway, taking cues from former cappos on when to post or not and you people helped me. Thanks Starryv and Novia22, you girls kept me going even when this job seemed daunting, you girls kept me active.
Congratulations to all of us that have put to bed, congratulations to the rest of us still waiting because you will definitely have a safe delivery and be congratulated too.
I hand you over to September Cappo, I know you will be well taken care of.
Exclusiveoloori, the Lord is your strenght, we didn't hear from you after you registered, anyday you see this, please update us.
Mama waistbead, I believe you and your lo are doing alright, please find time to update us
Daddy Hoelujohn, Godspeed to you and wify please update us.
Unfortunately Girl040 couldn't complete the journey with us, our prayers are with you darling, God has already comforted you and will continue to do so.

TEAM AUGUST UPDATE
Team Easy pregnancy, Safe and Quick delivery.

ROLL CALL
NAME..............................EDD...SEX...DOB
1. Starry v. .......................21st...xy. DOB Aug17th BA seen
2. Sassy256.....................25th....xy. DOB Aug17th BA BS seen
3. Dunpredictable..........22nd ....xy. DOB July28th ...BA seen
4. Pyzdan.........................23rd....xy. DOB Aug25th BA seen.. --
5. Waistbead..................28th..... --
6. Exclusiveoloori.......... --.......... --
7. Novia22......................13th.....xx. DOB 13thAug ...BA BS seen
8. Dijah07...................... 30th ....xy DOB Aug22nd BA BS seen
9. Girl040..........................❤️...... xx...
10. Fisayomi1................12th......xx. DOB July21st ...BA seen
11. AbleGodDidIt.........25th....xx. DOB Aug18th BA seen
12. Hoelujohn..............24th...xy.

Portees to August
13. MrHighsea Aug20th BA, BS seen
14. Teebee22 Aug22nd BA, seen
We were glad to have you join us at the end.

Mama's starryv, Dunpredictable, Pyzdan, Fisayomi1, and Teebee22, ableGodDidit please find time to put in your BS.

September Cappo Omotolanibaby, you have been doing a great job of educating us and carrying your team and all of us along, God bless you and your teamies, there shall be no loss in Jesus name. Glad to hand over the baton to you, Godspeed dear, May He perfect all the good work He started in all of us, in Jesus name, Amen.
Sassy256 official signout.

.Amen and
Thanks so much,you did a wonderful job. We Gladly receive August spill over.

[b]Update
September is here ! Yaayyy let's put on our dancing shoes ,counting down to fews days to meet our cute prince or princess.We are so grateful,baba God we say thank you with heart full of Thanksgiving. Who is going to open the floor for us @1stmom ,it like you are next cos ur edd is tommorow.wishing everyone safe delivery ,mother and child safe and healthy.
And for those that don't answer roll call or are yet to supply there baby gender ,it is well oo.


Team September CC;
NAME.....................EDD....................SEX

1.omotolanibaby...Sept14..XY(boy)
2. Flourishing19... Sept 29....xy(boy)
3.Mr HighSea..... Port to August.B.A and B.S seen
4.1stymom... sept 2 ... XX(girl) port to August.B.A and B.S seen
5.nahzyla ....sept 25... XX(girl)
6.suzzyrims.......sept 16.... XX (girl) DOB sept 3 BA seen.
7.Ummufarrah......sept 21.... XX(girl)
8.teebee22....sept 15.... XY(boy) port to
August.B.A seen
9.ohfenrami .....sept 29.... unknown
10.heebah.……..sept 22...... XY(boy)
11.firstpregnancy.....sept 19..... XX(girl)
12.minmin2323.....sept27 .... XY (Boy )
13.fortune01...…sept6....xx(girl)
14.omobola121....sept 29 xx(girl)
15.mommafertile....sept 25 xx(girl)

Pweetiebabe:
Mami with this feeling if it's possible to run from food patapata I will o, but will reduce my solid intake make God just deliver from this one first

#ConstipationInPregnancy

#Introduction

This is a common problem during pregnancy. Current stat shows that as many as half of pregnant women get constipated at some point during pregnancy.

Overtime, an increase in the hormone progesterone was found to be the chief culprit, because it relaxes smooth muscles throughout the body, including the digestive tract and this means that food passes through the intestines more slowly, leading to constipation.

#Overview

Normally constipation occurs when there is abdominal pain or discomfort, difficult and infrequent bowel movements, and the passage of hard stools.
Constipation is defined medically as fewer than three stools per week and severe constipation as less than one stool per week.
Medical evaluation of constipation should be done in pregnancy when constipation is of sudden onset, severe, worsening, associated with other worrisome symptoms such as loss of weight, or is not responding to simple, safe and effective treatments.
Medical evaluation of constipation may include a history, physical examination, blood tests, abdominal X-rays, barium enema. The goal of therapy for constipation is one bowel movement every two to three days without straining.

#What causes constipation during pregnancy?

In general, worry, anxiety, minimal physical exercise, and a low-fiber diet may cause constipation.

Specifically constipation in pregnant women is thought to occur due to hormones (estrogen and progesterone) that relax the intestinal muscle and by the pressure of the expanding uterus on the intestines.
Relaxation of the intestinal muscle causes food and waste to move slower through your system.
Please, also note, sometimes iron tablets may contribute to constipation. Make sure you are drinking plenty of water if you are taking iron supplements.

You may need to switch to a different type of iron tablet, but it is important to talk to your health care provider first. Pelvic floor dysfunction can also cause constipation.

#Symptoms

Some of the symptoms of constipation include

1. lower abdominal discomfort,

2. infrequent bowel movements,

3. straining to have a bowel movement,

4. hard or small stools,

5. rectal bleeding and/or anal fissures caused by hard stools, and

6. Physiological distress and/or obsession with having bowel movements

#Treatment

Treatment of constipation may include:

1. Dietary fiber,

2. Non-stimulant laxatives,

3. Stimulant laxatives,

4. Enemas,

5. Suppositories,

6. Prescription medications,

7. And even surgery.

#How can I prevent or treat constipation during pregnancy?

Prevention and treatment of constipation involve many of the same steps.

Here are a few things that you can do to help prevent constipation from occurring or treat it if you are already experiencing it.

1.Eat a high fiber diet: Ideally, you will consume 25 to 30 grams per day of dietary fiber from fruits, vegetables, breakfast cereals, whole grain breads, prunes and bran.

2. Drink a lot of fluids: Drinking plenty of fluids is important, particularly when increasing fiber intake. Drink 10 to 12 cups of fluids each day. It is the combination of a high fiber diet and plenty of liquids that best help you eliminate your waste. Sweat, hot/humid climates, and exercise may increase your need for additional fluids.

3. Exercise routinely: If you are inactive, you have a greater chance of constipation. Walking, swimming and other moderate exercise helps the intestines work by stimulating your bowels. Schedule exercise three times a week for 20-30 minutes each.

4.Over-the-counter remedies: There are over-the-counter products such as which may help soften your bowel movements and reduce constipation. Always speak to your health care provider before using over-the-counter medications.

5. Reduce or eliminate iron supplements: Iron supplements may contribute to constipation. Good nutrition can often meet your iron needs during pregnancy. Taking smaller doses of iron throughout the day rather than taking it all at once can reduce constipation.

Talk to your health care provider about checking your iron levels and recommendations to manage iron intake during pregnancy.

#What remedies should not be used for constipation during pregnancy?

Please, Laxative pills are NOT recommended for the treatment of constipation during pregnancy because they might stimulate uterine contractions and cause dehydration. DO NOT USE LAXATIVES!

Mineral oils should NOT be used during pregnancy because they reduce nutrient absorption.

Atg team

#Reference

MedicineNet.com

American Pregnancy Association
Hope this helps

Pweetiebabe:
Mami with this feeling if it's possible to run from food patapata I will o, but will reduce my solid intake make God just deliver from this one first

are you on iron supplements

Pweetiebabe:
I never believed anything could humble me again in this pregnancy journey apart from morning sickness, but constipation has shown me who the boss is.....I have tried everything possible even watch YouTube videos but no way, I will only manage to drop small poop after so many minutes of straining and pushing (story for TMI) be relieved for few hours den boom d journey of straining and pushing starts again. Am now even feeling feverish from d stress of straining o, see me crying like a baby just to Poop. God abeg o cos am now even scared to eat

can you abtsain from solid e.g like carbohydrates, and eat food like moimoi, vegetables and fruits.its the kind of food that you take that causes constipation and take more water

Pweetiebabe:
I never believed anything could humble me again in this pregnancy journey apart from morning sickness, but constipation has shown me who the boss is.....I have tried everything possible even watch YouTube videos but no way, I will only manage to drop small poop after so many minutes of straining and pushing (story for TMI) be relieved for few hours den boom d journey of straining and pushing starts again. Am now even feeling feverish from d stress of straining o, see me crying like a baby just to Poop. God abeg o cos am now even scared to eat

can you abtsain from solid e.g like carbohydrates, and eat food like moimoi, vegetables and fruits.its the kind of food that you take that causes constipation

virgindesy:
Morning everyone. My did strip pregnancy test last week and it turned to have two lines . This morning, we had sex and after sex, she saw some blood coming out, not heavy though . Please great mamas in the house, is this normal ?

my advice is you guys should abstain from sex till she clocks 12weeks.

Ranting time
My husband refuse to touch me since I entered 35weeks,he said he does not want to be hitting baby's head.am on break like dis till after birth.

StarryV:
B.A! B.A!
Announcing the arrival of my prince charming He arrived at exactly 4:30pm on Friday 26th August. VD, two pushes and a little tear.
EDD 21st Aug
DOB 26th Aug
Baby, Mummy and Daddy doing great.

B.S later mbok

victory at last, congratulations
God bless the new bundle of joy.cant wait to read your b.s
Cheers

STAGES OF LABOR AND DELIVERY.
#ATGLabor #ATGDelivery

Stages of labor and birth

Labor is a natural process. Here's what to expect during the three stages of labor and birth — and what you can do to promote comfort.

Every woman's labor is unique, even from one pregnancy to the next. Sometimes labor is over in a matter of hours. In other cases, labor tests a mother's physical and emotional stamina.
You won't know how labor and childbirth will unfold until it happens. You can prepare, however, by understanding the typical sequence of events.

�STage 1: Early labor and Active labor

The first stage of labor and birth occurs when you begin to feel regular contractions, which cause the cervix to open (dilate) and soften, shorten and thin (effacement). This allows the baby to move into the birth canal. The first stage is the longest of the three stages. It's actually divided into two phases of its own — early labor (latent phase) and active labor.

��Early labor

During early labor, your cervix dilates and effaces. You'll feel mild, irregular contractions.
As your cervix begins to open, you might notice a clear, pink or slightly bloody discharge from your vagina. This is likely the mucus plug that blocks the cervical opening during pregnancy.

⏰How long it lasts?
Early labor is unpredictable. For first-time moms, the average length varies from hours to days. It's often shorter for subsequent deliveries. (veteran moms)

✔️What you can do: Until your contractions increase in frequency and intensity, it's up to you. For many women, early labor isn't particularly uncomfortable. Try to stay relaxed.

To promote comfort during early labor:

�‍♀️ Go for a walk
� Take a shower or bath
� Listen to relaxing music
�‍♀️ Try breathing or relaxation techniques taught in childbirth class
��Change positions

Your health care provider will instruct you on when to leave for the hospital or birthing center when it’s the actual show time. If your water breaks or you experience significant vaginal bleeding, call your health care provider right away.

��Active labor

Now it's time for the real work to begin. During active labor, your cervix will dilate from 6 centimeters (cm) to 10 cm. Your contractions will become stronger, closer together and regular. Your legs might cramp, and you might feel nauseated. You might feel your water break — if it hasn't already — and experience increasing pressure in your back. If you haven't headed to your labor and delivery facility yet, now's the time.— this is the time where the shouting, screaming and all curse words intensifies.

Don't be surprised if your initial excitement wanes as labor progresses and the pain intensifies. You may even start lashing out at your health provider and beloved partner. Ask for pain medication or anesthesia if you want it/offered in your center.
Your health care team will partner with you to make the best choice for you and your baby. Remember, you're the only one who can judge your need for pain relief.

⏰ How long it lasts?
Active labor often lasts four to eight hours or more. On average, your cervix will dilate at approximately one centimeter per hour.

✔️What you can do: Look to your labor coach, partner and health care team for encouragement and support. Try breathing and relaxation techniques to combat your growing discomfort. Use what you learned in childbirth class or ask your health care team for suggestions.

Unless you need to be in a specific position to allow for close monitoring of you and your baby, consider these ways to promote comfort during active labor:

��Change positions
� Roll on a large rubber ball (birthing ball)
�Take a warm shower or bath
�‍♀️Take a walk, stopping to breathe through contractions
�‍♀️ Have your partner give a gentle massage between contractions or anyone to help.

If you need to have a C-section, having food in your stomach can lead to complications. If your health care provider thinks you might need a C-section, he or she might recommend small amounts of clear liquids, such as water, ice chips, popsicles and juice, instead of a large, solid meal.

The last part of active labor — often referred to as transition — can be particularly intense and painful. Contractions will come close together and can last 60 to 90 seconds. You'll experience pressure in your lower back and rectum. Tell your health care provider if you feel the urge to push.

If you want to push but you're not fully dilated, your health care provider might ask you to hold back. Pushing too soon could make you tired and cause your cervix to swell, which might delay delivery. Pant or blow your way through the contractions. Transition usually lasts 15 to 60 minutes.

��Stage 2: The birth of your baby

It's time! You'll deliver your baby during the second stage of labor.

⏰How long it lasts: It can take from a few minutes up to a few hours or more to push your baby into the world. It might take longer for first-time moms and women who've had an epidural.

✔️What you can do: Push! Your health care provider will ask you to bear down during each contraction or tell you when to push. Or you might be asked to push when you feel the need.

When you push, don't hold tension in your face. Bear down and concentrate on pushing where it counts. If possible, experiment with different positions until you find one that feels best. You can push while squatting, sitting, kneeling — even on your hands and knees.

At some point, you might be asked to push more gently — or not at all. Slowing down gives your vaginal tissues time to stretch rather than tear. To stay motivated, you might ask to feel the baby's head between your legs or see it in a mirror.

After your baby's head is delivered, the rest of the baby's body will follow shortly. His or her airway will be cleared if necessary. Your health care provider or labor coach will then cut the umbilical cord. Yayy!!!

��Stage 3: Delivery of the placenta

After your baby is born, you'll likely feel a great sense of relief. You might hold the baby in your arms or on your abdomen. Cherish the moment. But a lot is still happening. During the third stage of labor, you will deliver the placenta.

⏰How long it lasts: The placenta is typically delivered in five to 30 minutes, but the process can last as long as an hour.

✔️What you can do: Relax! By now your focus has likely shifted to your baby. You might be oblivious to what's going on around you. If you'd like, try breast-feeding your baby.

You'll continue to have mild contractions. They'll be close together and less painful. You may be asked to push one more time to deliver the placenta. You might be given medication before or after the placenta is delivered to encourage uterine contractions and minimize bleeding.

Your health care provider will examine the placenta to make sure it's intact. Any remaining fragments must be removed from the uterus to prevent bleeding and infection. If you're interested, ask to see the placenta.

After you deliver the placenta, your uterus will continue to contract to help it return to its normal size.
A member of your health care team will massage your abdomen to make sure the uterus feels firm.
Your health care provider will also determine whether you need stitches or repair of any tears of your vaginal region. If you don't have anesthesia, you'll receive an injection of local anesthetic in the area to be stitched.

��‍♀️Now what?

Yayyyyyy, hip hip hurray!!! Savor this special time with your baby. Your preparation, pain and effort have paid off. Revel in the miracle of birth.

Wishing all pregnant safe delivery!

Dr Esther Oluwadeyi
ATG Group

Excerpt/edited from mayoclinic.org

Minmin2323:
Ordinary penis I cannot take without crying,do you all think I should just jejely go for elective CS, because doctor said it is better to be prepared that to be rushed in as emergency

follow strictly your doctor advise and do elective c.s to avoid stories that touch.safe delivery is the main objective .

StarryV:
Amen! Thank you mama. I'm hoping to drop my B.A. today.

All the best,safe delivery

StarryV:
thank you ma for your prayers and concern. We're still waiting... Went to the hospital today hoping they'll ask me to bring my bag. But no, they didn't

your first baby right, I delivered my 1st baby at 41weeks 2days.just follow your drs advise,they know the best for you,you are almost there.it is well.

TOHHAN:
PART 2
Now, that Tue evening, I saw one air freshener gel we'v nt used in her bag and it prompted me to deep hand in dat bag. I saw a spag insyd the bag too and she's going very early on Wed mawni,; FF to Wed mawni(5:30am), she dress up, went to d kitchen(dunno wat she's packing) and came to tell me bye so I stand up from d bed and went to d sitting rum to meet her, she was holding a big nylon(with things insyd) and her bag. I can't tell her to bring her bags for checking neither can I tell her to let me see what's in d nylon so I let her go.

I then went to the kitchen to check d spag, noodles and oda tins and I noticed garri, indomie nd spag reduced meaning the spag I saw was from our kitchen, she took the top I called hubby's own away too nd a malt frm the fridge. I was so angry that why ll she do such a tin without asking because honestly if she had ask I ll gv her more than she took, at least am free wit U and didn't complain on anytyn done by U.

My Question now is, hubby jt came back yesterday since Monday that he left for work nd I want to tell him abt it bt dunno how to present it to him because I don't wanna approach d sis myself b4 dem say person do anyhw to her hubby sister(Yoruba tins). How Una think say person fit present such matter abeg or make I just let it slide and ignore it.

that is stealing, taking things in the house without permission.inform your husband,but you have to be careful the way you present it to your him,so that it won't cause issues btw you.

1stymom:
Oh! I get it now... I can't relate with menstrual pain cos I don't experience it at all. But the lower back pain come and go.. I haven't really study the lower stomach pain all I feel there is something like muscle pull...

okay

C.C madam StarryV , praying for you.cant wait to hear from you soonest.

pyzdan:
BA! BA! BA!!!
my charming prince made his grand entrance this morning at exactly 3:30am. baby and mother doing great. BS will be submitted later.
safe delivery to other preggy Mama's.

congratulations mama.God bless the bundle of joy

1stymom:
Cappo.. Good morning.. Although my pregnancy journey has been a good ride from eating whatever.. No cravings or diversions really..to doing chores except for once in a while tiredness.. Things that really dealth with me are heartburn and jajaina ish.. Now getting close, I am really tired from body aches sotey my Ori don suffer for my body... Concerning the contraction, pls does it feels like muscle pull? Cos as it is now I can't really eat solid food again my tummy go just heavy and I won't feel comfortable.. So, I take noodles and light food now to relieve me of the heaviness.

Congratulations to all those who have given birth and to us still in the journey and baby dust to all those looking up to God... Know that it is settled..

it feels like stomach tighten/menstrual pain or pain in the lower stomach,lower back pain and it won't be regular no specific timing and it will go away after some fews mins to surface later in the day or the next day unlike real labour pain that wnt go away.

MrHighSea:
I married my friend. We PLANNED, prayed to God and conceived a month after wedding. While dating, she'd downloaded an APP for us to monitor her period. I knew when to do and when not to. The APP was 95% precise. I do use the APP to send her coded message too and make her Hot while we're at work. Normally her monthly visitor do trigger heavy but controlled-vomit. When she missed her period for a week and started running to toilet to vomit saliva, I knew I scored the goal. African-star apple became her breakfast. We woke up one faithful morning to perform the strip test. Road-side lab test confirmed the pregnancy. Madam started complaining that I'm smelling. She'll have headache all through the day. At 2 months, We went together to register for ANC. The drugs obtained further messed her olfactory system.

During 2nd trimester, she was diagnosed and got treated for malaria. Doc prescribed softgel (they don't smell as much). Babe was too beautiful and curvy. I was typing lots of codes via the wonder APP and it was working. She became more emotional and anxious. I'd to reassure her everyday to be positive. She stopped taking PCM for the headaches. I brought home fruits on a daily. She was always having light-flashes. Standing to cook was an herculean task. Young man now became proud chief maid in his house. My 27-year old kid bro became the assistant. He'd added 1+1 and knew what's up. We officially informed our mothers. Come see prayers.

She was told the baby's gender can be ascertained on 20th week. I went with her and baby's blokos (as Doctor called it over and over) was revealed. We now silently call him Doctor Blokos. One day towards the end of 2nd tri, she had series of pooing the previous night, we attributed it to her dinner and excess fruits maybe. At work, pooing came with series of vomiting and weakness. Her family friend and colleague rushed her to hospital. My work is 1.5hrs away. She called that she's heading to see Doctor blokos. I'd all her close colleagues phone number just incase. Went from work to hospital, she was alone, starving, crying on hospital bed. She's been admitted. She's concerned for the baby. Her bump wasn't pronounced. Until nurses read her file, they knew the gravity. Drip lines and injections followed. Scan showed baby is fine. Since I knew, we're spending the night and she was stabilised. I rushed out and back with chicken and bole. Hurriedly, went home and picked some items. Bro cooked and brought us breakfast. Then we went home for bed rest as Doc blokos advised.

During 3rd trimester,  She was consistent with ANC, they even created WHATSAPP group. I used to think, she flexes ANC money, until she said they do perform routine lab test (PCV, blood sugar) She took yoga and twerking pretty serious. I was not happy. Imagine what yoga pants and twerking does to a man, yet, Sex was not on the menu. Her libido just off.  Tho She dey try sometimes sha. I'd to youtube how to perform massage. It was demanded on a daily.

The bump she's been wishing for, suddenly became visible. She was always feeling heat. Whereas, I prefer natural breeze to fan. Duvet don't help. We were always arguing. She'll become sad when I try using guest-room. She started sending everybody on errands. She was behaving like an Emperor. Yet, she was so attractive even people gave her compliment on a steady. MEN WERE EVEN TOASTING HER (so irritating). She was always tired, waddled and hit her legs on everything. She'll demand sorry from whoever is closeby. She said, I and bro should rearrange the parlour the way she likes. She became a Tyrant. She was always late. Food became salty. She even said I shouldn't have a deep sleep so I can wake up when she winces at night because of muscle pull. She'll wake me up to cuddle her. I do go to office earlier than before to catch some źzzs.

We started buying baby items from 2nd tri. She'll say, it's better when she's still strong. We bought things I don't know. Breast pump, breast pads, fancy feeding bottles, bags, assorted creams and antiseptics. I was happy when hospital didn't approve some soaps. My soap bin don finish. She said, I should buy bulky items by myself. I carry her go the place to choose the colour of bath she wants. Ordered wooden baby cot here on NL.


She was scheduled for induction on 19/8/22 by 6pm but our EDD was 7/9/22. Paternal instincts kicked in immediately. I quickly installed washing machine (wedding gift), washed the blinds, assembled the cot then hunt for a suitable bank so we create an education trust fund. Keini was born 9:44am on 20/8/22. He has an upgraded version of my looks. Breast milk flowed same day. He started sucking properly next day. He's with maternal grandparents for the next 2 months before he goes to paternal grandparents for another 1 month. Infants are not as weak as they seem, they have muscles esp arms and legs.

I know, stuffs were inserted into her for induction and had to be sutured after birth. let me get her side of the story. I wasn't in the theatre. Hospital was somewhat affordable. The nurses were kind. .

I literally forced her to write her side of the journey.
Here she goes:

"During one of the routine antenatal visit, at about 36 weeks, I was scheduled to run OGGT and was advised to reduce carbs. The glucose disappeared for a while and resurfaced. Then we were told that our boy will be coming in early by induction.

On Friday, 29th August, we were admitted for the commencement of  induction process.   Here I was lying down on the hospital bed enjoying the AC at the detriment of my husband who is too sensitive to artificial air. I thought it'd be like where you're just injected and labor as they say will begin. I never foresaw the hurdles I was to jump to get to the labor part.

7pm, I was called into theatre 2, where the doctor explained everything he was going to do. Basically, the cervical catheter was going to be inserted in me, that will help soften the cervix for dilation.
First, he was going to examine my cervix before insertion.

There I was lying down naked in the midst of two men and three ladies. My precious body which I so much covered with pride was looked upon, just like that. Within me, I was like "shebi it's just to look inside and put this thing there, I won't even feel anything", before I finished the conversation with myself, I screamed so loud. The pain I experienced was never imagined, I kept screaming and jerking, this man called doctor just invaded my pussy with gloves and no lubricant at all, as if the crowd and the stares into my honeyland was not enough.

The deed was done, and like I was told, I experienced a little spotting. At about 9pm I started feeling pains like menstrual cramps. The deal was that, I'll be dilated to a certain cm, which will give way for the catheter to drop out from my vagina, that would mean that business have started.

3am, I was called back and two small tablets which I don't remember the name were inserted as well. It was a female nurse this time and I thought she would know better to be gentle than force her way inside.
6am came and this thing was ready to drop.

By 7am, I was examined where it was discovered that the catheter was placed way too deep inside and it wouldn't have fallen off on its own. It was discovered that I was 6cm dilated, and we were all waiting for the catheter to drop first.
Observing the frequency of my contractions, the doctor, broke my water and it was like hell was let loose.

Immediately, I was transferred to theatre 1, where I was to give birth. My husband and mother were in confusion of the happenings and were asking me series of questions but I couldn't answer any. Out of nowhere, the doctor said I'll deliver within 2hours. I was screaming every time I had the contractions, but then I'll remember bragging to my husband that I won't shout and scream no matter the degree of pain. Na so my fine girl mode change oooo.

Admidst the pains I could see my husband walking out the hospital gate, and I said to myself "this one don put me for this condition come dey run comot". I didn't blame him sha, knowing his kind of person, I knew he wouldn't withstand it.

After series of contractions, I suddenly felt like shitting. First pregnancy! What did I know?. Fine babe like me, will come and shit in the hospital. Omo! I didn't know that was my son telling me that he's ready to come out.
I was then shown how to position and to push when the baby is pushing as well. What I understood then was "shit the shit wey dey worry you".

First push
Second push
Third push, nothing.
The doctor was explaining what was happening to the midwife. This man was doing lecture on top my vagina.
Push again
And again.
They noticed that the baby's head will surface and go back inside.

Time to shit came again, I positioned myself and started pushing, the shouted that I should continue and not stop (at this point, I remembered the last hot sex I had with the man that was putting me through all these, I remembered telling him "don't stop". So I kept on pushing, baby's head came, but they kept shouting "continue, continue". I obliged and suddenly the pain went away".

God bless Doc blokos. God bless my MIL. God bless you all for sharing your stories, it gave us hope.

Keini sleeping after dinner today.

congratulations to you and your family.just laughing reading the B.S..what a wonderful story.

Team September,hope the pushing is going on wellthe rate at which I get false contractions this days and heart burn,the lord is our strength.
Team September CC;
NAME.....................EDD....................SEX

1.omotolanibaby...Sept14..XY(boy) B.A seen
2. Flourishing19... Sept 29....xy(boy)
3.Mr HighSea..... Port to August.B.A and B.S seen
4.1stymom... sept 2 ... XX(girl) B.A and B.S port to August
5.nahzyla ....sept 25... unknown
6.suzzyrims.......sept 16.... unknown
7.Ummufarrah......sept 21.... XX(girl)
8.teebee22....sept 15.... XY(boy) port to
August.B.A seen
9.ohfenrami .....sept 29.... unknown
10.heebah.……..sept 22...... XY(boy)
11.firstpregnancy.....sept 19..... XX(girl)
12.minmin2323.....sept27 .... unknown
13.fortune01...…sept6....xx(girl)
14.omobola121....sept 29 xx(girl)

novia22:
August Group Strong sotee we dey collect from September join..
Congratulations dearie....God bless you, Hubby and your LO.

same way we are going to welcome portee's from october.team semptember already counting down

teebee22:
BA! BA!
Join me thank this good God as my prince made his grand entrance via cs on 22/08/22 at
Baby and mother doing great.
Bs coming soon.

September cappo @ omotolanibaby na so I take port o.

God is good, congratulations on your new bundle of joy.we await your b.s later, takia of lil prince.

teebee22:
Pls mamas join your voice together on my behalf. My water broke around 6pm and I am yet to contract. Pls pray that contractions would be start before 6am and my baby would out safe and sound.

teamie hope are fine.just checking on you.

Sassy256:
Goodmorning mama's
Mama Starryv, how's it going dear?

Teamies, Pyzdan, waistbead, ableGodDidit and daddy Hoelujohn, we are praying for you and await your joyful news soonest.

Mama's Fisayomi1 and Dunpredictable we're still waiting for your Bs o .
Pls mention me when u do post

include mrhighsea,he is also yet to drop his B.S since he ported to August

StarryV:
I've been doing a lot of trekking these days Sha. If baby doesn't come today, I'll be going to the hospital tomorrow morning. I just hope they agree induce me.

wishing you save delivery.cheers