Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

enthronedbyGod1:


You can't be saying no to cultism and still have a moniker with an account bearing 147.

Were you previously an axeman ? If yes change your moniker.

The lady from the dream is from the arm of the marine world that is directly involved in cultism. Assassin of Bermuda has to do with the marine witchcraft arm of NBM/ SVC/ BAN.

Handling marijuana and puffing it is a projection of madness, blabbing and confusion.

As regards your Dad, the deed has already been done so there's nothing we can do about that. Sorry for your loss.

May God keep you safe and give you a sound mind in Jesus name. Amen

God bless

cameroncucumber:
Most people uses GIF, but do you know who invented it ?
Nwanimo, you've GIF collections which you always upload here on nairaland made possible by this man's invention, oya come and pay last respect
Lalasticlala, mukina2

Adesuwag:
Should a female be one minute less of a mother, the world will growl at her. A man be deadbeat all he wants.. no one gives a sh!!t.
I hope you’re repaying your mother well for being the Abled parent. And promise yourself to do better for your children cos Black Males are culturally absentee father.

Ulunne777:


If you were around,visiting the Eze with his picture and clearer description of his name will automatically direct you to his ancestral home.
This is the period Old bende ppl do not fail to come home.
Names like his surname points to a particular kindred unlike the Emeka name that is borne by all Igbos .
I wish you well in your search.

cameroncucumber:
onefourseven and OsiEnterprise4 happy Sunday to you guys. This place quiet o, let's keep it alive with relevant infos, na beg I dey beg o

kodix:
Hmmm all this people that will always look for someone who don't even want them or even care.I wonder what u stand to gain sha

anthonyuncle:
please look for him, it is important

AndroidAI:
What use is your father if I may ask? Unless he's Dangote, i see no reason to seek out a deadbeat father who couldn't fight to be in your life for all these years. He will end up being a liability to you and nothing more. People need to learn to move on!

Foodqueen:
And some single mothers will think they have it all figured out.

The heart always wants more.

excellence44:

Take this to Twitter and tag popular influencers

OsiEnterprise4:


Naso, I think I will do dissame, am in Benin City

OsiEnterprise4:


For Delta abi or you want go Alagbon?

OsiEnterprise4:


Must it be Alagbon, the Dpo for your area when you they stay nor fit stamp police clearance certificate for you, naso he suppose be, because that is your jurisdiction where u leave.

OsiEnterprise4:


hmm, you sure say them go collect that hotel reservation for the 3months, u sure they will not need paid house rent evidence, anyway e go better

cameroncucumber:

Which health insurance company you use & how much ?

cameroncucumber:

Nice one, thanks for the update. Portugal here we come Insha Allah...
Ready all necessary and supporting documents including PoF & travel health insurance

OsiEnterprise4:


Right, how we go do accomodation matter unto documents, are we going to tell them we are staying in an hotel, haha, make we dey talk am now, dey gada am for ground

OsiEnterprise4:



Let see if they will open by January or February, if not, den na to head way another location

cameroncucumber:

Which country do you've in mind? I was thinking of same thing, but from googling, apart from Nigeria, there's no Portuguese Embassy in West Africa, only Cape Verde.

Omshausgdhdjsgs:
I had to create this thread for security reasons,I will go straight to the point…Is there anyone here on Nairaland that was able to disassociate himself from his fellow cult group…
Note:I won’t be specific with anything

Sometime ago I was deceive and force to join a particular cult group…I did not have to resist because it dawn on me the only way it alive is to flow and bear all pain….So they v been doing their follow up with me for years or maybe month or days…My point is I need person to tell me from experience how they survive similar experience…Plz this thread needs to start talking about stuff like this too…So people that fall in my category would know what to do

Tali1234:

Buhari believed that that Jonathan’s performance as president was below par and that was why he joined hands with other like minds to oust him from office in 2015. Having laid a solid foundation for growth and continuity, he will not allow the progress made so far to be reversed by bringing the same Jonathan back to succeed him in 2023. That can never happen”.

What nonsense progress?

Lookingforhelp:
Nairalanders; you are the only hope i have, else i'm killing myself.

last week, my friend asked me to accompany him to a message with our bike, i wouldn't say no because he was my friend. And as usual, we ride together to where he was going. So, when we got there, it was a fenced compound and we entered inside. He told me he was coming to pick something from a friend, and we went inside the house. On getting inside, i saw some guys numbering up to more than 20, though i know most of them. And i also saw about 5 other boys kneeling down on the floor with just their boxers. With the look of things, i knew all is not ok, so i wanted to leave but they ask me to stay. Soon they ask me and my friend to take our cloth off and joing the 5 boys that were kneeling down. I knew it was cult innitiation and i said no, that it was my friend who ask me to follow him here to pick something from a friend. But they force me to take off my clothe, gave me something to drink and made me took oath i can't even remember. After, they started beating us, flogging us with bet and hiting me with cutlass. I couldn't remember all that happened that day as i was just crying and begging them to stop. They finally stoped and told us that if we report or say what that happened there to anybody, that they we kill us and the allow us to go. I left there without my friend on my bike.

the next day, i did'nt want to talk to my friend again, so i went to meet one of them and told him what happened that it wasn't my intention to join them, but he told me i'm now one of them that i shouldn't worry.

the following day, i was passing when some of them saw and call me, they asked me to buy them drink which i told them i don't have money but they seize my phone and ask me to go and bring money. After i begged them and they refused, i decided to give them 1k from the money i had with me, but instead the collected the 3,500 that I had with me. Thay have turned me to their bank as they always come to collect money from me and will beat or seize my property if i don't give them money.

yesterday, they came again, this time with someone. One of them ask me to give him my phone to send music, i gave him my phone, and he just brought out my sim card an gave to me. They said they brought someone to buy my phone. They gave me 10,000 and said it was the money for my tecno camon 15 i bought 65k. I begged them, but they refused and left and up till this time the have not given me back my phone. They said they will kill me if i dare report them.

nairalanders, i hate cultism with passion, and now i'm a cultist.

i'm crying in pain, and i might kill myself than see myself as a cultist.