saxby:
not true, tecno phones are available there.

Thank you.. He's gotn one already

Jamestown123:
Same thing here, called my gal this morning that am no longer intrested in her again that i want a break. Omo she just vex cut the call and texted me she's coming back home from work that she dont feel like working again. I knew if she come home na my head she won come break i just told her have u forgotten that today is apriel fool day? I no want to much talk.

Funny

simafem:
Tried this same shi.t last year. We broke up. She forgave me oh, but after that day ehn, it's like i poured cold water on the 'ship'. It was negative spiral from then on.

Chai!!

mmadu5:
lol Nigerian girls dont know what prank is , if it was a white girl she will laugh over it soon as she knows its a prank .

I tire o

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Me dat they want to fry that is still rubbin oil as cream...

I decided to play the April fool's prank on my girlfriend as is something I've always wanted to do.. Turns out tis too expensive for her

madgoat:


Why not check their website slot.ng and call their customer care. Also must it be slot? you can check other popular big fone retail companies like 3CHub and Microstation.

Thanks bro.. He got one already

Please guys, someone said to me that there is no phone in any slot, infinix or tecno.. A friend of mine need a phone and we'll be going to computer village from ogijo. I wanna know if the situation is general or not.. A contact in computer village will suffice.

Thank you guys

Okay

Daslimo:
yo guys, i been following up and shooting from the guidelines here and thanks to God almighty, I am currently in Gumi, KIT for graduate studies in Mechanical systems engineering.

i thank all the gurus here in the house too. however, i would appreciate anyone who would align me in getting a job here coz so far, i dont see any.
how do i shoot fro here please?
i am currently assisting in my professor's lab but the pay is quite little considering that i must pay tuition, accommodation, feeding etc.
i need help guys

Congratulations bruh.. I pray you also get a job sooner.

However, can you please tell me how much it cost you to get dere.. With the break down if possible?

Thanks

Thank you all for the advice given. I really appreciate.. God bless you all

LordAdam16:


That is not a mistake. You don't own any lady.

Even if you told her not to, she may still have met him. Or would you insert a chip in her arm and monitor her movements 24/7?

In fact, her being honest with you might be because of that "mistake." Usually, you wouldn't know. She might just break up with you for any reason under the sun and weeks later you hear your ex-gf is getting married.

I'd keep saying it, if you're in a bf/gf relationship with a girl of marriageable age; rest assured that you're in an open relationship. She'd entertain offers from any serious guy she meets, and would give every one of them (you inclusive) ratings.

You've half lost your girl, and as others have advised it's better to let go now, rather than leave your sanity in the hands of creatures who regard marriage as the next step to heaven.

Go make money, but also never in your life have deeper feelings for a lady more than she has for you. That way, if and when they misbehave; and trust me having money does not make you immune to their misdemeanor; you can easily brush it off or walk out the door.

And don't let anyone convince you that being broke gives ladies the right to treat you like sh*t. Sure failure is an orphan, but close guy friends do not routinely just up and leave when things go sour for one of the buddies. They stick together and go through the sh*t together. So don't let a vagina emasculate you or eviscerate your self-confidence.

If she's met someone who wants to marry her and she wants to get married, while you aren't in a position to get married; let her go. That's life. You don't always get what you want, no matter how badly you want it. You might really like the new Galaxy S10+, but if you don't have the money to get it, that's just it, you can't get it.

PS: If the guy turns out to be one of those dudes using marriage as a carrot to get into pants, and she returns after "it didn't work out," don't take her back.

-Lord

Thanks

delugajackson:
At what point do you intend to marry her? Is it when you must have drained her of all the vital contents in her body? I'm only feeling sorry for the unfortunate guy that will inherit her from you. It's your type that turns women to scrap as a result of excessive knacking. No futuristic plan, no prospects, just knacking! You be carpenter? If the engine no knock or the top gasket no burn, you no go dey alright.

Even if she gives you sex everyday, it still won't put your focus on marriage. You need to set her free at this point for someone serious. You're not ready, so stop wasting her time. I see no need holding her back from her decision. Loose her and let her go.

I disagree with you on that. Deres prospects, my focus is marriage, just not financially ready for it yet and of course I'm working towards achieving that very soon.

And, yes we have sex often, but not everything's about sex

Frankicent:
Bros the truth is you broke most guys are. The guy might be a sweet talker and a cheerful giver that you lacking. Women love them.



She had wish to get married so she used you as a means to waste time or she really do love you. Now she found someone who's ready to put a ring on her hand. Atless she will be free from working and doing everything for you.. That's an independent woman.

Bro the truth is most ladies lost good guys due to this "will you marry me?" scam desperate playboy use this just to get her honey.

My advice free her let her go. Go and make money.

Am in my mid 20s 6" 4ft tall, dark and huge i don't have a gf just friends am not in a rush
to getting one cause am so ambitious and barely take rubbish from women. Woman no dey run..You go see them plenty later..

Make money .. If you luck get a good loyal girl that you can use as assurance in future cause gold digger will come your way.

Thanks bruh

ImaIma1:
How do you even date somebody for almost a year and not buy a gift or show some form of tangible generosity even if she earns more?

The other guy might actually be a better choice for her than you because you sound laid back and not ready to move her forward. And she seems to be giving more to the relationship...being the one visiting and probably spends on and for you.

Nah, i might be broke and might have bn stupid at some point but the relationship is the exact opposite of what yu portray here

ojuu4u:




Hypocrite at highest level .....your heart draws to her yet you allowed her to pay visit to potential boyfriend? Maybe stupidity at highest level sha

Yh, i guess I'm being stupid.. Very actually

plagiarism1:
How would a lady that claimed to love you, take permission from you to go and say proper NO to another guy? This part is wtf. It's clear she admires him and want to use the opportunity to meet him in person and clear her doubts?
Why would you allow her to go? I expect you guide your treasure jealously.

Your babe is now into the new guy already but doesn't want to break your heart since she's aware you're not financially buoyant whereas, the next guy can fulfill her dreams, especially MARRIAGE. You're formerly the plan A, but now B. she's is attached to you because of the pleasure, the SEX n BOND both of you had. She's giving you hints she's going for plan A (The new admirer) and you're talking about love. she's gone bro(because of marriage) whether you like it or not. Just be a man and let her go. Work more on yourself and make money. Breaking your heart won't kill you. Let her go jaree

Derail much we have, drills i now have
Courtesy: Sir Haddon

I now regret letting her go visit the guy.. I guess that's the mistake i made

Realhommie:
I also have an inkling that's top on his agenda, but what do i know...

Op there's absolutely nothing you can do at this point, she holds the aces as it stands now especially considering the fact you're not financially stable hence you're not ready to settle down..

Just let her decide what she wants to do, brace yourself for the worst possible outcome.. If eventually she walks, life goes on as it won't be the end of the world.

Thanks for this bruh

austyn0:

Brow.. As much as it pains me to type this, if she loves you deeply and knows fully well that you love her deeply, she would consider the happiness of spending the rest of her life with you, whenever you are ready and I want to believe you are hardworking and desire to take her down the aisle soon. Buh, if she is excogitating on settling down with another man, let her go. I am human and do not know everything but I believe you will be the most selfish and heartless of men if you stop her from going forward. Shey she wan settle down? Let her go and never forget to wish her well.. Move on with life and keep hustling, you go find better shoddie.

Thank you

IprintMONEY:
you have lost her olodo. Instead of to tell am to do that on phone, u allow to go meet the guy in person then come here to make boys waste mb on a useless mata

I'm sorry sir

xpac01:


It will be difficult but possible. Start getting used to it.

Believe me, she has been observing the other fellow for a while...

But if she still comes back please take her in. She is only trying to be time conscious as a woman. Ladies see marriage as next step to heaven. So just be open minded to whatsoever.

Chale brother...

I get.. Thank you sir

OriginalCopy:
For the fact that she told you all these means she is faithful and truly love you. Some will do all these secretly without telling you and look for an excuse to break up with you when they feel it's time to move on. Her telling you that the guy needs a yes might not necessary mean she's considering the option, and might not also mean she's pressuring you to marry her. It might just be her way of telling you that she wants an assurance that she will be the one you will marry when you are ready to settle down.

If you love the lady, you can just give her the assurance, but not directly telling her that you will marry her.

Thanks bruh.. But how do you advice i give her the assurance? I tell her this evrytime.

Any other option please?

badadvice:
Hmmm, your situation is quite difficult.
But I can sense the intense love you both share.
So I'll advise you dont leave her for anything in the world talk more or less for a guy she just met.
Instead, it will be better if you just look for money somewhere, like collect a loan from the bank or borrow money from someone and wife this girl up immediately.
Good ladiess are hard to come by in this life (naija).
Dont let this one pass you by!

Yes, i don't wanna lose her. Thank you bruh

dingbang:
When you start to care less, people will begin to care more

I don't want to assume i understand what you meant but if i get you correctly, i never stopped caring for her, i may not have the money to give her or buy her espensive things but i really do love her and i let it show through my actions

xpac01:
The guy is ready, the girl is ready and you're not ready.

And from all indications, your girl is already liking the guy and even ready to take things down the serious lane.

Brother your girl is giving you a soft landing and to avoid heart break, just let her go with her heart.

If she had wanted to be with you for life, she won't even tell you she is liking the guy already... She may bleep him and still stick with you. But telling you the guy wants a YES, means she has made up her mind to give him the YES, but just want you to land softly for the sake of love she has for you.

Bottom line: LET HER GO.

Moreover she is a lady, and lady's rosiness is time framed if you know what that means.

Thanks bruh.. I actually felt it will be difficult for me to let her go because of the way my heart draws to her but this happening now scares me

Rosay15:
Bro, pls let her go cus its all written there that all she want is married and u ain't ready. To me she knows wat she want, she is just using u to play games and I don't think she is meant for u.. Free her and focus more on ur life and trust me ur own wife will definitely come to u. Peace.

Thanks and God bless you ma'am

We've been at this for close to a year now, i love her but I'm not sure yet how much she loves me.. She comes to my side often almost everyday, sometimes even stay the weekend. I've never given her any gift tangible or money buh she seem comfortable with that because she knows I'm not that box up ( her salary is twice mine).
Last week, she told me she had a date with the guy (the admirer) but she couldn't go because she was busy at home and with me (so she said)
Saturday morning, she came to my side, have sex with me (not the first) and later said she's going to meet the guy again just to tell him NO properly, she begged me to let her go and i said, no problem.

Later that Saturday night, she called me that she's back. I asked her how it went and she started the talk about how she happened to like the guy and all... Said the guy's talking about settling down very soon which is what she also wants. All the guy needed to hear was YES.

I needed to post this hear to seek advice from experts. I am not financially ready for marriage right now but i love the girl and here is someone offering her on a platter of gold what she's always wanted.

What should i do please? .. Is my relationship gonna die with this info? I'm confused

UPDATE : We talked at length last night, i told her(practically begged her) to stop talking to the guy, she said she can't, that it's already too late for that, that she met the guy already and she's promised to always chat with him and pick his calls. I also asked her if I've not lost her by giving her permission to go see the guy, she said she hope i haven't

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