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OriginalCopy:
For the fact that she told you all these means she is faithful and truly love you. Some will do all these secretly without telling you and look for an excuse to break up with you when they feel it's time to move on. Her telling you that the guy needs a yes might not necessary mean she's considering the option, and might not also mean she's pressuring you to marry her. It might just be her way of telling you that she wants an assurance that she will be the one you will marry when you are ready to settle down.

If you love the lady, you can just give her the assurance, but not directly telling her that you will marry her.

Thanks bruh.. But how do you advice i give her the assurance? I tell her this evrytime.

Any other option please?

badadvice:
Hmmm, your situation is quite difficult.
But I can sense the intense love you both share.
So I'll advise you dont leave her for anything in the world talk more or less for a guy she just met.
Instead, it will be better if you just look for money somewhere, like collect a loan from the bank or borrow money from someone and wife this girl up immediately.
Good ladiess are hard to come by in this life (naija).
Dont let this one pass you by!

Yes, i don't wanna lose her. Thank you bruh

dingbang:
When you start to care less, people will begin to care more

I don't want to assume i understand what you meant but if i get you correctly, i never stopped caring for her, i may not have the money to give her or buy her espensive things but i really do love her and i let it show through my actions

xpac01:
The guy is ready, the girl is ready and you're not ready.

And from all indications, your girl is already liking the guy and even ready to take things down the serious lane.

Brother your girl is giving you a soft landing and to avoid heart break, just let her go with her heart.

If she had wanted to be with you for life, she won't even tell you she is liking the guy already... She may bleep him and still stick with you. But telling you the guy wants a YES, means she has made up her mind to give him the YES, but just want you to land softly for the sake of love she has for you.

Bottom line: LET HER GO.

Moreover she is a lady, and lady's rosiness is time framed if you know what that means.

Thanks bruh.. I actually felt it will be difficult for me to let her go because of the way my heart draws to her but this happening now scares me

Rosay15:
Bro, pls let her go cus its all written there that all she want is married and u ain't ready. To me she knows wat she want, she is just using u to play games and I don't think she is meant for u.. Free her and focus more on ur life and trust me ur own wife will definitely come to u. Peace.

Thanks and God bless you ma'am

We've been at this for close to a year now, i love her but I'm not sure yet how much she loves me.. She comes to my side often almost everyday, sometimes even stay the weekend. I've never given her any gift tangible or money buh she seem comfortable with that because she knows I'm not that box up ( her salary is twice mine).
Last week, she told me she had a date with the guy (the admirer) but she couldn't go because she was busy at home and with me (so she said)
Saturday morning, she came to my side, have sex with me (not the first) and later said she's going to meet the guy again just to tell him NO properly, she begged me to let her go and i said, no problem.

Later that Saturday night, she called me that she's back. I asked her how it went and she started the talk about how she happened to like the guy and all... Said the guy's talking about settling down very soon which is what she also wants. All the guy needed to hear was YES.

I needed to post this hear to seek advice from experts. I am not financially ready for marriage right now but i love the girl and here is someone offering her on a platter of gold what she's always wanted.

What should i do please? .. Is my relationship gonna die with this info? I'm confused

UPDATE : We talked at length last night, i told her(practically begged her) to stop talking to the guy, she said she can't, that it's already too late for that, that she met the guy already and she's promised to always chat with him and pick his calls. I also asked her if I've not lost her by giving her permission to go see the guy, she said she hope i haven't

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daben1:
she told you to choose between her and your work, and you too, you started stressing yourself, traveling for two hours because you want to "choose her" forgetting that she'll "choose " another person when they sack you from your work..

How stupid (no offence) can one be?!

shortgun:
This is a fail...20/100
I beg you in the name of whatever you believe in don't abuse egusi soup like this again next time.

Agreed... Buh still, he tried.. The gesture is dere

Kaycee7:
It was supposed to be explained in season 3. So sadly, we'll never know.

Thanks bro

Mekanus:
So after you watched the crap in season 1 you still get mind waste your data on season 2?

I believe you smart enough to know that one man's food is anoda's ota piapia

KoiceReloaded:
Wouldn't know, stopped watching at episode 2.

Oh! Thanks bro

Guys, please anybody who have seen marvel's iron fist season 2 should please explain the last scene in episode 10 to me...

Danny shot in that bar with two glowing fists... Has he gotten the iron fist back? How?... Please I don't understand

Cc koicereloaded

ElRapido:
To help person dey hungry me. But I no know how. I go check back tomorrow morning if I go see someone with a better reason.

please, all i need right now is two thousand naira. I'm starving

#2000 will solve my problem for now.. I'm starving.. Very starving

Sterope:
It will come to pass when the trumpret sounds.

Trumpet?!! Gullibility

Good morning, please, i need to know where to get tested for STIs in lagos... I stay in ikorodu, so any place in close proximity will be much appreciated..

I had an unprotected sex about 48hrs ago and my mind just kip telling me to go for a test, buh I don't know anywhere..

Please any suggestion will be much appreciated. Thank you

olaleks007:
Can you pay 200k
Total package of 300k

Oya hit me
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Ahah!!! Kilode?!!! 200k for a single room at the outskirt of lagos?!... Why you nor kuku kill d guy

krattoss:
Queen of the south Episode 13..

How on earth does a drug militia take out trained military personnels,cortel and his army security

They goofed on that one big time.

Caught him (cortez) unaware... He didn't know dey knew about that place until they've infiltrated, and besides it was a very planned attack

KoiceReloaded:
No release date yet, but it should be around Nov/Dec.

Thanks

Any news on marvels daredevil please

dubylhover:
Bro don't get to ur hopes high too much, it's just a slightly watch than condor and Jack Ryan, but it looks promising

Exactly... If you find condor not spectacular.. Then bodyguard isn't better

laydoh:
@KoiceReloaded and other fans of into the badlands,what is the latest about the show please.

I'm patiently waiting to see the stunt AMC wan pull as regards that show.. This dere silence ehn, it's very suspicious

Odkboy23:
Over dope dey worry bodyguard.... They should release the whole episodes at once..I can't wait.

Exactly what I'm here to find out.. Thanks man

KanielOutis92:
Yeah..the changes always do affect the show. I remember they also changed the Alinco guy back in the day..i think the new guy fared well tho. In fact, at some point ( if memory, serves me right ) all the characters had been changed..from pepeye to the papa ajasco's son..except for pa james i think. It was still great to watch tho. But when they changed the main character....ok scratch that..i grew up thats why i stopped watching. Oh wow..i cant believe myself..all of this epistle for papa ajasco & co. I just do hope my future wife is not reading this..Lol.

I think it's good for the old man.. He might probably just become more irrelevant in the movie industry if wale adenuga changes him as pa james...

He doesn't really feature in all dese yoruba movies again