₦airaland Forum

The current one which u can only access with *170#

has anyone here on nairaland won anything there b4 i get serious with it...

Regards

Keeping living in d dark ages while using devices of the modern ages...

When ur yeye deity go leave na den ur eyes go clear fiam!

God knows i hate dat country with a lot of passion....

They tend to blame their woes on anoda innocent person...

Don't worry 9ja, dey too wud soon b chased out of 9ja, i trust buhari the ''Ghana Must Go'' guy

Oh river state... What a state?...
;
anyways i came here to do the fp tinz

MsTIQ:
You call drowning in the lagoon threat! Let's wake up, do you think the Oba would knock every Igbos' door singularly and throw them in the lagoon? Have you heard of metaphor? Let's stop turning something little into a big thing,trying to capitalise on a minute wrong! What do we call a threat that can never be acted out! Just a bluff and it was taken as something big and preproplanned, the Oba was wrong and he was already chastised by all. Let's stop acting like as if he burnt ur houses or stole ur children! Peace! And likes for Ambode joor ... I wee miss Fashola[color=][/color]

pls let me state categorically dat d igbos were wrong in castigating a monarch, weda we like it or not, the oba remains d royal father of all in lagos...

TooNoisy:
I guess he learned that from Igbos. They only carry out threats on social media

u're passing off as a tribalist to me, n guess wot i don't do well wit ur kind...

I'm an igbo guy, residing with 2 yoruba room mates, i mean pretty gud friends, i refer 2 dem as my brothers...

Our fadas in d past made mistakes in d past are we going 2 folo dat same direction...

Dat will be foolishness...

TooNoisy:
That's why I said Igbos look to others for leadership. Jonathan was the Igbo leader

who made him SE leader?
As if he did much 4 SE, listen d average igbo guy do not av dis politics tin in dia minds..

Stop d beating of d innocent bush, n face fact...

As far as i am concerned, apga remains d only igbo party owned by ikenga

ollyruffy:
Now it is time to know the owners of Lagos.

We will protect Lagos from the Igbos and truncate igbo progress in Lagos going forward with proper legislations.

i bet u datz d only way u can carry out ur threat: 2ru mere words on NAIRALAND

Baawaa:
Get it right,Obasanjo ruled for 8years on the platform of PDP,Yoruba did not hijacked the party or controlled the party.Jonathan rules for 4years the Igbo's take over the party,and split the party.

name one prominent igbo man in pdp of today

i mean someone 4rm d 5 eastern states

TooNoisy:
Don't take this personal. It's all about learning lessons in life and not repeating the same mistakes. The whole Agbaje thing was very silly of him and those supporting him. You do not go to another community and publicly insult their monarch - even if the monarch was clearly wrong.

meaning d monarch is GOD?
Pls... No two wrongs can make One right...

The oba was wrong, pdp use dat as an advantage we all know dis is a political season where tinz are sensitive...

I didn't c any igbo group staging any protest?
U expect dem to b silent w/o airing dia voice n pain?
Can u b silent when u are being threatened?

U c no one stops any 4rm residing anywhere in d world... The world belong to everyone...

U will b tempted to say y lagos?
I will b forced to reply functional sea port in lagos...

QED

I don't seem to understand what makes pdp an igbo party, to d best of my knowledge, obasanjo is one of d pioneer founder of d pdp n he is not an igbo man...

The pdp till date is bein controlled by d SS, so y d notion igbo party accorded to d pdp..

If u want an igbo party, mention apga originally founded by dim odumegwu ojukwu, d ikenga of igbo land...

Concerning d controversy statement credited 2 d oba of lagos... My advice is dat let d sleeping dog lie biko nu

Chipeculiar:
thanks alot dear.....i just did and it really went well. I just really need to learn how to make sacrifices myself...not leaving him to do it alone

u just av to let it flow naturally, don't force it......

Chipeculiar:
Happy easter to you wonderful friends and counsellors on this trend. I've being a quite follower here and i dont have a choice now than to seek for help.
I'm 23, finishd serving and working(tho underemployed). I met dz guy around july last yr tho av posted here before on how igbotic the guy is and i was adviced to just leave cos i didnt see any good in him. But honestly, he is a great guy and he has tried in every way to prove to me that he is serious about me. Due to ego, pride, non-challant attitude, av not treated him like a lover at all...I blamed him for virtually every thing and i was d one doing all the corrections in him. I'm a very lovely person especially to my friends but wen a guy comes around with dat word marriage...i tend to frustrate his love and dat attitude av made me loss 2 other great guys maybe its cos of age, i dont knw. Now am on d Virge of losing dz guy too, he threatened to quit and dat made me realise all my mistakes, my shakara was too much. I've begged him hoping that he will change his mind and i promise to be nice and lovely wen he comes back. But the help I need now is how do I express love with my heart. Though i'm a strong-minded person and cos of d harsh way i grew up, d major way to avoid intimidation was not to care about anyone else. Though dat attitude has changed but nt totally yet. Remember I knw my mistakes now, I just need help. Thank you

open up to him, av an heart 2 heart discussion with him abt ur history... Den change buh don't force it oh

supernet4:
I read about ur story I mean d one u posted urself, u admit d girl being ur gf but now ur ex nd d lecturer accusing u of dragging her with him Pls correct me if am wrong

go back n read my story, dia was no where i said she was my GF, u saw d word ''acquaintance'' as d subject... So whats ur stress??

The fact i av already posted as a thread shows i am not makin it up as some insinuated

cc efemenaXY

salsera:
Classic Efe logic

OnyeEgo
Something is not quite right dear and this is not the thread to discuss it. Childhood things...talk to someone and work this out.

U don't know how much i care 4 dis babe, i literally take her as my sis, dia are somethings abt me no one knows except her..

Now here is d settings... She is d wild one, n i am d innocent one to her oh!...

Maybe u avent been in such relationship with a guy dis close yet no sexual attraction btw d both of u guys, datz y it seems my story is unbelievable....

''Childhood things''??, i don't understand dat...

GoldenDr:
What is love...?
Love is a sickness that non amount of
doctor can cure it...?

Life without Love.....?
is like a container without contents..

Life without love..?
is like a three without fruits on it.

Life without love..?
Is like a flat tyre it can't take you anywhere until you
change it


Life without love...?
Is like seen the story of Akpos and you no comment.
Happy Easter Celebrations.

do u mean d general love? Or the one with a lady?

If it is a general love 2wards anyone, I'd say u are correct abt ur descriptions abt it...

But if it is love 2wards a lady, I'd say u're terribly wrong, because i don't seem 2 understand how ''distractions'' became ''love''

i became more wise with d suppose Love story in dis page turning into Hate story suddenly...

I just wished u understand me

EfemenaXY:
I'm sorry but I find certain aspects of your tale unbelievable, quite frankly.

If you were a female, then yes, I'd understand the angle you're coming from - but you aren't are you? You're male. So why in heaven's name would a female tell a male friend very intimate details about her sex life? Women are much more conservative than men and while they might discuss certain intimate issues as you've highlighted with themselves, it's unlikely that they'll be this open with men!

Men generally have no inhibitions regarding sex and they boast about it to themselves but for a woman to boast about her sexcapades with a man??! To the point that you went to go visit her and found her in the middle of her romp with this lecturer? So the door was unlocked? Or she gave you a spare key to her hostel room?

No. Sorry, I don't believe you one bit. It's either you aren't giving us the full story about your relationship with this girl, or you're a female masking as a male, or maybe, your story is false.

My take.

yea, i get u, hard to believe ryt?... I stated somewhere dat i was ''very close'' to her, we talk abt so many tinz, i mean so many unbelievable tinz...

This babe na correct Benin girl
. Its not like she can tell anyone dis tinz, i am more like a bro 2 her..

Her door wasn't locked, datz how we play, her hostel isn't far 4rm mine at all, tho different compound, she do come to mine n burst in sometimes even without knocking...

How can i explain how close we are?, anyway tanx, dat was ur opinion...

Whats my gain if i put a lie as a story, shey dem go pay me hehehehehehe...
I'm just trying not to mention her name...

keppyy:
Why are you not comfortable with sex
Do you have a problem with your organ or are you aTtracted to the same sex?

What is your exact issue with sex


What is your issue with love and marriage too?

From the little you posted, I believe your issue with love and marriage is related to your issue with sex...

whenever i am in such sex situations, i bcom suddenly overwhelmed, i will lose interest n ask d babe 2 stop, more like a memory hunt kind of, my guess...

Somethings i don't wanna post here abt myself, pls don't ask abt my childhood...

I don't seem 2 understand love, its requirements n procedures, i av tried it n i don't like it, its stressful n hurting...

marrying to me is boring... How can one stay with one person for life

My issues tho.. C'mon its not abt me keppy, remember d thread is for wives...

keppyy:
What exactly o you hate, SEX, LOVE or MARRIAGE

This was his confession...1.) He saw sex as Unclean (religion)...2.) He is a doctor and due to his vast knowledge of the woman's body, it disgusted him...3.) He got all his sexual satisfaction from masturbation..(He preferred masturbation to the real deal)...

i am not comfortable with the 3, sex, love and marriage... Tho my looks are deceptive...

keppyy:
I forgot to add this...

Despite having the NO sex before marriage policy, I'm also cautious about guys that share the policy too (due to past experience)...Initially, I thought it was because of his religion because he is a religious guy (I admire that...lol) but I became real worried about some statementa he made, when we talked about sex...After much Prayers(lol), he confessed...

abeg, what was d confession?, hope its not what i am thinking

keppyy:
I'm open to all sorts of sex adventures except anal and any other form that will cause me pain and physical harm...

I have a personal policy of NO sex before marriage but however, I once dated a guy with the same policy and God helping, he later confessed to me that he does n ot like sex (I really don't know if he is a gay and I don't care)...


HELL NO to any SEX timetable...

no ur ex isn't gay...
what if i say I'm like ur ex bf, i hate sex, i have a big issue with dis love ish, methinks its all scam n sham arrangement...

Don't get me wrong i generally like knowledge datz y i am here, i av no smallest feeling 4 dis marriage thing...

Ehm, tanx 4 ur candid response

From page 0 till now, no one has talked on the issue of SEX:

my question goes thus:-

a situation ur spouse decided he/she wants a BJ or any oda adventurous sex positions n u are not comfortable with dat, how do u go abt it, if refusing him/her will hurt him/her??

Is there any need 4 sex timetable?

N lastly pls be truthful here.. How do u view a guy who insist on a NO sex b4 marriage policy??

Xone3:
I have tried talking to him but he just dismisses it as no issue. He doesn't drink more than two bottles but it's too frequent. Almost everyday after work as long as he closes early. He doesn't act matured and rarely calls expect I call, ping or flash. lives life carefree and moneybag to friends.

i av a friend dat exhibit exact same character like ur hubby, we would argue abt his spending lifestyle almost to d extent of fighting, den one day an acquaintance of mine advice me 2 steer clear of his business and i obeyed...

Guess what...

This guy is as broke as a church mouse, d friends he do spend on extravagantly deserted him, all i do now is 2 console him n help with d litu i can...

C'mon girl, nollywood get dis kind films for alaba, go buy film like dat make una 2 watch 2geda, den 4eva hold ur peace, lock up...

If symptom persist after 2 weeks, withdraw 4rm his life a bit, give him distance... Na only him go consult him doctor later on 4 brain check hahahahha

fact is in marriage ONE has 2 b financially responsible

Evina:
@ OnyeEgo1 LOL.

Honestly, madam BabyOsisi is really funny. That Chakam chakam stuff

Well, I will say to you. Please mind your business. Are you romantically involved with the girl? If she didnt seek your advice, what is the need to offer it. Please oh, focus on your own race. Let her not now discuss your advice with the lecturer and get you in trouble!

The bible says, " don't get involved in an argument that is none of your business". If you aren't comfortable with her, pull away. She knows what she is doing is wrong and doesn't need you to advise her, else she would have sought your opinion. Make lecturer no come get you for mind.

thats it, i was wondering weda wetin b my own dia self, just like taking panadol 4 anoda person head ache...

But i av dis feeling of telling her abt her wrongs to her face, n remind her of Karma n its pay back time, tho we are very close, i mean she tells me virtually everytin...

There is no way i am attracted to her, person wey dey tell me how many times she don se.x in a week with so so n so guy, d style wey she use, 4 my mind i wud b like shey na dia i go come put my innocent thing, chai!!!

Lemme comment on MEN helping with house chores...

In my family, there is dis gender reversed role we are trained with...
The boys does virtually everytin why d girls look on or pata pata dem go just try help u..

The boys cook, do d laundry, cleans d house, washes d plate e.t.c

U can't iron 4 my dad, he still do some cooking till date, we still dey do competition btw ourselves gan who cook pass...

U can't wash my clothes 4 me no matter how hardworking u claim to b, y shud i bother u with my clothe when i av hands n d machine is working properly??

No matter how u cook 4 my bro, he will still find fault with it, we call him food sadist, person wey dey formulate he own cooking style...

When was d last we ate mom food self, d woman no get ur time self, she dey busy with her business...

So no excuses 4 d guy who is just deliberately Lazy claiming trado man, i av a roomie like dat, thank God i av dose training in hand already {like my dad, Just seeing things scattered can make me run crazy, serious oh!}

Phew!, i came dis far, started 4rm d bottom now i am here, been one hell of a ghost reader...

I have loads of question, but will take it gradually:-

i've a close course mate <very close>, she tells me virtually everytin buh keeps me telling me abt one aristo of hers little did i know dat d aristo she meant all dis while was one very lecturer i use to admire, I'm equally close to d lecturer too, but i got d shock of my life when i caught them...

Pants down when i decided to pay my unsuspecting course mate visit, i am d course rep....

I was literally dumbfounded, kept my cool n distanced myself 4 a while, cos d lecturer i know even she knows, is happily married n often talks abt his spouse in class 2 d extent we will b daydreaming abt how perfect his wife is....

Dis relationship has been going 4 long as she my course mate had no choice but 2 open up to me..

How do i approach dis situation n come out unscathed?

I have dis eagerness to tell my friend d truth regardless of it hurting our relationship, how do i go abt it?

Should i keep mute n let it slide, regarding d fact dat dis said lecturer is highly connected in dis sku?

Already me n my once favourite lecturer are experiencing a kind of tensed relationship, tho i am trying 2 pretend as if notin apuned....

Cc babyosisi, efemenaXY( i love ur brutality lol), thorpid, forexmartins, moca, herzumpther, evina, GoldenDr et al

n.b:- Dis thread has help shapen me 4 d better, i had to do a record of dat CHAKAM CHAKAM eating to see if exhibit such chewing disorder.

2oddMASTER:
I have replied

u av a new mail

2oddMASTER:
drop urs I wud msg u

i sent a pm...

2oddMASTER:
D money wey d idiot dey find,am making it on Merrybet..#WORK NOT KILL

guy give me ur whatsapp number

KingGenius:
Congratulations from Ghana..a peaceful change means step in the right direction. Shame unto the Americans and Europeans ...
Africa on to the future. Its a bright one. The blackman is capable of managing his own affairs. But make You pray for us. We need change in Ghana too.

Like seriously what kind of change do Ghana need tot u av everything working 4 u already