that's ok brother. if you can AFFORD any gift for her as a friend please go ahead and give, with a good call or text birthday expression on her birthday, that's a better way of showing love and care. But if you sincerely cannot afford anything, then call her on her birthday to express your love and wishes for her then explain to her that you are not financially buoyant now but since you guys are together now she can always have the best of gift any other time. IF HER REACTION IS VERY NEGATIVE OR SHE REVERSES HER "YES" PLEASE MOVE ON

If you are sure the Online business is guaranteed or sustainable, then you can quit full time school and enroll for PART TIME. I think this is wise enough.

I will share my personal experience on this matter.

Brother! there is always a way you can start up in life or i should better put, there is always a way you can start up all-over again in life. If you have Pass or Third class grade, if you are serious about having better grade in Education you then might need to re-start a degree program again.

My Experience on JOB and SCHOOL: I sponsored my studies from a re-sit WAEC all through my degree programms. I started hustling on my own as a CLEANER. i was doing the job when i went to resit for WAEC and i applied for and OND part time program while still doing CLEANING. so this takes care of your excuse of NO job or NO CAPITAL for business, if you are serious you can always start life somehow.

My Experience on BAD grade: I went for my HND still doing menial job, and i faced hell on that program, i offended a Lecturer on attendance matter and the lecturer declared that i would not graduate but God intervened, somehow i graduated but not until i have had several extra years till the lecturer retired and i was able to pass her course that has been holding me back, i finished the program with PASS grade. i'm not the type that will sit back with a Pass grade and say i'm a Graduate so immediately i got my statement of result luckily NOUN was still admitting so i took form and i got admission and by now i'm already working as a CONTRACT staff somewhere, today, i'm a graduate from NOUN with SECOND CLASS UPPER. The whole journey was full of so much pain, my brother, I suffered but at the end of it all, it WORTH it.

So my Brother, you have no EXCUSE to remain the way you are. God bless you!

well, i believe you are a good man, for you to even bring this up here shows that you have a good heart, not even when you have started helping him already by making him doubled pay. so now this is my take on the matter, you can keep him and continue to ensure that he's happy for the 4 to 5 months you said is needed to get yourself properly settled and thereafter when such opportunity opens again please do not hesitate to push him, even if you are no longer in same dept. with him and second option now is this, you can arrange to help to let him go, and then trust God to favour you in that environment as you begin to work hard on getting yourself together. Believe me, i understand your position very well. Regards

wittyt98:
is Transportation from one location to another a crime now? I'm sure you can see the dude is tired of Lagos and wants to relocate to china by sea because the road is probably congested due to the enormous traffic in Lagos

Baaaaaaaaaaaad guy...

My dear Op, please i beg of you do keep your focus o, keep the star soaring as you have always been a star. i bet you by the time they start seeing that star shinning they will come to celebrate you, you will become there special one. you know, our parents can be insensitive at time, i beg just keep flying high, God bless you.

I agree with you sir. the relationship was faulty from beginning, and my advice is the guy should not go any further on any ceremony, he is even married already, so he should just ask God for mercy and make amends on his relationship with God. Also, he should ask for a meeting with lady and her family and also his own family to discuss the matter

Beatswim:
bros as a counsellor.. I married without a job for 5 years before God openwd a big way for me this year.. I married a nurse... So respectful... Highly tolerant and very understanding lady.. The question i need to ask u is dis... Are u a Christian? If yes then i dont feel u know about seeking God's face before u choose a woman... From inception this marriage is quite faulty.. U are going to this marriage because shes pregnant... That a bad foundation..that lady will frustrate you..beta accept her child and seek God's face for a life partner

Yes, its possible but then, you must have a strategy/plan around it and also pray to work in a friendly and reasonable team in your office, and also to have a good Boss.

Oga or Auntie,

you too, learn to be polite and respectful, its not everybody or every driver you should engage as playmate because they are rending you a service. God bless you

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Well, Dear Friend, i think your parents are being too protective of you at your age but then again, i think you need to be careful of the kind of freedom you are asking, there are very hurtful one... meeting people online be careful!

Regards,

My Dear Person,

Please i want to say that i understand how you are feeling. i have been through it too, and there are still issues i'm still trying to overcome, so in other words i have been fight depression too for some time now.

Solution: In trust and in Love, i tell you my dear brother or sister, Jesus is the solution. You need to know God and his Almightiness, and continue to trust Him to resolve whatever issues it is. You have to continue to hold on unto Him till He sees to the end of the issues. I have been fight depression alongside with Jesus and yet i'm still holding unto him till i see end to my many issues, Health, Education, Marriage, rejection, etc name it, i've had them all. SUICIDE IS NOT AN OPTION, ITS A SIN. JESUS is the giver of life and He alone is required to take it.

Keep waxing STRONGER, Dear. The WORLD awaits your story of victory!