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FamilyRe: I Am About To Take My Wife Back To Her Parents by optimismlaz(m): 9:19pm On May 28
Be fast about it, a nagging wife can kill
PoliticsRe: ₦159.28trn Debt: Each Nigerian Owes N724,000 by optimismlaz(m): 8:22am On Apr 16
My hand no dey oo, no follow oo
RomanceRe: Beware Of Men That Love Football More Than Anything — Nigerian Lady Advises by optimismlaz(m): 4:53pm On Sep 23, 2025
[quote author=Angelthepoet post=136895833]I'm sorry you can't stop me from supporting both Manchester United and Real Madrid, it's not possible. The same here
PoliticsRe: Adeleke Orders Action On Jailed Osun Monarch by optimismlaz(m): 6:52pm On Sep 14, 2025
[exactly my point quote author=immortalcrown post=136796508]What exactly is the order that the governor has given? Has he ordered for the monarch to be replaced or has he ordered for the monarch to be set free or has he ordered for the monarch to rule from the prison?

The media will just dish out one vague and meaningless statement to waste readers' time and data. The worst part is that this report is coming from a certified media house. I was reading it, hoping to know what the governor wants in the situation. I read to the end without seeing anything.[/quote]
CrimeRe: Thai Woman Seduced And Slept With Over 20 Monks, Blackmailed Them (video) by optimismlaz(m): 5:24pm On Aug 26, 2025
manuelkel:
Funny how humans deprive themselves of sex all in the name of sanctification towards a denomination.
Who's fooling who?ppppp
I would never believe that a man would be a pope for 15+ years or a monk for 20years and never had sex within this period. grin grin
Nevertheless I'm a man of possibilities, it's equally possible for men to stay without sex but I don't believe that.
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Civil War: How I Survived Execution By Nigerian Soldiers - Nwaojobo by optimismlaz(m): 12:46pm On Aug 10, 2025
Unimaginary tears flowing from my eyes after reading this, no wonder they stopped teaching history in our school. The same killings are still going on till date. Are we the same?
RomanceRe: What I Saw In My Wife's WhatsApp Chat With Her Close Friend by optimismlaz(m): 5:07pm On Jun 07, 2025
Bros, use your head.
CrimeRe: Groom, 3 Friends Arrested For Killing Wife In Marathon Sex In Jigawa by optimismlaz(m): 8:17pm On Apr 28, 2025
I have officially heard everything. Nothing remain
RomanceRe: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by optimismlaz(m): 6:30am On Jan 09, 2025
[quote author=brain54 post=133613241]Not meaning to discourage you...

But it could lead to complications and difficulty during child birth.

Also painful intercourse and disinterest/lack of pleasure in sex totally.

But don't let this discourage you o. If you love your woman go ahead. Even some women that aren't circumcised still experience what I stated.

And she might not experience any of it. Nothing in life is certain.

But test run... Or at least talk to her concerning her reaction towards sex. Has she had sex, and does she enjoy it? Ask questions like that.

That's if you believe in no sex before marriage.

Sexual compatibility is equally important in marriage. It's not true my wife was circumcised and we are done with child bearing, go ahead and marry your girl if you really loves her.
CareerRe: Should A Staff Be SACKED For This Offence? by optimismlaz(m): 5:38am On Nov 21, 2024
[quote author=thesicilian post=132963479]I don't think I understand the nature of the offense per se. Was the staff trying to get a receipt of 35k while paying 20k for his client/relative? If so she deserves to serve some form of suspension (if her response to the query is satisfactory).

If she was trying to use staff privileges to get the company to sell the item for 20k (assuming the company has a special discount package for the staff), then all the punishment she needs is to answer a query and then probable have her staff privileges taken away.

I don't think it's an offense that deserves a sack either way. Harsh punishments like that can reduce other staff morale and prevent whistleblowing in the long run, as no one will want to be responsible for another person's sack in this harsh economy
True talk
FamilyRe: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by optimismlaz(m): 8:52pm On Nov 13, 2024
My brother if you cares to listen, you did wrong , that their tradition other sisters of hers are not traditionally married and they cannot be tasked or asked to bring something. You must perform your traditional duties and there a lot of benefits and also there also consequences. Act wise
PoliticsRe: PDP Condemns Fuel Price Hike, Says Tinubu Govt Is Arrogant In Failure by optimismlaz(m): 8:27am On Sep 05, 2024
PDP should lead the protest now
HealthRe: Nurse Rolls On Floor In Thanksgiving After Nearly Injecting Dead Baby (photos) by optimismlaz(m): 5:16pm On Aug 16, 2024
[quote author=SpaceX post=131537459][b] The baby is dead and she's thanking god! what! Why is she being selfish? She is not selfish bro rather she is thanking God for saving her life and job.
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by optimismlaz(m): 3:32pm On Jun 24, 2024
Oga you don't need advice. You know exactly what to do. Marriage is different from friendship. Be warned!
BusinessRe: Releasing Money As High As ₦2,500,000 Is Dangerous - Police To POS Operators by optimismlaz(m): 5:22pm On Apr 19, 2024
Noted Sir
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Of 3 Months Is Cheating. by optimismlaz(m): 6:13am On Dec 05, 2023
My advice is simple, she may know someone before you and it's the seriousness of your relationship will make her to discard them and concentrate on you. Prove that you love and care for her
PoliticsRe: Supreme Court To Deliver Judgment On Atiku, Obi’s Appeals Against Tinubu by optimismlaz(m): 6:12pm On Oct 25, 2023
We can predict the outcome, Appeals are lacking in merit
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is Worse Than Being Broke? by optimismlaz(m): 3:25pm On Oct 10, 2023
Serious sickness
ComputersRe: Laptop Bag With USB Port: I Want To Import This. Will It Sell In Nigeria? by optimismlaz(m): 5:32pm On Jun 29, 2023
Can I help you market the bag here in Aba? It will sell. You have to make it a bit durable and the price moderate
PoliticsRe: Notorious ISWAP Commander, Kiriku, Killed By Snake In Sambisa Forest by optimismlaz(m): 9:24am On Jun 25, 2023
Snakes are now helping out.
PoliticsRe: DSS Files Terrorism Charges Against Emefiele by optimismlaz(m): 4:42pm On Jun 10, 2023
What is the offense of this man? Cashless policy? Maybe with time we will know.
RomanceRe: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by optimismlaz(m): 10:33am On May 15, 2023
Go ahead to marry her.
RomanceRe: I'm in love with my Sister In Law, what do I do? by optimismlaz(m): 6:28pm On Apr 18, 2023
It's not a taboo. If you are truly in love with her go ahead. It's legally and traditionally right in our side. Many marriages has happened like that. Congratulations
PropertiesRe: My Landlady And Her Daughter Want To Finish Me! by optimismlaz(m): 6:51pm On Dec 12, 2022
You know what to do, start from her daughter
HealthRe: I Saved An Accident Victim's Life And I'm Proud Of It by optimismlaz(m): 7:46am On Nov 07, 2022
God will surely bless you above your imagination for saving the brothers life
PoliticsRe: Edo State Peter Obi 1-Million-Man March by optimismlaz(m): 12:04pm On Oct 01, 2022
We are doing same in ABA
FamilyRe: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by optimismlaz(m): 5:25am On Sep 30, 2022
[quote author=Johnnyjohnnyman post=117110120]She can't return her to her father because she is only 1 year 3 months and she is still nursing her.
I can't never separate the innocent child from her mother to save my marriage. I would prefer that she leaves with the child and continue to take care of her outside of my house. Be calming down! It's not easy but don't take decision that will affect your other children negatively.
FoodRe: How I Grilled Tilapia Fish, Plantain And Pepper Sauce- Easy Way (Photos, Video) by optimismlaz(m): 1:55pm On Sep 25, 2022
Madam stop this na, if you will not give us your address. Am on my way with a bottle of Gulder . Just dey wait for the address
SportsRe: Birmingham 2022: Rafiatu Claims Gold In Women's Weightlifting, Makes History by optimismlaz(m): 8:03pm On Jul 31, 2022
Everyone in Nigeria is angry and can lift anything to show his frustration
SportsRe: Birmingham 2022: Joseph Umoafia Claims Bronze In Men's Weightlifting Event by optimismlaz(m): 2:17pm On Jul 31, 2022
Congratulations
EducationRe: Ikpeazu Approves Payment Of Four Months Salaries To Abia Polytechnic Staff by optimismlaz(m): 9:33am On Jul 28, 2022
[quote author=GreyLaw post=115154309]Read the post again. I added some things to my original quote.

[b]The governor said he did them a favour by adding that 450m, since they had collected over N7bn from his administration and they also retain all the fees and monies collected from students. It means then that the schools are not financially savvy, or they are corrupt!
Exactly my point. The Polytechnic should come and refute the information if it's false

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