lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

Samantha124:
And that's why I asked if the op is a virgin too, with the kind of entitlement mentality that he has towards virgins.

Samantha124:
If it's every normal man's dream to marry a virgin, then why do you keep disvirgining girls before marriage?

Why can't you zip up your trousers until marriage? In that way, all women and men will be virgins upon marriage.

Samantha124:
Why feel entitled to a virgin when you're not a virgin

This is not about me sir, so don't start sounding emotional because you'll only prove my point..

purples25:


In that instance, know this: Wealth, a woman can still acquire in her life, so judging her by that is actually not severe... She can still bounce back from that. She can make money, the man too can make money, I'm not against both partners making money.

But judging by a hymen...now you see, a hymen can't be recreated. Science can do it but how many can pay for that? Plus no matter what they put there, it's not the original. So judging a woman by her pussy is a very severe thing, and very unfair.

Uptheante:

Whenever you meet a Nigerian girl, assume she's a hoe already once she's not a virgin.
Bang your own share of her pussy while searching for a true virgin, then dump her ass without thinking twice, immediately you have replaced her with a virgin.
No matter what you do & no matter how changed she claims to be, that guy that disvirgined her will occupies a special place in her heart that you can never erase. He'll still Bleep her anytime he wants bcoz his imprint is in her.
And let me remind you, he's not the only person to have fuucked her. There may still be other niggas that have fuucked & are still bleeping her even while you are in relationship with her.
A determined & secret investigation by you will give you all the info you need.
That girl will only tell you what will not provoke you into breaking up with her & not the truth, that's why the onus is on you to make secret investigations about her.

However, if you are a 'real man' & don't care about her past or whatever she's doing or has done, then you can go ahead and marry her without batting an eyelid.

MadarasBlade:


There's also a big chance the woman will be poor for life.
What i am saying in essence is that, majority of women are poor yet they want rich men, it is very delusional to request what you don't have, but life doesn't work that way. Men can have their preferences too, it doesn't matter if it's virginity or any other criteria.

Virgin women will always rank above promiscuous women.

Hassanmaye:

Truly the guy that disvirgin her will always get the pussy anytime he wants, just phone call

ItisWell22:

.... She died within few months of diagnosis…

Samantha124:
If I'm being emotional, then it also means that you're emotional too..

But doesn't it takes two to tango though? Do those women have sex by themselves? Do they impregnate themselves? And who gives them money to do those risky backdoor abortions?

You guys also allow yourselves to bang different girls, impregante them, and give them money for backdoor abortions, knowing that they could claim their lives, making you heartless and a killers if they die... How does that make you any different?

And as a woman, why will I care about what other women are doing with their bodies too when I'm not going marry them

It's also the decisions that you guys make too that will concern me, which will also make me think that it's also risky to settle down with a man that says yes to different women easily, because it makes him a womanizer and he'll end up bringing different women, STDs, and a damaged dick into our marriage and still blame me for it because most of you guys don't like taking responsibility for your actions.

You'd still want women to take responsibility for your own wrong doings.

komzy589:

You’re just making his point for him.
He’s saying that if you’re a woman that falls for men like that, then you’re not worthy of him.

Fearyourcreator:

Emotional ... See wahala... Non virgin dey vex cus someone wants a virgin... See wahala ... Na person say say make you no be virgin again or no carry virginity marry... If a man condemn him fine or a woman who is a virgin fine... No be ajade apeere

dawnomike:
Dey play you hear? Be searching for a virgin over happiness.

I know a couple, they dated for 10yrs, he married a wife as a virgin and she still cheated on him.

Marrying a virgin is a beautiful thing, but getting married to someone that will give you joy and peace goes beyond explanation

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

komzy589:

This your excuse doesn’t sound sensible. Everyman is not the same. Just as we have virgin girls, we also have virgin men.
Most of the time, those men seeking for virgins to marry are virgins themselves.
It is hypocrisy if you want someone to be something that you cannot be.

That’s why you see that most promiscuous men do not really care about marrying a virgin wife.
But a good number of decent men will go for virgins over non-virgins.

Fearyourcreator:

He wants a virgin which one be your own ... Because you not one you dey vex

lovediehatelive:

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.


As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.
The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.
What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?


I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.


She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.


But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.


Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

ukaface:

Keep looking for virgin
Don’t settle for less