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RomanceRe: How Old Were You When You First Made Love And.... (18+) Only by optimistbynature: 2:31pm On Apr 12, 2016
CHINNYZ:
Hmmmm Natin to say
nice dp u got there...where are u based??
RomanceRe: Ladies, can You Send Your unclad Picture To Your Partner? by optimistbynature: 7:45am On Apr 05, 2016
Luckyk:
neverland.lolx but why do u ask?
that's just a fictional location..perhaps u tell me the non fictional location in reality?? was hoping and deliberating on a motive which could aid ur boredom ...so allow me indulge u ...would u??
RomanceRe: Don't Go On Dates On Hungry Stomach. by optimistbynature: 5:31pm On Apr 04, 2016
amokeme:
Hehehehe.... Really but there is nothing wrong in going with a hungry stomach so long you will pay your own bills na.
Well, there was this one time I was to meet someone somewhere, but I forgot because I was really busy with some stuffs, and just when I was to go get something to eat (my first meal for the day o cry) he called to remind me, but I told him we needed to reschedule that I'm with a friend and we have been helping my mum sort out some stuffs and I'm really tired. But he insisted. So I said fine, he should meet me at a restaurant becaus we are very hungry (the tone of his voice changed immediately, ) he said "ok no problem coldly" in my mind I was like, look at this one cheesy
Sha sha, he got there before us sef, we exchanged pleasantries and all that... it was time to order, hehehe, me that I like food before, I ordered a heavy meal (I eat too much) my friend too, and he was just looking, I can imagine what was running through his mind (we were meeting for the 1st time).. my friend asked why he wasn't taking anything, and he said "nah I'm fine" I was just smiling inside me. When the bills came, I ordered for a takeaway, and he was clearly unsettled, (the talk wasn't flowing sef)
The final bill came and I paid with my card. The look on his face was priceless (my friend didn't even notice anything, she was too hungry)
He was now like "you didn't have to do that, I was going to cover it" then I told him " well, I don't know how much you are worth so I wouldn't want any inconvenience on your part. By the way, the pack is for you"
The guy took it P sha. And told the person that introduced us that I'm very proud and arrogant angry
I was like are you kidding mehuh What did I do! Sometimes I don't even know what guys want,
Anyways, I can go on a date with an empty stomach, as long as I'm going to pay for my food.. Nobody should have a problem with that angry
its a date then,just give me the time and venue.??
RomanceRe: Features Guys Shouldn't Mention If Abusing A Lady by optimistbynature: 12:32pm On Apr 04, 2016
Estharfabian:
Why would any goat wanna Abuse my Boobies?undecided




Those water melons are to die for! grin
pictures of ur boobies ...
or u know the rest...
RomanceRe: Ladies, can You Send Your unclad Picture To Your Partner? by optimistbynature: 11:58am On Apr 04, 2016
Luckyk:
hahahaha on mind me o, m jxt sad n bored
if I may ask , where exactly are u based??
RomanceRe: Please How Do I Take My Revenge On Her? by optimistbynature: 7:04pm On Apr 03, 2016
Vinshu:
I love this!

Yes use the sister. Sometimes the best way to revenge is by hurting who they love the most. Enact your revenge on the sister.

Leave her alone. Don't help her. I understand how you feel. That's why I am encouraging you to ensure she feels it.

Also let her know it's because of what she did. That's the best part.
what an advice!! have being inclined to read some of ur comments on this forum and trust me they all seem short ranged...I can't imagine what kinda specie u are, to literally give that kind of advice ...u sure have a loved one ?? #its not every time u have to be shallow with ur reasoning...
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Fun And Interactive Bbm Group:kindly Drop Your Pin by optimistbynature: 12:04pm On Apr 03, 2016
jennieee:
add me, m new here, not for hook up,, ,just
friendship...jovial ppl should add me up, wanna
meet new friends .......
7B34365C
do u mind adding up on WhatsApp??
Christianity EtcRe: Share Your Palm Sunday Experience! by optimistbynature: 7:48pm On Mar 20, 2016
Anuoluwapo23:
I spent my Palm Sunday at home..
hope it wasn't all that boring sha??
RomanceRe: Ladies Which Of These Guys Will You Date? by optimistbynature: 8:31pm On Mar 13, 2016
myfantasies:
I will go for the footballer

Maybe i might have d chance of meeting Cristiano Ronaldo grin grin

He has always been my crush
and eventually cheat on him with Ronaldo? well no need to say much , ur moniker says it all
RomanceRe: Our Girls Are Not Cheap. by optimistbynature: 4:04pm On Mar 12, 2016
Stupedinluv:
Don't like Nigerian men.
Nairaland- " Giving voice to the voiceless" Your opinion of Nigerian men don't count ...so stop spewing trash already...
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Hair Is Always Smelling Even Though I Give Her Money For Her by optimistbynature: 3:55pm On Mar 12, 2016
[quote author=ironMind post=43708444]Mr man, with that use of English , trust me u both deserve each other ...so stop complaining and live with it... Your grammar is enough to make a lady's hair smell!!
TravelRe: Trailer & Toyota Corolla In Accident In Benue (Graphic Pictures) by optimistbynature: 8:04pm On Mar 11, 2016
Stupedinluv:
benue sef
quick question?? u made it feel like u have an experience there or perhaps u stay around there....do you??
RomanceRe: Why Does Everyone Think Am A Virgin(pic) by optimistbynature: 10:21am On Mar 08, 2016
[quote author=Stupedinluv post=43579687]well am doing an entry level job on finance in a flour mill company. Where i live? priv.[/quote

just checked through ur profile and it seems like u might just be a young graduate , who is probably in her service year and might be done in some few months, due to the fact that u said u are doing an entry level job...so u probably a corp member or a prospective one at that...
and once again I noticed something from ur posts and topics created...ama keep that till later when u need me to create ur indulgence...
RomanceRe: Why Does Everyone Think Am A Virgin(pic) by optimistbynature: 9:19am On Mar 08, 2016
[quote author=Stupedinluv post=43579073]Lolsssss am innocent o [/quote

u just let yourself away with that word"innocent"
people that claim innocent has more guilt than the guilty... am sure u know, IDIBIA himself claims to be INNOCENT in this ...anyways where are u based ?? what kinda job do u do??
RomanceRe: Why Does Everyone Think Am A Virgin(pic) by optimistbynature: 9:03am On Mar 08, 2016
Stupedinluv:
Hey ive been an observer for long decided to join this happy family. cheesy wink

So do i look like a virgin for real ? everywhere i go i get the "you look innnocent you must be a virgin" It was fun before but now its getting embarrassing.

Pic is attached to my profile info
from ur profile pics, u actually seem like a non virgin only that u got features that could pass for a virgin... have met some couple of females that are mistaken to be virgins , but in their closet , they are the coded ones who gets served atleast thrice a week on a regular...I guess that goes for u too ?? #nobodyastoknow
RomanceRe: When A Girl Says She Is A Tomboy To A Potential Boyfriend Material by optimistbynature(op): 7:52pm On Feb 05, 2016
thank you for the comments and advise you have given thus far...

if u could remember in the preceding post, I talked about we getting to talk about the issue she brought when we see.... We saw today during clearance, in opposite direction actually, she was coming and I was leaving , it felt really awkward for me, seeing her, I just felt like snubbing her or something, not my fault for that thought, we eventually walked closer , and the greeting was just seemingly fake , she kinda was with her friend so I couldnt stop to talk to her, but the way her friend stared, was so obvious they discussed me in full length...now am thinking, what should I do , because I know myself , I loose interest easily....

what is the next movehuhhuh
RomanceRe: When A Girl Says She Is A Tomboy To A Potential Boyfriend Material by optimistbynature(op): 7:33pm On Feb 05, 2016
texybaby:
Hk
do u literally dress like the male folks do ,or is it just the character u portray that places u as a tomboy??

The girl in this my topic context, actually doesnt show any signs of being a lesbian, cos she dresses like the female folks and has a couple of male friends she seldom rolls with ... and her roommate is actually always in the picture when she hangs out..that's the confusing part...
RomanceRe: When A Girl Says She Is A Tomboy To A Potential Boyfriend Material by optimistbynature(op): 7:21pm On Feb 05, 2016
HateU2:
And you are a corper ooo
I guess that's a sacarstic comment..but wait why don't u address the issue on ground in relation to your capacity, perhaps it would yield some help...
RomanceWhen A Girl Says She Is A Tomboy To A Potential Boyfriend Material by optimistbynature(op): 8:20am On Feb 04, 2016
This is actually a non-fiction tale of what ensued between myself and a girl...
Met this girl sometime last year, whilst she was having some challenges with her Nysc's primary place of assignment posting: being an older batch than her, i assured her that I would find a befitting place to suit her convenience and taste .
Exchanged contacts and talked on phone,sparingly on WhatsApp before we went for the Christmas and New year celebration..
Our short calls turned into long calls, started getting fond of ourselves but noticed every time I played around with words, like calling her sweet names and sometimes flirting with her ...she once said that "I am a tom-boy, stop flirting" and I kinda joked and asked her what she meant ....
Initially she has this friend of hers', a girl, they stay together and always seem to roll together, but I just felt it was a normal thing for girls to always move around together.. every time I invited her to my house she would sound cool about it like she would come ,but with her friend, but I didn't want to sound offensive that I wanted her to come alone, because I sensed tension when ever am flirting and talking on phone with her...
Last night, I called her and she was all dull on the phone , asked her like what's wrong, because our discussions are always lively to the point we would anticipate when we see, she just said that she feels she has been receiving and sending the wrong vibes that she wants to tone down the way she seem to get so free with me, and she was at that point trying to explain further that she many guy folks that she is friend with but she isnt ....and at that point she stammered and didnt complete the sentence, I noticed her friends voice in the background ,perhaps that was why she startled... i asked her that we should see to talk about this because its not a phone conversation and she said okay on Friday...
Am quite worried why her attitude just dropped all of a sudden because we still chatted a day before last night , was even teasing her that she shouldn't dream about me just yet that am not done editing some scenes of me ...that i didn't want her seeing me unedited... and she anticipated we seeing that she was gonna break my head teasingly..
the question thus is why did her attitude just changed suddenlyhuh and also y does she keep saying she is a Tom-boy, she has said it twice actually??

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