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FamilyRe: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Optimisticlady: 8:21pm On Sep 19, 2020
I feel your pain my dear, such is also what am experiencing right now but not from my parents but relatives. My brother you owe no one but if there's anything you can do for them that cannot affect you negatively, just do it for God's sake but just count yourself as a person that doesn't have parents. But in all your doings apply wisdom so that you will not be enslaved by them.
CelebritiesRe: Queen Nwokoye Celebrates Oluchi, Her Daughter's 1st Birthday (Photos) by Optimisticlady: 8:46pm On Aug 25, 2019
Happy birthday my beautiful name sake Oluchi, may you continue to grow in wisdom and knowledge!
PoliticsRe: Oshiomhole: Okorocha Locked Stadium Against APC Diverted Money Meant For Workers by Optimisticlady: 5:57am On Dec 22, 2018
As David of the old succeeded Saul, so will Onwa Oyoko (Dist Senator Hope Uzodinma) succeed Okorocha come 2019. IJN. Amen
PoliticsRe: "Hope Uzodinma Can't Win Election In Imo" - Okorocha by Optimisticlady: 12:12pm On Nov 10, 2018
The distinguish senator Hope Uzodinma we know come Imo 2019, okoroawusa cannot chose who should succeed him, by the way what is he afraid of? Looking for who will clean off his mess but luck ran out of him.
PoliticsRe: Senator Hope Uzodinma, 34 State Chairmen Of Sheriff's Faction Of PDP Join APC by Optimisticlady: 7:58am On Apr 28, 2018
This is a welcome development. Distinguish Senator Hope Uzodinma is the peoples choice come rain come sun.
Foreign AffairsRe: South Africa Buries Nelson Mandela's Wife, Winnie Mandela Today Aimed Tears by Optimisticlady: 8:32pm On Apr 14, 2018
After her divorce she chose to maintain Mandela's name. It was a choice she made that was why she was addressed as Mandela's.
CelebritiesRe: Linda Ikeji Shares First Photos Since Engagement News by Optimisticlady: 5:51pm On Mar 31, 2018
She is a beautiful lady and very rich. Love you Linda and congrats
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RomanceRe: "After 14 Years Of Dating, He Came To Pay My Bride Price" - Beautiful Lady Says by Optimisticlady: 1:45am On Mar 30, 2018
14 years is a long time to wait, but the man tried to stick to her. Congrats
PoliticsRe: Profile Of Ugwumba Uche Nwosu: Biography Of Rochas Okorocha Choice Of Successor by Optimisticlady: 9:02pm On Feb 23, 2018
Distinguished senator Hope Uzodinma ebe ano come 2019
FamilyRe: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Optimisticlady: 10:38am On Jan 17, 2018
U hv already made up ur mind that there will be nothing good coming out from d marriage and d woman sensed it and decided to be wise. But how are u sure d second woman cannot be wiser n d future. My advise is if you can mend fences with ur first woman and show her love and make her understand she is in a safe hand you will see things turning around for ur good.
CelebritiesRe: Chizzy Alichi Builds A House For Her Parents (Photos) by Optimisticlady: 9:57pm On Dec 26, 2017
This is a good one, I like the courage for denying yourself so many things the actualize your dream. Kudos my sister!
FamilyRe: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Optimisticlady: 6:57am On Dec 26, 2017
You know in most cases when a woman gets married and give birth she relaxes and feels she has arrived. It depends the type of man you fell into my dear, there are men who can ignore your laxity and take whatever they see, some will start giving you attitudes. Men build houses and women build homes. Just cool down and work on yourself and determine that this marriage must work, Give him positive attitude, play fool and pretend as if you are not seeing his ugly behaviours, identify his good mood and with lower voice talk to him and point out the areas you want him to change things.

At times involving third parties in marriages doesn't work and can worsen things., it is two of you can make it work, but you have to play the major roles, spice it, garnish it with true love and prayers.

It is the woman that owns marriage and you are the one that can make it work with your prayers. If you divorce him and did not work on yourself now, you may see similar attitude on your future partner.

Mind you in divorce is the woman that suffers most. Be supportive both mental, financial and otherwise, because any mistake from your side, there are more beautiful hundred of girls out there ready to take your place and treat him more better no matter how bad he is. I have spoken. Shalom!
EventsRe: 108th Birthday Of Ghanaian Woman With 10 Children, 50 Grandchildren, 47 Greatgra by Optimisticlady: 1:10pm On Dec 13, 2017
HBD Ma, may God bless your new age.
PoliticsRe: Joy Ezechikamnayo: Abia One Day Governor (Photos) by Optimisticlady: 1:19pm On Dec 11, 2017
Congrats my dearie
FamilyRe: Posters Warning A Husband Snatcher In Enugu Flood The Streets by Optimisticlady: 7:48am On Dec 11, 2017
This is not the best approach, she may end up loosing her life or the marriage if care is not taking. I will advise her to go down on her kneels and sort it out with God. That is only way out.
PoliticsRe: Uche Secondus Elected PDP Chairman Amid Protests By Other Aspirants by Optimisticlady: 6:13am On Dec 10, 2017
Congratulation!
PoliticsRe: Uche Secondus Elected PDP Chairman Amid Protests By Other Aspirants by Optimisticlady: 6:11am On Dec 10, 2017
Congratulation my brother
SportsRe: "I Am A Sinner For Pussy" - Chichi Igbo Comes Out As Lesbian? (Photos) by Optimisticlady: 8:53pm On Sep 29, 2017
Let him go and marry his girl friend Bobriscky. They are to match.lol
CelebritiesRe: Tuface And Wife, Annie Donate Massively To Benue Flood Victims by Optimisticlady: 1:53pm On Sep 07, 2017
This is a good move 2Baba and Annie. God bless you!
PoliticsRe: Your Committee On Restructuring Has No Igbo Leader – Muslim Group Blasts APC by Optimisticlady: 1:45pm On Jul 24, 2017
May God deliver us from this mess
CelebritiesRe: Flavour Features Semah G. Weifur In "Most High" Gets Accolades Over Blind Boy by Optimisticlady: 9:53am On Jul 21, 2017
This is a good move. Keep it up Mr Flavor
CrimeRe: Burial Of Woman Shot By Policeman Who Was Chasing Yahoo Boy In Lagos (Photos) by Optimisticlady: 5:53am On Apr 12, 2017
RIP
FashionRe: Lady Growing Her Dreads For 23 Years. See What It Looks Like by Optimisticlady: 11:03pm On Mar 23, 2017
Accumulation of demons, please go for deliverance!
FashionRe: Lady Growing Her Dreads For 23 Years. See What It Looks Like by Optimisticlady: 11:01pm On Mar 23, 2017
Accumulation of demons
FamilyRe: Great Grandma Stuns In This Four Generations Photo by Optimisticlady: 11:53am On Mar 22, 2017
This is lovely
PoliticsRe: Governor Umahi Gives N500K To Crippled Man Brutalized By Soldiers. Photo by Optimisticlady: 10:30am On Feb 15, 2017
Kenny. You have not been following the trend. He has already gotten accommodation from kokun foundation and some gifts/cash, even from the head of the military in anambara state. God has used those devil's incanates to beat off the poverty in him
PoliticsRe: Rachael Dickson And Her Quadruplets Arrive Nigeria (Photos) by Optimisticlady: 11:43am On Feb 13, 2017
God's work!
CrimeRe: Bayelsa Woman Out To Punish Husband Poisons Her Children, Killing One (pic) by Optimisticlady: 4:34am On Feb 12, 2017
Your own children? Something is wrong somewhere.
CelebritiesRe: New "Deeper Life' Look Of Actress Patience Ozokwor by Optimisticlady: 8:44pm On Feb 11, 2017
She is a role model, but can anybody replace her role? I doubt.

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