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DeeTus:
I have a question to ask and I need an honest answer. Can i go ahead?

Go ahead

kirchofff:
do girls like funny guys( I mean guys that talk in public e.g arguments with friends or a guy that's quiet(gentle that does not talk in public or shy)? Wch 1 do most girls prefare??.....cheers

Funny guy for me dont wat quiet guy who is shy to speak in d public.

Talk nd make pple around u laugh out loud nd forget their worries.

Odunharry:
Nice response..
So can we blame men who cheat on their wives cos they were denied sex??

Can we blame men who cheat on their wives cos the wives are always traveling or should I say hardly have time for the husband??

Have no idea y men cheat but I wil say men cheat cos their wife doesnt pay attention to them, d wife is not good in bed, d man is tired of avin sex wit one person wit d same position.
or d woman denial her husband sex cos she wasnt ready at d time her husband ask 4 sex.

You guys should pls tell us y u cheat.

naturenat:
U gat my taste of boobz, ur pretty tho

Lolz


thankx tho!

kaboninc:
Hi Twaci and every beautiful lady mentioned here. Forgive me....I just grabbed the entire post and with the deliberate intention of having your attention.

Also, I believe that most if not all of you are young adults and hence my question is specifically addressed to you and others within your age range.

Here's my question: why are most young girls so stingy? Stingy about loved ones, stingy about themselves, hardly ever make sacrifices over another person but rather focus their time, their energy, their money and other resources in the pursuit of vanity?

Vanity in this context: spending so much money, time and energy on looks which with tiny drops of rain or a light ray of sunlight, the looks would just vanish.

Having this crave for attention on social media especially on Facebook, like it gives one some form of validation. Like deriving some form of satisfaction, joy and happiness when you upload pictures that in the real sense never defines who you truly are. And in so doing, you create a kind of cold, intense competition, fueling rivalry among yourselves.

Hmmm dis ur question get as e b!


To me they jst wat to show off to other ladies to cos jealousy nd hate among others.

Me not stingy I give out wat I av.

prinsam30:
u sent me an email right

Yes I did dear.

Am off gotta read mention my name if u want me to ans any question.

See u guys later!

naijamakossa:
my last question

why do ladies find it very difficult to forget about the one that break their virginity or their first lover even when they are already dating someone else

I bet any guy in this room they are ready to leave u for that dude that break their virginity or their first lover


so ladies why

I have no idea to dis question ladies who av experience this will say better.

Cutehector:
Fifth question

If I offend my girlfriend, like a very very serious offense, and she gets all upset about the matter, should I as a guy, keep on pestering her with apologies that moment?


Or just give her time to cool down, befor coming to apologize. Note that in some cases, guys think dat not apologizing at that moment would mean he doesn't give a damn of her feelings, hence this second motive.




So which of the two works out best in seeking for forgiveness from a broken hearted girl

Ask for forgiveness immedately so she can forgive u nd smile again b4 she wil leave ur presence. Always ask at dat moment nd dont wait 4 days b4 u send ur apologies to her if not she will think u r among others who are too big to say sorry nd who always ask ur frnds for advice on wat to do. Dat shows dat u cant make decisions on ur own except someone intervene in ur relationship.

dannyben5:
My second quest.is a girl's love more pure than that of a guy? Cc:twaci and others

Dis question hard oooo, for my opinion no one love's is pure for each other cos no one is perfect u cant say who is pure nd not.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]And how many girls will make the first move on the first date?

Don't be a joker. [/color]

A lot of ladies who think dat intimacy nd sex r part of them. Some ladies date cos of sex dont forget dat.

But if she doesnt make any form of move or reaction or body language than know dat u av to keep off ur mind frm intimacy or sex frm ur mind.

Smellymouth:
How does putting on eyeliner work?

I feel like the process resembles something from a "SAW" movie and I can’t understand how a pencil around such a sensitive area isn’t excruciating.

Lol for me I dont know cos I dont apply eyeliner or any form of make ups on my face.
Those who does dis wil tell u better.

dannyben5:
av been observing, now my quest.why is it that girls can never summon the courage to walk up to a guy she like even if she dying inside to have that guy?

This cos our tradition sees it as a taboo for a girl to ask a guy out.

I created a thread saying am crushing on a guy nd pple started calling me names nd insulting me. Why cos is a taboo is not right.
But I will prefer those insult than dying inside me wit d feeling.

As d saying goes is better to express ur feeling to someone than to keep quite nd die in silence cos of wat d society wil say.

Is better to talk nd die than keep quite nd die.

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]Oh Wow, this is lovely

Thanks for this.[/color]

U welcum!

Cutehector:
Fourth Question

When a girl visits a guy in his house/lodge and they are just new in dating, is it appropriate for the guy to initiate any form of intimacy

or is it advisable for him to be patient enough until when she is very much confortable with him so as to avoid any form of awkward moments

If u really av a good intention on d lady u should b patient wit her, expect she make d first move b4 u can av any intimacy wit her if not keep ur My Johnson inside ur bag nd bring up a nice conversation dat wil keep u guys busy still she goes.

STFUareyouG0d:
Why do girls get mad/jealous when their BF gets side chick?

Y should he av a side chick nd u expecting me not to get jealous.

I cant share my man wit any lady born of woman.

Cutehector:
Third question

In your opinion ladies, what are those things you don't like that guys always form a habit of doing

1. Not listening wen I talk nd expecting me to listen to them.
2. Thinking am lyk other girls.
3. Thinking am cheating on him nd always being jealousy wen am wit a frnd who he knows abt.
4. Lack communication.
5. D most annoying testing me to find out if i still love him. So annoying.

Announcer007:
Why do women refuse their husbands sex but still go fvck houseboys , plumber, driver or securityman?

I dont know cos I still as myself dis question but sometime d man is at fault cos some men travel a lot nd abandon their wife who are starving in sex.

If a man gives his wife sex wen she ask of it i dont think she wil look somewere else.
If a man doesnt travel always for business trip think his wife wont go out nd look for wat she is missing.
Some women might not enjoy their husband sex.

My own opinion!

Cutehector:
second question

Is it proper for a guy to begin to give gifts to a girl at the early stages of dating?

No is not proper to me cos you trying to use gift to bring me to u.

What happen after I av accepted you wil u still be given me gift I guess no.

Y wil u buy me wit gifts?
Be yourself pretend to b poor to girls if a accept u wen u poor then b rest assure she wil b wit u nd neve u.

Giving me gifts shows u dont worth me but my body.


Dont buy a girl a gift at d beginning of any relationship.

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]Why is it that some girls can't have a good relationship(I mean being friends) with guys they're a little bit older than. Even if the guy is very mature[/color]

Not so my dear.

I dated a guy who am a bit older than I gave him all I can give but d guy keeps getting jealousy wen he seems me wit other guys even wit my coursemate.

I gave him a lot of my time but he wasted it. He always think am cheating on him.

He said am not proud of avin him, but I try to introduce him to my brother nd my Priest but he refuse to see them so wat can I do. He doesnt wat to see those am close to. Why only him knows.

Am older than him but I make him to take over d relationship but he failed.

Girls doesnt reject a guy cos he is younger than them but for what d guy thinks of d relationship.

JoeCutie:
Why do you think men and women should be equal, but then most of the responsibilities during marriage ceremonies - traditional and white wedding- and in the family are taken up (mostly only) by the men?

Cc: Twaci, and or anybody (female) who cares to answer.

We are not asking to b equal with d responsbilities of marriage we are only asking for equal right in d society, we should b given respect in d society, give us d same right u give to men cos without women i dont think there wil b men.

Champagnepapi:
I was dating a girl way back.. Which we loved each other so much.. Suddenly, her sister showed discomfort in our relationship and asked her to break up... She told me the reason and she eventually did... I can't understand something there.. Why'd she succumb to her sister suggestion? It brings me the question if she really did love me?

She might also love you but her sister might also av told her some things she should know abt relationship, nd her sister might warm her to stay off cos of religion nd tribe wont let u guys be together.

prinsam30:
perfectly doing great
and how's ur ends

Bless God dear.

Cutehector:
I wish to ask a question too..




I'd use a story to explain myself. I hav this female friend, we'v been online friends for years.. way back to the very times 2go came up, up till this day, we'v not yet met ourselves in person. Well dats not the issue. She says she met a guy sometime last year and dis guy in question is the nicest man any girl can wish to have, and dat he even proposed to her.. she told me dat she doesn't love him


I'm so surprised.. like seriously, u hav someone who lavishes u with gifts, is caring, nice, gentle, cute, buh she doesn't feel any love for him.

I duno if u get my point


So my question is this


What is it dat a guy will do dat will make a girl attracted to him.. cuz from what she told me, this dude is 100 percent cool.. buh she just doesn't seem to return the feelings.

It's really hurting me cuz i"v been there.

Well for me this girl like this guys jst as he is, she didnt jst reject d guy lyk dat as u said she doesnt av a feeling for d guy which u cant force her to accept u.

To me I will prefer that guy as a friend instead of avin him as a boyfrnd cos if I date him I might not b comfortable as he was to me b4 d relationship started.

To d girl she might b in love with some1 else nd decision to give dat guy a try nd find out she cant love dat guy d way she love her boyfriend.

She might reject d guys cos of religion nd tribe also. Cos her parent might not b ready to accept d guy so is better she doesnt start a relationship dat wont lead to marriage.


My view on your female friend.

Cutehector:
optional1 dat twaci or any lady answers a question first doesn't mean another lady won't answer it. We guys need different opinions on d same issue so we can knw how to handle the matter optimally. So please ur work should be to answer and not to keep asking questions.. infact I asked a question just nw so answer it!

Ok boss!

Twaci dear please do mention names dat wil answer a particular question frm d guys not only u answering it. Some of us might not b able to contribute cos u r answering all d question.

Thanks dear!

Good work God bless!

Present ma

prinsam30:
Gbam!!! Amen

anyway you did me no wrong, no need to apologize I'm just happy and having fun with your replies, no offense pls

send me a mail and let me show u something

email: mybrainatwork1@gmail.com

Thanks dear,


guess u doin fine.

Dongata:
Awayu my darling

Am good dear and u.

Dongata:
Baby!!!
You know I lof you like buhari dey lof travelling.
I lof you pass big yansh!
baby I go hunt you pass huntelaar.

Oya cum chop kiss.

Lols,

baby boo I would av lof to catch d kiss but am still a virgin in kiss. Lolz

Dongata:
Dedicated to optional1.

By Michael Martins.

Enemies dey say make I nor love you, but no be today yansh dey back
Enemies make you na stay for back like Ikebe, me and my babe they advance like Leicester for front.
Who open this soak_away sef, shit smell no they let man concentrate.
I dey die for you my babe, Even though enemy wan drink otapiapia for our sake.
Be my river make I be your fish.
Be my ekpa make I be your garri ijebu.

Thanks dear really appreciate this so much.
God bless you and increase your MagaBite for my sake. Amen.


Lemme b a fish u b my fisherman.
Lemme b an antelope u b my hunter.



Thanks so much Dongata!

So what should we do now?