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RomanceWish A Nairalander You Know A Happy Ramadan (Holy Month Of Fasting)! by optional1(op): 4:06am On Jun 06, 2016
Wishing all the Muslim brothers and sister a Happy Ramadan (Holy Month of Fasting) may Allah forgive your sins and accept your thanksgiven and sacrifices. May you all live to withness next year's Ramadan. Amin.

Happy Holy Month of Ramadan
Cc. My hubby klexycole
Nychillax
rildwanullahi
and to all other muslims on NL.


You can also send warm wishes to any muslim brother or sister you know.
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 3:32am On Jun 06, 2016
RoyalBlak007:
grin grin cheesy
wat? :8
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 3:29am On Jun 06, 2016
Odunharry:
lol...how can you truly love who you don't trust??
So cos of actions of about two guys or there about u decided never to trust anyone??
Anyways trust itself is expensive and for one to be trusted, he/she has to earn it..

Don't tell me you don't trust your current bf??

The truth is trust issues is not peculiar to you alone..Many people out there find it difficult trusting their partners mainly due to what they have experienced in the past etc
I will advice you try to build the trust together with any guy...
I have come to realize lies, not saying what you mean, know even saying what you want, past experience(both personal and non personal ), are among reasons people find it hard to trust the other.
Remember trust is an ingredient for an healthy relationship And being in a relationship without trust is like staying a car without engine you will just stay in there but trust me you guys will Neva get far.
Trust for my current bf is not more than 30%
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by optional1(f): 10:30pm On Jun 05, 2016
drered:
Test how??
Testing by stop calling nd texting ur girl waitin to hear frm her to see if she really misses u or value ur love. To know how her ego wil b lyk.
RomanceRe: Share The Most Embarrassing Kiss You've Ever Had! I Farted So Loudly Lol. by optional1(f): 6:22pm On Jun 05, 2016
jennifer10066:
Dont forget he's ur bro!
My dear he can never b my bro.
He is so disgusting.
RomanceRe: Share The Most Embarrassing Kiss You've Ever Had! I Farted So Loudly Lol. by optional1(f): 5:53pm On Jun 05, 2016
RoyalBlak007:
Pretty.thick.sme...Tw.aci...Lav.eda...ref.iner....lan.icky....mi.mzy....sin.aj....ons.telly...dol.ly.joy...

[color=#AB56BA]naugh.tynau.ghty...coun.try.girl...miss.picy...optional1....coman goan share your experience...am sure ya'll have lots to tell tongue[/color]
Most embarrassing kiss hmmm,

Is d day my cousin sink his mouth on my mouth witout me knowing dat was coming nd it happened in public.

It was so annoying cos i av neve kissed b4 nd he was my blood.

I started cleaning my mouth immedately cos immedately he put his mouth on my lips I pushed him away.

Gosh I hate dat day ever since then I hate dat my cousin lyk mad seeing him is so irritating.
If I could kill someone dis minute I dont mind killing dat my cousin.

So annoying
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 5:36pm On Jun 05, 2016
RoyalBlak007:
Optional1.....what's da first thing that cums to ur mind when

[color=#AB56BA]a guy invites you to his crib?[/color]
It can never pass dat negative thought no positive thought on my head at dat moment.

Dat first thought is he gonna av sex wit me.
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 5:31pm On Jun 05, 2016
Dongata:
sweerie. happy sunday
Happy Sunday my dear.

Hw was service?
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 5:25pm On Jun 05, 2016
Odunharry:
Twaci y do some gals find it difficult trusting their guys esp when the guy is away
I cant trust a guy y cos dey dont value my trust.


My first bf I over trusted him he batray my trust my using d method of testing to test my love for him nd later he found another gal which I neve knew until d day he did his introduction. Tell me Y i should trust a guy dat away frm me.

Second bf I trusted him I believe everything he was saying not until I found out he was jst lying on top of lie. He claim he was a virgin but I later found out he wasnt.

I can never trust a guy not even 5% of my trust to him . Dy r selfish to others.
RomanceRe: Amazing Photos Of Couple Suspended In The Air During Pre-wedding Photoshoot by optional1(f): 10:06pm On Jun 04, 2016
Fedayeen02:
are you talking to flirty.karen
Abeg oooo did I mention any name abeg no carry me go far oooo.
Beside who bear dat name?
RomanceRe: Amazing Photos Of Couple Suspended In The Air During Pre-wedding Photoshoot by optional1(f): 5:25pm On Jun 04, 2016
coolsix:
She looks fat and ugly.

I so much prefer the first couple in the gym. That woman was so hot. Not this shapeless sex starved tin.

It's this type that would be shouting baba sikira and tying wrapper.
Lol

u forgot dat d ugly ones r getting married every saturday while d beautiful ones r busy doin bridesmaid nd aso ebi.
RomanceRe: Amazing Photos Of Couple Suspended In The Air During Pre-wedding Photoshoot by optional1(f): 5:15pm On Jun 04, 2016
Biko frm wch country.
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by optional1(f): 4:06pm On Jun 04, 2016
JeffreyJamez:
Hehehe, Well While Twaci has given us (guys) the opportunity to have little insight into the minds of the average girl on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/3142555/know-us-better-girls-edition I feel it's time we do the same, abi guys wetin una feel?

Cc: Kingtom
Naijaboiy
StfuareyouG0d
Kinglekan
Muva
Smellymouth
Cutehector
Obiorathesubtle
Iamkingzlee
1. Why do u guys think all ladies r hoes?

2. Why do u guys dont take No 4 an Answer. Dat is if u ask a girl out she refuse nd say No y is it hard for u to leave her nd look for another girl, is she d only girl in av ever seen.

3. Why do guys like testing their bae?

4. Why do guys think dat after a break up wit a girl dat dy can come back to her at anytime nd expecting her to accept him back.

5. Why do guys keeping calling a girl almost 5times a day wen dy r trying to ask her out but stop calling wen dy av win d girl over to themselves.
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 3:38pm On Jun 04, 2016
BlessedFellow:
Haha! Soldier oga indeed smiley
cool cool cool cool
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 12:57pm On Jun 04, 2016
BlessedFellow:
Haha! Hopefully, tomatoes go don cheap or we fit import from Malaysia. Hope you are inviting us soon?
Yea we can import d tin tomatoes.



Yes I will surely invite ina wen my soldier oga has propose.
RomanceRe: Benefit Of Dating A Soldier Man. by optional1(op): 12:50pm On Jun 04, 2016
manmade:
How is the soldier man and his rank,? then do u really like him?
Dont know abt his rank but according to him, he has spent 3year in d army.

No I dont really like him I JUST lyk him cos he is cool nd nice.
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 12:44pm On Jun 04, 2016
Dongata:
That's my babe.

Optiooooooooonal1
Hello dear,

Good afternoon nd happy weekend.

Hope u doing great!
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 10:38am On Jun 04, 2016
BlessedFellow:
Maybe the guy don see "vision" say na you be him "special one" na im make am still dey around.

I still dey gather the money. Hopefully, at some point next year. smiley
Lol VISION 2020 I guess.




By nxt year hopefully tomatoes wil b cheap so plenty of stew on top of d rice.

All d best!
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 10:06am On Jun 04, 2016
Rexhenrex:
the number is very true we don't play am more of an introvert.ur points are very valid i appreciate it thanks.
At ur service sir.
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 9:23am On Jun 04, 2016
BlessedFellow:
I think it took up to a month before she began to show him some green light. She switched off her phone for a couple of days at some point because she was not "interested".
A month nd my is getting to 9months nd d guy refuse to give up.

Congrat to ur frnd so wen r we coming to chop ur own wedding cake nd white rice wit stew.
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 6:29am On Jun 04, 2016
Rexhenrex:
[b]i have been looking forward to this kind of opportunity..
1,she says am too official what does it mean pls?

2,how do i get to tell a lady i want a relationship without sex without her leaving me? Av got 3 ruined ones

3,my present bae says am too innocent for her,what kinda of bad boy trait do girls like or want in a guy...

Thanks pls i need answers[/b]twa.ci,juh.an,es.ejessy,sin.aj,mim.zy,refi.ner,dolly.joy,mathe.matical,hisdu.chess,optional1.
1. U official dat means u not friendly, u strict, u behaviour lyk a boss too much, u dont give her space to talk nd ask questions. U wat her to obey all u say. My idea sha

2. Is there any need of telling her u wat a free sex relationship? Well u can tell her u wat a free sex relationship after u might av win her over. If after telling her she got angry nd left no she is not ready for u but if after telling her she still stay no dat she is for u nd she is ready to do anytin to make u happy. My idea sha

3. If u r too innocent for her then break up wit her cos one way or d other she wil b cheating on u. Cos she wat a bad guy nd not a good guy, u will only b her bank manager till she finally dump u herself. My idea nd opinion sha.
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 6:18am On Jun 04, 2016
Emodeee:
Why would i chase you for eight months? When you are not lan.icky.
Who ask u to chase me?
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 6:14am On Jun 04, 2016
kaboninc:
Lol

Continue giving false hope while you chop the goodies that come with it. If your no is indeed a no, why not stick to it?

You wan chop and clean mouth. Name the day him go remember you
Lol

I didn't ask him for anything he is d one who is giving nd I collect it. My No is my No but since he cant jst go lemme help him nd eat d fud.

I will chop enough clean mouth nd do as if I neve met him before.
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 6:07am On Jun 04, 2016
BlessedFellow:
Chai! Some guys believe things can change so they don't mind hanging around for months or years. I have also heard of cases when the girl said no at first but later changed her stance after the guy showed his resilience/seriousness.

The first time my mate met his wife she gave him a "no" because she had someone else. However, my buddy was able to convince her he was better than the guy. They are married now.
My No cant change due to sum personally reason.

Normally a girl's first ans should b No to see if d guy will still b asking her out.
But wen u see she is not changing frm her NO what will u do still hang around giving yaself hope.

How many months did it take ur buddy's wife to say Yes?
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 9:32pm On Jun 03, 2016
BlessedFellow:
Thanks!
1. But why give the guy false hope as he's the "handbag/placeholder"? smiley
Cos dey refuse to take No 4 an answer.

Imagin a guy askin me out 4 8months now I said No to him but he refuse to go so i av no choice than to pity him nd give him force hope on me.

A No is a No 4 me but if u r too stubborn to take dat No i wil use u as my handbag oooo.
RomanceRe: Who Knows Kulboy Please??? by optional1(op): 8:55pm On Jun 03, 2016
Youngpo413:
your current bf no?
My current bf no 4 wat?
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 7:56pm On Jun 03, 2016
BlessedFellow:
1. Why do some girls remain in relationship they know has no headway? Going into committed relationship with a guy they know there is no prospect of them getting married in the future?

2. Why is it that girls don't like nice guys? One of my buddies was so nice to his girls that he will ask any male friend to sit in the rear seat of his car when he wants to go pick her up. I was shocked to hear the lady carried on and that ended the r/ship.

3. Why do some girls prefer lies to the truth? They will go with anyone who tells them big lies like he's Dangote's cousin etc rather than a hardworking and sincere guy?

4. What's special about tall, dark, muscular guys?
1. To me is to keep me busy till I find my Mr right. Am using him as my hand bag 4 d main time......... Lol grin

2. I lyk nice guys who doesnt pretend to b some else. Be urself nd b nice to me.

3. I hate guys who lie will b disappointed to any guy i find out has been lying to me. Dat relationship wil be over at dat minute.

4. Nothing is special abt them is jst our mentality. Who no lyk better thing.
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 7:32pm On Jun 03, 2016
Nnaabros:
Do women really like deep kissing? I mean deep kissing with tongue and all? Or just plain lips only? smiley
Individual difference to me I prefer deep kisses dont know abt other ladies.
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 11:18am On Jun 03, 2016
iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]1 What makes you fall for a guy?

2 Would you still stay with a guy you love but his sex game aint strong?

3 How do you think is the best way to satisfy a girl?

Cc:Twaci,Optional1,Laveda safarigirl and others[/color]
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 9:29am On Jun 03, 2016
DeeTus:
Thanks. I really don't date a woman for sex. I look for qualities in her. But sex can come naturally, no problem.

I don't do sex that much, maybe once in a while. But romance is key to me. And this is my power. cheesy May, this is why when I date a girl, she always takes me as her future husband and I'm committed. I can go extra mile for a lady but my problem is that I don't call very often. But I will try as much as I could to change that and to be a better man.
Dont call too much wen trying to ask a girl out cos wen u call too much u wont call her wen she has accepted you.

U can send morning txt nd call in d night.

I hate wen a guy call me almost everyday cos he is trying to ask me out mean why if i accept him he wont call as he use to call before. Too much of calls is not good atleast give d girl space so she can think nd if she misses u she wil call u nd ask y ain't u calling again.


Dont call a lady u trying to woo too much.
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 9:13am On Jun 03, 2016
Mediapace:
Lemme know them ladies now,time to ask my own questions :

*Is it possible for a lady to love a man she had never met before ?

*How do you ladies cope with a virgin Man during wedding night? And Do you like it when a Man is a virgin i.e. Has no experience about sex likewise you during honeymoon?

*Ladies how do you feel when a man break up relationship with you cos you aren't busty &but-ty?

*Can you date man that is not that handsome to your taste ?

Cc
ishilove
twaci
optional1
Laveda
1. Is possible for a girl to love a guy she hasnt met before.

2. Am not married so I av no idea but I dnt wat a virgin husband.

3. No guy has broken any relationship wit me cos am not busty or butty.

4. Handsome is not all abt everything, so Yes I can date a guy who is not dat handsome dat I love.
RomanceRe: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 7:32am On Jun 03, 2016
DeeTus:
OK. My question is like this. I met a chick where i went for work in another state. This girl declared her for me but because i didn't like her, so i turned her down.

The second i met was really nice. She's cool and very caring. But never knew the two girls knew each other till both of them spoke with me at the same time on phone. The first girl was upset and decided to spoil the second girl's mind. Though she has promised to come visit me here in Abuja and spend some time with me. Should I leave the second chick as well to maintain peace?
U said u dnt like d first girl right?
D second is ur taste of a girl right?

Do u want d girl as a wife or jst sex partner if is 4 wife go ahead nd invite her over if is for sex mate leave her for peace to rain btw d 2 girl nd find some1 else.

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