surgebitcoin:
The question should be is she doing her job satisfactory? If yes then you have no reason to sack her.

Yes she is doing her job well, but how will she cope with second abortion? and if she decides to leave the pregnant will I allow her to my business premises with pregnancy?

Blackmoran:
I will do the same thing if I were in your shoes, op don't feel guilty about that... We are all inquisitive in nature we love to solve mysteries... I can bet those typing why it is bad to check her message will do exact same thing you do.... My problem with you is after finding out who she is why you bothered so much, it seems you have a kind of emotions for her, if she is good at her job I don't think you have anything to worry about.. Its are personal life.....

You see because of her good attitude toward work and her costmated godly lifestyle we had make an attempt of assisting her to further her education before the lockdown. So I was seriously discouraged.

BillKapri96:
[color=#770077][/OP, sit her down and talk her. You coming in contact with her facebook maybe destiny or something, maybe God wants to use your to help the poor girl]

But should I let her know I checked her messages. How will she react?

izzou:
That girl is too young to start ruining herself

I don't think I'll be able to mind my business, if it was me

I had even tried to ignore but am not finding it very easy thats why I informed my wife and brought it up here just to be sure I do the right thing

Ningen:
We all have a responsibility towards building a sane society. As her employer, don't turn a blind eye to her promiscuous lifestyle. She's just 21.

As such, sacking her wouldn't solve anything.
What she badly need right now is sex education.

Your wife can take that responsibility.

It's a step forward if she learns from a woman about the dangers of promiscuity & unprotected sex. Please do that for the sake of humanity.

I have discussed that already with my wife, she said she would talk with her provided she cooperate

LastProphet:


Is none of your business because she has not invited you into her private life you only violated it. Did you employ her to be daddy's daughter or sales girl? I suspect you are interested in her

Ok thank you

Ariza:
You may counsel her if you so much care but the truth is you invaded her privacy by checking her inbox.Thats very unprofessional!


BTW are you sure you have no feelings for this girl? This one you can't sleep over her mata?

Funny you, I was shocked at that level of immorality right at my nose

annford:





It was wrong for you to have gone through her chat because you'd have frowned at it if reverse were the case. Personally, I don't think it is in your place to judge her or treat her any different just because you dug up some stuffs about her. If you must let her go, you might as well sit her down, tell her your findings, get her to see her wrong and just hope she changes. I had a similar experience. My Wife and I had met a girl who was an unapologetic lesbian. We did all we could to change her but she just didn't want to change. We tried all we could but she remained adamant. She even got pregnant and didn't know who's baby it was. She later started sleeping with everything male in our neighbourhood. Well, she presently has two children by two different men that she doesn't even know their whereabouts. After trying for months to change her, we had to let her go because at some point, she started falling in love with me and I will never cheat on my wife. My wife and I always gave her goof money, clothing's and foodstuffs but she was neck-deep into sex ( casual sex). I'd advise you try rehabilitating her but if it doesn't work, cut her loose.

Thank you sir, yes I knew it was wrong to check her messages but having sighted some of the I was tempted to dig further. Point noted

BlueAir:
Leave the wayward girl be. It's herself she's doing not you or your business.keep using her for sales.you can sack her when she's turning ur shop to brothel or hookup centre

Alright just thinking as a father is it the best

I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.

Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.

After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5 guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.

I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter?

Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it

yarimo:
Temptation temptation and temptation, From MAKINDE expression it's clear he has made up his mind to finish OYO state treasury.

Bros face your Sai Baba nonsense and stop puting mouth in Oyo matter

lilytender:


Yes, Makinde is leading Ibadan while other Ibadan villagers follow. I am from Ogun, Makinde is not leading Ogun. I am based in Lagos, Makinde is not leading Lagos.

See his mouth, face the reality son

yarimo:
Stupid silly group of people, why not come back to your father's land and do that.

My Dear brother if this turn out to be true, then Nigeria truely is not a country.Why can't Buhari just seat his old ass down at home for once and face governance why is he turning this country to a laughing stock

360kwadoo:
#IPOB!!! IPOB Member Set To Arrest President Buhari With Japanese Police [ Watch

IPOB members storm Nigerian Ambassador’s residence with Japanese Police to 'arrest' President Buhari

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Sj-SAW7VKA

Could this be real?

ambivert27:
@seunmsg

These guys you are quoting are buhari's apologists. you should note their monikers especially that man with a "f" that quoted you first

They can and would never reason with you. Stop glorifying them with mentions.

What about Seunmsg? They are bird of same feathers everyones eyes will soon clear

yarimo:
That is very commendable from the securities agencies , under the leadership of President BUHARI no time for lawlessness .

Did you read the part which said despite court order? Must you support someone blindly? With people like you I keep wondering what will happen to this country in the nearest future. Why can't our leaders obey court orders is that too hard for them to do?
What will you say if INEC fail to issue certificate of return to Okorocha on Monday?

BeijinDossier:
Ihedioha will not do much because okoroawusa left so much debt with so much dilapidated roads undone just like these ones at Owerri

You already making excuses for failure in advance, the youths are the problem of this country

Will it make any differnce? Will it stop the government from shifting blames? This is not our first time of hearing big amounts, with Buhari as the president no hope in sight.

mofedamijo:

Pastor J.T kalejaiye is my uncle and a pastor there, so what's your point, by Gods grace every year ending he spends over 8million naira on welfare, and i know other pastors who do same, some of the pastors are lazy, take that to the bank, part-time pastor and you don't want to engage yourself in something resourceful.... naaaa go n work

am talking about welfare of their pastors you are telling me of Kalejaiye spending 8million , what is the church doing to take care of their pastor who make several contributions on weekly and monthly basis for different reasons and projects atleast I know of two senior pastors who have served in RCCG for more than 20 years and are now very sick every attempt to get help for them from the church proves abortive all the get is prayers and prayers

VivaLaFrans:
Be careful, every vain word must be accounted for, especially by a believer... edit it... death is not far.... after it comes judgement..

Stop deceiving yourself dear , all I have said is truth and nothing but the truth. RCCG is good at milking the poor

Neatboy:
The truth is that so many unholy things are happening in the Church that the leadership are ignorant of. The Church should be growing spiritually, morally, financially and in number all at the same time. If only one aspect is growing there definitely will be issues. The Church is the salt of the world, and not just its saltiness or sourness, but if the salt lose its nutritional values it will no longer serve its proper purposes.

Church leaders need to create balance and do the needful. This issue of Church springing up up and down will be minimized if the bigger denominations will properly take care of their ministers like the Catholic and Anglican Churches. I was a Catholic and I know how much the priests are being taken care of, but the greed and selfishness of many G.Os are nothing to write home about.

God bless you sir

AnonymousIP:
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Femi is right here. RCCG have no welfare package whatsoever for her pastors especially the so called part-time pastors. They are only interested on big projects, so sad RCCG is one Church I love to attend I also encourage others to do so but I can never advice even my enemy to be a pastor there

Lawalemi:
Useless man that refused to develop most part of the state.

Also desperately tried to install his stooge but failed. Who would believe that power could turn a once young man to evil genius

better stop that Amosun remains the best performed governor after Ambode in the South West. That he tried to put his person there does not in anyway mean he did not perform as a governor. If Ajimobi had done half of what Amosun did in Ogun state we would have gladly vote whoever he presents.

Well, looks like this young man is beginning to get some sense

omenkaLives:
Wont be surprised if it was facilitated by the ineffectual buffoon.

Imagine the filth coming out the nostrils of the idiot.

He is not a constitutional lawyer, he's a freaking senior advocate of thieves and terrorists.

Feel so unfortunate sharing same country with these swines honestly.

you appeared so bittered about this Ibos, take things easy bros biterness is a deadly disease. However,I have no sympathy whatsover for the corrupt former CJN he deserved what he got

EvilMetahuman:
shut d fhuck up. You inferiority complex ridden moth. Who is your brother?

why are you romancing disgusting flat heads?
You think romancing them will stop them from hating and back stabbing you

I was about thinking how a human being could type this trash then I took a close look at your moniker

Chipink:


Kanu didn't make that video public.
That's what u should know

Well that is left for him to explain why he recorded his sex life and how it got to the public.

buhariguy:
a traditional ruler that worship porn.star is that one a traditional ruler.
I'm just ashamed for idiotic pigs and their useless ruler

These are the type of people our brothers from the east refers to as Yorubas. Even though some of them had never stepped their foot on Yoruba land

thunderfirebuha:
Any Igbo person that still loves a Yoruba and doing serious things with them is the greatest fool of this century.


The greatest enemies of Igbo are the Yorubas and the earlier Igbo understand this the better for them.

You are so wrong, You don't judge an entire tribe base on few online tribal miscreants on both sides Yoruba and Igbo. The truth is that the real Yorubas and geniue Ibos live peacefully without any rancour. Though I have my reservations about Kanu and his modus for instance, there is nothing wrong with you having affair with your own wife even with anyother person is non of my business but what is the point making it public?

Excaperx:
don't mind him. Saint tinubu and saint oshiomole want to build a great nation for us and thief Jonathan is begging a former thief Daniel not to join saint APC

These nairalanders will not kill person laugh wan tear my stomach