Nezzjnr:

Izu you're seriously high

Ariza:
I said ,"Go away". You are offing clothes.. you sure say you well so?

You dey mad. Me off cloth for someone like you? I never see better fine girls finish na you I wan come dey see. Ode.

Amotolongbo:
We should learn how to separate business from personal life.

She is your sales girl, relate with her strictly on business and show less concern on her personal life.

The way I’m reading your message, there is already a growing emotion in you already towards the girl, the reason you felt so highly disappointed and wanna lay her off, not because she is underperforming but the way she chose to live her life, which should be less of your concern.

In as much she is performing her responsibilities to your satisfaction and not using her “wayward” life to affect your business like she did the first time she went for abortion, leave her alone.

The only reason why you can lay her off is if she goes on abortion again and that makes her to take a time out of work and underperforming.

Anyway at op, call her , tell her you find out her secret, talk to her as your daughter, if she changes, good, if she doesn't, leave her...

Justbehave:
You dey mad. Me off cloth for someone like you? I never see better fine girls finish na you I wan come dey see. Ode.

You don remove boxers like this ooooo. . You sure say you no need water? Na to enter market remain now..

Amotolongbo:
We should learn how to separate business from personal life.

She is your sales girl, relate with her strictly on business and show less concern on her personal life.

The way I’m reading your message, there is already a growing emotion in you already towards the girl, the reason you felt so highly disappointed and wanna lay her off, not because she is underperforming but the way she chose to live her life, which should be less of your concern.

In as much she is performing her responsibilities to your satisfaction and not using her “wayward” life to affect your business like she did the first time she went for abortion, leave her alone.

The only reason why you can lay her off is if she goes on abortion again and that makes her to take a time out of work and underperforming.

there are friends that turn family, I think the man really cares for her, not that she's just a sales girl alone, but because they've come to know each other

seanwilliam:
"mind your business, mind your business" na him carry naija reach where we dey today... who knows if God can use OP intervention to change the girl's life for better.. but una go dey shout "mind your business"... ( you actually said that indirectly)...



Anyway at op, call her , tell her you find out her secret, talk to her as your daughter, if she changes, good, if she doesn't, leave her...

Ariza:
You don remove boxers like this ooooo. . You sure say you no need water? Na to enter market remain now..

Ariza,if no be respect wey I get for you here,I for don tell you something wey you no go like. Oya,run along.

Dobson43:
Quick points here:

You were supposed to mind your business.

You crossed a line poking your nose in her personal affairs.

Being her Boss doesn't give you the right to judge her. She is under contract to serve you in a certain capacity. Stick to that capacity.

If her atitude to work affects your business in anyway, then you can let her off.

Why should you be bothered as a father? What's the point of drinking paracetamol on another man's headache?

If you had used this amount of time in snooping around in pushing your business forward, you would actually enjoy better patronage.


You should draw a line as regards your relationship between yourself and your workers.
It appears you have feelings for this lady thus your uneasiness that she has underperformed in your own estimation.

This time actually do mind your business.

"mind your business, mind your business" na him carry naija reach where we dey today... who knows if God can use OP intervention to change the girl's life for better.. but una go dey shout "mind your business"..



Some people can't think on their own, they need guidance and counselling..who knows if the girl falls to the set of people... "minding one's business can bring down a nation" it does more harms than good"

Who gave you the fuc.king right to infringe into her private life, you get luck say na naija you dey, the way she for sue your sorry ass ehh. You said she is sleeping with 5 men, she did this and did that, okeyy, tell us your own secret, abi na you holy pass?
Leave the young lady alone is she is discharging her duty well abeg.

OritaIbadan:
I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.
Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.
After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.
I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter? Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it

Justbehave:
Ari i if no be respect wey I get for you here, I for don tell you something wey you no go like. Oya,run along.

I'm touched

Thank you for respecting me, even though it has never stopped you from jumping on my posts or engaging others to dish out insults. So respectful of you! My heart is really touched.

Brother no Enter market Sha.

Ariza:
I'm touched

Thank you for respecting me, even though it never stopped you from jumping on my posts or engaging others to dish out insults. So respectful of you! My heart is really touched.

Brother no Enter market Sha.

Hahahahahahaha.lol. I go enter market when you don finish your own madness for market go.Hahahahahaha.

seanwilliam:
"mind your business, mind your business" na him carry naija reach where we dey today... who knows if God can use OP intervention to change the girl's life for better.. but una go dey shout "mind your business"..



Some people can't think on their own, they need guidance and counselling..who knows if the girl falls to the set of people... "minding one's business can bring down a nation" it does more harms than good"

Thank you for saying this.

Justbehave:
Hahahahahahaha.lol. I go enter market when you don finish your own madness for market go.Hahahahahaha.

Lame! So lame ....


You are boring, bye!

@Ariza & Justbehave.

E never do for ona two.

Abeg make ona find room go kpansh, leave us alone for here.

Na wa oo. The girl na Olosho. You just have to find a way of preaching to her without necessarily mentioning it.

BillKapri96:
@Ariz a & Justbe have.

E never do for ona two.

Abeg make ona find room go kpansh, leave us alone for here.

That guy will not just behave



BTW I'm sapiosexual.

Ariza:
That guy will not just behave



BTW I'm sapiosexual.

Ewu, lmao. What's my business? Abeg u too funny, I dust my hand comut for your matter

The question should be is she doing her job satisfactory? If yes then you have no reason to sack her.

surgebitcoin:
The question should be is she doing her job satisfactory? If yes then you have no reason to sack her.

Yes she is doing her job well, but how will she cope with second abortion? and if she decides to leave the pregnant will I allow her to my business premises with pregnancy?

Op move on. Act as if nothing happened. Then draw her more nearer, start directing her as if she is your daughter (that was what you said). But if you think it is not possible to foster someone's daughter like yours, then start treating her like she is just your staff.

Its her life, don't put that lady into more jeopardy by believing every boss has right to employees personal life. You went overboard man, swallow your findings if you can't help her.


Drabeey was Here

OritaIbadan:

Alright just thinking as a father is it the best

Do you employ her to be your daughter?

Ladies of today na dem way. The holy holy girls are worse than devil. Naso my nysc babe go dey preach bible to students and carrying church competition for head. When i later enter her facebook by mistake. 4 guys were having sex with here imagine.

Y’all shouting why did the op check her phone
This world isn’t bad because there are bad people, it’s bad because good people didn’t speak up for the bad things they see because they believe the society will judge them by their sincere opinions

oluwaseyi0:


Do you employ her to be your daughter?

No thank you. Just that someone once took me as a son when I had no father. Well, my wife will talk to her and if she give a positive response we will know what next .
If not I'll let her go

oluwaseyi0:


Do you employ her to be your daughter?

So he should allow her waste her life because she is not his daughter?

OritaIbadan:


No thank you. Just that someone once took me as a son when I had no father

Don't allow them to guilt trip you. You re not wrong. Some times in life,the best option is not always the best decision.

ednut1:
Ladies of today na dem way. The holy holy girls are worse than devil. Naso my nysc babe go dey preach bible to students and carrying church competition for head. When i later enter her facebook by mistake. 4 guys were having sex with here imagine.

Did you succeeded in making it number 5?

Justbehave:
NICE ONE. All this people saying the op is interested in her ,you all are fools.Once again,thank you for this wonderful and matured response.

Thank you very much.

Its her life. mind your business.

so guys still fall for that religious farcade with exhibited by some ladies by speaking in tongues,attending night programmes etc .i no fit laugh .op its like u a naive dude .being religious doesnt mean she cant fuk .and by the way why u so much interested in her personal life? abi u wan get ur own share?

Baba wan fvck the girl but he's not happy others have fvcked her.

I think its better u confront her OP...she shouldn't ruin her life further