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An initiation completed..

Venzal:
HERE ARE YOUR COMMITMENTS:


* You Need An Open Mind -- As I said earlier, the people who went ahead to make bank with the information from my former thread did it solely because they came willing to learn.


They asked questions, they actively participated, and they demanded clarity all the time.


NEVER be afraid to ask even 'dumb' questions or call me out on what you think/feel/perceive is wrong information.


* Never Miss a Lesson -- I will come back here over and over again to update this thread with new lessons over the course of the next 2 weeks.


You have to ensure you follow each lesson as they are being drip-fed you.


To ensure you are not missing out on anything, the smartest thing you could do right now is click "follow" at the bottom of this page so that you get notified each time a new topic drops.

I just discovered that my biggest issue with myself now is unlearning, I want to really work on that. Grateful for your thread and this is my biggest goal now.

I want to learn and implement. Great work sir

Op just made an OG call..

athenswonders:
it's my crazy life experience, one of those i can never forget.....

Your account Chief is well told.

As much as I have picked a couple of game and seen the depth of your inter human understanding am just curious in all, what are your own nuggets in terms of the knowledge of the pill, and in general your workings with the female and certainly life in general!

Nemesis0147:
Guy if you wan drop something drop am once and for all!!

Calm down na, na your story?? And op no be student na, aleast man go de hustle na ....

technicallyrich:
Never ever trust s woman,how I wish I knew the true nature of women years ago.
Sincerely speaking my life would have been far better.
As a man enjoy your life and forget woman,anyone that agreee,fine.

Abeg this story go too sweetie

I'm going to make Red Pill Trend In Nigeria Soon Cooking something but it gon take time

We are here homie... Just do what you gotta do ... Niggas de

Great thread..

bobowaja:
I tried to like this a thousand times but not possible, but be aware, your post have that thousands in my heart.

Kind words indeed, kind words sire!!


Your contributions and work is aduly noted and changing mindsets sir!!

IHate9jerianss:
Now I have seen everything,a pro-marriage manosphere thread
Anything involving Nigerians must always have k-leg
Always talking the talk but never willing to walk it

I don't want to make this long but it maybe!!

Well I don't think there is any misunderstanding in any sense and we might realize that concepts are territorial. We should take the central piece of

I say this because the essence of the redpill is unraveling and revealing the mysteries behind male and female dynamics, how to communicate between the sexes, understanding frame in the essence of not just between the male and female but between males too, in your work place between your boss and how he relates with not just his employees, but his business associates, in all, looking, being and chasing excellence by at being a competent being, A MAN in the truest sense of the word, the knowledge is about men pursuing their PURPOSE, not being ashamed of being men, a concept which society has so much tried to make us disdain, not afraid of setting boundaries, putting yourself first, being someone to reckon with and when you come to that realization you then realize that the whole idea is basically SELF Improvement .

That's why once you have been disvrigined of your blue pill context you realize that this can be applied in Every thing you now do. You understand female conversations not because you won't be rejected or made a fool of but you understand the context with which female communicate, females are emotional men are supposed to be logical.

What did Vito Corleone say about Men?? Women and kids are allowed to make mistakes , but not men.


Now back to Africa, Nigeria in particular, I still believe Nigeria is largely still patriarchal, and for those who grew up with traditional men and thought your fathers were harsh are now beginning to realize that they knew what they were doing.

If I understand anything about the pill, it is about building value as a man, and bringing in people say wife and kids into that frame, that's why some families are strong because the fathers are grounded.

Now to marriage laws, you can't compare Nigerian laws to that of the Western world, the idea behind the red pill advocating against marriage is that even after most men get the knowledge they forget that women are not what we think them to be hence they forget to protect themselves, thus most marriages lead to divorces, and because the laws are feminine in nature the men get to spilt with half of their possessions which leaves most men broken.

So issue is after all the hustle, society and the laws protect women after all, but in the general sense the law protects the spouse that has more and so upon the split the spouse with less usually smiles more, hence the issue who in average home will earn more? It is the males that do, thus since most females are the ones to initiate divorces, they usually leave with most of the assets.


Now in Nigeria our laws are not structured in that way thus that scare is not really there compared with the Western world, matter of fact our women not the new age seeking liberalization bimbos though seek the security of marriage than the men and so they won't even contemplate it. The news of women even the so called celebrities who are presently undergoing torrid situations or even receiving beatings nut simply because the man is well to do, and still stick is still very rampant in Nigeria, at least you won't say that this is something you're not aware of.


I will say in sense that red pill is about frame. FRame and nothing more, which spills into making men out of boys. Enjoying your self, being the best version of you, I think anyone who goes into a marriage with the sense of his own individuality will be seeking to improve that and there's no how you will get it wrong. The laws are not against him, just be a better man, in all sense of the word.

In my dad's words just be a "Man" but you see the trick is to understand what that means and that's why you have the community.. and the varied knowledge that the red pill enlightenment books are preaching.


I think another very important aspect that's neglected is our spirituality, yes knowledge of the redpill is important but any man In touch with his spiritual side is a powerful being. Christianity is basic, Paul was very straight about the position of the man and woman, it's The Man first and the lady 2nd.

I still believe (till better logic beats this), any lady who doesn't actually really believe in God and is exposed to this worldly teachings especially in our age of social media and all, will not be submissive no matter how cultured, spirituality tames and that's pertinent for any home to thrive sir.

What does the Proverbs say??
He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls. A man complete in this can in Nigeria get manage his home.


Any man who is able to acheive this will run his home, at least he has no laws that make him think otherwise.

Red pill knowledge is not Cast in stone, apply it the best way you deem fit.

Other resources for further enlightenment are:

The Godfather (for all men) I think everything Puzo wrote should be read!!
Foools Die
Rationale Male (Positive Masculinity)
Way of the superior Man
No more Mr. nice Guy!!


Shows like

Married with Children (I just discovered is gold)

Drenimarcus:
He already posted twice today regarding Nigeria. This one probably “offed” him.
That video is/was a disgrace.

I sweeeaeer cracked me real good!!

Drenimarcus:
The guy behind this church handle always kills me

The simps in Nigeria are back at it?? ..Christ don't still get it.. Be putting us in the news for no reason!!

Riener:
I can't find it on the internet. Not even PDFdrive. Com.

Do you have the eBook?

Try z.lib.org or drop your email or Whatsapp

Beardedviking:
If you have a beard and doing this, you are a disgrace to your ancestors that used to sleep with at least 5 women a day cos one woman is not enough for them. You do not deserve the beard. Its because this generation believe so much in a piece of paper too much called law that control their biological urge. The urge they should av gotten rid of through frequent sex is making them do unthinkable stuff. I doubt if any redhead can do this anyway

Hahahaa..

✓A woman's DNA doesn't discern between "girlfriend" or "wife".
You think you are safe within your relationship because you have llabeled an organism .These identities are an illusion that make you complacent and entitled as you move forward with the girl .
Nature is not concerned your titles. she's coded that from a survival standpoint to seek value that provide safety and security.
When you cease to demonstrate the value she is wired to align with,nature will notify her biology and alert her to discard you regardless of their status on Facebook or marriage certificate .
If you want the truth ,go to nature, the original source of how we are designed to play the mating game.

Danmmm

✓As a man ,you are in constant competition with every other male that would procreate with your girlfriend or wife.
Nature is a battle between organism's seeking premium biology to mate with and successfully carry forward their genes.
The illusions of safety and security within your relationship are irrelevant to nature when it comes to it programmed agenda.
Your value is always being monitored by her ,unconsciously,and will become aware if another male enters and demonstrate higher value. At this point,her biology will evaluate and test your desirability against his in order to determine who can supply a greater chance of survival. If the other male wins based on her tests,you are now placed lower on the value scale and her attraction will fade over time.

The best way to eliminate your competition as a man,is to constantly increase your value .

Truthfully worded

Twelfthman:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_do4Kzel7sg

Great thread!!
This is the anthem, but then who vex GAme na... It's important those lyrics burn into your subconscious...

I've just been introspecting and I think growing up I had a mental image of what and who a woman or the female specie is or was, now the problem with that is changing the mindset that these pictures that's now imprinted in the mind ain't the real deal, rather than think women as harmless creatures, consequent actions and engaging them has proven otherwise and this seems the problem most guys have.

Changing their mindset as to what is and now what it ought to be or even what we thought It was.

Imagine the concept of which I am now picking, as a rule, with men logic is the way to go. But with them it isn't .. it's all backward as OP or a great dude pointed out.

So like other guy yet to figure this out, you ask yourself why should you treat a girl nice and she rebels but treat her bad and she is awwed, like who's this guy??

I struggled a bit with this, but then slowly chewing on it, I realized it's an image thing... I mean she has had this image of herself where she's saintly and all and like Ubunju pointed out in one of his posts, reputation is key for the female folk.

So a random guy negs her and she can't believe that some one doesn't see her in the same light and thus she's intrigued and wants to know who the fxckk the homeboy is and because she is so use to being claded with praises and all the nonsense shenanigans...and all she struggles to understand why this one person thinks otherwise.

I imagine we watched how Trump tamed Kelly of Fox. After consistently bashing her for years, he eventually comes in her show and she displays a very unlikely image to Trump, I was confused but then she couldn't help it, the guy from time didn't care about her and the moment he said something nice about her, she couldn't help her self ..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0PFfU8x_66I


Hence same thing with ourselves and the issue if self image, lots of people don't think much of themselves and struggle to see what good could come from them and from my recent education this is worst for the female folks.

So the guy who is able to GET that imprinted in his head of which I have seen many senior men on these thread apply over time, once can HURT that Halo image she has of herself then your good... Ever told a girl she has something in her head, face or where only you can see and watch how instinctively they react, most times most get out their phones or mirror to confirm and even when your joking they almost want to be certain that you weren't, hence they ask the next girl they meet and all.

So maybe or maybe not if guys understand like GLy pointed out that psychology is the name of the female game then we will be good inclusive of meself.

And same goes to our need for self improvement, I have struggled in this department simply because my ego am now realizing is my biggest problem... How?? Well sometimes u think you got something when all you needed to do was prepare more and assume less. So it's my image I need to tame or hurt in order to learn and grow forward..


I remember before the Ryan Garcia v Cool Hands fight, Teofimo Dad while communicating with Eddie Hearn told him he can win, but the problem is he is a loser(mentally)!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c-0lelJuins

Or the Gridigron gang movie where the Rock tells one of the players, "you just not used to winning"..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=blwlnjVdD44

So in a nutshell, it's mental guys.. if we lock up the mental no lady, i mean not one of them will get to us! Why?? You already know what to expect from them so?? Their biggest weapon is words, it's words, guys ... Like I mean it's that emotional blackmail that scares the shit out me .. why like someone stated the world we living now just needs a woman to say something a ND the guy's reputation is soiled.

Case in point, as much as I haTe it the Timi Dakolos wife incident, I mean the world sucked the lady's dicxk just because she said it happened.. I am certain not many guys sat back and assesed the story. . I am not upholding rape hope you get... But was it logical??


Oya Amber heard nko?? So it's women's words that we are fighting against ... fucxxkkxxed but then until the truth came out.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j_XOf43VV8w

Depp even lost sponsorship and labelled wife beater, because the world like homies have pointed are catering more to the women ishes than men's.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DbzR2-gpOU0

Classic examples of how women's words have destroyed families based she said it!! The bitvchh literally Lied against the man for rape and rather than accept responsibility she turns and ask why didn't you fight harder?? GtFoh... Tf ... Like we have beautiful demons as our companions.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_CP8sIC-8U

Women used words to fight, like they can say the most inhumane thing and you know you feel it deep within you...


You know when you wanna bash the woman nature and some one says, but your mother and sister are women ooo!!! Before I will be like what stupid manipulation be this, but the moment you tell the lady yes, including them .. she literally shuts up and that happened on this thread!! It was a classic and what else do you have ??

I am not against Women I mean I love them but hate their nature ,but still with the education I am getting now for lots of sources, I think its going to fun!!

With them it's image... Hurt it and you have her...


But then let's build ourselves, fight our demons and come out better.. our families need strong make figures to lead and being better is our own way of thanking God and making the most of our existence!!

Cheers

. Till otherwise proven this is my 3cents

--- If you’re not where you want to be in life, do not have serious relationships with women. Her perception of you will remain rooted in the former version of yourself and her needs/issues will hinder your progress. Whilst you’re trying to build your business and body, she will whine, spread negative energy, and burden you with her problems. Her negativity will infect you, hindering your growth. If you’re not where you want to be aspirationally, you have no need for a serious relationship.

The movie Chariots of Fire, a true life story actually.. really explains this. It shows a man whose love for Christ and his ambition to go the Olympics clashes with his girlfriend/partner's innate desire for him to not push beyond where he was, stating that she didn't feel wanted .. she didn't want to "share him" blah blah... Because she knew he was ambitious.. He eventually attains the success he desired.. great movie!!

I never really did understand it but I think the above has painted it well.


Great job sire

Mikocake:
Wisdom is overflowing in this thread mehn...Well done guys

Just had to say this..
I swaeeer

-- Women play men like Mozart played piano. Men manipulate nature, women manipulate men. Civilization is man’s project, man is woman’s.

Woahhhh!!

So while men are trying to redefine the limits to what civilization really holds, women who are more introspective are interested in figuring out how to string men along in line with their agendas.

Skepticus:
I was about to touch on this lately observing the pattern of comments that female and their simping cucks make when a thread is opened or a comment emphasizing the red pill. I'm glad you picked on it.

You all might be familiar with this scenario.

Nairaland Thread: Woman cries for justice after she slaps and pour drinks on a man at a party without provocation and get beaten in return

Red Piller makes a comment: She deserves what she got. Women need to start taking responbilities for their action and live with its consequences

first female drops her comment in a mention of that of the red piller's: All these small Nairaland boys sef. Why should someone lay hands on a woman? Only weak men do that

Second female makes a joining sequel: Don't mind these small nairaland boys. They are still living in their father's house eating mummy's food

(Notice how the females deliberately avoid responding directly to the issue by deflecting and age-shaming even though they are unaware of the red piller's age).

Their Beta Cucks step in for major simping:

Male Simpleton 1: That's irresponsible of the boy. Even though it's unprovoked, he should be a man by withstanding abuse from ladies. Only weak men do that

Male Simpleton 2 (quoting first female): I can bet on it that the boy you mentioned is not married. I have been married for 100 years and I get slapped by my wife everyday but I endure because in life and marriage, you have to let some things go for the sake of peace. He is a small boy. He would learn when he gets married.

Male Simpleton 3 (who is obviously, a clueless, thirsty goat with no game, quoting the second female): You write very well. You are very intelligent. You must be a writer, I guess. I like your profile picture. Check your mail. I just sent you a mail

Smh.

Ahh shit, this nigga dun figure this shit out!

nwaezeemmanuel:
Dear Brothers,

It is very easy to blame and complain for hours, after understanding female nature. That is not where you should be.

Understand it, accept it and move on with it. This community isn't for weak minded men. My mental and physical state has been tested since i joined - because it is hard to change a conditioning that has been active for years.

Please, don't spend your whole day thinking about women without doing what will make them and anybody think about you - it all comes down to leveling up!

If you must play game, don't be without ambition. Always, always work towards becoming high value. It is hard, but it'd be worth it.

Truer words were never said!!

Jessepaid:
Hehehe....


ladies didn't eradicate polygamy directly...


the church and religious beliefs did that ..


western influence also had a big role to play in that...


make a man monogamous but let the woman be open to divorce...

how do you say till death do us part at the altar then still opt for divorce...

divorce that benefits the woman and never the man...

men are getting wise now and signing prenups..


as for the hairstyles, blame the society, blame the military, blame religion, blame the corporate world, blame schools etc...


women don't go to war, or build roads....

heck! people still stare In amazement when they see a lady drive a bus commercially...





this is decades of the society's conditioning taking effect and manifesting...


for the house chores blame parents....

my mum tried that shit with me alot...


I will be washing vegetables while my junior sis will be upstairs sleeping...

I always refused and went upstairs to wake her from her sleep to do her work...

in the end it brought out a lady who sees cooking a big job and would rather drink garri than fix herself a good meal... it also put the mentality that chores and cooking should be shared with her...

I know it's ok to help out at times... but now it's seen as mandatory which is wrong...


ladies have been conditioned to think that way, so if they meet a guy not ready to do their bidding,

they look for a simp to deal with...



men are expendable that is the bitter truth..

but with wisdom and the tenets of TRP...

a man can survive evade manipulations and society's rules

Cheers to you man

FROGMAN101:
Cc themhi1

Unless she’s feeding you which she surely isn’t? No qualms if she is gone for good. Don’t let anybody use manipulation to make you feel bad. It’s all in our heads. Human beings are replaceable. Life is short.

Make sure you focus on building your life and making money. We can’t overly stress this. Key to happiness is believing in yourself. You are the only person you can trust. Women are careless. Don’t invest too much on trying to make them happy. They have too many simps already making them happy. So what about you?

A woman can look hot and have guys and guys ready to give her handouts. You don’t have such luck.

So it’s always you first. Goodluck.

It's a wicked fact, women have it good like it's just a fact. Guys would literally do something for a lady with no hassles, just because she called or just because she is a female. Nothing more .

Except this is a truth only experienced by a few peeps, I really do not know what to say anymore, it's painful watching people argue with observations that are in fact true.

Men have to become, women just have to be..

Good one sir.

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To the op and the brothers putting in the effort towards the emancipation of men's mindset words betray me.. Blesss up!!

To the first picture of tattoos I think it is not just beyond me but even the females when a guy inks himself with the broad's name and believe that he his hood and tough!! Maybe vice versa, it is the biggest fairy tale especially where it is the first love so to speak!!

In support of the culture!!

ubunja:
they all want a man who's not available. The day guys will learn that truth they'll find peace. You don't get a woman by being perfect. You get a woman by being imperfect.

In Stark reality of the above the picture below proves why actions of "not cool" "imperfect guys" mess with her even more.

Remmedy:
Hardon I practice all you said but I end up single I am not regretting it 'I ask you out as a lady you begin to do Shakara I will just abandon you,I had this experience with 3 ladies this month once you snub my Whatsapp message for 3 hours I snub yours for 3 days sometimes I block you ... The redpills has swallowed me up ... small thing dey vex me for woman lol .... Hahaha I need help sha

Hahahaha, it's the feeling of your gut irritated at something that genuinely disgusts you.. The pill don dey get effect small small bro, but you are a at phase, e go soon set!!

virginprincess:
Op you are a big fool for typing this rubbish.

If something doesn't resonate with you or you struggle with comprehension, you disagree with reasons or ask questions, and if you can't do that you abstain.

Your cussing is actually misplaced especially owing to your female nature of thinking that just because you're a virgin you're entitled to being called a princess, you see the backward approach to logic that you have so chosen??

Stay off the thread and leave it for those it's meant for, invite your brothers but don't come!!!

tobechi74:
If a guy treat your daughter like this, how will you feel. This mindset makes women hate men.

Women need men to rule over them

Like sheep with a dead brain

Logic used to strip her off power

In an effort to maintain male dominance

Public participation an embargo

Officiating in religion a sin against God

Tertiary education a financial waste

Rearing of children,her reason for been made

Trading her own punny is not right

Whereas men exchange money for physical might

Men make the rules .Men have the final say 

Abide by the unfair system, follow the way

Gets raped amidst struggle and cries

Her virginity taken ,her dignity her pride

Difficult to proof,justice to be denied

Threatened into silence she hides the crime

Atrocity committed by her dad she Trust most

Without pills, without raincoat

Seed begins to germinate. Stomach potrudes

She wants it terminated.but that is a taboo

Shamed for considering abortion

Men only concern is more population

Her body is a decision to be made by society

Her freewill taken,yet another cruelty

Forced to become a single mother

With all its shame and stigma

Social distanced like one with covid nineteen

“Do not be like her” mothers warn their kids

The men do not desire second hand property

She bears it all alone amidst poverty

Develops a passionate hatred for male

Seeks listening ear to tell her tale

Find solace among fellow victim

Under an umbrella of bitter feminist

Relieved to discover she is not lonely

Now she got a chance to tell the world her story

Whom do we blame

Male or female

Power abused yields anarchy

Power used in fairness improves loyalty

The hunted hunts the hunter

Grudge not! Enjoy the karma

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/08/the-monster-we-feed/

Real Rubbish!!