LeiderJa:
Back to this thread in a long time. After using these drills with relative success, I slacked because of some painful experience I had. I entered a oneitis with this girl. Up and down, up and down. I stopped using this drill on her.

Me that always told this girl to drop phone while chatting me so that she won’t fall in love, I started loving up. Even when her sister asked her if I’m the one last week, I think she whispered “This one? Never” in her ears. She thought I wouldn’t hear it but this girl confessed love to me when I was rolling the drills like a mad man last year.

I invited this babe today and I evaluated myself after she left.

Ah I Bleep up sha, na sadness make me Dey find love. Make I polish my arsenal.

Helios14:
Omooooo. I'm not done with the thread, just in page 93, I just decided to hail una and our boss @Harddon. my story is long o.
from childhood, treating a woman like a god has been drilled into my head, I even grew up with 4 sisters. so I was the dreaded nice guy from little. I was also shy, extremely shy. not to only girls but guys as well, but it was due to some psychological factors in my upbringing sha. All my life I've been in useless relationships, most were because they liked me, not because I liked them, but because they liked me. So last year I dated this girl in my dept at school. spoiler!! it has been the worst relationship of my life. she was among the general top5 hottest girl in the department (not to me though, she was way outside my 'type' of girls zone). I never really gave her much attention, majorly because she was light skinned, (they always seem to have this enormous ego that irritates me. ) So I noticed in yr 2 that she started making moves towards me. started talking to me all of a sudden, even collected my phone number and gave me hers without asking. I took it for greenlight and after a while of talking and meeting, she coerced me into asking her out( the hanty can play mind games ehn). That's where Hell's gate finally welcomed me. every week I was apologizing for one thing or the other. she would get angry for no reason and say that a girl doesn't need a reason to get angry and her boyfriend doesn't need to have a reason before apologizing. like an idiat, I continued apologizing, behaved like a needy fellow, I used to have a lot of girls I chat with before her, I ignored them all to focus on her, she made me stop hanging out with friends(I know, I'm a fool). she wasn't my spec so I wasn't even sexually attracted to her, and that made her pissed, wanted me to beg for a kiss, I didn't really care for one. we hugged only when I asked. she had no respect at all for me. we could be walking together and one of those boys like Harddon would call her and she would leave me waiting for minutes to talk to the guy( and I the fool would wait for 20mins while she flirted), she would tell me that so so so guy is chatting with her and their hitting it off. pick other guys calls in my presence and zone me out. once we had a dept party coming up. she said she wasn't going to attend. I begged her for weeks she refused. them one night while strolling, she picked a guy's call and he told her he was attending the party, after she hung up. she told me that she'll go to the party now cos of that guy. the guy is my friend now sef, he wants to avenge me muahahahaha. she continued all those beechy attitudes throughout the semester. then, I lost my dad during the holidays, I grew distant and she didn't even care.A month later i celebrated my 19th birthday, because I didn't message her first( yeah, she waits for me to message her before chatting, has only called me like 5 times) she didn't say pim. even though our dept group chat was spammed with birthday wishes. then by 10pm she sends me HBD (beeah). 2weeks later we resumed. lectures didn't start on time so we didn't meet. our hostels were beside each other, she didn't ask we meet and neither did i( her matter don tire me). so during fresher's introduction abi watin dem dey call am. I saw her with her friend. I waited till after and went to see her. she was talking to her friend and behaved like she didn't see me. her friend turned to me and greeted me (I and her friend had close matric no. so we were usually in the same lab groups, so we talked regularly) she just turned and eyed me up and down in disgust. I had been coming to school for two weeks and have been wearing new clothes, that day I decided to wear one of last years own. while she on the other hand was clad in tear rubber from up to down. she continued talking to her friend. I decided to wait for her, she must be in one of her moods(ode). after talking she told me to excuse her that she's not felling fine and wanted to go home. I told her to call me when she got home. 4hrs later no call, and her house is about 2hrs for school. I called her three times, mo answer. sent her an SMS and. WhatsApp message. came online at night and saw that she left the WhatsApp message on red. fuming, I wrote a long epistle complaining about her beechy attitude (immature, I know, but how she irked me). I ended the epistle with 'I may have low self esteem and all but I deserve way better than this'. my plan was to end the relationship depending on her response. her message was short and sweet. you do deserve more, I think we should end this, sorry for wasting your time(cheesus is lord). I replied alright, she replied fyn. no tears, I'm still mourning my dad and this yellow hued demon isn't worth my emotions. I had been saving for this cool gift for her birthday next month, I cancelled the order, took part of the money and bought bread with four eggs and viju milk. I am this person who posts a lot of memes on their status, I posted obe a few minutes after, a funny one. I made sure I didn't post anything about heartbreaks for months. about 2weeks after the break up I ran into her on a staircase. I adept at making people seem invisible behaved like I saw nothing. the look in her eyes was one of shock. like she's surprised I haven't spoken to her. I gained a little confidence and started chilling with girls wella. I noticed that she always looked up when a girl shouted my name. so fast forward to this year. all about improvement, for my shyness, I joined ushering dept in church to help cope with stage fright. it has helped a lot. 100% I don't even feel shy. my only problem is maintaining eye contact, still working on that. I focused on money, started a blog, making some success, started working out, making noticeable progress(I'm a fine boy on a normal day, even guys stare, older women give me the danm eyes (you know what I mean). average height and have this little ish with my teeth but, don't let it pull me down. my greatest improvement is stumbling into nairaland. I first found a Redpill thread, a good one. finished it, that's were I saw the link for this thread. the things I've learnt so far, Chai. it has upped my game. haven't started meeting women physically yet though, but my DMS are on faya. every week I get more girls for practicing. I've cut some off gan.one is in my church, away boning face when she see's me, I just flash my winning smile and pass by her( she got too comfortable with our chats. making me do all the work). I'm not successful with all though, but I don't let it bother me. there's one I ignored for weeks, she didn't message me too. I posted a Christmas greeting with me singing in a bass voice in the background (not too good though) and she messaged me in seconds. I will open it tomorrow( me sef dey craze small small). I just want to thank you boss man. by the time I'm done with this thread. them go hear am. I'm not really in support of hurting girls though, but I want that crazy ex to see what she missed out on treating me like filth(she still checks my status sef)

sorry it was so long o
when I think about that girl, vex dey posses me

merry Christmas gentlemen

rafikii:

this is inspiring bro,more fire to you.

Helios14:
Finally done. phew!!


who ever says these drills don't work, is deceiving themselves. 3 of my stories are already here, so no need to go into details.

This one happened yesterday and today. There's this girl I've known since high school, not really interested in her (she's not my type). if I was to rate her, she's a 6facially with this mad ikebe. She attends my church and I'm an usher, we don't chat on a norms, I just decided to tease her a little yesterday. our chat went somewhat like this:

on her status: sing I can't sing, dance I can't dance. what can I now do?
me: with that your small bum bum
her: small? that's an irony right?
me: no, your bumbum that we're always looking for inside your gowns
her: Besides, so you've been looking at my bumbum instead of listening to Pastor?
No wonder.
I sha know ur eyes just use to come my seat position every time.
Now I know. I'll watch out for u
me: Me ke, I'm not even a bum bum person. You're kukuma always looking at my direction.
her: Indeed.
Me that is looking at the fan beside u. So how did u know the size of my butt? Look at you saying my butt is small. . .
First time to hear this.

it goes on like that, I told her I'm not like the other guys drooling over her small booty, told her I have to look. at where she seats as my duty as an usher.

I think screenshots would be better

Remmedy:
Omo this one too long

Remmedy:
Omo this one too long

2special:
What happened? Guys, keep it coming....

Slimdan360:

house pls I need your help on this one,there's a girl in my church that I always catch staring at me and each time our eyes meet,she just stylishly looks away,am an introvert and starting conversations with people is one of my cons,but I think I have fallen for this girl. she works in an hair salon and today I just walked up to her and asked if they sell her products and her reply was no,then I walked away,if only I could be friends with this girl then I can continue from there but establishing the friendship is the main problem and I want to do this without making a fool of myself because I kinda hold myself in high esteem,pls I need ur help guys.
@HARDDON pls I need ur help

TheVictim01:
The very best error into having a lady to be with you is making the "friends first" move. Do not care of your performance to the action, instead focus on yourself, go and have fun with her, demonstrate that you're sexuality attracted (girls love this, and can detect subconsciously), your nervousness is caused by "what if's", forget anything of a move to make her like you, instead talk to her like a male friend but with a different dimension to approach. Las Las, you go dey alright.

Slimdan360:

my problem is how to start a conversation with her,I don't know how and what to say

Slimdan360:

house pls I need your help on this one,there's a girl in my church that I always catch staring at me and each time our eyes meet,she just stylishly looks away,am an introvert and starting conversations with people is one of my cons,but I think I have fallen for this girl. she works in an hair salon and today I just walked up to her and asked if they sell her products and her reply was no,then I walked away,if only I could be friends with this girl then I can continue from there but establishing the friendship is the main problem and I want to do this without making a fool of myself because I kinda hold myself in high esteem,pls I need ur help guys.
@HARDDON pls I need ur help

Remmedy:
Hardon I practice all you said but I end up single I am not regretting it 'I ask you out as a lady you begin to do Shakara I will just abandon you,I had this experience with 3 ladies this month once you snub my Whatsapp message for 3 hours I snub yours for 3 days sometimes I block you ... The redpills has swallowed me up ... small thing dey vex me for woman lol .... Hahaha I need help sha

Orpazpjr:



Hahahaha, it's the feeling of your gut irritated at something that genuinely disgusts you.. The pill don dey get effect small small bro, but you are a at phase, e go soon set!!

Alphaman007:
Woah. I finally finished after weeks of reading. Hands off to harddon, Davidthegeek and staliwise.

This thread is life changing and has totally changed my perspective.

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 15:
DEALING WITH REJECTION
Such is life..... That takes all our gut n glory N pelts us wit nothing but dust n diss!
We came fitted Suited, highly powered piece Biologically balanced Chemically Calculated Mathematically Modelled Spiritually Scented Superbly Engineered
Highly Powered Piece Wit no Earthly manual Just a lil light in our mind Then our quest began We stumble we fall Rise tall we walk
Conquered the land Tamed the sea We stumble we fall Rise tall we run Rule the skies Ride the tide We stumble we fall Rise tall we fly
Such is life
© Don
If you want a lion's share, you must first posses a lion's heart.

LeiderJa:
Back to this thread in a long time. After using these drills with relative success, I slacked because of some painful experience I had. I entered a oneitis with this girl. Up and down, up and down. I stopped using this drill on her.

Me that always told this girl to drop phone while chatting me so that she won’t fall in love, I started loving up. Even when her sister asked her if I’m the one last week, I think she whispered “This one? Never” in her ears. She thought I wouldn’t hear it but this girl confessed love to me when I was rolling the drills like a mad man last year.

I invited this babe today and I evaluated myself after she left.

Ah I Bleep up sha, na sadness make me Dey find love. Make I polish my arsenal.

HARDDON:
SENSE PILL
Though men think it not, Relationship is nothing but a business venture to Ladies.
they are mostly in for what they would get, NOT GIVE.