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PrincessofDSS:
Whoever that’s is deceiving this Yaya Bello should be made the Minister of Lies

Lmao. Tinubu come and see who wants to win and take your ticket

If only Tinubu can slap this belly for us, his sins will be forgiven

Nemere2020:
—Alleges gang up against him by APC Govs

–Says only Buhari can make him step down



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/06/apc-convention-excluding-me-on-ballot-recipe-for-crisis-yahaya-bello/

NaughtyBrainiac:
What's the source of your beer parlour news?

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GorillaApp:
What about a son born out of wedlock by a man and months later, his wife put to bed. In Igbo land who is the first child. The one whose mother's dowry was not paid or the son who was borne by the man's wife?

Jefferyhi86:
Na here unknown gun men suppose to come check

dawnomike:
I guess crossdresser is fast becoming another word for being gay

Kobojunkie:
Not entirely true at all. A marriage is an agreement between a man and woman, like a sort of business. For a business to thrive, all partners simply need to be in agreement and compromise when necessary. No one partner has to continually cave in to the others for any set reason except that agreed upon.

If you ask me, mutual respect wins hands down over submission any day.

Eberex:
There are hundreds of women who are your missing rib, but unfortunately you can only marry one.
Even that one you will choose have her own wahala.
Women will remain women.

Take as much time to decide who to settle down with, even if you are 40+.

Wisejohnson47:
I am not enjoying my marriage at all.

FalseProphet1:
There's this mild drama currently going on in the family. My uncle died late last year (at an old age). The problem here is that they some delay in child birth, (7 years after their wedding to be prescise) so during this long wait, he and the wife decided to adopt a male child.

7 years after his adoption, children started popping in. They had a set of twins (males) and then 2 boys and a girl making it 5 biological children.

This my uncle was a wealthy man, so he had properties in the town of their state of origin and in the village.

Upon his death last year, the eldest son (the one who was adopted) sealed off the property in their village and claimed ownership of the 3 rental buildings in the town. This angered my uncle's brothers who were of the opinion that he's not family and therefore has no right to do such when the man's biological kids are very much around.

So they (the uncles) had a meeting with the biological sons of their late brother to get rid of what they termed an outcast in their midst.

They later invited the adopted young man to the village and used the community youths to beat him up and threatened to kill him if he doesn't stay away from their family properties. That he should look for his own biological parents and inherit whatever they left for him.

Now this didn't go down well, cos he used the police to lock up one of the twins and the whole family members are threatening fire and brimstone if the young man isn't released. They took the matter to the community elders who of course supported them by saying the adopted man has no right of forceful claim to any property unless it's given to him willingly by the family members.

As of now they have destroyed his wife's business in one of the buildings, burnt his car and have vowed to even kill him if he doesn't release their son.

That's why I brought it here. Was the adopted son wrong to have claimed ownership of his late father's properties without the official nod of the family members?

Do adopted children have right of inheritance in the family they find themselves?

What's your opinion on this matter.


Modified: I forgot to add that my uncle hasn't been buried because of this matter. His body is still in the mortuary cos there have to be an agreement from the family before burial takes place, and since the family is in chaos, the burial cannot hold for now.

CraftParty:
While still a child, we had no burden and all our needs were well taken care of without us contributing anything to the expenses; we didn’t know what Adulthood was like as we only had to make requests which would further be granted by our parents without telling us what it took them to put smiles on our faces. Now that we’ve become adults, we’ve started realizing that comfort comes at a great cost which oftentimes than not leaves us in discomfort. Some time ago I came back from Work feeling so tired and still had nothing to show for it, I became sober and went into my Grandma’s room to ask her “Ma! Why didn’t you people tell me that this is how demanding adulthood is? Why was I not told on time? I would have come prepared!!”


Lade; the beautiful voice behind the famed Airtel 444 advert theme song just released a new song which has been making waves on the Internet titled “Adulthood Anthem (Adulthood Na Scam)” in which she reminisced about our Childhood worry-free life which has been stolen from us by adulthood. This brings us to the theme of the Article which is on the Adulthood Realities that give us Nostalgia About our Childhood days. Lade – Adulthood Anthem.

Back in the days when we were still kids, it was always guaranteed that we’ll come back home from school to a Lunch, if it starts to rain, we would be out dancing under the rain not minding the risk of illness we were exposing ourselves to. Whenever we fall sick and we’re given drugs, we’ll take some and throw some away, not minding the cost of the drugs. Try this Now as an Adult! Just A reminder of the cost alone would discourage such a thought. Now think about the pay cut you’ll be getting for being absent from work for too long (as a result of you throwing away your drugs without getting fully well), you wouldn’t dare try that now as an Adult.


As kids, pocket money was sure for us, money for the little things that meant a lot to us back then. The thought of saving rarely crossed our minds because of the certainty that another pocket money from our Dad will land as the current one finishes.

Who paid house rent as a kid? Did any of us as kids worry about paying our house rents, paying the electricity bills, stocking the house with foodstuffs, worrying about school fees, and buying clothes for celebrations like Christmas and Eid el-Fitr, as our parents did? NO, we didn’t.


Adulthood came with a lot of eye-opening realities as Lade mentioned in her song “Adulthood Anthem (Adulthood na scam)”. “If you no get, na you sabi” just as it is, everybody has the struggles they face as adults, the struggles that come with adulthood, every man for themselves.
Take me back to the days when it was just to play and sleep! This adulthood came too soon. The days when the sight of a visitor in the house gave us joy because of that money they’d give us as they leave. The days we kept Mummy’s change for those extra snacks we want to buy in school the next day. Those times when we played football on the streets with the kids from the other street. The usual games we were fond of as kids, the likes of “suweh, after round one, mini minimanimo, who is in the garden, police and thief..” the list goes on and on.


As an adult now, there’s no lunch automatically waiting in the pot for us at home. If we don’t work, we can’t earn money, If we don’t earn money, we can’t cook and if we can’t cook, there’s no food waiting for us in the pot. Do you get the gist now? There’s no “Free money” for us as adults now, the way it was for us as kids. We’re now stuck in the triangle of Job (hustle)—Money—Survival.


The way life was when we were kids cannot be compared to how life is now that we are adults, there’s a visible difference. We can all agree that life now as adults are difficult and can only be survived with a lot of necessities that we have to acquire for ourselves. It is no longer the usual system of getting money from our parents to take care of ourselves. Now, we have to work to get money to reciprocate the care and support they showered on us as kids.


This is something every one of us can relate to, we can all say that adulthood has brought a lot of responsibilities to us we never worried about as kids. Our silent prayer is that we all be able to take on those responsibilities without difficulty. Adulthood might be a scam but it’s definitely up to all of us to make it worthy as we live through it.

Over to You! What Adulthood Reality Gives you Nostalgia About your Childhood experiences/privileges?

Source: https://trendybeatz.com/music-news/1005/these-adulthood-realities-give-us-nostalgia-about-our-childhood-privileges-which-do-you-miss-the-most

membranus:
The coast is now clear for our next President BAT.

Amotekun777:
Typical Okoro pigs mentality... "If my life no better, make my fellow friend life sef no better"!

You wonder why you guys are retrogressive in life.

wasuka14:
Tmrw Igbo ipob will be southing is our turn. Ur brother already sold all of you. Hiw do u want other regions support you when your leaders behave like this in public??

Corporate2020:
Tinubu is beyond heart break. He and his stooges have won more election than any other politician alive. He is not afraid of losing. He knows that is part of the game. He has fought a good fight. He looked at Buhari eye ball to eye ball and told him "Aboki, na me make you President, I be your godfather". He did not chicken out like Orji Uzor Kalu, never ever.

If he loses today, he will restrategize against tomorrow.

Tinubu is was the topic yesterday, Tinubu is the topic today, Tinubu will be the topic tomorrow.

christistruth01:

Kardinal001:
Ahmed Lawan easy ride for Atiku....

Abaman001:
Mugu, brainwashed Idiotic ipob senator that will remain a slave to Hausa Fulani for eternity, all those greedy ebooe people knows how to do is to insults Yorubas and Wike.... foolish people

BluntTheApostle:
We know that you people are not that sophisticated. You are just ensuring that Tinubu or Southwest does not produce the next president.

But the truth is that South East will still vote massively for PDP.

So no one really cares. You people are very predictable.

Fidinno:
This man is the most stupid south eastern I have seen