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GetMeRight:
Buhari is going peacefully in 2023, calm down.

XXXXTENTACION:
CONSPIRACY THEORISTS OVER TO YOU

Kingspin:
National Gaurd denied they were ever at the protest ground.
Also, I heard one camera was picked up and protesters account blocked, passport seized.

Isobug:
This mumu people justifying what happened in Nigeria with a different thing that is happening in the US. Your hate for certain people never cease to amaze me. Tueehh....

HeadShot:
Protests happens everywhere for different reasons...
We know Trump supporters are fanatics and feel the election was rigged..

But for buhari zombies trying so hard on the thread to exonerate Bubari for what happened at the Lekki toll gate is worrisome...
It shows how soulless we have become as a country...

This is highly sickening....

Lamasta:
This is not how transfer work bro a player is good does not necessarily mean voom you sign him because you have money it doesn't work that way
Guardiola right from his days at Barcelona mostly does not go for big name signings except some few occassions...

friendl:
Women equally cheat like men ,just that they cover their tracks better than men

Splitmind:
Because men aren't the ones getting pregnant and passing off another woman's child as the man's own for financial gain.

rosebowl01:
You women can make excuses for anything. If a child is switched at birth, it can be proven that the woman did not cheat because the DNA will not match both the mother and the father's. Next excuse please?

rosebowl01:
You women can make excuses for anything. If a child is switched at birth, it can be proven that the woman did not cheat because the DNA will not match both the mother and the father's. Next excuse please? But where d problem lies if u do a dna test for ur child and its not a match dont kill ur wive yet..have the patience to cary ur wive and ur child..or both hair..or nails to a lab..if its not still a martch..then one stupid nurse did swapping at birth..its not ur wives fault..u have the authority to sue the hospital..in sanner countries if this happens u are already a billionaire

humilitypays:
why not create a new topic on how to carry out an affordable DNA test in Nigeria?


You explain all these and make a list of reputable DNA testing labs in Nigeria and their prices.



It will help a lot of men in dilemma

WoundedLamb:
I don't know about women. I can't speak for them. But if I were a lady and my husband comes back asking for paternity test on our kids, I know for sure that marriage would never remain the same again regardless of how hard I try. There's simply no better way to plant the seed of distrust than making such a request.

cassyrooy:
Many of us are clicking and commenting about this new social anomaly that has come to the fore because of the recent saga with late Mr Tunde, his estranged wife, Mrs Moyo and the former FCMB MD, Adam Nuhu, as well as other cases we've read on the cyber spaces regarding infidelity.

Opinions are diverse but the question remains, what solution does paternity testing offers in a union?

1. It unearth fraudulent women and their deceitful ways: any man, out of choice and/or suspicion that something isn't right can get a test done to ascertain whether he has any direct biological relationship with his wife's birth. This will help put him in the know as to how to manage situations arising and/or linked to a situation of infidelity, betrayal of trust, fraud by his wife, or a possible scenario of baby swapping.

Solution: When you must have failed to ascertain for sure that the kid is yours, men, please remain calm and try again somewhere else. The probability of a misinformed lab technologist handling your case may eventually cause you to break your home. Revalidate that outcome in separate centres.

2. Run maternity tests too to ascertain for sure the child belongs to your spouse: paternity fraud and testing is a very sensitive issue, therefore, as a man who wants to know the truth, don't take a fraction of what exist as truth by conducting only a DNA test for yourself and then exclude the woman who birthed that child. Once you have established that your spouse is the mother but you're not the father, she has a clear case to answer and that is where next-to-confirmation of cheating and adultery may come in.

Solution: don't hastily conclude, gather impeccable proof that you're not the father but your spouse is the mother. There you have trapped her and telling you the truth will become easier.

3. When both paternity and maternity tests fails, then you have the hospital and delivery team to answer as to why you or your spouse share no direct biological relationship with the child: there are plenty reasons why a paternity test may fail, and cheating may not be directly the cause, so watch your handling of the issue and investigate properly before making unwarranted and provocative accusations.

Solution: paternity tests seeks to unravel the truth and the truth is a very complicated thing to understand. We know of baby factories where people go to buy babies in Nigeria, we also know that the tendencies for people to buy children based on their sexes are other forms of premeditated crimes in Nigeria. Therefore, seek the truth, and the total truth which can also be found in cases where nurses engage in switching babies of opposite sexes and then collecting money for thee illicit endeavour.

4. Paternity fraud vindicates or allay fears of the unknown: we all know that not all cheating women authenticate their infidelity with a child, but where you can genuinely prove that the children belongs to you and your spouse, your mind should as quickly as possible return to your marriage, to work on your insecurities and other marital issues in other not to give room for eventually problems.

Solution: sue that institution that out of their negligence has put you and your wife under intense financial drain, emotionally traumatizing endeavour and get justice for those who went home without verifying the biological identity of their offspring. Also, to unearth the criminal culprits perpetrating these crimes.

Therefore, men and women, do not stand against paternity/maternity tests if you know you've not committed any marital infractions, rather stand down and let the suspecting spouse carry own with his/her investigation, you never can tell, you may not be at fault but someone has explanations to give to you and this may be another experience altogether.

For the women, it hurts when you are seen as someone who had done the worst thing on earth, if you love that child, or any child in your union, please always do the right thing. Don't cheat when you're cheated up, rather be bold enough to walk away. Cheating out of revenge will eventually bring more problems than your intended revenge seeking. And also, please women, terminate every thread connecting you to any ex no matter what. Focus on your new life no matter how challenging and do not listen to friends who may come with good revelations buy bad intentions towards your marital life.

For men, please, stop legitimizing infidelity in marriages, whether in private or social media, you expose yourself to horrors and pain when you do.

Stand against infidelity and kick at it with all sincerity to help allay the fears that you may one day join them.

Please, kindly note that these are my personal takes on this trending issue and may be subject to readers evaluation and scrutiny.

humilitypays:
God bless you oh for this.


I love myself so so much.


My talking ends on Nairaland as comments. In reality, no time to talk to anybody, to even think of talking about DNA test with my wife, I De craze Lol


Its a silent journey you should do alone without noise.


I can't quarrel with any woman ever in my life for any reason. If you offend me and I get angry, I silently leave the house for some time.


If you refuse to give me peace of mind, I don't need to start arguing or fighting with u, I just plan myself and move out without your knowledge. You will come back one day and realize that you are now a single lady again cos I will be gone.


If you didn't cook delicious meal that I enjoy, I don't need to shout at you, I find somewhere they make good meals and enjoy myself life Na once lol.

It baffles me when I read about men fighting with their wife lol, for what Na. Man is too busy for such nonsense frivolities na.


As a man, one needs to learn to talk less and listen and observe more that's who I am.

I can be at a place listening to people talk for hours without uttering a word. But I will be smiling and laughing at comical comments cos I love to laugh a lot.


Thanks for this information of using hair to do DNA test, honestly I never knew its possible until now, thanks for added knowledge today

Freelane33:
God

humilitypays:
A wise man doesn't need to tell his wife that he wants to conduct DNA test on his kids if he suspects fowlplay.


A wise man will not even quarrel with the wife. One day, when she is away. Take the kids straight to the hospital or lab and carry out test without her knowledge.


If it turns out positive, you lie low and maintain like nothing happened. If it turns out negative, you don't need to fight or make noise.


Just take your time and plan divorce and serve her the divorce notice with copy of the DNA test, and this must be done after you have stylishly relocated or moved out of the house if its a rented apartment.


You don't to argue with her or listen to her lying explanations, just blank her and her bastard kids completely without any noise or fight.


If she wants to fight or argue she can go back to the guy that fvcked her shamelessly as a married woman and argue with him.

holluwizzy:
I be manU fan but most players suppose dey on Loan and some to play for under 23 for more fighting spirit.

Even Mancity under 23 go beat manU today.

Loan Rashford and martial with Luke Shaw fire more exposure

Get sharp wingers and fearless and tireless striker.

MIGHTYMAN82:
so chelsea na big team ba pls getaway from my ways

Veezy4u:
United needed this game not just for the reward but for positive vibes heading into future games. Now just wait n see how pressure will mount for other games. Ole is just an upgrade on lampard. Very little sense, they don't learn from past mistakes at all. Any time I watch our games, d kind eye I look ole, Maguire, pogba,shaw, martial n lindelof ehhhh. Tufia

Udstar:
It's net yet over, it's a two legs. Man U may still be thrashed though

israelp:
oga nr cry too much, utd go win league 2021 wil start wth 1epl n end in 20epl again ..,go n kee urslf over it

NLReposter:
so long certificate

israelp:
wen we win d league una go shame ,..i even tink say na fa cup slf