₦airaland Forum

Nellsworld:
Ok i get it, but still he should ve still gotten something, even if na bread, we are Africans, especially 9ja we do not go to an elderly house empty handed, or he should ve given an excuse, although the said lady shouldn't ve told him on the phone like that, she should ve codedly told him wen she visit him, like joking abt it and explaining y it is done cos not everyone was brought up like that, like me, i was trained in a way that even if am going to see any elderly person, i must go with something.

ok as there was no money for bread d bictch couldnt cover up for the guy..ok mum i forgot to tell you o..he sent me 5k to give u the money is in my acc..then she sends her mum 5k..no wonder we dont have mothers again...imagine wat this woman trained and one innocent man is comming to get her as a wife wat a pitty

SweetCunt97:
Did I say gift everyday? Yes you right, a reasonable mother shouldn't bring up such. Personally I thought it was his first visit

but from d op write up the guy has been visiting before and d mum expects gift everyday

ShackWes:
Trump should just calm down

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AngryIgboDon:
Young lady you are making a terrible mistake oo. From all indication, this guy is a good guy. He even came with something the first time.

Till you stay at home with your mum till 40, e go clear for your eyes. Or you loose him to another woman.

Good men scarce oo.

other girls who dont have such responsible boy friend will be giving her bad advice so that when they break up they quickly jump in..i hope the guy didnt report her to any of his siblings or parent.se let down..which kind eye them wan take they look her mama cuz of 200 bread..banana and groundnut

Kaimaonyeana:
Then he shouldn't have gone to visit then. Courtesy demands u visit elderly people u see once in a while bearing gifts. It's the thought that count not the actual gifts it'self. Na wa oo

the mum cant be an elderly woman..we know how ederly women behave.she is a single mum..and men with pot bellies always come visiting with cash gift..hence she xpects same gesture from her daughters bf

Anaerobi:
the guy already have in mind to visit the family not minding who is at home or not....


but didn't plan it to be a big visit....


but seriously op your mom was wrong. I. as much as they are our parents doesn't mean they are always right ....


you mustn't support mom in everything....


if you love your man, do the needful....


go and say sorry and talk to your mom about such mindset.

even if she apologises the relationship can nerver remain the same..he will continue to look down on her mum even after marraige..i am a man..and u nor know d kind mindset way we get..after this fraca the guy will definately send the mum some cash so that the hole can continue to service him..i know how it will end if this continue especially if the guy has told any of his sibbling or parents..damage control

Trayceey:
I Need Your Opinion On This Issue That's Threatening My Relationship

My fiance wanted to come to the house to see my mum but I told him I won't be around because I'm about heading out to somewhere, so he asked me if my mum would be around, then I said yes and he said he would still go to see her and it doesn't matter if I'm not around.

When I later got home that night, my mum complained that he came empty handed. He didn't bring anything for her and she was the one who offered him her drink.

Although initially, I didn't see anything wrong with that but when my mum expressed her displeasure, I later called him to ask why he came to the house empty handed then I let him know I wasn't happy with him, that it would have been better if he didn't come. He tried arguing with me but I hung up.

Since then, we haven't spoken to each other nor visited each other. Was I wrong?

dear how are u doing..sorry for the batching and insults yesterday o..u done shitt this morning..if no pls try to visit the toilet this morning..is there tissue paper...i want to buy some as gift wben i come visiting ur mum this evening

Xmen149:
intending inlaw is someone that said they will marry your daughter then go on having canal knowledge of her after you have known the two of them together and this can go on as long as possible while he brings you gift..

same word as fiance..or onye choro inu nwagi nwanyi

what if like 3 guys are fukking her...see plenty gift...that one na fianceenances

[quote author=MorningStar233 post=97864896][/quote]it has to be bread...from the way the mum reacted it has to be bread.or banana and groundnut.i am certain

This lady has to change her moniker o..i have taken note of her name.anytime she makes a conteibution on nl i go dey follow am up with insults and how cheap she is including her entire family

engrgd:
Your Mom isn't wrong with what she said and you pointing it out to him isn't wrong. He should have gotten something for her no matter how small. He should know that. Please if he wants to leave, let him go. Don't beg him, he's a proud person. You deserve better joor. #MomIsRight

so if he visits 100 times he would buy 100 gifts..wat of me way marry for the nxt street..most times when coming from work i check on her parents cuz she was doing nysc then.una foolish sha..

Xmen149:
I know women from igbo that does that thing.

they label it igbo culture bcs they are fund of bending things concerning Igbos upside down and call it general.

be open about where you guys went to to marry that lady..either abia or imo
..I no won go further sha... anyone that speaks and writes igbo very well will notice the kind of igbo those supporting her are written...lol

imo o..we all left from edo state cuz he is my childhood friend..after his marraige his catfish biz of over 7k fishes folded up ..this na tru storry o nor be norllywood..na we come dey tip the guy small small thing make e for meet up.as a guy i nor fit see my friend dey suffer make i nor tip am small thing..the guy done they get up back but he doesnt treat his wife well its so sad

Ferrous:
Has the young guy visited before?

yes o more than 10 times only once the bf couldnt offer gift and d beachh couldnt cover for him spits..how i wish i had d poor guys numb..this is a death trap i swear..but some guys nor get sence cuz of stupid smelling rotten over wide ashewo puna.i can nerver put my dik in dat pit God forpid spits

izzou:
[color=royalblue]cc: BRATISLAVA

I hope you understand who a fiancé is in Igbo tradition

It's not when it comes to gifts you'll start talking about tradition[/color]

which one is boyfriend and fiance again..one is correct english the other is pigin English they both mean the same thing...u are called a married man after u have paid the bride price.i nor understand both of una aguement..pls explain to me d diff btw boyfriend and fiance.its a public forum i want to learn something new

Xmen149:
this is the same thing I was trying to say since.

A true igbo parent eh sofar they have not given you list and you finish traditional marriage requirements. they will never collect pin from you bcs they will be feeling they are pimping their child.

they will even be advising their daughter not to collect anything from you so that even if she change her mind tomorrow she can go freely.

someone and her mother is out there collecting gift from her boyfriend and complaining he is no longer bringing it again they are telling me it's igbo culture.

it has to be igbo..cuz of the way they are so concerned abt material things..my friend who got married to an igbo girl on his wedding list his wife dad added roofing sheets i was shocked.since that day anytime i see amaka i quickly take another route though i was the one who registered her in a tailoring shop.had to run for my life..i was young then sha

NeoWanZaeed:
She talk say na 1st visit. .if its n0t 1st visit. The guy should run for his life

una nor go read post...d guy has been visiting before only one day he couldnt get s gift anf d leach couldnt cover up for his shortcoming this is a disgrace to womanhood..

How i wish her boyfriend was on nl...over over..retrieve over over..REPEAT over over this is a death trap retrive..the marraige will end in tears..i remember last yr christmas..didnt have cash to buy theq usual yearly bag of rice my wife went behind my back and bought 2 very big chickens for her parents and lied to them that i was the one that bought it..my father in law called me before she got home..as a smart guy i quickly played along..guys stop marrying someone u met walking along the street or on Twitter cuz u saw an empty ass.marry ur friend..i know y

TransAtlanticEx:
Are you sure you really wanna do this?
Cos I'm ready when you are.
Feed me and my family( a whole my family ooo) for ages yet your mama dey want kill herself say your fiance no buy bread for am?.
Why not use that money weh you want use am feed me and my generation buy your mama provisions keep for house na
And somehow its from this miserly,miserable existence that you wanna feed my family(really rich ) from?
My eldest sister got married in 2004,in 2003 when the man came for introduction,he wore shorts and was empty handed.
You know why?There was nothing he could bring that we don't have and he knew it
What you could have done sef to even cover your bf is send some money to your thirsty mom and claim your bf sent it,but instead you fought with him over it,maybe because you and your mama don plan as una go share the stipends weh the guy suppose bring,
Yet a bottom feeder like you wants to feed my generation?

kia bros u wicked. See finishing..a hole will always remain a hole..once the gifts stop coming the mum encoutages her daughter to look for someone with a higher gift wat a show of shame

I cant believe wat i am seeing..how did girls stoop so low.and relegate thier familys cuz of maybe 1000 naira..ur husband is not ur job..build urself una no go hear..which gift person wan buy for linda ikeji mama.wat a shame..no wonder they fall into the hands of yahoo guys who eventually use them for ritual..instead of ur parents to look at his prospect and aspirations them they fight for 100 naira bread.wat a shame..ma do ur parents live in the village or town..pls which state did this happen..it has to br imo or anambra

deltateam:
Too hungry?

Go and see your in-laws empty handed.

How will you like a girl you are dating to go and see your mother in your absence?

biggest fool ever..so every time i go and c my inlaw i must go with cash or gift..how many times have ur wife given money to ur dad or mum..see simps everywhere.na now i know una mumu botton

Trayceey:
that's your family and not mine

its yours ..u are suppose to treat visitors well...so if your mum is expecting a visitor or her sec sch friends she cant offer common drink..how much drink did she buy..send me her acc numb..thank God ur fiance dogded a bullet. Kia see responsibility..i keep telling girls..build a carrer...ur boyfriend is not a job

Just because of Permanet voters cards..her parents must be disgusting

Fools..go and read what islam says about filmmaking

NeoWanZaeed:
Laughing. Y must u lie. U got no shame. Quote fr0m quran where muslims are advised to drink urine

u call yourselve a muslim i konow d quoran more than u.the prob with the nort is dat they dont read..anything person talk ..follow

NeoWanZaeed:
Laughing. Y must u lie. U got no shame. Quote fr0m quran where muslims are advised to drink urine

ok...Google is ur friend

Mercy for presidency 2023

grandlexuz:
I want to run for the UN Secretary general post.

what are ur predigree..once u can fearure in d nxt big brother niaja u have all our votes..the mumu ness of these stupid igbo youth nor be here..

cassbeat:
Bro let them come out, create awareness lets vote them in come 2023.... Enough of apc and pdp

what has this script writter done that u term him technocrat ..are u educated...do u know that there is a doctor in the south south who uses all her salaries on an NGO....feeding the poor people in her state...building schs in community with wood and planks and sharing food to the vunerable with the little she has..to u anyone that comes up on big brother Nigeria and opens her breast and ass on dstv is a tecnocrat..oga just go and sit down.i dont have time for yoy..her name is esther ..google slum.and for ur info there are days she does free treatment and testing in public places..radio biafra is still on air.keep listeninf to it ot will help u. I also have 3 sure odds on bet9ja are u interested

advocatejare:



In short, Islam allows you to keep a bastard child as your own and deny the real father his child.
Wehdone

if there is evidence..my bro u cant try this with me..na that day them go change that part for quoran..na to take tramadol and predent to be friendly..once i get acces to the house 2 persons are going down and i will do the time

cassbeat:
Omo I thought y'all wanted a better.... A Nigeria away from APC and PDP's rule.... Alas you guys are nobody's..... Nigeria will never be better with this kind of mindset y'all have in here.... Chai I weak for Una....

and who told that those u see on tv following one stupid script are technocrates...cuz davido or tiwa salvage are popular doesnt make them technoctats..if u want to see technoctats come to economics dept university of benin...celebrities have nothing to offer..they are always looking for means to maintain thier lifestyle especially when no one is watching nollywood again. My advise for u is to run away from an igbo man if u love ur life especially the ones below 40..i did rather vote for tacha than this fool