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RomanceRe: Wat Do U Advice? by OscarJ1(op): 3:22pm On Nov 04, 2008
yeah sistawoman, i understand she feels bad n all dat but take a look at dis. she travelled on an offcial assignment wit her colleagues n dey r back wit the offcial car n driver waiting @ d airport to convey dem n she is refusing to go wit dem, not dat she does nt ve anyone to pick her up. wats my major fault here pls, i need to knw.
RomanceRe: Wat Do U Advice? by OscarJ1(op): 3:10pm On Nov 04, 2008
ok keeping it short.
she travelled to ABJ n was to return on a sat mrng, she called to come pick her up, i told her i wnt be able to that i was really tired because i went partying nit before. She den called someone i respect so much to report, d person called me, i called her to tell her i will pick her up n i forced myself to d airport n ad to wait 4 another 1hr17min 4 her afta her flight was on ground already claimng a luggage was missing. while in d car i noticed she was quiet n i questioned her severally on y, she said notin until afta a while she said because i said i cnt pick her up earlier on n i appologised on the spot with even holding her palm to shw that it was not intentional just that i was really tired(i always pick her up at d airport).
RomanceRe: Blood Convenant! by OscarJ1(m): 2:58pm On Nov 04, 2008
wat can fa huh?
RomanceWat Do U Advice? by OscarJ1(op): 2:54pm On Nov 04, 2008
ladies n guyz kindly say one or two statements on this to help me quickly.

I ad a slight quarrel wit my girl n she has been behaving very funny i.e no call, no txt, notin.(despite my apology on the immediate wen we sat down to talk abt it) even wen i call to ask hw she is doing n if she needs anything, she will respond in an unencouraging manner dat will put u off. i try not to get tired of her yet but in all honesty i am getting close dats y i need ur advice pls.

wat do i do pls or wat do u tinkhuh
RomanceRe: Your Sincere Advice Please by OscarJ1(op): 4:10pm On Sep 16, 2008
Hum!

makes my heart more heavier.

thanks anyway it was helpful, i appreciate.
RomanceRe: Your Sincere Advice Please by OscarJ1(op): 3:31pm On Sep 16, 2008
God bless u sis,

dat is exactly where my challenge is. What is dat inner beauty? how can u recognise it? wat does it entail pls?
am dead serious on this pls.
RomanceYour Sincere Advice Please by OscarJ1(op): 3:25pm On Sep 16, 2008
can u just give an advice say like two sentences on how to pick/find a wife.
what must i look out for? , etc

I really do ve a challenge on this.(seriuos weakness for me) and it sometimes bothers me.

If u have any experience on this i will so much wellcome your advice on how to go about it.

Anyone replying should be honest with me please.
RomanceHow Do I Regain Confidence? by OscarJ1(op): 3:44pm On Sep 01, 2008
Hi Guyz:

I need ur help. remember my post on this topic ''she is 29,i am30+'' saying i dnt want to disvirgin her cos am nt yet sure if i would want to end up with her or nt so dat she does nt feel taken advantage off n i dnt waste her time. we dated for just 6months.

ok, here is my challenge.  I could nt see us going far in this nt cos we ve problems or anything but i cant just feel it inside of me at all hence i made a decision to let go off her by talking things over with her. But ever since we broke up, she as not stopped frustrating me with calls, insults n all dat to the point of her saying she is going to sue me(obviously i lafed over this). with the kind of person i am, i dont like wahala at all n dats y i neva disvirgined her.

Now she has done it to a point that i am feeling my confidence in asking a lady out leaving me n i keep wondering if its a crime asking a lady out, cos i feel like the next lady may be this harsh as well.

usually i am not like this but again as we grow we learn n change in character.

Guyz n ladies wat do i do pls? just say it as it is. if i am being stupid dnt mix words just say it.
RomanceHave U Ever Been Rejected By Ur Bf/gf Parents? by OscarJ1(op): 7:27am On Aug 15, 2008
Hi Guyz,

has anyone ever been rejected by either the father or mother of ur Gf/Bf?

Pls share ur story.

I fell a victim recently.
BusinessARM Properties Private Placement by OscarJ1(op): 4:10pm On Jul 22, 2008
Hi Fellows,

I am here again.

As you all knw that Its only when the time comes for money to be made that i come here.

well another opportunity is here again for investment to be made in the real estate sector.

Its here again, the ARM properties private placement.

Its just only for 1 week, starting  this wednesday 23- 30 july'08

Minimum 25,000 units @ N4.17k

Please kindly indicate intrest by replying to the mail add below and time/place of contact.

eniola.aminu@armdiscoveryfund.com



Thank you.

Eniola Aminu

ARM Investment Centre,

36a, Awolowo road,

Ikoyi- Lagos.

08067123330,07028011760
RomanceRe: What Will I Do by OscarJ1(m): 7:09pm On Jun 23, 2008
oscarj---long time,sup?hp u're good?
notin much, yeah am gud.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Will U See Me by OscarJ1(m): 6:34pm On Jun 23, 2008
olosi,oniranu,alainikanse,oloribobo omo ni bobo yi sha.

u r a single GAY not even a guy.
RomanceRe: What Will I Do by OscarJ1(m): 6:30pm On Jun 23, 2008
beauteous,
how naw, long time.
RomanceRe: Dating My Best Friend's Sister by OscarJ1(m): 2:28pm On Jun 17, 2008
u no even sabi me!!!!!

u Arrow.
oh na so u bi? no vex abeg. i don waka

una too like to dey take jokes serious for this forum
abeg tell dem jare.
RomanceRe: Dating My Best Friend's Sister by OscarJ1(m): 6:21pm On Jun 16, 2008
[b]make u just shag am and bone face!!!![/[/b]quote]

Bad guy!
RomanceRe: Lasting Relationships: The Guys Or The Ladies by OscarJ1(m): 6:16pm On Jun 16, 2008
for me (as a guy),
i fit say God catch u?

reconcile that statement with ur profile wink

Topic

I think the ladies prefer lasting ones, cos of surety n safety.
RomanceRe: Dating My Best Friend's Sister by OscarJ1(m): 6:11pm On Jun 16, 2008
Please my close friend's sister has been "disturbing" me for close to a month now. And looking at how close her brother is to me, i personally think i can't afford to date her 'because my friend will feel betrayed, kind of.

Although, i approached her yesterday and made her see my reasons, but i noticed she 's grown cold since that yesterday with me.Please am i wrong here or waht do you think i should do?
Guy honestly speaking with no disrespect, you're one of the reason y ladies would nt ask or woo a guy.
she has been disturbing u for a while now, meaning that this girl has summond courage to even show u how she feels about u, to me i don't see any reason y u shouldnt oblige her request, only if u have a GF already or u don't even like her at all.

Give us reasons y, not just because of her brother.

And looking at how close her brother is to me, i personally think i can't afford to date her 'because my friend will feel betrayed, kind of.
Na her brother go marry or shag her?

except if u ve a bad record with ur best friend, then your bad.
RomanceRe: Whose Responsibility Is It, To Make A Relationship Work? The Guy Or The Girl by OscarJ1(m): 6:04pm On Jun 16, 2008
One more stupidQ on Nairalandhuh.
Which is more respnsible for u postin on Nairaland, your brain or your heart?
u tell us first. huh
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Need A Financially Stable And Fertile Yoruba Wife by OscarJ1(m): 5:58pm On Jun 16, 2008
comot 4 here. angry olosi,alainikanse,oloribobo,oloriburuku
RomanceRe: Whose Responsibility Is It, To Make A Relationship Work? The Guy Or The Girl by OscarJ1(m): 5:44pm On Jun 16, 2008
For a man to propose marriage to u. He must have wanted u badly, except he was pushed into the marriage out of wish Soooo he definitely wants u for keeps which makes it an easy beginning. The manner at which u play the affair from then matters. E.g your ability to make your house a home for him to always come back to, the manner at which u keep working on your relationship so that even as u grow older he keeps getting more attached to u. The truth is when u get the keys to what gets him superglued to u, "ba whahala"  because marriage is just another phase that is soo delicate.
I agreeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! grin

The truth is when u get the keys to what gets him superglued to u, "ba whahala"
hun hun i no gree oo, wahala dey plenty.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nairaland Award Nite - Make Suggestions by OscarJ1(m): 9:57am On Jun 10, 2008
waoh! i am really down with this, i ve beenthinking of something like this 4 a while.

what kind of suggestion do u need here, just give me an idea, i can den work around that.

Also can there be a party 4 we Nairalanders in nigeria? so we can meet n knw ourselves the more.
RomanceRe: She Wants A Break. Does staying apart strengthen relatonships by OscarJ1(m): 8:23pm On Jun 06, 2008
ok. now we knw. U ve really tried if all this is true.

But pls dont go wrong by the last couple of words in ur last sentence. always talk from a position of strength., ok?

wacth n see.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Welli, Where Are U? by OscarJ1(m): 5:12pm On Jun 05, 2008
i wonder o!
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Welli, Where Are U? by OscarJ1(m): 4:41pm On Jun 05, 2008
berra, i no vex again kiss
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Welli, Where Are U? by OscarJ1(m): 4:29pm On Jun 05, 2008
maybe seun don ban am!
hen who be dishuh

y, where, how? wat can far? its impossible.
I cant believe this is coming from u Buzzzzyyyy! take ur time oooooo! sad

Nope.Them no ban am
hey up Zigggyyyy! cheesy
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Welli, Where Are U? by OscarJ1(m): 4:20pm On Jun 05, 2008
i see!
oops! sori i almost 4got.

she is also the:

1. Credible
2. Unbeatable
3. remarkable.
4. reliable.
5. palatable.


Betta understanding of herhuh
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Welli, Where Are U? by OscarJ1(m): 4:15pm On Jun 05, 2008
who be wlli welli
u too wan sabi am?

ok read my last post wink
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Welli, Where Are U? by OscarJ1(m): 4:13pm On Jun 05, 2008
lmao . . u too knw welli?who's this welli
yes o! i knw her.

who's this welli
hum let see, ok.

1. categorically speaking she is the best mentally
2. No mouth making she is the cutest physically. wink
3. dnt doubt her she is always alert.

Do u knw her nowhuh

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