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U wan kill me with lafta oooooo!

Hope you are alright?

ode, na u no dey alrit instead make u learn u dey fill, Olodo like u.

go take a shower!

He compares me with his ex.  At any slightest disagreement, he concludes by saying he is tired of the relationship

can u pls open ur eyes & mind!!!  read & understand in btw d lines, he is not for you.

when one partner starts comparing u to their ex, that means u r not gud enuf at all. y not get som1 that appreciates u more n puts ur mind at peace

but again u may still want to continue crying till ur water runs dry (tears)

Use your head not your heart

Word poster!

C'mon welli give me a chance. . . . . let me prove my feelings to u. . . . .let me prove that u are the only bee that visits my flower. . . . .the only ink in my pen. . . . .the last charge on the battery of my phone

My Guy u don dey Bleep up o, wetin be dis now?

Put ur head straight o!

hummmmmm!

This is getting intresting btw u too oooo Welli Give am chance o, dnt be too rigid o, let the past go.

My guy make sure u treat her like u intend with ur words on this thread o. wishu both luck.

For example if she,

acts nervous around you
doesn't talk to you until you talk to her (she is scared that she might say something obviously wrong and you would resent her for it)
if she acts like your not that important (but you are actually the most important person)
if she laughs/giggles when you make a joke (be careful she might just think you are funny)
you might not know it but she is actually looking at you from the corner of her eyes or she looks at you directly
if she gets shy when you come close to the side of the room that she is on
when she is talking to a group and you come in and she walks away (its not that shes not interested she is just nervous that she will act wierd)
when you look her straight in the eye and she looks back
when she is talking to you and her friends are watching (this means that she is definitly interested and her friends want to know what you two are saying)
if she acts annoyed when you two get put next to each other or in the same group (unless she actually hates you)

Hummmmm Ibi mama

This must be from experience not just this source. am i rit? talk tru no lie o!

did u think well b4 posting this or u just wanted some attn from us?

Go take a shower.

One thing led to another and before i knew it, i started kissing and carressing this girl. She was wearing nothing under her shirt(she had changed and we were lying on the bed) and my hands slipped under her shirt and started rubbing her back and massaging her breasts. The bad part was that this girl did not even attempt to push me off!!! infact, she even crushed her body closer to mine. I finally came to my senses and stopped before it led to another thing.

really ! n u want us to believe this story abi?  

guy go take a shower.

take a look at this:

U pop d qtion, the girl says i will think abt it, u let go. Then she sees u later and shouts ''ol boy, dat tin we u bin ask me dat time wey i say i go go tink am, i don tink am now n i don ready to ansa, make i ansa u? abi u sef wan go tink am?

Will she do this or wat? i mean wat will be the response when she is done with the thinking aspect n she wants the guy? how will she now go telling the guy yes when d the guy don fade?

na wa oh!

@ Ashe you are funny I guess that some it up. I love her so much and I think I still prefer the calling, till something happen[quote][/quote]poster
Chei, na now i know say u be real mumu. upon all the advise that has appeard on this thread dat it shuld not be one sided, hen?

Oyo!

queenmimi

see let me tell u something, if a guy does not want to have anything to do with you, you cannot even smell his immediate younger one talkless of his family and then go as far as extended family. all dat happens is just going to start n end in his crib, shikena.

I strongly believe he has spoken abt u to his pple and showing u to them is like him completing the game plan of his pple accessing u if u r wat they like n think is ok as a wife material.

U will be surprised wen he comes popping the big qtion not btw u too alone but maybe within the garthering of the whole family+ extended ones. watchout!!! 

All  dbest

frank 3.16

there is no denying the fact that most uneducated guys even without knowing it act out their felling of inferiority in different ways

r u saying that even educated guys dont have or exhibit inferiority complex as well? despite their Bsc,Mba, Phd

Guy see the most important is ur mind set and focus ability, cos most guyz in this situation find themselves there for some reason that was outside their control as at then.

Using myself as an example:being the first child, I had to drop out of school (UI) to work n support my mum so we can send my younger ones to school cos my mum's financial muscles were not strong enough.

now let me ask u a qtion, Is there always room for improvment in every aspect of life? think abt it n let the answer remain with you.

yes i can,

but again it depends on the cause of the word ex coming to play. if it was through a lost contact circumstance why not.
sometimes the ex factor could be maybe u guyz met at a wrong time and werent into each oda as suppose to then and now u guyz are more matured and into each oda now.

But if it was for cheating sake or bad attitude etc, NO! is the answer 

Whoever findeth a wife, findeth favour in the Lord- not a graduate or trophy wife.   As for me, I  can marry a non grad. I was not born a graduate.

Word bro.

I think this topic is actually meant for me. i am not a graduate but i ve a graduate as a GF, a lawyer for that matter.

I think what really matters is if the Guy has got a clear vision in life.

Hum!
all i wanted was some advise from fellow nairalanders if i should go ahead and make luv to her while am not sure of her yet or to wait and be perfectly sure of my intentions towards her so there would be no regrets or watsoever later on.

I knew i was going to get some comments like this.

anyway i still appreciate all comments made and mostly hold in high esteem those that were constructive.

I am only human to feel like this and ask for help.

I greet u wise ones n i still welcome more comments.

Hi wise ones:

I need your candid opinion guyz. i ve been thinking seriously of how to present this to u all for dayz now, i am of the opinion that two GOOD heads are better that one.

I ve a GF she just clocked 29 2wks ago, a lawyer by profession. i am going to 31, an investment analyst.

Now the challenge i ve is this: we ve been dating for close to one year +, we luv each oda n we do things 2geda most times we r 2geda but we ve not had sex, not because she doesnt want to but because i am not sure i want to disvirgin her, y because i am not sure if i would want to end up with her. she is always eager to have sex with me just like i want too, being the first one she would ever experience in life but i keep refusing her and this makes her sometimes feel bad and quarell with me at times which i dont like to see her in such condition ( vowed to always make her happy) all i do is kiss her real good which she commends me for and named me GOOD KISSER. My girl is beautiful, good body posture, clean & smells nice, flat tummy, Normal size hips level n well structured ass, not to tall nor too short. (small size boobs, i LIKE IT DAT).

i dont want a situation whereby we get down, her pride is gone and we dont end up settling down together, wont it look like i jilted her or something (lied, etc)

i have not spoken to her on this either n i dont intend too.

I need your help pple, wat do i do?

Hi Informants:

Pls could someone pls tell me where this guys (group) are?

Have they broken up n gone solo? God 4bid chei !!!!

I miss this guyz really.

Do u too?

happily single.

Thank You my broda:

I was thinking if you could share with us wat ur experience has been so far. i.e has it been easy? r u benefitting from this decision? is it taking u closer to living ur dreams?

Pls i will appreciate.

Hi Wise ones:

I have meet several pple and had series of interviews on this saying, every one i ve disscussed with on this agrees, but the issue i ve is most pple dont seem to leave up to their words/believe. y? could it be that we are not disciplined or we just dont care about things that are important and needs to be taken care off? hum! i am yet to find the answer to this.

One thing i found out is that we human beings are mostly our own problems cos we dont seem to see beyond our immediate. there are a lot of financial challenges that can be overcomed in this life only if we can start taking the future serious.

What brings about me pouring this out is this, i spoke to a bunch of newly hired guys(fresh from sch) that work in a repuatble firm somewhere in VI on how to start saving up money for themselves aaginst tommorrows needs today buy making a regular monthly deduction of btw 5,10,15k etc or whatever your capacity takes after doing your cash flow analysis, i even went as far as telling them the story of a particular okada rider whom i encouraged on this and took it serious, today the guy has never for once stopped thanking me anytime he comes to make addtional payment and he tells me now he has plenty of peace of mind whenever he looks at his account and sees how much he has been able to put aside(he has brought couple of his mates). They were all happy and promised taking thier finances serious, all to my surprise about 70% started investing immediately they got thier upfront payment which was in the 7 figures bracket a week later, the remaing where roaming round without any genuine/concrete reason, when i say no genuine/concrete reason i mean exactly that.

Again i hear alot of pple say things they want to achieve in life or what they should have achieve in life but because they did not have enough funds they could not and am wondering why cant you discipline yourself and save up for what YOU want and achieve it instead of fantasizing and all that.

Examples:

I want more education ( masters abroad, yet u werent born with a silver spoon in your mouth)
getting married ( tell the lady to wait 3-5 more years, then u turn her into a waiter cos u dont have enough funds yet)
New car ( yet you drive 3rd- 4th hand and you r comfortable)
House rent (  i cant pay for a flat now cos am not married, LOW/POVERTY MENTALITY  let me manage a room & parlour)

The list is endless.

Why find urself in this bracket when u can save up/invest  and have a better life & be happy? 

My elders why is this happening to us? 

Pls share your experience(s) if you have been in a situation of not obeying/obeying the law of ''LIITLE DROPS OF WATER, MAKES A MIGHTY OCEAN'' and let pple know how important it is to save up.

Have u beneffited from savings? cos i have.

I can be reached on 08067123330, Eniola

@tyna1

are u looking long term? for thier education, which i think it should be.

Then i think the best invstment to do is to have a portfolio for them in mutual funds ( Stocks, real estate, fixed income & money market ) cos the risk would not be too high,
knowing the fact that its for long term they would be beter off and its safe.

If u need more information, do contact me through eniola.aminu@armdiscoveryfund.com

I would be glad to furnish you with more info.

regards.

@tyna1

are u looking long term? for there education, which i think it should be.

Then i think the best invstment to do is to have a portfolio for them in mutual funds ( Stocks, real estate, fixed income & money market ) cos the risk would not be too high,
knowing the fact that its for long term they would be beter off and its safe.

If u need more information, do contact me through eniola.aminu@armdiscoveryfund.com

I would be glad to furnish you with more info.

regards.

I want to believe this is satrting point of courruption which i totally abbhor.

My friends are saying that it is the way people are doing it,but my mind
will not allow me to do such.Though i am not claiming to be mr.perfect,
because on daily basis i am strivingin the Lord to be upright in whatever i am doing.

Homebase:

If u believe God can give u a job without compromising ur age he will surely do, i know its not easy, its challenging but with God all things r possible.

Have faith.

I think both investment are good depending on ur risk appetite. reason:

lets do a brief defination:

Direct Stocks: Singular investment with high risk, u r exposed to all the risk available in the market as at then n u r exposed to all the profit u can grab as well but u must be knowledgeable abt the market.

Mutual Funds: Is a combination of various investment vehicle i.e Stocks, real estate, Bonds, T-bills, Fixed income instument etc. (Diversification). it as well depends on the type of fund u r getting into ( Balanced or Aggressive) it goes as far as balancing btw risk n return.

For example: A&B makes investment, A goes for mutual funds while B goes for Stocks. so if there is a deep in the market A will not be hit as bad as B would.

If u r a regular player in the market (capital) by now u would ve known n understand the trend of the market. when the market is bullish u make super abnormal returns than u will make in a mutual fund n when the market is bearish u make less return than u would in a mutual fund. Basicly mutual funds r safer for the long time cos majority of them are properly managed by fund manager.

I can go on n on abt this cos i love mutual funds.

lets read other opinion as well.