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let him go.l

can someone pls send me the link to view this.

let her be.

even me i dnt knw d meaning i just heard the song and pple say it, but really what is the meaning, anyone willing to help

fj, tanks man. me also think the ladies are scared or something, what u think is responsible for dem not posting theirs?

dat guy called aus123, him head ''fokasibe''

me again.

here is my pics.

show urs peeps.

buy her good body care products.

advise her to take her bath more frequently.

As for me, i plan to engage my babe that day with this startegies.

1. drive up to her house in d evening n take her  out for dinner.

2. make her laugh alot n hard at the restaurant that pple will notice both of us.

3. after a while i will cause trouble with her n make her angry n lost.

4. ask her to get in the car n drive her home by then her family is already waiting as they share in the plan.

5. get to the living room n her mum pounces on her with various attacking words n qtions she cant ansa. (by then she is completely lost n helpless n would probably run to her room) then after a while, her mum sends for her.

6. she comes over n no one says anything for like 1-2 min.

7. i walk up to her boning n stop in front of her, drop down on one knee smiling, pop out the ring n ask her '' my sweet angel will u pls marry me'' _{hope she says yes ooo! if not gbege don shele be dat i go quench}

8. give her a warm hug n kiss , everone comes around her to cheer her up n laugh n then excuse ourselves to a secluded place to talk n giggle abt everthing dat happend.

9. go home, take a shower n savour the memory with a cold glass of water.

10. hit the bed n sleep like a baby.


_{praying real hard everthing goes well as planned sha}

dani1luv:
Re: Shouldnt Pastors Allow Pregnant Marriages In The Church

Ask Google?

Dani, u don come again, ol boy say something else jo.

I think it should not be encouraged but again lets luk at it from dis angle. the lady was refused church wedding cos she is pregnant abi? n its called fornication rit? wat abt pple that has been sleeping wit each oda so many times? wat have dey done? is it nt fornication? den d pastor goes ahead n wed the oda couple just because she is not pregnant. how do u judge dat pls? is it not he dat is caught dat is a thief?

pls be guided. dnt judge odas!

amyliajane:
@poster

There are some few comments that have been made by other fellow Nlanders which i quite agree with. 1.relationship is supposed to be a two way thing give and take not one party giving all the time and the other just collecting.No matter how busy a man or woman is time should and can be created for someone u say u like or luv. Ur lady is i would say is 2.not a child, she i believe knows what she wants and a 7months old relationship has at least gone some way.Her attitude and behaviour has changed, she has become uncertain and withdrawn frm u, but ask urself what could have been responsible, 3.was she that way initially cause i believe if she cares abt u, she would call to find out how u're doing and wats up, 4.am sure at this stage u're confused becos naturally things would tend to go frm bad to worse, 5.i suggest u have a final heart to heart talk with her, tell her what u dont feel comfotable with and what u dont, she also should do the same thing, caus i believe an open heart comminication would go a long way to clear the air and know where u both stand since u want a sincere relationship, and 6.if she is not ready to do that then its a sure sign that she isn't into u or the relationship so let her be and move on. 7.doesnt make any sense still chasing and wasting time on her 7months down the line going to 1 yr.

1.Thats exactly my point my dear.

2.She is not a child, she is 30yrs but dnt look it.

3.She was not this way b4 we started dating but immediately it commenced, she began.

4.U can say that again, i am lost.

5.Well i am tempted not to talk it out with her again after 3 diff session on this issue but again no one can tell wat happens anytime. i will try again but i must confess its pretty challenging for me nw.

6.That is where i dnt get it.

7.I am resolving into that.

Thanks dear, me appreciate.

Vuitton:
Me thinks the situation aint looking too good

Possibly the girl could grow more into making closer daily contact with you ^{which ud like} or
maybe she is not jus good with keeping in touch (which is a signal that she aint caring and is selfish)

If my girl dont reciprocate my calls, then sooner or later the relationship is DOOMED

Dont think you shud cheat but keep an eye out for someone more fulfilling to ur relationship needs. Cheers

i am beginning to think in that direction, i neva had the intention to at first anyway.

Thanks buddy Vuitton

Thanks everyone that has contributed to this thread, i appreciate u all. looking at the issue on ground, what will u guyz advice i do? placing urself in my shoes wat will u do concering this?

U say u have a serious relationship, u r doing things rit on ur own part and the girl who is even meant to take things more serious at this stage of her life is not, how do u explain this? sometimes i wonder if she really thinks abt having a family of hers or something.

I am just sad cos i luv this girl, if i go out and start dating someone esle then there will be issues of ''U CHEATING OR CHEATED ON ME'' n bla bla bla.

wat will u do?

smooooooth:
boy u lucky, i got this one even if i dnt call, she wont call.

and whats your wahala sef, na the call you want or the ''core''

abeg, stop complaining like a gurl.

I want a relationship.

ndividual:
I gotta say, this nails it on the head - thank God it came from a lady

@poster, I'll have to admit, take fs's and iice's advice. Even if you manage to get a relationship from her, I suspect it won't be permanent one (you might have been the only option at a particular time, after your 10yrs of waiting) - so is it worth it?

We ignore the signs in our faces and cry foul later on. be wise man.

Word!

frank3.16:
my guy, enjoy her while she is still forming because by the time starts bombarding you with calls because of too much love, na u go tire.

Do u tink she luvs me @ all talkless of her bombarding me with call

touchmeder:
is it only this calling back issue that is d problem and mayb not coming over to c u unless she is driving thru d area?
Can u say that she loves, and truly cares for you
do u have more doubt at this stage after 7months?


Then if that be d unfortunate case
Bros den begin dey look outside again
ive heard this sort of story too many times and most times d guy was just a backup plan,a stooge, an in d main time man
Are u?

My broda i think i ve plenty doubt concerning this relationship. wat u tink

No am not

Taken:
And please tell me how long should a guy chase a gal b4 she start responding?
isn't 7 months enough to establish a relationship?

Taken pls help me ask her?

jibbygirl:
i believe it's still to early for u to be worrying over who calls who first. it has become the tradition for the guy to do the chasing while the gurl enjoys it and if this is too much 4 u to do, then u don't really have it for her.

R u serious? so tell me how long shuld i wait for to become worried abt who calls who? 2,3,4,5, 10yrs

yeah we all knw its a guy thingy to do d chasing but not for u girls to now over do it till d guy leaves.

common be realistic nw!

Orikinla:
If anyone is reluctant to call you, it shows how much the person regards you.

Forget all that jazz about not having enough credit or being busy.
Tell the same person to come and collect ordinary N100, 000 and see how fast she will break the Olympics 100 meters dash.

lol, u very funny.
tanx man.

Taken:
I bet if you tell her that maybe we should just remain friends and start looking out for other pple, something will spark within her.
Check this out:
Compromise is a win - lose scenario (the loser here will go away with nothing at the end of the day).
Win - win is what we all need (you give and take + she gives and takes).

I bet this will work buddy, will most def giv it a trial.
thanks.

Taken:
@ poster

Hope you have not been smitten in your heart yet.
Tell her how you feel about this calling issue and observed her responses.

If she is indifference, time to get back into the hunting field and just keep her as a friend.

Thanks Taken, men i am close to i must be honest with u on this n it bodas me alot
i ve had 3 diff session of discussion with her on this n she will only call when i ignore her for a while.
do u think dis is ok ?

sista-jay:
@ Poster

You started the silly games by not callin, it goes to show two can play that game you're playin.

Haba! hw do u mean nw

try making it 7 years

hey common nw, r u helping or u mocking me? lol

u gotta do the calling. that's the way "we" want it especially when the relationship is still fresh. carry on with the chase man  

U call a 7 months dating fresh

HorneyChic

I smell immaturity on the part of both parties.
How old are u kids sef?

Y kids?? aniway i said her age in my post.

She dey form, she want to be ur Big Screen TV, she wants more attention

r u sure? i dont think so sha.

Area_boy

after seven months of dating, she can go a whole day without calling or even sending a reasonable text?

truth is,  if u start doing thesame, she might end up getting further and further away from u, 

so u need to make up ur mind what u want,

suck up to her and show all the care, or just ignore her for a good bit and let her start looking for u,

I think dis might work.will try it out.

lol. my head be like ur own abi? r u alrt at all.

pls allow pple use space well jare. go take a shower.

I met this lady say abt 7 months ago n we started dating, i like her n i ve gud plans 4 both of us to be togeda but out of all quarrels that we have(which is inevitable) this one is becoming an issue that i ve had 3 diff sessions of discussions with her on it. its the issue of me calling to check up on her, find out how she is doing n all dat n she not bordering too replicate same.

She once told me of recent (our last discussion) categorically that i must be the one calling her and not her calling me (feeling like a diva or something) i told her its meant to be a two way thing, (i call, she calls).


Then i decided to test her by not calling her for a whole day(i survived it) she den sent me a txt saying how nw? i did nt reply then anoda day n anoda one, she now called me to find out if i was ok, i told her i was doing gud n she dropped. i smiled.

she even hardly comes to my house (i can count hw many times she has) unless she is driving past my area n decides to stop by.

Sometimes i wonder y some ladies make we guyz do wat we neva intended to do @ d beginning of a relationship.

nw wat do u guyz think abt this? cos it bodas me the way she reasons like a baby @ 30, does she love me at all? is she cheating?

I need ur objective words NL.

I think going out on a date depends on various things; money, time, work commitments, family responsibilites.

But a couple should set aside date night. That does not mean that you have to go out and do anything, you could just stay at home and enjoy a movie or each others company.

We have date night every Monday night. All of my friends and his too know not to call during our date night. We sometimes go out but most times we spend the night watching WWE, talking, cuddling and enjoying each other.

Monday night is the one night each week that we look forward to. The kids are in bed that night early and it is all about us.

i absolutely agree with you on this. no fault! but whats that word or acronym in BOLD please