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I hear you and I believe when a gift is offered and accepted then it belong to the person.

i quite agree with you on the gift part but nt with an engagement ring my dear, an engagement ring is not a fashion ring that can be classified as a gift.

In that case, everything that were given should be returned including sex and kisses.

those 2 things can not and never be classified as a gift. maybe another analogy will do pls,

Some women will return the ring because they want nothing to do with the ring or the person.

so what makes this particular statement of urs diff frm the argument on ground?? cos for me if some1 breaks up with another in a relationship that means they dont want to have nothing to do with the other party in any way, and am sure you will agree with me that an engagement ring is something that is meant to constantly remind the carrier that she is committed to someone in a bid of getting together to become husband and wife, so if it happens otherwise then i guess the ring that reminds you of that should be returned and trhat shows you are no longer committed to no1. kapish??

@sexkillz u r just so not a serz fellow i swear down.
@slimyem, i go wif u,
@Omega, u making alotta sense, but i remeber her telling me abt her ex somtime ago and she mentioned that she actually gave him back his ring, cos he lied to her. so why is my case diff na?

@Dyt, u r so hilarious where did u get dose 2 names frm lol
@omega u r very correct but i am not bothered abt the ring, my concern is what is her rational behind such act since she was the one that broke up with me?
@sexkillz, na wa for u o! its nt diamond, its gold and man trust me it cost me some money nau, loolz

Hello forumites,

I need you all to lend me your knowledge and advice on this pls cos i am a little confused as i have never experienced this before: what does it mean when a lady you have engaged breaks up with you and yet refuses to give you back your ring? i have never heard of such before, all i have heard is when such thing happens, the ring is returned back to the guy but in this case she didn't despite the request for the ring. is this a normal thing or am the one who is maybe thinking at large?

i need some education on this pls and also welcome your criticism and advice.

Eniola.

No you don't and i am a living testimony of this. all u need just like some posters ve said is that you should identify a problem or challenge in the society n proffer a solutions and you are on your way to prosperity.

the simplest way to go abt this is to have the same philosophy i have and use every single day( help people to save money & help people to make money) when u have this in mind you can always look at your environment and you will see what you can do to be successful.

if you want to know more abt how. contact me on 08067123330- Nigeria, (205)423-6340 -US number. enioladiscovery@yahoo.com

i am more than willing to share this and what i do with you, cos i believe a candle looses nothing by lighting another candle.

@poster, i think u r running a high temprature! go take a shower!

ok here is mine:

check my pocket pieces of paper ____________________

ok here is mine:

check my pocket pieces of paper, ________________

Anybody attended Holy Trinity Grammer Sch, Old ife rd, Ibadan here?

cant remember everthing fully but still gat some in my head, here it goes:

Holy Trinity,
The best school i know,
In old ife road in Ibadan,
may we ever be best in all we do,
so our sch may ever be yours lord.

Our sch is mixed,
and is mixed with joy,
the joy that will not let our sch go down
always kind and true best in all we do
so our sch may ever be yours lord.

Verse 3,

blah blah blah,

the rythm is adopted from the BURNING TRAIN movie.

abeg that name came from ''Ilesa'' jare. the city where dey eat agidi.

can someone please post the picture of these guyz we r talking about on the thread? lets even know them cos me personaly i dont knw most of them.

post picture of producers like:

k-solo.
Jesse jags.
Sosick.
Dr Frabz.
J-sleek.

waiting!

well no doubt Bukola is doing well but anyday anytime Fashola is still performing better than him. You know why? a state like kwara is not as wide as Lagos and the level of work to be done in both state is incomparable. if u put a fashola in Kwara then u will know Bukola is not there yet if u undertsand what i mean.

Lagos is still the nerve of Naija and if anyone can Govern this state and take it to the level its meant to be, then u can Preside over Naija as a whole but that in itself comes with its own challenges. why do u think PDP did everything to get the lagos seat?

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Eko o ni baje o!

y me:
okay
@poster
i am tryinyg get your drift

please expantiate more on your topic

okay dis is coming cos we had a misunderstanding and she has refused to admit she is wrong.

Ifeleke, i dont get u pls.

hi guyz, here is a txt from my Gf '' we neva rili has a realtionship. it was a family affairs, it still is, especially afta y'days meetin. pls lets save ourselves further embarrasment by movin on wit our individual lives. we do not need to pls anybody. Take care.''

Now dis is coming from her afta she has refused to realise and see her wrong doings o!

My reply

''Is dis a break up msg? cos i dnt get yet, reply yes/no.'' she neva replied, i den went ahead to call her much later to find out if dats wat she is saying in the txt, she was just beating around the bush until i pinned her to the corner and asked again then she said yes.

She later went ahead to call my aunty to report herself the next morning and insisting that i should come to her house to come and beg her and her uncle, then i laughed and realised how arrogant she has been which i ve refused to see al along.

now trhe question is why will someone say such n still look for a haven or something?
what should i do? should i let go off her completely n give someone else attention or i should wait for a while?

I have few stories hw we got here anyway.

na wa o!

anoda kolo!

no now, dnt mind them jare, siga target will do cos it will give u the real target.

I dont have  one but wont mind one

lady bam:
@post

no.its not ok.u got 2call else . . maybe expect the worse

yee! LAdy Bam dont make it seem like something really terrible will hapun, the worst dat can hapun is she goes away.

or wat u think?

tonia2000:
@poster
I think u av Ego problem (dat most of u African guys av) nd y are u complaining of her not callin u.Break the stupid silence by callin her and its settled.

Thanks.

thanK you Dae, no she is older by a year. we have been togeda 4 a year nw. i have spoken to her couple of times in the past and she keeps hiding under the umbrella that she is a WOMAN. i dont get it.

Michie, i needed to do so cos i just cant get it, maybe i am wrong so i want to know. my qtion is why will some one u claim to have a relationship with, not call you to find out y u ve not called or seen them? cos it takes two to tangle like they say.

i was in a fix n i was tight, couldnt call cos of wat hapund n she knows abt it and she did still refuse to call to find out hw far with me n my challenge as at then, all i got was calls from my relatives outside the country blaming me n saying al sought without finding out my own part of the story, not until i made it clear to them that they all soft pedal.

she is 34 yrs dis year.

nope we did not, we were just fine. we speak everyday. for her being into me, i cant say yes or no cos humanbeing can pretend.

u know most times i wonda y she behavs like a baby.

hI peeps, i was in a tight situation about 4 weeks now and i have not spoken to my Gf since then cos of wat hapund, the news is that she neva borthered calling me to find out why i have not called her or how am i doing. is this right or am i the one at fault?

guyz say it as it is pls. no missing words!

what do u mean, u want pple to comment it? whats all this nonsense.

what a waste of space.