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RomanceRe: I Love You With My Heart Body And Soul But I Can Never Marry You by OscarJ1(m): 3:56pm On Dec 16, 2008
hey rockchic

I am going to tell u this from my experience on this issue of marriage. for a lady to say this, it has its own advantage n disadvantage.

ADVANTAGE: wen ladies say this, it either tells us dat, hey guy u grown up or u r growing old. we go do d thinking n all dat.
DISADVANTAGE: we see u as desperate ones n looking for someone to hook up by force by fire(download ur burden on the guy) we take off ASAP.

This as hapund to me once and i had to back off immediately cos i was scared, confused , etc, not cos i wasnt old enough but i just couldnt picture myself in that then and we were both age mate.

we guys will neva allow a lady tell us abt this and just jump into it, we tend to see it as a trap or perharps dere is something wrong wit the lady in qtion, so we will always back out either to do our findings or go n neva show up again.

see its very natural for a guy to get scared of commitment interms of marriage but we still ve to do it anyway. u girls should just have an open mind wen it comes to sensitive issues like this.

will be back soon, need to attend to work.
RomanceRe: What Are Ur Turn On/off's For Boiz/girls by OscarJ1(m): 3:04pm On Dec 15, 2008
all of teh above turn offs turns me off. grin
RomanceRe: Happy Xmas 2 U All by OscarJ1(m): 2:52pm On Dec 15, 2008
plenty wishes from my desk to all NL. wink
RomanceRe: Was She Not Born A Virgin by OscarJ1(m): 2:47pm On Dec 15, 2008
u make sense.
RomanceRe: Confession:what's Craziest Thing U've Ever Did To ur Soulmate by OscarJ1(m): 11:32am On Nov 28, 2008
Whats the wackiest thing i ever did, well i called up my girl @ a phone center, told her to close her eyes for some mins, had her feelin like she was bein kissed, she came twice, and to my gr8tst surprise, after hanging up, the call attendant was so Hot dt she askd for my number, and well i nailed her right there in her shop, weird,right?
so she n i've been having supposed"phone intimacy" for sometime now, its somewhat koool, and she cums like crazy, when i meet her, she just grabs my d and starts saying some shit in calabar i NEVR understand,
Make i no go further,
guuuuuuuuuuyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy! na wetinhuh match break small nw.
RomanceRe: Confession:what's Craziest Thing U've Ever Did To ur Soulmate by OscarJ1(m): 6:18pm On Nov 25, 2008
Yes if you try your girl will love you for ever. Its showing real care and love.
i feel u ooooooooooo!
RomanceRe: Confession:what's Craziest Thing U've Ever Did To ur Soulmate by OscarJ1(m): 6:05pm On Nov 25, 2008
Clean the dirt of her nose with my mouth. Was nice and salty. She likes it alot.
shocked

WHAAAAAAAAAAAT!!! see luv n tokyo!
RomanceRe: Confession:what's Craziest Thing U've Ever Did To ur Soulmate by OscarJ1(m): 6:01pm On Nov 25, 2008
huh huh huh
its a weird thing to do rithuh

naughty me.
RomanceRe: Confession:what's Craziest Thing U've Ever Did To ur Soulmate by OscarJ1(m): 5:49pm On Nov 25, 2008
ehn!  u no well oooooo! shocked

God 4 bid

olohun maje ooooooooo!


waves hand and taps finger over his head angry
RomanceRe: Confession:what's Craziest Thing U've Ever Did To ur Soulmate by OscarJ1(m): 5:37pm On Nov 25, 2008
mine is suck her nipple turn red, u know what that mean!
no i dont knw. please expalin!!!
RomanceRe: Confession:what's Craziest Thing U've Ever Did To ur Soulmate by OscarJ1(m): 5:35pm On Nov 25, 2008
Forgive him Lord for he knoweth not what he did
yeah u right, and i say amen to that prayer 4 me.

thanks wink
RomanceRe: Confession:what's Craziest Thing U've Ever Did To ur Soulmate by OscarJ1(m): 5:27pm On Nov 25, 2008
uhm!!!

mine was dat, i inserted my d into her p n jerked just twice n i pulled out saying i was only kidding with her. meeeeeeeeeeeen she almost killed me dat day.
RomanceRe: Testing Waters. by OscarJ1(m): 5:10pm On Nov 25, 2008
What if someone decided to have a taste of your own spring water? Would you be pleased?
Again i cant fault this guy.

poster which part of NO dnt u understandhuh
RomanceRe: Testing Waters. by OscarJ1(m): 5:07pm On Nov 25, 2008
Testing what waters again? You have a fountain beside you and u still want to deep your feet in the mediteranean sea?
i like ur response.

poster NO!
PoliticsRe: Lagosians: Is Fashola The Expected Messiah? by OscarJ1(m): 6:47pm On Nov 20, 2008
But why are you guys praising the man for what he is employed/appointed/elected/selected to do? The man is just doing what ordinarily should be his job description as a governor. It is only in Nigeria that public office holders are celebrated for doing what they are suppossed to do.

What else is he f*#cking there for other than to fix the roads, the street lights, hospitals, etc?
I second. word man!
RomanceRe: What Is Important To A Girl U Love Most? by OscarJ1(m): 4:49pm On Nov 17, 2008
this guy na just typical AJ boy and i sure say na AJ that your babe dey, so give her AJ trips, carry her to bole spot, buy =N=60 bole, =N=20 ekpa and =N=40 guguru with one bottle of orobo. that shld sweep her off her feet and she go love u die.[/quot

hahahahahahahahahah grin grin grin

u wan kill personhuh
RomanceRe: What Is Important To A Girl U Love Most? by OscarJ1(m): 4:48pm On Nov 17, 2008
who b ur fans,
i wonder o!

God never show you who n where ur fans dey.
RomanceIs It True? by OscarJ1(op): 4:42pm On Nov 17, 2008
Guyz, i had this slight arguement with a couple of friends over the weekend and i have heard both sexes talk about it as well.

Now, is it true that its the men that ask for sex the more b4 marriage and the ladies more during marriage.

which is truehuh surport your side with a short reason and most especially dont be biased o.

Keep it short please.
RomanceRe: Who Do I Pick? by OscarJ1(m): 9:19am On Nov 17, 2008
common guy reason well u cant be confused like u claim,believe me u two are not in love but in lust.

My advise is dont just break someones heart here o! do u want to snacth this girl that is engaged to be married and still leave her later wen u see someone perharps beta.

my 2cents.
RomanceRe: What do u do if you thing happened? by OscarJ1(m): 6:41pm On Nov 12, 2008
na wa o! today english no get mate

pple just dey yarn many many tins(oyinbo)
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Nairaland Hook-up by OscarJ1(m): 6:38pm On Nov 12, 2008
none dat i knw of, wouldnt mind one sha. wink
RomanceRe: How Many Times Do You Call Your Partner A Day by OscarJ1(m): 6:20pm On Nov 12, 2008
Welll maybe once in two year
Ehen now!!!
u r a nonsense bf. grin



Is that not what a relatiohsip is?
In fact i dey try. My girl calls once in 10 years
r u sure u two ve a relationship? lol
RomanceRe: Wat Do U Advice? by OscarJ1(op): 10:24am On Nov 05, 2008
hi all tanks for ur advice,its really helpful n insightful.

pls keep it coming.
RomanceRe: Wat Do U Advice? by OscarJ1(op): 4:44pm On Nov 04, 2008
before we start accusing her of being unreasonable we should find out whether the poster was apologetic immediately he arrived at the airport, he might have also been in a bad mood at that time which is what is making her overreact. abi poster?

yeah woodpecker u very correct, i did nt appologise to her cos i ve done notin wrong as @ den, i was nt ok as well cos i was really tired n embarrassed by her calling who she did n she as well neva appologised for keeping me waiting for 1hr 17min. i could take her up on dat bt again i decided to relax n embrace her. but see wat am getting. too bad.
RomanceRe: Wat Do U Advice? by OscarJ1(op): 4:32pm On Nov 04, 2008
i strongly advise that u show her that u're really sorry by doin somtin radical that will show her that u're wiling 2 do anything to get her heart back, from the way u make her look she reminds of me of mine and when i offend i usually do somtin extreme like shouting "am so sorry love" when there are strangers around so that she'll be too touched or embarrassed not to 4give. its not onlly in the movies this stuff works
Wood p, i  like dis, do u really do dis in public? u d man. i must learn from dis.
tanks man. i owe u one in swe bar.
RomanceRe: Wat Do U Advice? by OscarJ1(op): 4:26pm On Nov 04, 2008
don't let her get away with this or you will have many more problems in the relationship. You must deal with the communcation break down and find out exactly why she is so upset so that you can correct it. Let her know that you are willing to work this out but can't do so if she remains silent on the issue
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tanks again sis.

i am trying to be gentle wit her b4 standing my ground, i dnt wnt her to feel oda wise.

i can be NAUGHTY n VERY HEADY as wel.
RomanceRe: Wat Do U Advice? by OscarJ1(op): 4:18pm On Nov 04, 2008
are you sure they didnt dash you this girl ??
lol grin grin grin u  crazy man, common me big up dan dat.

Baby Jinx

yeah i go to her house abytime bt nt very often.

her going out without telling me is nt a stated rule.

We dnt necessarily ve sex wen we togeda.

cooking as neva hapund

I dnt box her to a corner to care for me.

I dnt inconvinience her to satisfy me.

I LOVE HER DIE.

i ve answered in all honesty. so wats d next movehuh
RomanceRe: Wat Do U Advice? by OscarJ1(op): 3:47pm On Nov 04, 2008
ANGER + D = DANGER

always avoid angry people

what if you didnt have a car?
JJYOU, wat does d D stands 4 in ur formula? can one really do without being angry at times?
what if you didnt have a car?
she actually called her house for someone to come pick her up wit her car earlier on but no one was available to so she called my person.
RomanceRe: Wat Do U Advice? by OscarJ1(op): 3:42pm On Nov 04, 2008
igwe 1, tanks as well bt obviously it hasnt gotten to d extent of me findn anoda girl nw.

so wat was my mistake igwe?
RomanceRe: Wat Do U Advice? by OscarJ1(op): 3:40pm On Nov 04, 2008
lol.  Woodpecker tanks so much but wat case can she be tired off ohuh explain!!!

Sistawoman i really n trully appreaciate ur advice but wat do i do to someone who will nt respond in a way dat canmake u fix up a time to sit down again n talk tings over?

wat do i do?
RomanceRe: Wat Do U Advice? by OscarJ1(op): 3:25pm On Nov 04, 2008
not at all.

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