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NYSC / Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by Othlera(m): 6:11pm On Nov 12, 2021
Good evening, during my registration i entered 2016-2021 because of corona break instead of 2016-2020. Please will it affect my mobilization?
NYSC / Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by Othlera(m): 2:38pm On Aug 28, 2021
Please when is the next nysc online registration
Pets / Re: Adult Male Lhasa Apso Available For New Home by Othlera(m): 10:40pm On Aug 15, 2021
how much?
NYSC / Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by Othlera(m): 8:20pm On May 22, 2021
Kyrian042:

Yes she can work it and go with the next batch but only with the right source. But I suggest she goes to camp and work her relocation back to Lagos. I can assist with this but will let you know by next week if it's going through

Please when will registration for next batch begin?

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NYSC / Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by Othlera(m): 6:54pm On Apr 16, 2021
Japhet04:
you need to do clearance in order to obtain your statement of result which is a prerequisite for nysc registration.

I'm actually talking about being able to go ahead to do online registration
NYSC / Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by Othlera(m): 9:01am On Apr 16, 2021
Please, is it necessary I first do clearance before my name can be sent on the Senate list for nysc? Because I received a call from student affairs a some months back calling me to confirm my phone number for nysc
Programming / Re: I Need Focused People To Join A Whatsapp Group For Learning Java by Othlera(m): 12:08am On May 17, 2020
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Sports / Re: Agu & Aina dropped from Nigeria's final World Cup list. by Othlera(m): 11:05pm On Jun 03, 2018
take it or leave it, Joel should be dropped but not for Mikel agu. shehu has been good when playing against African countries but loses confidence against international countries if u recall our match against Argentina,against England, he was all out of position when on the defensive .he's either at the central defense or the midfield to the extent troost and Balogun had to leave their positions thereby opening up the defense. but as soon as Tyrone comes in, the defence gains composure.as far as I'm concerned Joel has never been impressive since his return and if not coz of the list submitted to FIFA already should be replaced by nwakali.o Onazi has had less playing time for his club but picked due to his World Cup experience. Agu can never be picked over onazi and Joel obi.aina will only enter the squad based on sentiment coz he's has never been better than idowu nor has elderson's experience. ndidi should play 4 and Mikel, iwobi/etebo should be infront. or pairing ndidi and ogu(no one seems to talk bout the clean technical passes he dishes from defense to the midfield(something Joel failed to do in the midfield) the Mikel upfront. ighalo a good attacking option should work on his positioning skills as he mostly depends on speed,dribbles and strength, or wingers should probably be Moses and iwobi.musa has always been better as a sub but I believe he's pace will determine our progress in the tournament. rohr has been a good Technical adviser
Agriculture / Re: do wish you could practice AGRICULTURE full time? but have little or no FUND by Othlera(m): 3:24am On May 10, 2018
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Romance / Re: Top Ten Handsome Men In Romance Land. by Othlera(m): 12:27am On Jan 14, 2018
I see only naijaboi for the list,op supposed add me join gringringrin
Romance / Re: Why The FVUCK Can't a Girl Approach A Guy She Like by Othlera(m): 6:59pm On Nov 17, 2017
mine verbally asked me out and we doing fine. the reason some girls don't ask guys out is coz some guys are so dumb they tag them cheap

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Romance / Re: Inter-religious Marriage. Opinions Please by Othlera(m): 10:45pm On Nov 05, 2017
op the simple truth and problem both you and the girls father have is this converting ish. really it's no big deal to marry someone from another religion buh the issue is that most men want to convert their wives which is wrong. you knew her and fell in love with her practicing that religion. religion should be the least thing that should break a relationship and as for the kids,let them decide wah religion they want to practice not force them.you can force a horse to the river buh you can't force it to drink from the river(know people who practice Islam at home buh go to church in school). I have seen many families where the husband is a Muslim and the wife is a devoted Christian and they don't have issues atol because they understand each other and respect both beliefs.
Romance / Re: Guys Which Do You Prefer Between These Classes Of Women? by Othlera(m): 2:15pm On Nov 05, 2017
number 1,I no fit marry pesin wey dey ignorant
Romance / Re: 5 Ways To Have Safe S*x Without CĀ©ndom (20+) by Othlera(m): 10:10pm On Nov 04, 2017
Augustap:
You'll not smell even one mb today grin
funny
Agriculture / Re: How Do I Get Access To Loans/ Funds by Othlera(m): 12:06am On Oct 27, 2017
thanks alot for the advice.i really appreciate
Romance / Re: Seeking Spiritual Help On Who To Date, Good/bad by Othlera(m): 10:39am On Oct 26, 2017
Augustap:

Life is a risk anyway. But most times people get into these problems themselves. As a guy, you'll be in a relationship with a girl who
1. Uses sex to threaten you
2. Tell lies as colorful as fanta
3. Hang out with friends you're not comfortable with (cheating)
4. Loves attention like a new born child
5. Has shown unkind and uncalled for attitude to people
6. Disrespectful and find old people and kids disgusting
7. Challenges every single thing you say, and she is not even eager to learn
8. Compares you to other guys
9. Does not care if you save at all, na her self she know
10. You do not trust her fully, you still doubt her to an extent.
Some guys see these traits and still dive in to marriage like divers. No one is a saint, everyone has some flaws, but a girl who has almost all listed there na no no for me if i be guy.
While for the girls, they'll see a guy who
1. Beats them
2. Boss them around
3. Cheats
4. Isn't baby friendly or respectful to people especially the aged
5. Withholds sex or affection as punishment
6. Compares you to other ladies
7. Tell constant lies like the power failure in 9ja
8. Only has time for you when it's a weather for two
9. Doesn't include you in future plans
10. He doesn't make you feel good, wanted and loved. You still doubt if this will work a lot.
Girls see all these and jump in to marriage like life guards at a beach thinking the guy will change. If a person loves you, they'll change for good becos of you. But if they don't change when you're dating, forget it, they ain't changing after marriage.
yeah, just imagine dating a girl with some of those traits and someone is telling you she's your God's will, same as the guy who has been beating you even before marriage.
Agriculture / Re: Free Land @ No Cost For Passionate Farmers/investors by Othlera(m): 8:28am On Oct 26, 2017
how bouh funding?
Agriculture / How Do I Get Access To Loans/ Funds by Othlera(m): 8:09am On Oct 26, 2017
hello house, I have access to lands and also access to lands by river basin authorities buh the problem is funding. I would like to know if it's possible to get a lone of 100000 from a bank with little or no collateral coz I'm a student and I have to fund my poultry of 49 birds also.the things is my parents do assist me financially buh I want go start crop farming and I want to start with cucumber or Melon. please I'll appreciate any advice on how to get capital or how to apply for bank loans
Romance / Re: Seeking Spiritual Help On Who To Date, Good/bad by Othlera(m): 2:48am On Oct 26, 2017
Augustap:
I don't know abt others, but the last thing i'll do is seek spiritual counsel concerning my relationship or marriage. God was der wen i fell in love, so nobody should tell me dt he's not in support of my union. When things do not go well, i'll know i followed my heart, and not blame it on any prophecy
babe thats wah I believe too coz I prefer knowing I brought something on myself than regretting I actually followed the directions of someone who won't bear the consequences with me when the problem starts.buh like chivic said it has saved lots of life.buh this girl turned to a intimacy gadget coz she felt she was with Mr forever.guess we just have to take a risk between following our hearts or other means
Romance / Re: Seeking Spiritual Help On Who To Date, Good/bad by Othlera(m): 9:54pm On Oct 25, 2017
chivic:
From your write up,you painted a very bad picture of why people should not go to their spiritual head for advice on such matter.And you expect others to condemn it.
There is nothing wrong in going to a spiritual head on who to date. It have saved thousands from pains and sorrow .However,if her spiritual head is truely spiritual,he would probably have seen the dangers ahead. Mind you she was not used and dumbed,she allowed her self to be used.Will a spiritual head monitor your actions?
Also she might have seen someone she loves and the spiritual head thinks he is not the right person(if truly he is spiritual then its OK)
Note that expression of love by both parties does not determine a good home,or a lasting marriage. After all many have professed to be in love and yet their marriage did not last for more than a week.
My submission: try to be spiritual enough to be able to get guidance from the holy spirit. But if you are not spiritual enough,a spiritual authority is recommended .
really thanks for the reply, not that I'm saying it's bad,buh I just believe some of these so called spiritual leaders decide based on wah a person tells them.not a rccg member buh I once read a topic in open heavens and pastor adeboye said people go to seek spiritual help because they are too lazy to pray. this same person I'm talking bouh once told me bouh how her parents told her sister to leave a certain guy buh the sister didn't till she got her own answers through prayers.
Romance / Seeking Spiritual Help On Who To Date, Good/bad by Othlera(m): 3:44pm On Oct 25, 2017
hello guys I have a friend who always goes to her pastor/spiritual father's concerning who to date,she has done this 2 different times and she always got used and dumped. the funny thing is theres this guy who truly loves her buh she claims she loves also buh because they(pastors) said his family has a spiritual challenge. she decided to leave him saying she has been warned no to enter any family with spiritual challenges.now shes been told that the guy that's gonna marry her will meet her next year. my question: is it right to go to a spiritual leader or a pastor to make inquiries?
Romance / Re: Is She A Ho?? by Othlera(m): 3:21pm On Oct 25, 2017
nelson7777:
if u knw u r really in love wit her, this wat u r to do even though it is going to be hard....
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GIVE HER SOME SPACE
no calling, no texting, no chatting, no viewing of her whatsapp status, no booty call,..

d key here is to make her miss u, n use dat time to think 4 herself wat she actually wants, does she miss d sex or hanging out wit u, or both..

after like 1 or 2 weeks of doing dat, unblock her, If u r nt desperate i will advise u to wait 4 her to mk d first contact, but if u wait 4 somedays she dosn't, u call her, cos she might b jealously angry....
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then u tell her, babe i took sometime off, i really needed to figure out wat i wanted n if i truely wanted it, not my hormones/sex, or loneliness deciding 4 me, truth is even though it took somtime, am glad i did it, i miss u and its u i wnt, i wnt u to b my girlfriend exclusively...

Bros u will gt d most honest reply ever..
relationship is nt a university change of course form, u dnt just switch side because she made u jealous, or made u see wat u will b missing.....

best of luck..
na only God sabi how many guys go dn bleep am before the break ends.just leave her grin grin grin
Romance / Re: Two Nairalanders Sojourn Into Marriage In Pictures by Othlera(m): 11:46pm On Oct 23, 2017
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Romance / Re: Robbers Enter A House, Asks For All The Money And Valuables. by Othlera(m): 11:25pm On Oct 23, 2017
na last bus stop the marriage reach so
Romance / Re: hello by Othlera(m): 11:20pm On Oct 23, 2017
Mariinee:
grin grin Wrong directions, please move ahead. grin grin
boys dn suffer
Romance / Re: All You Nairaland Boys Should Stop Sending Me Mails Pls, I Am Taken. by Othlera(m): 9:03pm On Oct 23, 2017
lol una dn finish am turn am to #5 geh grin grin

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