U guys better bcareful how u condemn men of God. I'm sure u are aware about the implications of judging and condenming men of God. U better live them for God to judge and mind ur business. U are not perfect either and wateva sins they might av commited is no different from ur's.

clintwine:

@poster what makes you a man is to be able to use your head to make decisions instead of your emotions.
It is a tough decision, but u need to make it to live long.

I have only loved one girl, and she didn't even do up to 80% of what you mentioned and i disengaged, it wasn't easy then, but am happy i did it.

Advice: Create a scenario, where she would need to pour you water again, and when she does it, Land her a good/heavy slap, while she is seeing stars and trying to run her mouth, give her another one on the other side of the cheek, that should paralyze the mouth for a while, and then you walk out as a Man, not run away like her house boy.

Note: Am not in favor of beating women, but this should jolt her back to reality, cos i don't think you are with a NORMAL/SANE woman, so you too need to KOLOMENTAL.

Your babe na AGBERO fullstop

Thanks bro, av heard u. Its not dat easy u know, but av learnt my lesson bitterly. I was thinking i wuld change her by taking her to church programmes. I saw some changes afterward, but never knew its but 4 a while.

derolly:

chei see this anu-npam

this dude is apparently one of fools wey women dey flog or sit on them with their big buttocks and leave them gasping for air

ewu-cambia why u come here dey tell us? my friend go back make she pour u fuel and give u the remaining beating

@derolly, U must be very stupid. It is people like u that goes around beating ladies. U think i dont know wat i was doing? 2 wrongs cannot make a right. If she has an attitude problem, that doesnt make her a devil. She was created by God and who i'm i to question God. U just say things anyhow witout using ur sick brain. Life is not do me i do u. U are one of those boys that use girls and dump them. Who ever told u ur mother and father had a perfect relationship. I dont treat ladies anyhow. I have to give them their own regards because they are our mothers. I was being patient and i know she will come begging someday and i will use it against her. We have seen and heard stories worse than mine and this people are couples today. I'm not perfect neither and so likewise everyone on Nairaland.

I'm in love with this lady and we av been going out for over 4yrs. I come to realise that anytime i take an excuse from her to c my parents, she always ask me not to. Though my parents never liked her cos she has a very serious attitude problem. I had to pleade to my parents to let her be cos i love her so much. My parents is not against anybody, but they are just 2 sceptical about this one. I had to tell them to just try and accept her due to the fact that i'm their son and she's the lady i love.
Funny enough, the truth started unveiling itself. I was leaving in just a room apartment and was just believing God 4 a breakthru. She always complain about the way things are, of course u guys know wat u will c in a place like U FACE ME I FACE. She also lives in a similar place like that not too far from my house. But to God be the Glory, i got some money and rented a room and parlour self contain. we moved to that place and the drammer began. She started complaining that she doesn't like our new place and that she wished we had never moved. she complained about the qiuteness of the area, etc. I tried to make her c reasons, but she stop visting and always complain. We had an issue because of this and she angrily left my house. Just this last Saturday, she came around 9am to come and collect her little things in my house and didn't meet me cos i went out to c a cousine of mine. She culdnt gain access to the house, so she end up breaking the door. I came bak to c the door broken and was comfirmed that she did it. I told her i dont like wat she did, but she just walked away and ask me to go and repair my door. We didnt c again that day, not untill on Sunday morning when i went to c her at home. She refuse to give me any audience and so i decide to live. She was washing her clothes at the backyard and so she ask me where was i going to, i told her i'm going out. She just lift the bucket she was using to wash that is filled with water and pour everything on me. I was completly wet from up doun and she said, come and go out now Idiot. I quikly took to my heels and she ran after me calling me names. We av never seen eachother since then and she refuse piking my calls. I'm suspecting she's seeing someone, but fail to admit. She warned me not to call even her brothers to lay any complain. She shouts at me at will, embarrasses me in the public and control me as if she's the man.
Guys, wat do i do now, i really need ur advice.

ifeanyi_ja:

I got the cheats on www.lordofcheats. muf. mobi

pls i need it also. my email address is oviestanley@yahoo.com

thanks

@ LOVE.4BUG, I'm not shying away from ur interest. I jus want to show my appreciation. Pls can u send me ur email address and ur number. Promise 2 call u 2day.

@LUV.4BUG, I dont know how to say this, but u are such a wonderfull lady. I dont know how to say thank u. May d good Lord continue to give u the wisdom 2 counsel people like me.
Av a lovely and a wondefull weekend.

Cheers!

I really appreaciate every comment and advice i got from this forum and u guys av been so wonderfull.

@ DESTHAN, I dont think u av really read my post very well. I av neva cheated on my fiancee b4 wit any of her friends and i dont intend 2. I dont double date cos u dont know wat u might c at the other end. I love my GF so much dat i try as much as possible 2 please her in everything i do.

Once again, thanks guys. Atleast ur words of encouragement will definately cheer me up.

Guys, av been going out with this lady 4 over 4years now and i wish to get married to her if things work out with us. Funny enough, she just call off the relationship simlpy because she saw one of her friend's number on my phone. She actually warned me not to talk to this lady anymore which of course i understood, because the lady actually had a crush on me. I come to know this lady wen i was having problem wit my fiancee, and so i called her to simply talk to my fiancee on my behalf. I neva had any feelings for her even when it was so obvious that she wants to go out with me. I tried explaining to her that i av neva 4 once called dis lady, but she refuse. She is this type that neva listen to me, easily get angry, tell me wat to do whether i like it or not, controls my wereabout, shout at me at will, publicly embarrassess me, etc. She once ask me to give her an engagement ring which i gladly did, but to my surprise, she neva put the ring on her finger. I was forced to ask her why and she end up telling me she's not the type that wear rings. So why did u make me buy it the first place. I went to her house to collect my clothes from her and to my surprise she just drop them on the floor. She confidently told me she wants to go back to her old life, dat is dating so many guys as she wanted and thank God she was neva pregnant 4 me. I love her so much despite the humiliation and abuse i do get from this lady. I dont know wat to do cos i neva cheat on her and i'm always carefull not to offend her. I'v been crying cos i kind of miss her so much. I dont know where to start. Please guys i need ur advice. She immediately delete my number from her phone. I tried calling, but she refuse piking my calls. I sent her text messages trying to explain to her, but she repiled me by telling me dat she neva reads any message i sent to her. Dat i shuld stop sending her messages. The next thing she did was to off her phone.

Our president shuld be carefull how he handles matters dat concerns the whole nations. Suspending our super eagles for 2years is not the issue. How many MD'S/CEO has he sacked on POWER, ENERGY, TRANSPORTATION, HEALTH, etc. These are the things every common man in Nigeria wants to be in place. I think Mr. President shuld reverse his decision. There are important things at stake in this country that needs to be suspened immediately.

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Radiant, its like u are taking this thing very personal. I dont understand u oooo. I'm not asking her to come back by force. u are talking about beat. A girl i was dating could stand and insult my mother to my face and u want me to clap hands for her simlpy because my mum was complaining about her character.
She doesn't have respect and i dont think i wuld fold my hands to c her behave like that to my mum. I can write a complete book about this girl attitude, but we are not here for that. her blood cousins called me to a corner oneday and ask me to my face {are u sure this is the kind of woman u want to av as a wife?}. Well, love covers so many wrongs and i just av to blend with her cos we are not perfect.

My fellow Friends,
Pls, i hope my post is not causing querells among u. I only seek for ur professional advice and not to fight over it. I really appreciate all ur advice and comments, but pls, why making this worse for me by sending insultive words to urself. Can this stop for now.Thanks everybody!!!

iyk1, i really appreciate ur comment and ur advice. u are such a wonderfull fellow. I av decided to move on with my life. I met this lady wen she was going to 17yrs and i never force myself into her. My relationship wit her was a no sex relationship up till this moment. she only come to my place wen she's less busy. I dont send for her and i dont bother if i c her or not. She grew to like me more wen i helped to pay her mothers yearly rentage twice. No doubt, i fell inlove with her also. She's not my 1st love, but funny enough, she gets very disturbed and angry wen she sees ladies in my house. just to make her comfortable, i had to do away with my female friends and my g/f whom i know wasn't serious then also. Her close friend who was aware of wat really happened b/w myself and this girl now want to go out with me. av been trying to avoid this lady also, but she keeps calling me, sending text messages and visiting. My lady got to know about this somehow, nd she was shouting and ranting about it. Atimes, she behaves like she loves and care about me, d next day, u will c a different person. She has told me time without number that she loves me, but she wants to end the relationship. Funny enough, she doesnt want to c me with any girl not to talk of this her friend. There was a day wen she called the relationship off one morning. I walked away from her presence and went straight to meet my friends. While i was there, She called my mobile fone and all of a sudden my friend's girlfriend picked the call. She told the lady she wants to speak to me. I took the fone from the lady and the next thing i hear from her was( WHO IS THAT GIRL,  AND WHERE ARE U?) I told her i'm with my friends. She immediately ask me to live there and go home. I left of course, cos i dont want to offend her. She later came to my place and was complaning bitterly that i want to live her 4 another lady. 4 goodness sake, this lady just told me off. She doesnt want to c me with another lady, but she has other guys outhere.



UJU, u dont know me and i dont know u. This is a thread where u can choose to read someone's post, contribute to it or mind ur business. I can c u av been very insultive since u read this post. If u think u are perfect and was accusing me of dating a minor, can u tell the whole house the truth.

1, At wat age were u wen u 1st had a boyfriend?

2, Are u married?, if u are, did ur husband meet u a VIRGIN?

3, If he neva meet u a VIRGIN, at wat age did u lost ur VIRGINITY and Y

I tot they preach in church about FORNICATION, cos the way i c things from ur view , u are MISS PERFECT.

I dont blame u at all. U think its in me to beat a lady? There are times u av to get physical to make things change if need be. TO WHOM THE LORD LOVES, TO WHOM HE CHASTISE.
This is a forum made for solutions and not 4 insult.

Pls my fellow friends, wat do i tell my ladies friend who is all over me now?

My dear friends, I understand ur comments and of cause ur critism. I'm ok with it. wen i fisrt met her, it was just like a play thing. i know she was very young then and so i keep my distance. She keeps comming to me even wen i tried chasing her away. Pls i'm not saying wat i did was the best. I dont think its the right thing for me to lay hands on her for any reason. When she started work in dat HOTEL, I had to help do some things for her like cooking, washing some of her dirty clothes, cos she looks very weak and tired anytime she comes bak from work. I did all dis not because i'm stupid, but because i want her to know dat i'm always available for her. i know with time i will get over it.

She will be 20 this year and i will be 30. but those age really matters?

My fellow nairaland, pls kindly help me with this problem.

I met this lady and fell deeply inlove with her and we av been dating 4 over 4yrs now. I was there for her alwys cos she came from a sinlge parent's. She was this loving and caring lady from the beginning of the relationship which made me build my world around her. On many occassions, av assisted her mother for her annual rentage wen she was giving eviction letter. I was the one who had to take care of her SSCE, JAMB and so on. I make sure she neva lack anything cos i'm afriad of loosin her. She grew up to become a beautifull lady and of cause, her attitude towards me changed. She started having so many male friends, hardly come to my place, find it difficult to call me even wen i send her recharge cards, find fault in everything i do, controls the relationship, dictates for me, call her male friends even in front of me and keeps telling me lies. I tried calling her to my place to have a heart 2 heart chat wit her, but of cause, she ends up telling me not to disturbe her. It hurts me so much to the extent that i had a serious fight with her. i av neva beaten a woman b4, but somehow it started with this lady. I'm not justifying my actions, but i was thinking it will make her change. well it didnt, and i had to take my life one fatefull morning wen i opt to take rat poison. I almost died if not of the mercy of God. I was rushed to the hospital and i was admitted 4 three days. If i offend her, i beg, if she offends me, i still beg. I go on my knees atimes with tears on my eyes to beg her not to treat me like dirt. She yells at me at will, bang fone on me even if i call her wen trying to make amends. She's now working in an HOTEL as a bar attendance which she neva told me about the job or who got that job 4 her. Well, she later told me to my face that she doesnt want me anymore and dat she want to av her freedom. I have grown lean myself, cos i couldnt eat. i'm alwys in the pool of my tears every nite b4 going to bed. I love her so much to the extent dat i want her to be around me always. My heart is failing me and i cant control my emotions. I know she's cheating on me, cos wen this guys call, she's alwys in a romactic mood wen discussing with them right in my presence. Her father alwys ask me to come and pay her diary but her mother is alwys against it. I and d mother presently are not in good terms because of this. I have called friends to talk to her, but she refuse to change. She go about town telling people that her excuse of leaving me was because of the querells and fight we often had. If anything bothers me and i complain, she just ignore me and walk away. If this same lady needs anything from me and i dont give her, all hell will break loose. Its like a part of me is sinking and to be honest with u guys, a part of missed her so much. I av decided to let her go so as to give her the freedom. But Pls house, wat av done to deserve this treatment. She says she like everything about me but she wants me to stop beating her which i promised to stop. She still tells me she wants to opt out of the relationship. House, wat do i do?

thanks for your assistance. i really appreciate. i want to wish everyone who applied for the dvlottery best of luck.

Pls can anyone in the house help me?
while i was filling the dvlottery entry form 4 year 2011, i misunderstood the qualification asked.
I accidentally fill in (High School, no Degree). i guess i never knew the meaning then.
I have my complete O'level certificate with me, but my fear is that i hope they wont disqualify my entry application simply because of the mistake i made while fiiling the educational qualification.

thanks guys